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Age: 20
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Ok, So I am 13 years old and since May 2005, I have found myself madly in love with no other than a 20 year old McDonalds worker. He has started to open up a little more in the past couple of months, and he gives me lots of hugs, flirts, and shows all the "signs" of love back. Yet he has never told me. This week we are supposed to go to the movies. My question is, Should I open up and tell him I love him or should I just wait until he does? (link)
dude....uhm really it's not such a good idea to fall for a 20 year old guy! but uhm okay so you do like a 20 year old guy unusuall things happen :-) uh yeah i would just talk to him and admit how you feel but really dont be disapointed if he's gonna make fun of you or something cause as i was saying he's 20! can you imagine yourself , 20 years old falling in love with a 13 year old boy? i dont think so....well okay uhh sorry i dont think that was a answer you wanted to hear but i'm just saying whats best!

loads of luck though :-)


ok, stupid question.

do you think 14 is too young to get your upper ear peirced? my parents say i'm too young for a peircing like that...i don't know why... but i was just wondering if you think so?


i don't know. just wondering. (link)
i dont think your too young! i know a girl who is 12 years old and she has her upper ear peirced ok maby THAT is too young but i dont think you are! it really dosnt matter! if you can handle the responsebility its gonna be fine!

loads of luck :-)


How to make new friends ?
How to talk when first meet with him or her? (link)
oh just be yourself okay? go to people you think are very nice and talk about stuff you know! try helping them in school like subjekts there bad at or invite them over to your house for dinner! dont wait for them to come to you , you go to them! if they dont wanna be friends with you then just leave them alone , but i dont think that will happen :-)
good luck!!


Alright I am a really big fan of music i listen to ANYTHING except Country and Gospel and i really am looking for some good new music to listen to. Hear are just some of the people i listen to :Chamillionaire, Hinder, Panic At the Disco, 50 Cent Eminem, DKM, Nickelback,Bone Thugs, Trillville, Metallica, Papa Poach basicaly anything rap rock pop punk i just need some good new songs to download or good old songs that you can never forget you know what i mean? just answer with a few of you fav titles thanks all i'll rate you well if you gimme some good songs old or new. (link)
one step closer - linkin park
a place for my head - linkin park
with you - linkin park
papercut - linkin park
in the end - linkin park
( sorry but i really love linkin park :-)

holiday - green day
boulevard of broken dreams - green day (everybody hates that song but i love it :-)
she's a rebel - green day
extraordinary girl - green day
wake me up when september ends - green day
whatsername - green day

LINKIN PARK AND GREEN DAY TOTALLY ROCKS!!!!!!!! lol hope you like them


i'm a guy, and is it wrong to just want sex? honestly now, its what everyone wants (link)
okay? uhm i dont want sex first people want a relationship with a person they can trust and not a person who's just together with some1 for sex! well i think its okay for you to want that uhm get together with girls who also do and not with girls who dont! you can get together with girls who dont take it so serious and also want sex! so yeah have fun


i was wondering if anyone knows any poems about love and romantic things i really need like at least three but if you onlt know 1 or 2 it's ok i still wanna hear them plez let me hear your poems (link)
hi here are 2 poems i once wrote

you stole my heart when i first saw you...

you stole my heart when i first saw you
i never realised it before
untill i saw you holding her hand
now i cant stand the pain
all my hope vanished
my heart broke appart
you married her
your gone
and now i know
i cant live without you
i love you
everytime i think of you and her
i'm once step closer to the end
i cant stand the pain
i wanna cry but i cant
but i know
i cant live without you
i love you

-------------------------------------

your voice everytime i hear
makes you seem so near
yet you ares so far away
i'll wait for the day
when i see your face
my heart will race
to love you forever
to hear your voice
to share your joys
to listen to your laughter
to listen as you whisper
to hear your words in my ears
to be with you even in tears
to take away your pain
to wipe away your sadness
to gaze upon your eyes
to inspire you to live
to love you till my last breath
neather death or time can seperate
my soul would desperatly wait

tell me if you like them :-)

i hope i helped


i dont find black girls attractive, does that mean i'm a racist? is it juss subconscious racism? (link)
oh come on ,no your not!! dont worry about such a thing!


ok. so i need to know if this is normal or not.
15/f.
so like when my boyfreind is done fingering me like after he pulls his fingers out theres gross globby white stuff. i know theres obviously suposed to be something there...but its like in globs. and kind of gross. i dont know if this is normal or if something is wrong.
oh. and another question...kind of weird. but what should he do after? like all that stuff is all over his hands...where should he put it?

xo (link)
yeah it is discharge uhm its totally normal! and well just ask ur boyfriend to use a towel or toiletpaper to get it off he could just wash his hands after the whole thing!


