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JW..but.....are guys less attracted to you when your having sex and your vaginal area is hairy....jw
I don't actually know, seeing as I'm not a guy.
But just throwing this out there, if you DO decide to remove the hair, don't shave it.
Shaving creates stubble, which is prickly, and HAS to be unattractive. Either use nair hair removal stuff or use a wax kit. I use the wax kits every other week and use the nair in between for touch ups, and that prevents any prickliness.
Just letting you know in case you decide to remove the hair.
what can i do if i get really bad discharge? some days its like, a puddle in my pants. but thats an exageration.
Yeah, I get that too. It's always the few days before and the few days after my period. I usually just put in a tampon whenever I feel it coming and then nothing comes out.
ok you guys said that frequent urination is a symptom of pregnancy. but how often is frequent? like i've been peeing every two hours maybe? is that what you mean by frequent? (i usually do not pee that much)
Frequent urination is NOT a symptom of pregnancy until the baby is large enough to put pressure on the bladder. And if your child is that large, you would've had to have known you were pregnant a LONG time ago. We're talking late second trimester here.
When you go to the doctor how confident is it???
Meaning if you dont want them to tell your parents something will they keep it between you an them???
Or do they have to tell your parents everything??
Unless someone is in physical danger and them saying something could prevent it, they can't say anything to your parents without your consent.
Me and my bf really want to start having sex. It will be my first time and i'm kinda really worried about the pain. I cannot handle pain very well lol. we've tried 2 times and it doesn't fit in. however we've been "stretching" me out down there so it wont hurt as bad. i think its pretty wide enough but there's like a wall kinda thing that i always hit and it hurts so badly(not the hymen).
Does anyone have any advice on stretching out or just 1st time sex in general lol?
I'd really appreciate it!! :)
LUBE! Haha, that's all I have to say. Lube. I had the same problem as you when I tried to have sex the first time, it wouldn't fit no matter how hard we tried. But then, some KY came to the rescue, it slid right in. You only need a little tiny bit, and a bottle is like $4.50.
Honestly, try it, you may not have to stretch it anymore. And about the pain, it's going to stretch or break your hymen no matter what. So there's really nothing you can do about making that hurt less. Maybe take some advil a little before so that you're prepared for the pain? Idk, I can't think of anything that would make it hurt less.
And some advice on your first time, idk if you've had an orgasm before, but I hadn't before my first time. And I was so focused on the pain that I couldn't let myself enjoy what was happening enough to orgasm. So my advice is, just focus on your man and how good he makes you feel, not on whats going on below the belt.
the areolas on my breasts are pretty big..like if you make a circle connecting your thumb and first finger there like a little bigger than that. they seem huge! ive seen my friends, and hers are tiny..but then again shes an A cup and im a B/C. does that have anything to do with it?
and i know everyone is different and im perfectly normal. but what do guys prefer on how it looks..because mine just seem BIG. =/ and they look ugly to me. also im 16.
Mine are about that size too, I'm a C cup. Up until you said that, I've never thought that mine were really that big, but I'm kind of pale, so there's not much of a color difference, could that be whats making yours look bigger?
I know one of my friends that like we have the exact same bra size and hers are the same size as mine, but her areolas look so much bigger than mine because hers are a lot darker than her skin.
Idk, but if it helps you feel any better, I know like 3 girls that look like they have no areola at all, but their nipples are literally shaped like baby bottle tops. Like the same size and everything. Haha, feel lucky.
This is somewhat of an embarrassing question to ask. I had sex on the beach, without lying on any sort of towel or blanket (ugh). Obviously sand kind of went all over the place, and now I am REALLY sore. Should I see a gyno? Or is this something that will sort itself out? Anyone who has had a similar experience, help would be much appreciated.
If it's sore because of the size of the guys penis then obviously that would have happened anywhere.
If it's sore because the sand is scratchy, then still, I don't think you have much to worry about. Your vagina is constantly cleaning itself, and it should be able to flush out most of whats in there. If it's still there after a couple days, or if it becomes red and unbearably painful, then I'd go see a gyno.
