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Okay well im in this big love circle okay.. This is the first half.. well first there is Adam and i've gone on and off liking him since the 6th grade and now im going into the 8th grade and ever since the 2nd grade he always had a thing for this girl named Melinda and she didnt start liking him untill the 6th grade and they went out then he dumped her 5 months later and he still liked her after that and then during the beginning of the 7th grade he finally stopped liking her and i still liked him and he didnt like me and then in the middle of the 7th grade when i was finally over him i started liking his friend Josh and Josh liked me a little bit but barly and then one night at a school dance me and Adam didnt even dance we just talked the whole 3 hours and i remember how he was like "Even though I dont like Melinda now I know that when i get older im gonna be with her in high school and we're gonna go to the same collage and i know i'm gonna be with her and it kills me to know that" and then that night i talked about how fat and ugly i was to him and he was like "No if u were fat and ugly i wouldn't like u" and then i was kinda confused because he just got done telling me how he was always gonna be with melinda and so he went on and off liking me when i was finally over him and then i started liking him again and he kissed me the last day of school and said all these sweet things to me.. This is the second half.. There is so other guy named Sean and me and him went out once in the 6th grade and once in the 7th grade and when we werent going out he always liked this girl named Bridget and she is such a wanna be slut because she had a boyfriend and cheated on him with Adam and like 3 other guys and so Sean wrote me a note one day telling me how he liked me and only me and stuff and then i went to a pool party with him last week and Bridget was there and i hung out with both of them and when Bridget was eating i was swimming in the pool with Sean and his kissed me and then that night at soccer practice Bridget told me that she was hugging Sean and he was like "Bridget I really really like you a lot u know" and so im completly confused with everything and its weird with me because if Adam and Sean both asked me out at the same time i would say yes to Adam because i waited so long for him to ask me out because he has only gone out with Melinda and every girl only wishes she could go out with Adam but if Adam and Sean were both hanging from a cliff and i could only save one I would save Sean because Adam really broke my heart last summer. Im confused and i'm sorry this is long but i need advice so please help me! (link)
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Ok 1. You got some major guy issues and your not even in highschool yet. 2. Go with the guy you like best make a list of the good and bad thing you like and dislike about both of them. 3. I need to go lie down because this is just too much drama I hope this helped cause I was confused like through out the whole thing. I'm sorry but this is just too complicated. Why don't you just reamin friends with both of them and talk to both of them. Sean is obviously a player and I don't think he truely like either one of you. Adam may have broken your hert but people change.
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Lately i haven't been my self, i've been moody n upset. i have alot of friends that i just don't want to hang out with, a great boyfriend that the more i like him, i get more scared of losing him... i don't kno what to do. I can't talk to my mom, my friends or my boyfriend, because everyone thinks i mad at them. Someone please r there any websites that i could go to¿?¿? (link)
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It's ok to be depresses try going to a psycatrist they're not for people with crazy mental problems, they're there to listn. Some of my friends go to one it helps try it.
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i just broke up with someone and want them back, i was wondering what guys would find more attractive. i girl that plays hard to get and pretend im over him then tell him when im ready i still like him or tell him i like him and i regret it and stuff. thanks (link)
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If you guys broke up it's for a reason and if that reason was just stupid then yeah give it another try but it's hard to get over an ex and your gonna be wanting to get back with them sometimes.
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I have a summer project to do and I'm not sure how to use the MLA format to document these articles I had to read. They're compiled in a book, from other places. Do I need to recognize the book in my documenting? The book has the articles documented but it doesn't include the book. An answer or a place where I could go to find the answer would help! Thanks so much!
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try going to mla.com I had to buy a book for highschool for it an yeah it's kinda complicated.
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Hi, I'm the one who wrote about my boyfriend who so rudely dumped me without as much as even TELLING me, and then saying that I didn't have feelings and desserved my heart broken as much as people wanted too. Now I am a generally nice person, but this got me so upset. :( Well now hes going out with this other girl, and they keep iming me to tell me what a "loser" I am and how I can't "get" any boys. I blocked them but I still have to see them at school. By the way, their screennames are pyroboy9977 and XoCheerQtXo3222, if anyone would like to talk some sense into them.
Sorry for wasting your time, but I'm really stuck here. And I feel like there is something seriously wrong with me. :( (link)
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Don't feel bad they're just plain mean and they're the losers don't let it get to you even though it's hard tell him this @ school infront of eveyone if they say anything to you. 'Yeah I'm a loser laright a loser to ever go out with you.' or 'I may not be going out with anyone right not I'm not the type who picks up a rebound with just anyone.' Tll people how bad he was when you two were going out even if it is a lie beacuse obviously they're lying about you.
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There's this guy that i met at a local teens club. He was super cool, and my friend keeps saying she thinks he likes me. I dont know, he was totally sarcastic like, the entire time, like making fun of my friends (not really, just playing) but he didnt make fun of me. and when this one guy made fun of me, he through cake at him, but it might have been cuz the guy was making fun of him to...i have no clue what to do, should i make a move, or chill out and wait for more signs?