Is it possible to get a profile using AIM express? (link)
uhm no i dont think so you can only IM people just use something else :-) sorry


All my life, every best friend I had has eventually left me. Moving away, losing touch, or a terrible fight has broken us apart. All I've ever wanted was one good friend who would never leave me.

This is my year so far: Met a girl in my new school, became best friends for half a year until she left me for a guy. My old best friend and I fought so he ignored me until we stopped talking. My other best friend became sort of slutty and we stopped talking.

What can I do to find a person I can have a lasting relationship with? How can I tell if our friendship will survive? (link)
well i know this sounds lame but just be yourself :-) and you know.. when you look for something really badly you cant find it so what you can do is dont say that some1 is your best friend when your not even that sure and i would really just wait! your question is kinda hard to answer but you could stay in touch with your friend that moved away cause i have a best friend really fare away from here but i still call her every day and then we just talk about our day and stuff.. you could do the same and dont look so desperatly for a best friend cause that makes it even harder! what you also could do is when you think that some1 is very nice or something invite her to your house! i know this is'nt very helpful but i still hope i helped
good luck


Ok so im 17/f and my mums friend left a message on my phone and i must have told my mum that her friend phoned my fone and then deleted the message and forgot all about it!!Thing is i said to my mums friend ohh no i never got a message because i was ill and i forgot that i gave the message to my mum so i started getting upset about it and crying because i was ill and with her keep shouting accusing me of lieing when i was not it really got to me how shes so loud and in ur face. I got my mum to tell her that i gave the message the thing is she really gets on my nerves shes so demanding and sometimes i feel like shes pulling me away from my mum, What shall i do now i was in the wrong because i got annoyed on the phone to my mums friend and i was like I never got your message for gods sake bla bla can someone please advice me on what i should do??? thank u. (link)
yeah you should really talk to your mom and your moms friend! what you could do is uhm invite them for coffee :-) and sit them down and talk to both of them in person or something and tell them how you feel and then maby you can work it out!
good luck!!!


well, i've known this one girl for a long time, and i think she's absolutely beautiful and i love her so much, but everytime i even say hi, she won't acknowledge me. i walk by her and see her everday at school about 30 times and i always say hi or something, and she just ignores me. we used to be really good friends until i asked her out last year and she won't even say a word to me now...i have always thought that she was a really nice girl, but nowaday's she's not...btw i'm 13 she's 13... plz help! i really love her but she doesn't even know i'm there almost...and i would love her to be my gf....she used to be one of my best friends till i asked her out last year, and now look what happend! she hates me! how does that just happen like that????

anyway,
THNX A LOT!
(I rate high for good answers!) (link)
hi

i think i know how she feels! i think shes ambaressed cause there is this boy i really love and he asked me out and since then i was really mean to him not because i hate him but i was ambaressed and i dont want him to know that i love him! so i think she does like you! just do the same and ignore her than she finds out how she truly feels about you! trust me i know! dont worry so much just be happy!
i hope i helped
c ya


My best friend & her boyfriend just broke up last night and she needs some help with trying to get him jealous. It wasnt even her fault that they broke up it was his. So if you can please give me some advice to tell her to get him jealous that would be great.

and please dont use, flirting with other guys and stuff.

