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I'm BLAiR, Im a SENi0R this year, Finally! I have waited 4 years for this! I would like to say I'm enjoying it, but I think its one of my most challenging years yet. Im so excited to go off to college and meet new people. I hope to go to aTm! I love polkadots and duckies too. I have been through a lot with guys and relationships so shoot!
NO QUESTION IS STUPID!
♥BLAiR

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Im looking for a new screen name. Something orginal and cute. Any ideas? It'd be greatly appreciated and I will rate high. Thanks!

what are some of your interests or your name or something...drop it in my inbox and ill help ya!
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omgsh ok i like this guy and we both like each other( we talk everyday and we have told each other that we like eachother) and he has told me he loves me : ) aww i noe sweet!! so ok well we start high school in a month and we really wanna go out but see he doesnt want to go out over the summer , and when school starts i cant promise him that i will feel this strong about him!!! wat do u think i should do!?

if you really like him then wait until the school year and im sure you're feelings will grow unless theres another guy...im in a relationship right now and you dont get to see them as much as you want you just talk on the phone all the time and run out of stuff to say! but maybe if you can convince him to start going out with you now, how about YOU ask him out? so its different ya know?
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which out of all of these broadway shows are the best and which one should i get tickets to??

-avenue Q
-hairspray
-wicked

wicked or hairspray! i have listened to wicked's music because of my theare arts teacher and it sounds good but i have always wanted to see hairspray! lol hope i narrowed it down a little?
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okay so this guy and i have been hanging out a lot. he tells me he likes me, and says he wants to ask me out, but he still hasnt, he told me he was waiting for he right time...well i think he likes his ex gf, bc i was lookin at his phone and he had text messages for her...adn he said she just got a bf, and even tho he doesnt have feelings for her, its ripping him apart. ive already done a lot with him, which is pretty unusual for me, bc i have such a hard time trustung guys...yesterday he expected me to do tuff with him, and when i told him i didnt want to he figured something was wrong...i really like him... more then anyother guy ive ever liked... but i have no idea what to do about him... any ideas?? please help!!

the best thing is just to talk to him...say you know i really like you and all but i think you have feelings for you're ex, and i dont want a guy thats still lingering over an ex.
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i dont know if this is under the right category.. but whatever. see i have really low self esteem. i hate that! i mean i dont like my hair.. only when its straight and that doesnt matter cause its straight like all the time.. anyway. i think im so ugly! i mean i have a great complextion and really pretty eyes.. but thats all about.. i mean can you guys help me? i wanna look prettier! i mean i just moved to a new school and i wanna make a great impression since no one knows me there. can you help me? like can you tell me what kind of make up to wear.. like what color eye liner? my eyes are blue and my complextion is like olivish.. my hair is brunette with blondish/light brownish high lights i have that side hair cut. im just not impressed!! HELP!

awww you sound pretty! i would go with just some black eyliner on the bottom to make your eyes pop, but if you put it on the inside its makes your eyes look smaller. uhm maybe some silver eyeshadow? (maybelline) i think silver looks good on anyone. with your hair do a cute zig-zag part, or just wear it a little off center.
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My mom keeps on intruding on my life. Heres a perfect example: Im sure some of you have an AOL screen name right?? For instant messaging? Well, I have it. And it has something called a log manager whice saves all of my conversations. So anyways, She READS MY MESSAGES I SEND TO PEOPLE. And then shes like, "YOU SWEAR TOO MUCH YOUR BANNED FROM IT!" And ITS SO GAY. AND IM FURIOUS. SOMEONE HELP ME!

i have the same problem just my parents are worried about the sex predators and stuff...except they have a spy thingy on my computer just that not only my conversations but everything i write emails...websites...everything! but maybe try talking to her and say i would like a little privacy with my friends.
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i want to get a digital camera. Im 14 and I dont need it for taking pics. of the world or anything like that. Just of my friends, vacations etc. What number of mega pixels should i get? Anyone have a good digital camera they really like? let me know. thanks!

i have a kodak easyshare CX7430 and i love it oh yeah its also 4.0 megapixels.
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what age do most teens have sex? and how do you know when,where, and how to do it? also how do you know that your partner would like to do it too?

-needs help in texas

well i would say it happens mostly 14-16 for first timers...and you shouldnt be having sex unless you can talk to your partner about it.
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Does anyone know what Johanna from the Real World is using on her hair in one of the episodes. It curls her hair but it has 3 circular rolls?

a crimper? haha i dunno but i know what you're talking about im not sure if thats what its called or not but i know it crimps her hair.
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Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird?

i think its cute :)
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Can girls get orgasm's without having sex?

yes by masterbating
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How do you get rid of hemroids? im 13 and i just went to the doctor and she says i have a small one. do they ever go away? do guys care if u have them? thanks

go to the pharmacy adn they have cream you can put on them. well a guy wont be able to tell that you have one...but i dunno i guess its not a good thing to tell a guy? && with the cream they do go away.
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I recently just got braces, and I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for a few months now and we haven't kissed yet.
Well I'm afraid now that since I have braces he won't want to kiss me.
I don't know, this is just something that worries me. But should I be worried about this?

no i dont think you should be....as long as he doesnt have braces too it shouldnt matter! you dont kiss with your teeth...lol dont worry..and how about YOU go in for the kiss?
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i am just wondering why people put lemon juice in there hair. i am not bein mean but i just wanna know what it does
thanks

lightens it when you go out in the sun!
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ok im on like my third peorid and i wanna use a tapon i hate pads ther so nasty and they feel like a diper um so can someone tell me the best brands for tapons and like how do you get TSS? welll thx
ps. if it helps im 13

i use tampax compact and i love em...because you can also go on beinggirl.com and get a carrying case for them to stick in your purse or something.
TSS is when you leave a tampon in for too long with the wrong absorbency. i have had TSS before twice to be exact, so make sure you change it and dont get lazy.

