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i feel so ugly... no guys like me, all my friends have b/f's. i even thought i was ugly before. i stayed up until 3;30 last night crying my eyes out because i knew i was ugly... im crying typing this . i feel like im never ever going to be pretty... i dont really even want to live but i wouldn't kill myself cuz thats eww... i just keep realizing how ugly i really am... and then i keep crying. all i do is get made fun of and called ugly i dont want to be ugly.. please help
im sure you are a pretty person, but something you must remeber what makes you beatuful is your personality, be confident and you will be beautiful to everyone because of that self confidence, feel pretty and you will be pretty.
oh and to all those people with the ? when is the right time to have sex? its when you are ready.
no body can tell you when to have sex.
and ways my ? is..
how long into the relationship do you have sex.
i rate high for nice people
uh.. you answered your own question...have sex when your ready........
Okay so Ive been raped,cheated,used and more in past relationships. But I've know this guy for about 3 years now and weve been dating almost 6 months. Were very close and well I really really think I love him...Is this possible..were sophomores in highschool and weve been best friends ever since 7th grade. We have the same family background and everything. He talks of me being his wife someday..what do you all think?
well it sounds like something good, hvain that hostory could be a very good thing1 i hope it works out well for ya!
Everyone tells me that glow in the dark tampons are a bad idea. Am I the only one that thinks I could make millions off of it?
um the stuff that would make glow in the dark tampons is not the healthiest thing to be putin up there... so its probaply not a very good idea
I have been dating this one boy for over 2years, and i love him more then anything else in the world we have been through so much. I'm so close to his mom and other in his family. Well about 5 months ago things started going down hill,he never called, he kind of cheated on me&he has been a complete jerk. He calls me really rude names&he always picks on me. I mean when it's just me&him, theres the personn i love, but when others are around he makes me feel like complete shit. I mean he was like my first everything, i lost my virginity to him and everything. We don't go out now but i guess were trying to work things out. When i talk to him on the computer and tell him how he makes me feel he says he feels the same and that he really does love me and he doesnt want to be with any one else but he just doesnt show it sometimes. I want to let go and move on but i just can't. He has beem lyingg to me so much and one thing he has lied to me about was chewing&i hate it. I just dont kno if i can trust him anymore i want to be w/ him forveer and i know this may sound stupid cuz iim only 14 but if you only felt how i felt. I mean things arnt always badd but latelyy more then not. I feel like dying because i miss him all the time. And sometimes i just want to kill myself because i dont want to live w/o him. I dont know what to do. not only was he my boy friend but my bestfriend and i feel like i have lost everything..And i mainly lost him over a gammee..Halo&&the girll he kinda cheated on me w/ was from haloo :( andd i love his mom so much 2 she is like my second mom..Ughh im soo lost..Some advicee would help :( :'(
ok if he cheated on you he is a terrible bf, breakin it off was a good desicion, gettin over some on eis always gunna be hard, espaecialy your first, you will just have ot be strong and try to stay friends, cuz well some times things are just better that way.
best of luck
Is it weird going out with someone younger than you? I'm 13and in 8th grade. And he's a year younger than me, and in 7th grade. Is that weird if he asks me out? I kinda like him...but it just kinda freaks me out to think of it? What should I do?
haha thats not weird! its normal, theres 2 years diffrence between me and my bf, hes 19 and im 17, and its alot of fun
Hey Im really scared.
I am 14 and my mom's friends's son, who is 17,came over to stay with us for the night. My mom went to get groceries and the boy insisted and pulled off my clothes and started to have sex. Today, I took the test. results are, yes, Im pregnant. The guy I don't know his name and im scared to tell my mom. Please help
thats horrible. were you willing, or did he force you because if you were forced, thats rape and you hsould definetly do something about it. as for tellin your mom you wil have to its inevtiable. so be calm explian the situation and it should be as painless as possible
best of luck!
ok i broke up w/ this girl and i really wish i hadnt and we still like each other-alot-but she made a vow not to go back out w/ me even though she still likes me or anyone until next year, but she may forget the feeling so should i ask her out or keep going on? i rate VERY HIGH!
thanks,
~fellow advicenator~
well you must make sure that she knows how you feel, and if she is adimit about not datin untill next year just do what you can too keep those feelings there, next year isnt too far away now!
Hey.
I had a serious question because I'm starting to feel all of these strange feelings. I'm 16/f.
I met this boy a couple months back & ever since have been completely happy. I've seriously never felt like this around anyone before. I wake up every morning just wishing that I was with him. & I try to spend every waking hour I can with him. I'm never usually like this, around boyfriends usually I'm shy & try to spend as little time as possible. But with him it's completely different.
I love talking to him, I love being with him, I love who I am around him. I was just wondering, does this seem like love?
Plus, usually with my relationships I wake up every morning thinking, "Why am I dating him? he's such a waste!" But I haven't had one negative feeling about him ever since I met him. He's so great.
