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ok well i have this friend and shes awesome i love her soooooooo much and like one day i was gonna IM this guy that screwed her over and mess with him and i ended up calling him and i bitched him out for a while then like somehow i started to really like talking to him and i knew if she knew she would be soooo pissed and well i told her that i had talked to him and that i wanted to keep talking to him and she got really mad and said she hated me and wouldnt talk to me for a few days then i told her id never talk to him again but i have, i talk to him on the phone every once in a while and he wants me to meet him in person but i no i shouldnt but i still like to talk to him on the phone, only if she knew i still talk to him shed prolly never talk to me again and i dunno what to do, I REALLY LIKE HIM, i know its sick, and i know i shouldnt like him cuz he really hurt my best friend but i still do and i cant help it :( what should i do????? (link)
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You can't help who you like, your not supposed to. No matter how hard you try you'll probably still like him. Your friend can't see this right now, but in time she will. For the moment, try talking to her. If you loose your friends trust, she will feel there is nothing left. I hope everything goes well for your relationship and your friend.
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well i have this boyfriend in real life!!right..but i meet this dude on the internet..and he wanted to go out with me!!and i said yes..my boyfriend in real life said he didnt care if i had an internet boyfriend..the internet boyfriend said were never going to meet anyway so y do i care if you have a real boyfriend..but my friend said it was dangerous to have a internet boyfriend becasue you never now if hes lieing to you about his age..or he couild be a police officer..and then i wouild get in trouble..well i really trust my internet boyfriend..but my friend told me to watch out on the internet..and she told me to never do or say anyhting bad because alot of cops go in to chatrooms!!well i dont no what to do!!do what my friends telling me to do or dont belive her and do what i want to do ...if you have other comments plz tell me.. need help!!oo..i am a girl and i am 12 years old..yes hard to belive haveing this problem at 12 but its true...
-ANOUMYS!!!PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!QUICK I REALLY NEED ADVICE!!
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It's true some people disgues themselves and stuff, but as long as you NEVER give out your adress or phone number, there's nothing wrong with having an internet boyfriend.
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Ok, there is this guy and we are really good friends. We are such good friends that it almost out does any of my other friends that are girls. We talk about everything and you can never split us apart. But he has a girlfriend and i am not jelous or anything its just that he spends more time with me than he does with her. I want them to be together and ever since they started going out he has kinda ignored me until now! Once summer break hit so did he. We have done somethin every single night this week and i really like the attention but i dont want his girlfriend to be mad. Now we are going to Grand Rapids together to watch his girlfriend perform. What do you think i should do just keep goin along with it or ask him why he never spends more time with is girl friend. Help me
Signed confused (link)
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You have a good heart, hopefully this guy can see that. You should just ask him why he hardly ever spends time with her. Don't forget to mention that you like to see him happy and that you appriciate all the attention. Since you two have been such good friends for so long he will be able to talk to you about why he doesn't. Hope everthing goes over.
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how do u covince your parents 2 let u get a cell phone. and that u are responsible enough to have one. (link)
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Sometimes you have to prove your responsible enough, other times you just have to ask them, some times you even have to make deals with them. Any way you do it, you pretty much have to tell them you are going to pay for it (unless you are welthy). Hope you get your phone!
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whats up wit this whole poser thing i just dont get it people r age r just tryin to figure out what they want ot be like im 14 and a girl and i recently start going out wit my boyfriend he is so sweet and so funny and hes what youd call a skater and yeah i like all that skater kinda stuff like punk rock and metal music and sk8tbording and all that but i dress in ambercrombie and ae and armini and goochie and all that kinda stuff but all that pop music and crap just hurts my head now people are starting to get mad at me cause im going out wit my b/f sum of the bikers at my school are all like you shouldnt be going out wit him hes not a biker ( my last boyfriend was a bmx biker so i know all the bikers) and then all this people have started calling me a poser cause this girl saw me in zumies wit my friend and b/f and it jsut makes me mad its not like they have any say in what im doin but I jsut wanted to know why do people think its any of there bisnnes
thanks bunchs
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I never have been able to understand the whole label thing. It seems to me that you didn't ask to be labeled, everyone did it for you, so in my opinion, if you want to hang with your boy at zumies do it. Like you said it's really none of their busines.