Other than that, I say just wait it out.
f/16
I have class with this boy, we'll call him bob. So bob is a year younger then me and asked me to prom two months before prom was scheduled and we talked and stuff, but we weren't acquaintences or anything, but I said no to him for prom, cause i didn't want to go with him and made some excuse. Well, at prom I saw him there while my date wanted to sit down and take a break, so Bob asked me to dance and i did for a couple of minutes and then broke free cause I didn't want to dance with him. Yesterday Bob asked me if I wanted to hang out and I said no because I wasn't going to be in that area. Then he asks me when I will be free to hang out (through a text) but I haven't responded yet, but he's not getting the message that I don't want to hang out with him. I don't know how to handle this situation and at prom I only danced with him cause I felt bad for him that I rejected him and went with someone else. The school i go to is pretty small and everyone knows everyone, but I want to get this guy off my back. Any advice? Thanks (sorry for the length)
I was in the same situation. A guy thought I liked him cuz I danced with him at prom, when in reality it was a pity dance. Then he kept calling me and stuff and asking my friends to tell me to talk to him. So I just ignored all his texts and calls.
Eventually he got the point. But...my high school has around 2500 people in it, so it was pretty easy for me to avoid him...I don't know what to tell you about that part..but I say you just ignore him.
If you keep talking back with him, he'll probably just think that you like him back, but don't have time to hang out right now. Guys can be dumb like that. Just ignore him..that way you don't give him the wrong idea.
Not that i'm going to try this but...
Can what happens if the girl hasn't hit puberty yet and has sex? Can she get pregnant?
And what happens if the girl has hit puberty but the boy hasn't????
It's probably less likely because a girl doesn't start releasing eggs until her menstrual cycle starts. However, if she was just about to hit puberty, then she may already have eggs in her system.
And guys can have sperm before they hit puberty, so yeah, the girl could get pregnant. But, the penis won't start growing until puberty, so I doubt any girl would want to have sex with a baby dick.
i'm always really horny and i masturbate, so i was just wondering if there are any good ways to do it for a girl. i usually just rub my vagina and watch porn but i really want to get realy excited because i usually wait for it all day. any good tips like things that make it feel like your getting eaten out and stuff wuld b good.
Buy a vibrator. If you're too young to buy one, then use the handle of an electric toothbrush.
i want to loose 10 pounds as fast as i possibly can im not big and i know my body is capable of loosing it, mainly in my thights and butt... any help would be great thanks
The fastest way possible would be not to eat until you lose it. If you didn't eat at all and didn't do anything all day but lay in bed, you could lose around 1.5 lbs a day. If you get up and excercise, it'll be more.
My friend Irena; is 5'5 and weighs approx. 120. she is 15 in 9th grade and she thinks she is fat. i told her she just needs to tone up. but she doesnt want to get muscle because it will make the scales go up..we told her to just eat healthier.. aany one else have anymore advice we could give to her.
Don't worry about it. Most girls are going to think they need to lose weight no matter how much you tell them they don't, especially younger ones.
Personally, if someone told me I just need to tone up when I was a freshman, I would have taken that as "you're too flabby, go work out now"
Just leave her alone about it. Let her deal with it herself. Eventually she'll grow up and learn to accept her body, and if she doesn't then she's still not going to want to hear how skinny she is. Because if she genuinely thinks she's fat, and isn't just fishing for compliments, then telling her she's skinny is only going to remind her of how fat she thinks she is.
I was just wondering if my boyfriend is either REALLY bad in bed or it is just ME!! :) because, i have only had sex with him a couple of times and i dont get any orgasms!!! is it because Im new to sex and so I need some time to get use to it, or is it that he just cant give me orgasms??? Totally confused and WORRIED!! I want to enjoy sex, feels like masturbating is better than the real thing.... But that is not what everyone says, plus I should love the REAL thing!! :D Right?!?!
Try getting really relaxed next time, sometimes, if you tense up, it can take longer to orgasm. And try not focusing on the actual sex going on, focus on your boyfriend and how turned on you are, that may help also.
