hey everyone! i'm from france. i'm in high school. i'm alright at giving advice so if you ever need any help i'll do the best i can! i'll check this pretty often so that i can be the best advice giver i can get, peace and love
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Well, i have this friend and i mean she is really really nice when it is jsut us two, but when we are with our other good friends or when we are with boys, she always has to be the center of attention. She knows she has the best body, so she always says something about being on a diet, so people tell her that she is perfect, and she knows she is like gorgeous and so she always talks about how she looks bad so everyone can reassure her some more. Me and my other bestfriend have been talking about it constantly and we love being with her alone, but it is really getting on our nerves, especially because it makes us feel worse about ourselves. Please help!!! (link)
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hey! you should definitely tell your friend how you feel. since you're not the only one feeling this way, she will know that it's true. tell her that she knows and that everybody knows that she lookds fine. if she ignores it and keeps trying to be the center of attention, then dont reassure her when she is feeling bad about herself. after a while, she will get bored of saying those things about herself since no one is telling her that it is not true, and she will eventually stop. hope i helped, peace and love!
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Ok, i have this friend, lets call her Jane. Jane used to be really friendly last year, and we were REALLY good friends. Now, we're still friends, but shes not very friendly anymore, she lies all the time, she steals away the guys i like, and shes just not the same Jane she used to be. What do i do? Do i tell her?
-Concerned Chick (link)
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hey! you should definitely tell your friend. she might not realize that shes changing and/or stealing the guys that you like away from you. talk to her about how you feel about the whole change, but dont accuse her, otherwise she wont want to listen to you since you're accusing her of all these things. just tell her the facts, talk to her about it, and hope she understands. hope i helped, peace and love!
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This school year, I've noticed that nearly all my friends are boys. I've never really got on with boys before but nowadays I'm always hanging out with them. Is there something wrong with that? I do have friends who are female but I find I relate to boys better.
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hey! its great to have guy friends. most girls wish they had more guy friends. if you feel like you can relate more to boys, then just hang with them. its good to have some girl friends to talk about girl stuff, but many girls like guy friends better. i guess you're one fo them. enjoy the time you spend with them, peace and love!
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Ok. So I'm a junior and I like this guy whos a senior. I have a sister whos a senior and she told this guy that I wanted him. The guy told my sister that I was fine as h*ll and asked why i never talk to him or ask him for his number. well that was 2 weeks ago nand then my sister told me this weekend that he said: why dosent your sister ever come and talk to me? well... i see him all the time and he never talks to me either.... so what sould i do? should i wait for him to talk 2 me? should i talk 2 him (i'm kinda shy around guys i like) or wHat? haha thanx! (link)
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hey! i think that you should make the first move. he wants you to talk to him, so he obviously wants you too. guys like it when girls make the first move. so go for it!! tell me how it goes, peace and love!
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Hi everyone! I probably sound a little dumb, but I never knew what's going on with politics and stuff.... I just wanted to know, since elections are today, when do we get to know who the winner is? Do we get to know tonight or tomorrow? Can someone please tell me because I want to know who wins the presidential elections! Thanks so much! (link)
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hey! normally we get to know tonight, but elections these days are pretty messed up and no one knows when we're guna know. we might know tonight- but most people dont think so, we might know tomorrow, which would also be a miracle. so we're not sure when we'll find the winner. hope i helped, peace and love!
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Hey! I'm tired of my old hair style! I usually just wear it down.. or in a ponytail or half up. It gets boring.. does anybody have any cute ideas that i would be able to do myself before school? I have a little longer than shoulder length hair. Thanks a lot! :) (link)
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hey! you could try getting a cut, or if you dont wanna do that, theres a lot more you can do with your hair. you could try putting things in it like flowers or clips or something. you could also try doing buns- those always look good and there are so many different kinds you can do. you could also try braids- there are many different kinds of those too. if those arent your type of things then you could try to either curl or straighten your hair, it will change from your usual hairdo. if you need more ideas, leave me a message. peace and love!
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so far me and my boyfriend have had the PERFECT relationship. we've been going out for 10.5 months and i dont know what to get him for our 1 year anniversary?? what should i get him? do i get him anything?? do i make him something?? if so what?? HELP!! (link)
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hey! i think that you should hint you're anniversary coming up but wait a lil while since its more than a month away and you never know what can happen. but i think that you shouls show him that you're getting him something without begin too obvious about it, but so that he still gets it. i think that you could bake him cookies or brownies and/or get him something that cute but not too serious that a grown up would have gotten. but i cant really tell you what, cause i dont know how old you are... hope i helped, peace and love!