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i like this guy...lets call him, um, Jack(not his real name). So I think Jack likes me. Last year his friend told me he did, but I don't know how true that was. This year we're in two classes together and we talk sometimes. Once he threw a hacky-sack at me because he's a Red Sox fan and I'm a Yankees fan. He says that 'he's out to get all the Yankees fans'. So we throw little paper balls and pens and stuff at each other...sort of flirting. I really like him, but just because he throws stuff at me (lol) doesn't mean he likes me. He could be just flirting and not have it mean anything-what I mean is he could just be playin' as my friend or whatever. That's what I don't know. Help! If you need more info, ask or email me at epic2004@charter.net. PLEEZ HELP!
signed:
~usherluva07~ (link)
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It's hard to tell if "Jack" likes you with that much information, however, maybe you should tell him you like him. If you don't have enough courage to do it plainly, just say something sly like - so do you think the red soxs and the yankees have a chance of going to the movies tonight? Something like that is a lot eaiser than straight out asking. If he turns you down (which I doubt :)), then stay cool and say maybe some other time and be on your way. Hope it all helps.
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This is a long one. Okay. So there is this guy. I met him a few years ago. At the end of eighth grade. I'm now finishing junior year. But I knew as soon as I saw him that I liked him. A lot. Well, the summer after eighth grade, we ended up "dating." We talked on the phone for a few hours almost evey night. We were really good friends. But a few weeks later, he "broke up with me." It was more of a mutual thing. We never saw eachother 'cause he lived on the opposite side of town (only a few minutes away) but since we were all of 13, we couldn't drive to see eachother. So we decided, since we were more like friends, we should just leave it at that. Over the next few years, my like for him grew to more. I felt like i was falling in love. At the beginning of sophomore year, a group of friends went to six flags great america for fright fest. The wo of us ended up cuddling all night and it seemed to maybe be going somewhere, since this had never happened in our year and a half of friendship. But then i was told through a mutual friend that he didn't want a girlfriend right now. I was upset with him. Partially because he didn't tell me himself. Partially because I felt kind of betrayed. I know, it's silly, but i was 15 and had, like, no experience. Well, a week later, he got me to sit down with him and talk. He said now was not a good time for him to have a girlfriend because he was stressing about school and stuff, it was towards the end of the semester. But he said he really liked me... a lot. And he felt bad about leading me on. So we were friends again. Over the next few months, there would be random times at movie nights at friends' houses that we ould just start holding hands and cuddling, but nothing ever came of it. Over the last few months of sophomore year through the first few months of junior year, we started to distance. He was dating some girls but he stopped telling me about some of the more important things in his life. We didn't talk on the phone anymore. Then I went to California on a choir trip this past spring break. We started texting back and forth. He was very blatantly flirting with me, and I with him. We made plans to hang out when I got back. He would call me occasionally while I was gone, just to talk. When I got back, we decided to hang out. We didn't know what to do, since there's not a whole lot to do in our town, so we ended up making out in the back of his car for a few hours. Then the next weekend, we made plans ro go to this charity concert our school was holding. But he got stuck babysitting his little brother, so I went over to his house that night and the same thing happened. Only this time he tried to push things farther. Not all the way, but farther than I was comfortable with. And I told him so. He said that was okay, and backed off a bit. But then he'd bring it up, like, every hour. I told him no, and he didn't try to force it. The next weekend, I went over to his houes again, and he tried to push things farther again. This time it was REALLY hard for me to stop him. I didn't really want to. But I wasn't ready to go any farther than we had. And his parents were upstairs. The next weekend, I decided that I had really been the one who had called him to "hang out." He'd never called me. So I didn't call him. However, my friend stole my cell while I was at her house and texted him about what he was doing for prom. It was soming up in about a month. He avoided the topic. A few days later, a mutual friend, (not the same one as before. This one is one of my best friends. We've known eachother forever) told me