Thanks in advance (link)
uhm thats a hard question and i think the only thing that would make him jealous IS flirting with other guys but what your friend also could do is saying very loudly so he can hear it like: wow that guy is so hot or something :-) and that maby wouldt make him jealous but she can also be very cool and look very sweet so he wishes oh why did i dumped her? well maby this was'nt the most brilliant answer ever but i hope i helped

by the way is it really a good idea to make him jealous? just get over him and stop thinking about a person who is'nt worth it!!


ok first i have a bf he is 18 yrs old i met him on the net but offcourse now i know him more than myself and so doese he but he lives in another country lets call this country(vile) and vile is where i was born and lived but we moved out and went to another country so each summer we go to vile but this summer its gona be diffrent cause iam gona meet him and iam a grl thats a little shy so i dont know how to start talking or what saying am a little confused but from the first time i see him the truth iss i want a kiss :P but i dont know how to get it.i appriciate everybodys advices (link)
uhm the thing is...well nothing against you or anything but i wouldnt be surprised if that guy is gonna be even different than maby you he is cause just chatting is'nt everything and i wouldnt trust him that much...by the way i think there cute guys you know and yeah u know what im saying! soo when you meet him dont go like: OMG ITS HIM or whatever just be yourself! i know thats not a great advice but i hope i helped!
good luck!


Alright. So for about three years i had the same best friend. We were really close and nothing ever got in between us. After three years though, i met another girl who kinda took her place. We were best friends for about a year and a half, but then i met ANOTHER girl who also took the place of my other best friend. After a very short time, me and that girl got too much of each other. I really dont know what to do. It's like i can't have a best friend but i always have at least 5 really great ones. Can anyone relate or give advice on how to get used to my best friend's flaws? (link)
well having a best friend is cool i know cause i've got 1 2 even if she lives in london cause i used to live there 2 but we moved to america! i got friends here 2 and all but sometimes you just cant decide right? uhm i would say : just keep it 2 your self and dont tell anybody who's your best friend cause you can make them feel bad trust me! by the way its normal 2 have more really good friends! well there is nothing i can do sorry but i hope i helped


im sry i just picked this category cuz its where most people go. but somhing weird just happened. i was out bak and itss very dark cuz its like 9. and i look at the woods in my yard and.............i saw something. ....i dont want 2 believe wat i saw cuz peeps wud tthink im wweird....but i saw a pair of bright...hypnotic...red eyes. now im the kinda guy who think movies like signs and the mothman prophocies r wicked gay. i dont get scared by hem i getbored. but as i stared at these eyes i felt llight headed andd i kept hearing this sharp,crackly sound coming rom he eyes. then it all of a sudden took off!!i jumed up in the air i saw its shadowy silouhette in the sky. it reminded me alot bout mothman. but i live in Mass. this has really freakedd me out. should i tell som1? (link)
wow thats really scary! but i know hat u mean! once i saw big red eyes in my windoW! i know its weird well as i was saying just believe magic LOL yeah i would tell some1


does size really matter to girls? (link)
uhm well i'm a girl and i like boys who are taller than me or the same size! i dont mind boys who are like a little smaller than me bur the thing is that boys get bigger than girls anyways and well yeah it matters to me! i like guys who are bigger or the same size lol but i'm just ONE girl lol so yeah 2 some girls it matters and to some girls it dont so stop stressing :-) you'll find the right one some day


sorry it's kinda long but I wanna know...

ok well it's be about 8 months since I've gotten my period and for the first 4 months is was coming aroud the 20th and then it didn't and it came aroud the 13th and then for about 3 more months it was around the 13th well in Januaray is come on the 13th and now it's the 17th and I don't get why it hasn't come and I'm like scared that I'm messed up or not normal considering this is the 2nd time this has happend. Can someone please tell me what's happening if it's normal or not. Thanks, will rate too. (link)
dont worry! its normal i got my period about 1 year ago and then i waited half a year and than it started again and i told my mom about it and she said its totally normal! ur body has to get used to it and later it will come every month and she was right my period really comes every month! sometimes its 2 weeks late but i dont really care so much about it and maby thats what makes it easy


girls say they love you, but they dont show it why is that? (link)
well I'm a girl and i like this guy and he likes me back and he tried to talk to me and i was like really mean to him cause i ..well i dont know i just never wanted him to know that i like him and i know its weird so what i'm saying is that most of the girls are just ambarresed lol hope i helped


simple question, long story behind it, but i want to know, what do girls want in guys? (link)
well almost every girl is different! i hate it when a guy smiles at me alot cause it gets on my nervs even if i like him back :-) and well i think girls just want some1 who will always be there for you and 2 trust! other girls just want a boyfriend 2 look cool and then there girls who just want sex and stuff like that. well first you gotta know that girl you like and then you'll see the answer urself and u could also talk to her!
hope i helped




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