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okay well theres this boy.. hes 15 i think and im 13/f
hes the kinda guy who does drugs, drinks, does stuff with girls, everything like that..
hes really nice to me and he talks to me a lot. he says he likes me but idk if he really does cuz he might just be fooling around. he touches me in the halls n stuff but him and his gf of 6 or 7 months just broke up a few days ago because he made out with someone else and lied to his gf about it. well some of my friends are sayin i should ask him out but idk what he will say. what do u think? thanks! :) (sorry so long) (link)
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hey! i dont know how he feels about you, but why would you want to go out with a guy who does drugs, drinks, cheats on his gf, and lies? i dont know about you, but it doesnt sound like the geatest bf ever to me... you do whatever you want, but i wouldnt ask him out or even go out with him. but i dont know him as well as you do. if you think he wouldnt cheat or lie to you and may even stop doing all this bad stuff just for you then go for it, but it would be very hard to do all those things at once.. of course if you dont mind all those things, then flirt with him and show him you're interested in him. peace and love!
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Okay, right now I am having a problem with my man, and I have these two best friends. They have always been right about my guyz in the past…but now, one is getting the “I warned you” vibe while the other is getting the “He loves you, Go for him!” vibe. They both know as much as I know…and they both know him as well as the other knows him…yet one is getting a good vibe and one is getting a bad vibe. I don’t know which one to listen to, cuz I trust both of them with my life…yet…they both know me as good as the other…so what am I supposed to do? I am so lost and confused. HELP ME PLZ! (link)
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hey! i say go for it and see if you're guy is worth it, and you'll know for yourself which vibe he should be getting. so go for it, but dont open yourlelf so much that you would regret it if he wasnt worth it. after a while, you'll see for yourself what he is. hope i helped, peace and love!
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hey guys i kno thys question may be long but i really need help .. moderators please dont delete. but anyways i have this friend and a while ago she lied to me so she can hang out with her other friend even tho i was supposed to hang out with her .. and last night .. she did it again. i am soo sick of all the drama with her but i love her to death shes my girl ya kno ? but now she turned into a skank and i dont like it .. i am really confused i dont know what to do ... can someone please tell me what they would do if they were in my situation ? PLEASE HELP IM ABOUT TO HAVE A BREAKDOWN ! =[ (link)
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hey! the best way to solve this problem is by talking to your friend about it. tell her how you feel about her changing and letting you down when you guys are supposed to hang. if she's really your girl and your greatest friend, she'll understand why you're upset. but dont make it too hard on her, cause otherwise, she might not come back to you. but you should really talk to her before things get worse and more drama comes in. hope i helped, peace and love!
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Hey well I met this guy in a chat room and we got to talkin and it turned out that he went to my school , and when I found him in my school he turned out to be the Captian of the Football team and he seamed to like me but I already have a boyfriend...... I love my boyfriend to death but the guy I met lets just say his name is Shawn asked me out and I turned him down , was that the right thing to do??? (link)
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hey! i think that it was the right thing to do if you feel that your bf is a better guy for you. maybe the guy you met online thought that you were flirting with him when you were chatting. you cant have two guys at the same time. so i think you were right. but onlny you can say if you are. also, people are very different in person than onlnie. hope i helped, peace and love!
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There is a school dance tonight and i'm not sure if i should go!! i want to but there are these girls who are mean and i'm afraid they might try to pick a fight with me tonight! Should i go? and if i go and they confront me what should i do? what should i say? (link)
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hey! dont let mean girls bring you down. go for it! got to that dance. if you see them, then just try to avoid them. of tehy came right up to you, just ignore them. make sure you always hang in a group, it will intimidate them. hope you have fun, peace and love!
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ok well me and this guy like each other. but im afraid to do anything about it because well, he is a bit... faster w/ girls than i am comfortable w/. and he also does drugs and drinks and im straightedge. so i dont know if it would work out to well. he said hes quitting smoking and drinking but i highly doubt it. i really like this kid and i cant seem to get him out of my head but i dont know what to do. (link)
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hey! i say go for it. if he's too fast, just tell him that doesnt flow your boat. also if he keeps on smoking and drinking, tell him that you cant deal with it. hope i helped, peace and love!
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Hey i have blonde hair about halfway down my back and i've been thinking about getting cut just for a change. Dose anyone have any ideas what hairstyles might look good?ThAnKs! (link)
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hey!! if you have straight hair you could get layers, it often looks really good and gives your hair more style. also you could try bangs. however if you have culry hair, you could try to get layers, but i'm not sure it would show a lot. hope i helped, peace abd love!