Thanks in advance,
Jessy (link)
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Dear Jessy I'd wait because I wouldn't be sure and I wouldn't want to make a fool out of myself but don't wait forever just take a couple of more hints and ask him out not like out out but like to hang out at the mall or something.
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Well i met my boyfriend on AIM. My best friend goes to a diff. school than me and she knew him... so we were both single, she tried to hook us up, at first when we talked i wasnt shy. then he said he loved me after i showed him a picture of me...his mom said we couldnt go out until she meets me which could be awhile. But its really weird now becuase i feel shy talking to him through e-mail or AIM, is that normal? (link)
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Yeah online relationships are hardly ever stable it's ok if your a little nervous most people would be.
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k well my brother (he's 10) hasn't been home much for the summer cause he's been traveling with my dad and stuff.. but now he's back home and i can't even stand to be in the same room with him!! he drives me insane, like we fight constantly. and the worst part is that my mom always takes his side because he's younger than i am. and he says stuff that really ticks me off! like he says that i don't do anything around the house or take the dog out and crap like that and i've the one who has been home for the whole summer! i try to explain to him but he just doesn't get it in his puny fricken brain!! ugh is there anything i can do to chillll out?! (link)
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Little brothers can be stressful. Meditate or yoga. Or when you feel like you really want to punch the living life outta him go for a walk and cool down.
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ok i have never had acne or pimples or anything like it but its starting to show that im gonna get them like im getting little bumps then you can feel but you cant see unless oyu look really really close and i was just wondering what i could do to prevent them from showing and to prevent them from comming back. ill rate for good answers thank you ! (link)
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Don't touch your face. Your hands have been everywhere and your just getting dirt and bacteria on your face even more. Try wash it with mild odor free soap and warm not hot not cold but warm bathing water.
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Okay, awhile back I liked this guy "Caleb" for almost a year. He had (and still has) a girlfriend, and "Caleb" turned me down when I told him how I felt. Now his girlfriend has moved to Canada, and he's been talking to me on AIM saying "yo" before I even say "hi" first. My mom knows what happened and how badly it hurt me when he hurt my feelings, but now him and I want to be friends. My mom told me NEVER to talk to him again on AIM because of what happened. By the way, he's three years older then me and so is his girlfriend. Now we just want to be FRIENDS, and I don't want to block him or anything, so I turn my away message on when he comes online. I'm so confused, because I don't know if his girlfriend is ever going to break up with him, and if she does, he'll be talking to me a lot about how sad he is. Any advice on how to deal with this? (link)
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I wouldn't trust him either. Just ignore him because he's probably just messing with you.
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Ok i posted before but got no answers so ill respond. My Microsoft Works will not work!!!! I tried reinstalling it like 3 times. Its Microsoft works 7.0, The spreadsheet and everything except the Works Word Processor works. And Under the Works word processor are all those catergorys like cover letters,cards,flyers,outlines, all that stuff and they will not work. WHAT DO I DO PLEAAAAAASE HELP ILL RATE HIGH!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You need to fnd a computer person. It could be anyting and maybe something in your hardware is affecting it.
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Okay, I know that you have a ton of these questions, but oh well.
I'm 14/f, and I live in pennsylvania. In pennsylvania you can start working when you're 14, but few places will hire. Does anyone know where they hire at 14. I heard about McDonalds, and there's a McDonalds where I live, but I don't think they hire at 14. Wendy's doesn't hire until 16, neither does Rita's. So does anyone know any places?
Btw, I can't babysit. Not allowed to, and there's no one to babysit and it's almost fall so I can't do landscaping.
Thanks in advance!! (link)
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Well just look in paper ads or wanted signs. Yeah 14 year olds are hard to get jobs just look for something around to work on in the neighborhood.
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i just came back from my friends sleepover and so im really tired and was in the car with my mom and first shes like "your always so blah" and then shes like "why are you always so snoty to me" and im like im not and shes like "you dont act like this to mark (my stepdad)" and shes like "your only nice when you want something" (which she used to say to my older sister also) but im like "no" because that not true its just that she is always yelling at me and i am very sensative and it makes me cry. like whenever my parents fight my mom is all mean and so i stay with mark and watch tv with him and hes nice. or the other day i decided to hose off the deck to get the dirt off around 6ish when the sun was going down and i accidently got a chair cover wet inside and outside and my mom got all mad and i didnt mean to i was just trying to help. or when my omm decided to take a kickboxing class so i knew that it started before my firends birthdat party so i wasl ike can you still take me and the shes like "you girls always want me to take you places and i just wanna do one tihng for me.. blah blah" and thats not true, in fact its like only te second time iv asked her to take me anywhere ALL SUMMER (i usually ask mark, not that i even ask him that much but w/e) and then yesterday my mom was like "did you get acard" and i was like no b/c mark was supposedto take me and i figured he could stop on the way there and she was like well hes working outside rite now building our deck so i guess that means i have to take you (all nasty) and she was like you shouldve walked and gotten one and i was like ok i will now with keri (my older sis) and shesl ike no ill take you. and now im really upset because im not snoty so what do i do, by the way, the last thing i want to do is talk to her b/c if i tell her this shell just defend herself and yell at me and then ill cry and ill get yelled at again so please help (im 14/f) (link)
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Yeah my moms exactly like you its hard and I cry alot too. She's totally out of control someetimes. UM...from what you've written I think your moms probably somewhere in her 40's to early 50's right? Yeah at that age women goes through mid-life crisis because they're menapausal...yeah they get pretty crazy but you'll get use to it. It won't go away for a while just ignore her or spend time away from her. It's gonna be hard real hard so be strng and feel free to right to me if your moms at it again ok?