So yeah, does this seem like love? Thanks lovelys.
it just means that your happy in this relationship( im assuming your dating him and if your not you should see how he feels about you) and that is a good thing, although it does seem kinda over the top and maybe a bit obsessive
Say a girl and a guy that are dating have sex alot. If one night the girl didn't want to but the guy forced her to, is that still rape? Becuase she's had sex with him before, she just didn't feel like it right then.
if she isnt willing it is rape regardless of any sex in the past.
ok sorry this might be long. but i need help.
my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 4 months. but i dont think i like him anymore, like last night i was talking to him on the phone and he kept telling me he loved me and i would say " i know" b/c i dont want to say something that i dont feel and lately hes been getting on my nerves but i dont want to break up with him b/c i think thats very mean.
any1 have any ideas on how i could break it off with him so that i wont feel so bad?
thanks i'll rate high to anyone whos not a smartass.
well breaking up is never a fun thing ot do, but if the feelings arent there, there is no point continuing the relationship, the best thing would be to get your feeling figured out before you do anything then maybe just tell him that things arent workin out and you dont like him that way any more, i your nice about it he should be fine,
best of luck
Okay so I know that hundreds of people have asked questions like this one, but I was just looking for some helpful advice. When you are pregnant, does just your niple hurt or your whole boob is sore? And how soon after having sex will you start to get morning sickness, sore boobs, and things like that.I will be grateful for any help I can get. Thankyou!
when your preganant your boobs will gow and proaply hurt because they are gettin ready for breast feeding nad are producing milk, its perfectly normal. when some one gets mornin sickness and such differs fomr person to person, i hvae heard of people not gettin any mornin sicknss at all and i have heard of people being bed ridden for their whole pregnancy.
hope I helped
my bf, his friend jason, my friend and her bf and some other ppl all went to the movies. my bf sat in between me and jason, and most of the movie he seemed more interested in talking to him! meanwhile my friend and her bf were making out like right next to us. and they've been going out less than a month! when jason told him (my bf) to kiss me he said "i dont want to kiss her now. i will soon" (we havnt kissed yet) the problem is tho that that was the same thing he said to his other friend when he told him to ask me out, and it took him like a year to ask me, and even then i had to bring up the subject and stuff. i dont want to wait forever just for him to make a move. like i said, its been 3 months already. i definately dont want to kiss him first tho. what should i do?
k i get that you wouldnt want to make the first move, but im sorry 3 months and not even a kiss! he is a bit of a prude, but it might be that hes really shy or really likes you or something but your gunna have to make the first move, or just ask him why ont you kiss me, or just tell him to kiss you, cuz thats just not cool!
best of luck^^
Ok here u goes. I'm 17/male. And there's our neighbor sta**/Female who's 30. The problems that I think she sexually desires me. It all starts when she began to smile to me 2 month ago just after we moved to this new neighborhood. Anyway I was surprised last morning when she called me while passing her house. (She was outside and I respond her). So she handled my hand and moved it inside the shirt &I touch her breast. I can't deny that I felt erotic in that moment." I WANT U": Were her words. She told me that she wants 4rom me to have sex with her. Then I removed my hand quickly saying that I am late for school and I run away.
I am confused….should I refused or agreed?? Because she really success to seduce me and SHE'S REALLY HOT and SEXY and I am physically attracted to her. I know that she's older… What should I do????
Ps: I flirt many times and had sex 3 times.
Thanks 4 advices. Justin
Email:justin_frogy@yahoo.com
well if ya wanna why not! clearly theres no mixed signals, she wants to f*ck you! I figure as long as you comfortable with it, go ahead! if anything it would be hotter becuase she older, who knows go for it!
i want alot of honest opinions on these 2 questions.
1)what do you consider a girl that has had sex since the age of 13? Had another bf when she was 14 then had sex with another guy (cheated on her bf) she barely knows the 2nd time they hung out together?
2)what do you consider a guy that screws a girl he hardly knows the 2nd date, knowing she has a bf?? will rate 5s for honesty!!
1) slut
2) no its not just him being a guy, he just wants some action girls get that way too, hes just a total ass. :)
Well christmas is coming up and i think i know what im doing for my Girlfriend, if you have read my past questions, i'm doing this thing, i get a vase with 11 roses in it, and one glass rose in it. And a card on it that says "when the last rose dies is when i will stop loving you" Hence... a glass rose wont die. Then besides that im gonna do one of those build-a-bear things.. and a silver neckless. Sound good? anyone know a good place to get a silver neckless? like a heart emblem of what ever?
wow, i havent heard of a guy doin something soo ....sweet, and cute in a long time. lol i hope she doesnt drop the glass rose by accident or something! good idea, have fun tryin to beat that on valentines.
best of luck!
I'm 14 yrs old girl and my boyfriend has changed he doesn't act the way he used to. Should I suspect he's cheating or that his feelings changed about me? or should I break up with him anyways I kno I should but I like him to much to do it. What should I do?
just talk to him, its best not to get to stressed out adn start assuming thing, it makes everyting harder on the both of you good luck
okay i want to know, how do you know when your in love? ive likes this guy from the first time ive met him. we never talked. but i mean.. well we kinda did. but it was more with staring and talking through people. and its been 5 months since ive last seen him. but ive liked him for 7 months.. and i dono i just feel this thing with him thats un-explainable. (im 15/f by the way)
but would u say i could be in love? and what do you think love is?
yea thats hardly love thats just an infatuation.
I have no clue what to get my girlfriend for christmas. I don't want to get her makeup or cosmetics because i know nothing about that stuff, and I don't want to get her clothes because I don't know if she'd like it or what her size is. So with that said, what are some gift ideas that girls like?
chocolate is and always will eb the best idea. seriously girls and chocolate theres something goin on there... we LOVE it! jewlery is good only if she is a person who would wear it,
Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering...should age matter in a relationship? What's your point of view on this one, like does it matter if both are close in age or far apart...by far I mean less than 5 years or so. Thanks in advance, will rate.
age isnt tht big of a deal. if both people are mature and enjoy being together there is no reason age should enter at all. but there are alwaysa cases ith like 13 &21 yrs olds, and that is kinda of wrong, but if the feelings are there it can work!