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Hey..Im Amber yah im 14 years old and i live in maine...i love to answer questions and i do my best to help anyone out. i guess i give pretty good advice cause most of the time it works for most of my friends..but im not always right...im really big into sports i LOVE to play all kinds of sports. i play lacrosse and play other ones with my friends and cousins. Im always out busy doing stuff so i hope i can help you with whatever you need. cause i been threw some pretty thuff things to..so i kinda know how u feel.
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i need some advice please!! on thursday there isnt any school, so me and my boyfriend are planning to go out for a movie, and then over 2 his place. its just going to be us to, and of course we will be doing something! we both are ready to loose it, its just that:
1. im scared i COULD get pregnant
2. im just a lil nervous cause i dont know what to do
3. im sorta of on my period, im bleeding just a tiny, and what if i smell bad?!
well if u love to death this guy then lisen to your shelf. think is it worth it or not. if it is get condums . talk to him about it . if u do not want to do it then tell him and if he says come on and gets mad then he dose not really love u cause i real boy friend would understand.about the perod thing just do not let him down stairs if u know what i mean. wel hope this works.
sunny411
whats happenes wen ur hvin a panic attack?
when u have a panic attack u get over welled and breath havey and start to freak out and cry and scream stuff like that hpoe it helped
sunny411
alright, if it helps, im tara and im 14.
i've been cutting myself for some time now. always on my wrist and always in the same general area. whenever its a cold day i wear a jacket, and whenever its hot out i just wear bracelets. nobody has ever noticed or said anything. so last night i was laying in bed and i forgot to put on a jacket. my mom came in and saw my arm and said something like 'what's that?' .. i freaked out and pulled it away and said i was drawing.. and she asked why and i said i couldnt find any paper. she asked me if i wanted to talk about anything so i just yelled no and she left. i dont think she has even heard of people cutting themselves. so this morning i covered my wrist with coverup and a few braclets so that she'd think it really was drawings that had washed off. it was very akward and i tried to pretend nothing happened. all she said was 'is body art a new trend or something?' i dont know if she believes my excuse or not.. what do you guys think? and do you have any ideas of how i can cover these darn cuts up? mucho thanks in advance.
PS: oh and please dont tell me to stop cutting. im working on it, i promise. but its like cigarettes or drugs, you cant just stop. it takes time and effort.. =)
ok, insted of cutting yourself pick up a diffent thing. Do srawing or writing it gets anger out if you have any. i know wat you mean i had a friend who did it. Its not so fine or pretty. And one day yuo might hit yuor vane and kill yuorself by accented without knowing. Pick up a new thing like i said. Write or draw to get ur anger out just reamber people love you and they wwant you to stay alive. So keep tryinjg to NOT CUT YOURSELF.
hope we helped,
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i watch a little girl on a friday6 she drives me crazy what shouyld i do to calm her down
Try to find wat the girl likes to wach rent that movie or something and put it in thta should keep her ocupied for a few mins. Maybe buy showing who is the boss like if she gets in trouble you can have the chance to yell at them. Ask the parents for a little raise because she is VeRY HARD TO HANDLE.The movie thing will probley work sit down and wath it with her. Ask her wat she would want to do like games what is her favorite game if she has a backyard go play out there take her for a walk.
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my back has been hurting alot lately, im not sure if its how i sleep, or when i sit, i sometimes slouch. any advice?!
What you can do is go see a first you should go seea cropracter ot to see a doctor. When you slouch it makes you back hurt more. Also you soine gets cricked. Durning school you should sit up straight doing your work. And try doing situps. i know have you feel. laying on you bed staraghit and you feet straghit and your arms for about 5 sec. It should help try to dop it every night. When you sleep try to sleep straght and when you walk try to walk sraight up. This hsould help becasue we have to do the same trhing.
Hope we helped,
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well i have been trying to go out with this girl, chrissy, but she doesnt really want to. and now i want to be friends with her but she never talks to me. i dont know if she wants to be my friend or not....can someone help me figure this out. or tell me what to say to her to make her feel special to make her like me more?
What you can try to do is ask her if she would be your friend and nothing closer you really rather be friends than not talking to each other. She would probley know. And just work your way to the top just be like a friend to her and dont get on her nurves or anything be like a true friend then maybe something wil take the nex step.
hope we helped,
..::.sunny411.::.
can hickies lead to any kind of bad thing, like something go wrong with health....do u unserstand?!....like, what is bad about having hickies?!
Hickies it dose not do anything to your heath. Its not that prety but it wont kill you. It loks like you have a big bruse on you. If you wanna get rid of them just use coverup it might help.
Hope we helped,
..::>sunny411
where is a good place is to buy punk clothes? NOT GOTHIC!
a place u can go is hot topic it is in the mall the mall is called in new hamshire my couzent lives there and buys her punk stuff there!
does anyone have good advice on getting over guys that you're only attracted to? there's this one guy i like, but it's only b/c i think he's gorgeous...and i don't wanna like him for that reason...i really don't think it's a good idea for me to like him at all....but just any suggestions about stopping being attracted to guys...(lol sorry its a little confusing :o/)
thanks!
All you have to think about is that if he dumoed you you can just try not to think about him becasue he must be really really stubid if he would dumpe someone like you. So just think he is and idiot that he would dump someone like you just relax and try not to think of him or even talk about him becsause he will get to you. But then again just think its true love so you can't stop your self from not likeing a guy. So wat you are going to have to try is to find someoneelse who is better than that guy who owuld love you and you would love him back more than yor first.
Hope we helped,
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You've probably heard this before, but here goes anyway.
I've been dating this guy for almost 2 months now. I am really in love with him (im serious!) but sometimes he can be a jerk. We live like half an hour from each other, and neither of us can drive, so we barely see each other. We used to say "I love you" everytime we talked, like before we hung up the phone, but now, he won't say it to me, unless its to make me feel better, or if he's done something I dont like and hes tryin to get me not mad.
So.. does he still love me? Or do you think hes losing interest in me and we should just break up?
I've tried talkin to him about it... and he tells me its my choice what I want to do. And that just makes it harder on me. Please help me come to a decision!
HI I THINK U SOULD TALK A LITTLE MORE TO HIM. OF HOW HE FEELS ABOUT U . IF HE DOSE NOT CARE THEN YES BREAK UP WITH HIM CAUSE IF HE TREATS U LIKE HIS PAL HIS HOME BOY THEN BREAKUP CAUSE HE CANTA SOUNDS LIKE HE IS REALLY DOSE NOT CARE , AND THAT IS NOT WROTH IT. U SOUND NOT BE TREADED LIKE THAT. ITS NOT FAIR TO U. SO TALK TO HIM IF HE CARES THEN HE WILL STAY TOGETHER! SO I HOPE U MAKE THE RIGHT DESCION OK !
BYE
I've been doing sit-ups for about a month and a half now basically everyday ( i do 3- sets of 35). My stomach isn't getting any tighter and i still can't see any abs at all, its just kinda pudgy. Any advice on differant ways to get an amazing set of abs? thanks for your time.
You could also run on a tradmill or even around the block. You could get into some sports and that can make you skinner. You could even eat healthy food like a diet. Do some other exercises that will help you.if you drink water for 3 whole days and NOTHING else you could loose like 3pounds. This could help you. If none of these help we are sorry but good luck!
hope we helped,
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what is the real definition of cheating on someone?
just wondering
The real definition of cheating on someone is when you are going out with one guy and seeing another one without the first one knowing about it.
Hope we helped,
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