that she had talked to him while I was in California. He called her asking if she wanted to fool around because he was horny and he knew she'd probably be willing. Trying to be a good friend and knowing how I feel about him, told him to call me. He said, he didn't think he could do that because he knew I liked him and he didn't want to hurt me. Well, when she talked to him while we were fooling around, he said he took her advice. He also said that other than friendship, he had no feelings for me whatsoever and what we did meant nothing. She yelled at him and he said he was just taking her advice. She still feels terrible about it. She thought maybe she could set us up. He never said anything to me. (He also told my friend that he slept with his ex. They broke up about a month/a month and a half bafore we hooked up. They'd only been dating for a few weeks.) Then a few weeks after that, he told me in gym class one day that he really needed to talk to me, but we had to go do gym stuff so he couldn't. I asked him what he needed to talk to me about a few days later, but he said he knew it was important but he forgot what it was. Then I had this whole conversation one night with the mutual friend. She said, first of all, that when they had that conversation after he and I, he said, he had thought he was the first guy I had ever kissed (he thought I would have told him if I had kissed anyone when said kiss would have happened because we were friends) but he had a feeling he wasn't. He was right. During this past Halloween, at a friend's co0ed sleepover, I made out with some random guy in a desparate attempt to get over the other guy since I was having such a hard time with it. I regret it completely. She also said that he considered our me his first girlfriend when we went out after eighth grade. And that he really liked me all of sophomore year but he was afraid to ask me out because he didn't know if I still liked him. He felt I was distancing myself from him. And I was. I was TRYING to get over him. Marvel at my lack of success. He found out a few days ago about me and my random Halloween guy. But he still doesn't know who it was. He spent an hour trying to get me to tell him who it was. I was also in a bad mood that day so I was kinda mean, and when he asked if I was mad at him, I told him that I was. I'm surprised that he didn't even guess that I might have been mad at him before now. I really don't know what to do. Part of me is really mad at him for what he did, but part of me doesn't want to ruin our friendship even though he did what he did. I don't know what all of this means or what to do. (link)
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It seems like you have answered yourself. Your still in love with him, so tell him. If he only wants you to sleep with him, maybe you should tell him to back off a little until your comfortable. All in all, you have a strong relationship and I hope the best for the future.
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OK. Well I'm not really like low self esteem or anything cause I know I'm just as good as all the other idiots out there but I guess I'm just tired of being treated like dirt. There are some really nice guys at school who make me feel good but there are also the not so good people who make me feel like crap. This guy who I barely even know and I accidently tripped during a basketball scrimage hates me and keeps calling me ugly and stuff. I mean I know that I don't need them or anything but I just want to know when some guy will come along and make me feel really god. But basically I hate everyone at my school...OK maybe thats not true I actually like almost all of them but you think it would kill them to be nice for once? Im not really asking for advice but some encouragement that the world isnt as crappy as it seems would be nice. (link)
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I'm sorry your going through a rough spot right now. Bullies can be damaging when your young, luckily you know just to ignore them. Remember, right now everything may seem to be in the rain, but eventually the sun has to come out. Hope your "rainbow" comes soon!
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Ok so My sister is totally alaways ranking on me because I've never had a b/f!I am a female 13 year old ! I get all depressed too. My friends alaways brag about there boyfriends and either I'M GETTING TIRED OF IT OR IM JEALOUSE!!! I dont know what to do! Boys just think of me as a friend and nothing more! My mom says its embrassing to ask them out but I am soooo confused! Tell me your oppinion!!!
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Try to tell your sister that her teasing bothers you. If that doesn't work just try ingnoring her. As far as the guys go, friendships are okay for now, at least until guys start to mature. Also there are lots of people out there that never have had a boyfriend at 13, it's perfectly normal. Hope you benifited some from my advice.