...yea i was right see just try your best and be strong and always talk to someone about it.
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Hi. I am usually the one to give advice..but anyway. I have acne all over my forehead and some on my cheeks. I've tried a bunch of products but none of them seem to work. I've gone to a dermatologist and they prescribed some facial pads for my acne. It reduced the acne on my cheeks alot but not my head. Any product suggestions that will help with my acne on my forehead? Not too pricey please. Also if you can specify where I can buy a product you reccoment that would be great.
Thanks.
I will rate 5's for helpful answers. (link)
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If you have bangs or some little hair growing not to your regular length that could be a prolem. When you sweat t could roll off your hair and end up on your forehead. Try clipping them to the sides or cornrow/twist them back.
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The classic question.. No one will ever know the real answer but hey its always worth a try.
Im a blonde haired blue eyes 5'6 skinny girl. Everyone tells me im very pretty, im smart, and fun to be around. The problem, guys never ask me out?! I dont know why though? Ive had boyfriends in the past, and MANY guy friends but not alot of boyfriends. Whats the deal?! lol (link)
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Maybe you haven't found the right guy yet you don't have to go out with a ton of guys to feel attractive. Just be yourself and someone out there will ask you out.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a short amount of two weeks, and only two weeks. Last time I saw him he tried to touch my chest as we were kissing and I pulled his hand away and I got extemely uncomfortable around him that night. He knew I was too. Here I am a week later and he tried to do the same thing again tonight. I let him for a second then just stopped kissing him and got very quiet after that and just continued to watch the movie. We kind of have this joke about how I don't like my stomach so he was laughing about it and he kind of pulled my shirt up just so you could see my stomach just a little bit. So I pulled my shirt back down, but he put his hand under it. I laughed cause he was tickleing me too, but then he moved his hand up. I pulled his hand out right away and luckily my mom came to pick me up after that happened.
I live off the moto- "forgive and forget" I'm forgiving him, but it makes me feel really degrated and small that he'd try that two weeks into this realationship. He's really sorry and he knows it made me uncomfortable, but I don't know how to act now. I want to show him it's alright, but I don't want him trying again... what do I do? Should I feel uncomfortable? (link)
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Ifd you feel uncomfortable then your probably not ready to move to second base yet. Talk to him but if he trys to do it again break up with him because obviously he just wants to get some and play you.
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ok tomorrow me and my friend want to do something really random...we already thought of spending the day at walmart...and going bowling...and things like that but i need someting really mental and weird
got any ideas (link)
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TP a neighboor's house. Time who can drink a liter of coke fastest. Wear colorful clothes that don't match.
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school's starting soon and i have no friends there. i usually follow this group around b/c i have nobody else to. they never talk to me ever. nobody does. i'm like an outcast with no friends. i try talking & they talk back, but then it just doesn't work out. i've tried everything, i can't make friends. i make friends real easily outside school b/c i'm outgoing, but in school, i try being outgoing and everyone blocks me out. i can't move to a new school. i don't know what to do. please help i need friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You sound like this girl I know at school. Well if people can't accept the person who you are then it's their problem just act friendly to everyone. I'm sure you'll find a friend soon. Try throwing a party. Or if you think it'll help a mini make-over nothing drastic but like anew look for a new start...Good Luck.
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I want to do something fun and exciting on a date wiht my bf. somethin that will really be fun. any ideas (link)
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Try going for a picnic by a lake around dinnertime. And watch the sunset then stay and wish upon stars and watch the moon glow into the night.
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Well okay I have this best friend whose a guy named Joe.. me and him went out before well a lot? and actually a few weeks ago we liked eachother (and i'm like still madly in love with him) until this other girl came into the picture.. her name is brooke (i dispise her) well see the thing is me and him talk 24-7 and stuff and we still hang out and he flirts so much but him & brooke are together still =/ but he doesn't really seem to like her that much? he considers me and him bestestest friends forever.. we even share secrets together? but i am in LOVE with this kid =( .. well last nite we had a school dance (he slowed danced with her obvisioly) and like when the fast songs were on i was like getting low and stuff tehehe =] and he was all near me i loved it =] and brooke and all her friends were like ugh but oh well for them? but idk what 2 do..? hmm what should i do (link)
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You should tell him how you feel before it's too late and you'll regret it later on. If you two are as close as you say then it shouldn't be a problem. As for Brooke well that all depends what happens between you and Joe. But whatever still stay as friends.
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