16/f
okay so i have a few questions about belly button piercings...
1. does it hurt a lot?
2. how did you convince your parents to let you get it pierced?
3. how long does it take to heal?
4. can you swim or whatever while its healing or do you have to wait awhile? if you have to wait how long do you have to wait?
because if i get it pierced in the summer i want to be able to swim and stuff.
thanks!
1. The actual piercing part of it doesn't hurt that bad, but for a few days to a week after it will get really sore.
2. I live with just my dad, and somehow we got on the topic of piercings, and I said I wanted my nose and my navel pierced. He said he didn't want me to get my nose done. So I said fine, if you sign the papers so I can get my navel done before I'm 18, then I won't do my nose. And he said that he would. I was 15 at the time. That may not work for you if you have stricter parents though.
3. When I got it pierced, they said it could take anywhere from 2-12 months to heal, even longer if it got infected. And they said that the navel is one of those places that healing time really varies from person to person. I took pretty good care of it and mine took 4 months.
4. I cannot stress this enough: WAIT UNTIL THE FALL! One of my friends told me this when I was going to get mine done and it was the BEST advice I could have taken when getting it pierced. You CANNOT swim until it's fully healed because of the chlorine in pools and salt and bacteria in the ocean. If you wait until the fall, that gives you the whole summer to look cute in a bathing suit (without having to worry about your red, sensitive navel) and then you'll have all winter to heal and then next spring, hopefully, you'll be all healed and ready to look cute with your new navel piercing. You asked how long you have to wait to swim, it's however long it takes you to heal.
Hope I was helpful. And seriously about waiting until fall, it would have been impossible to enjoy the summer if I hadn't waited.
Ive been having sex recently, and the first time was REALLY sore, as you ALL know and I did bleed a little. My vagina was also a tad bit sore, but the pain went away after sometime, and so did the bleeding. I had sex for the second time and I bled AGAIN, and my vagina is STILL sore! Its been like about 2 hours now.
And Ive been having a discharge, from before I became sexually active. And it doesnt smell to great, should I bee worried, or is it natural???
Thanks.... :D
You probably bled because either the first time your hymen didn't break all the way (so it was just breaking more), or if it was really soon after the first time you probably just reopened where it broke the first time.
But the discharge, it's probably just normal vaginal discharge, but since it was only 2 hours ago that you had sex there's probably some bacteria in there that, mixed with the vaginal discharge, is making it smell. At least that's what would make sense to me. If it still smells after a couple of days, I'd go see a doctor, just to be sure.
Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months. I love him. Some may say that it's too early for love or that i am too young (i'm 16). but i do love him.
We have been playing around for about two months now. but no sex.
We now think we are ready for sex.
What my question is...
If i had to go into a shop to buy condoms, is it likely they would as for I.D ?
Oh i live in the UK, so america may be different.
I mean i look 16, but im a shy person so if they asked i would just die.
I dont think i have the guts to accually go buy them. but then again i want to rather than have my boyfriend go buy them.
I'm also really really scared i might get pregnant
crazy as it seems that is whats putting me off
i want to have sex with him. Just dont want a baby. My sister is pregnant the now, and that happened by accident, i couldnt be the same.
i cant go to the doctors to get the pill so please dont tell me to do that
help :(
xx
I don't know about the UK, but in the US there's no age requirement to buy condoms. It would be rediculous to put one on them. If you had to be 16 to buy condoms, do you really think the 14 year olds would wait? Or just have unprotected sex?
If there is an age requirement in the UK then sorry, but I don't see why there would be.
And I mean this in the nicest way possible, but honestly, if you don't think you have the guts to get the protection, then maybe you shouldn't be having sex. The only reason I say that is just because basically what that's saying is that you don't have the guts to use protection. But it's not my place to talk about that. I'll just cut to the chase.
They shouldn't ask you for your ID. And if they do, don't worry about it. Just put on a suave attitude and whip it out like it's no big deal. If you act nervous about it, that's where they might start to suspect that you're "underage". Hope I helped and I hope that other thing didn't come off the wrong way. Sorry if it did.