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okay i am an 12 year old male. and i like this girl at school and i keep on having sexual fantasies about her am i to young is this normal (link)
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Thats totally normal! You are a little young, but some guys mature earlier than others. As far as what to do about it, ask her out or just talk to her, get her phone number or something. Good luck!
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what do you do when your are tottaly flirting with a guy one day and then the next day he pretends you don't even exsit it like really confusing? i'm not sure if i sould forget about him or go after him (link)
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Some times guys get kinda nervous when they think they like you. I whould say go after him, but only if you really like him. Other wise, you might mess with his emotions if you only like to flirt with him. (which i'm sure is not the case :) )
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i'm 14 and this older guy likes me he's 16 and i've known him for like forever but now he wants me to be his girlfriend and it's weird because of parents and friends so i'm not sure if i should go out with him or just still be friends (link)
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You should ask your self how you really feel. If you think you really like this guy, you know, "that" way, you should go for it. If you don't then you should probably stay friends. If your just so confused you don't really know what to say, you should stay friends because you don't know how your going to feel about being his girlfriend in a few days. Hope it helps.
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Ok, for all the people who answered the question about the guy writing his number in my year book, when I call him what should I say? (link)
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Heck yeah! Call the guy, if he didn't want you calling him, he wouldn't have put his number in your year book. As far as what to say, just be friendly. Ask him for his s/n or something. Good luck!
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Lately I've been getting on my parents nerves. I can tell cause they're always mad at me. They say it's because I have a really bad attitude. Even though I really don't think I do. I usually have a great attitude about things. I've also been really into acting and every time I talk about it they just ignore me so I get mad. Just the other day he told me I did something when I knew I didn't so I calmly told him I didn't and he told me I was lying so I got mad. He told me to get rid of my attitude so I said no because he called me a liar. Then He got up in my face and just started screaming at me. I'm really confused right now and don't know what to do. Could any one give me some advive.
I'm 14 (link)
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First of all, your parents might be going through a hard time right now. Concidering you are 14, you probably have lots of stress too. Either way, try sitting down and talking to your parents. Tell them when you just need to be alone. Hope it helps.
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I am a fourteen year old girl and I've been writing fiction, particularly fantasy, ever since I can remember. I'm suffering a minor case of writers block, and I'm looking for a challenge or a contest, preferably online with no entrance fee.
Does anyone know of any online contests going on right now? Any challenges? (link)
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There is a really good web site that has contests all the time. The adress is at www.poetry.com. Good luck.
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HOW DO I KISS A GUY???? THIS IS URGENT. (link)
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Well, you can't really think about it, just go for it.
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Please help! im a 15 year old female.. and i sweat alot not smelly sweat and thats why the deodrents that are out really dont help beacuse there based on smell. and its really aggravating b/c all the cute shirts i wear i cant beacuse i sweat and it looks really bad ive tried switching deodrents but nothing seems to work HLEP if any1 has any advice please let me know!! (link)
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Deodrents only help control the smell. If your looking for something to lessen your sweat, try an antipersperent. These help for the sweat not the smell so it should help. Also, try to look for an antipersperent in the guys department, but try to get one with out a fregrance, that way you don't smell like a guy :). Hope it helps.
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im too shy to ask a girl out what always happens is that i have my eye on one but i can't get the nerve to ask her out then some other guy takes her what do i do (link)
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Your time will come when you are comfortable around girls. For the meantime, just try to talk to the girls, even if it's just "friend" talk. If there is a specific girl you have your eye on, you should try to tell her how you feel. Until then, work on your friendship.
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WHAT DOES idk STAND 4 (link)
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I don't know is what it stands for.
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i can't kiss my boyfriend. i said i wanted to and he said he wanted to and we do but we're both too shy. what do i do???? (link)
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Go for it girl!! If you don't have enough courage to just do it, (not that that is a bad thing) then talk to him about it and convince him. Either way good luck.
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