The type of TSS associated with tampon use is caused by a toxin producing strain of the bacterium Staphylococcus aureus that's commonly found on the skin, in the nose, armpit, groin or vagina. Like other types of bacteria, a person could "carry" these bacteria without problems. The majority of people have a built-in ability to fight TSS, but some don't.

You can reduce your risk of getting TSS during your period by using the tampon with the lowest absorbency for your flow, and alternating tampon use with pads during a 24-hour time period.

also check out that site www.beinggirl.com
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Ok i'm 13 and i still kinda have baby cheeks...(not very extreme baby cheeks but they're still anoying) lol Is there any way you can reduce the size of them? I know your supposed to grow into them or something like that, but is there any way to get rid of them?
Thnx~

haha this may sound silly but i was watching an exercise video and there were face exercises to help keep your face to look young and im pretty sure it will help you... ok put your mouth in a small "o" but drop your chin down, look up and stick your tongue out, and you should feel it in those muscles! haha it sounds silly i know but just try it! keep doing it over for a few times everyday!
drop one in my inbox if you need anything else!
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Ok so i'm 5 feet six inches, and about 114lbs, am i heading on the right track? I'm not sure.....Oh yeah i'm also 13 years old. I'm gonna exercise and stuff to get a little more toned. Would it be healthy to lose about 10 lbs? I already know what to do to lose weight.
Thnx for the help!

NO NO NO no! please girl dont try and lose 10 more pounds...you sound like you are at a perfect weight! i weigh around 110 and im 5'3'' and if i lost 10 pounds my friends would kill me! lol...and also its fine to get more toned but remember muscle weighs more then fat!
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ok whenever i go number 2 its been hurting and there is even blood when i wipe..and sometimes even in the toilet. trust me , this is not my period. this didnt just happen once or twice, its been happening for awhile.
whats hemroids? is that what i have because doesnt it have to do with something like this?
what are the dangers if i dont tell anyone (it would be mortifying if i had to go to a doctor and have him look at me because im not 10 anymore, im 17.
has anyone had this problem before or known someoen with this problem?
what should i do?

yes thats what it sounds like it is..its when you strain too hard. lol i know. just go to the pharmacy and get some preparation-h or something for hemroids
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(16/f)Does anyone know a work-out I can do to work my lower abs? I've been doing crunches/sit ups and all i've gotten is a 2-pack. Would leg lifts help? I don't want a work-out video-and i belong to a gym so i have access to medicine balls and what not, but i'd prefer just a movement i could do at home! thanks!

reverse crunches- lay on the floor with your legs parallel to the floor and lift them to where you form a right angle with your body then lower them but do NOT go all the way to the floor just a few inches and do as many of those as you can

side crunches-put your knees to one side and do crunches to that one side, then switch

bicycle crunches- lay down with your knees up and feet off the floor and move your legs so that it looks like you are riding a bike and with your arms do opposite arm opposite knee.

if you dont understand me just drop one in my box and ill be glad to help!
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I am 14/f and i am 5'6'' and i weigh around 160 lb
(my scale isnt accurate...)
but people ALWAYS mistake me for around 140 pound
and i know i am fat...ohh harsh me.. i mea overweight. but i do try to lose weight.
i exercise regularly. every monday wednesday and friday (it was on health magz that its not good for you if you exercise everyday when you get older) anyways so i lost 10 pounds around already yes i know i was even fat loser then.

and i dont eat alot, although i snack sometime like eating desert like little bit of ice cream but not a lot.

so what is normal for my height and weight and my age? and how can i get my self to stay exercising?
because during those times i been quiting in and out and technically i only exercised for a month
or 2. so its pretty good losing 10 lb in those month because i dont want saggy skin...talk about ew. no offense... to people who do have those ...

anyways and i am thick in the leg. and arm... and i cant do lifting dumbels anymore because i kinda got hurt from that...

so how do i get my legs to be slender?

and keep on track and any tips on losing weight faster?

please i need help ! i havent had a boyfriend ever! i know people say its not about what's on the outside becaue then its not true love or stuff but i really want a boyfriend and i WANT to look good for him (well future bf ) and i want to feel better about my self...

so please help me

amazingly...its better if you eat just like 5 small meals a day rather than 3 big ones, because it boosts your metabolism. i entered your info onto a BMI (body mass index) and your BMI came out to be 25.9 normal is 19-24...i know if you cut out sodas and drink a lot of water that will help you lose some weight. maybe go jogging around the block a few times.
heres a website that i just found for you that maybe you will like
http://www.teengrowth.com/index.cfm?action=info_article&ID_article=1334&category=health&catdesc=Health&subdesc=Nutrition

and also to stay focused maybe get a headset radio so you can workout AND have fun! good luck with everything and you can do it!
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