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I'm 14 i have bluish green eyes, long dark hair, and tan skin. although i have been told by guys that i am pretty, they all say they could never date me because of my body. i am 5'8 130 LBs (a size two pants) with a size B cup. i have never met a guy who liked tall girls. i am starting to get selfsonscience. HELP! (link)
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hey! you do sound pretty... anyways, you gota find a guy that doesnt care about how tall you are. there are plenty of guys out there who are taller than you. and when you do find a guy, you'll know that he likes you for who you are and for your body as well. dont worry, you're only 14, you'll have plenty of opportunites to find guys. hope i helped, peace and love!
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I am no stranger to the behaviour of most guys. Very sexual, like the jokes about sex but I have a slight problem, I don't know how to react. I have a few guys that are bothering me at this time I will explain. Well this boy called karl right he's 17 and i'm 14, well basically he wants sex and he keeps pestering me he tried to touch me up and I don't know what to do. Some boys just fancy me and I can take that. There's this other boy called Steve who's 16 but he thinks i'm going to go out with him and tries to get me to cheat on my boyfriend and his girlfriend which gets me in trouble with his girlfriend. Another boy I don't see but he's really nice, prob is he calls me all these names and keeps asking me out. A little younger boy who's a few months younger than me is asking me to strip i don't know how to answer these there a no but how do I say that assertively? (link)
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hey! guys like to joke around with girls, a lot. these guys just seem to be really annoying though. just when they call you names either call them names back or ignore them. you choose which one fits you best. if they are trying to touch you in any wat, then just tell them to stop, and if that doesn work then puch them away, and if they cmoe back or you cant get them off, then kick them in the nuts! but you have to be strong (emotionally i mean) and brave about this. well, i'm sure that msot of them are just teasing, so go along with it (faking it) and see what happens. hope i helped, peace and love!
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I started my period about 9 months ago and I know that it takes about a year or 2 to get into an exact cycle..but how do you know when you're gonna have your period..because I don't wanna have a leak at school or something and not know about it until I get home! Please help! (link)
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hey! makr it on your calendar, in the beginning it will really be random, so just go to the b-room once a day to check. otherwise, once it gets a little more regular, always carry a pad or tampon, whatever you use, with you. hope i helped! peace and love!
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Hello, My name is Serena and I am 14 years old and I attend a good high school. Anywho, I do have a question. I know this might sound a bit offish, but I just don't know what the meaning is... I like to go to this site every now and then, and I like to read the questions, however, I sometimes see a question with a person stating their age with this: 13/f. Frankly, I have no clue to what the f in 13/f means! Can some of you all please tell me? Thank you so much! Love much, Serena L., New York (link)
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hey! that person is 13 year old and the "F" is for female. they would put "M" for male. hope i helped! peace and love!
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I am 13/f. Ever since I have been dating my boyfriend, I have been thinking things I really shouldn't be thinking. I keep getting all these...desires to do things to him. I shouldn't be thinking things like that, I'm only 13!!! How do I stop? (link)
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hey! i dont think you need to worry. you're a teenager and its normal to have those feelings. you cant really stop them because that would trying to make yourself stop thinking and you cant do that. so dont worry about it too much cause you're not the only one thinking about stuff like that. hope i helped, peace and love!
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ok lets see if i can get this right lol...
-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long)
ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...
he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..
- i said "no"
- he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl"
- i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..
i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he doesnt want to listen to listen when he knows its true...
and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...
-he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx
P.S. i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..then later on the other night on-line what this girls name is and
he said "marissa"
--- when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again
- i think i already hinted that i liked him...im just not suree if he is affaird to ask me out bc i said i rejected 5 guys- (link)
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hey! i'm a little confused with your story, but i'll try to help as best as i can. i'm guessing your starting hs. i'm sure that there are a lot of girls who have had to turn down guys. maybe he's not sure about what his feelings are. i didnt understand something, does he like that other girl from his private school? if he does, then he probably doesnt like you, although people sometimes like more than one person and are going out with someone. but if he doesnt like that other girl form his private school and he is asking you so many questions about how not to get turned down and stuff, then he may be interested. maybe he wants to know how you feel so that he oesnt seem like a jerk if you turn him down. what i mean is that if he likes you, the reason why he might be waiting is because he wants to now if you like him so that if you do he'll ask you out, but if you dont then he wont do anything. alright, well, good luck with him! if you wanna talk more, then aim me or e-mail me. hope i helped, peace and love!
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