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I live in Ohio, and when I grauate from high school and college, I hope to get into the Medical field. I plan on joining the Air Force after graduation! I'm here for anyone who needs advice or needs help with anything. I'm an understanding person and a great listenerIf you need anything and you want to ask me personally you can email me or just sent me a message to my advicenators inbox.
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Hi there(: first off my Favorite show ever is little house on the praire and im 14 years old. I have seen all of them and ive started renting them again to watch them over. I really love that sort of show and I think Albert is sooo cute and willie etc. But the thing is, is that this show as you know is from the 70's and 80's and I feel weird that im like the only teen of this generation that watches this show and also thinks that albert is cute etc. haha Do you think I am cuz i always feel weird because I love older stuff and wish i grew up in the 80's. I would just like it if I knew other teens that shared my intrests. Thanks for helping(: :)
To be honest I love that show and i'm 14 too I just like the style of it and how the people acted back then. I wish our schools were like they were back then because they only did 1 subject per day and it only lasted for 2.5 hours. dont worry your not the only 1 that likes those kinda shows. when you rate can you please tell me what other shows you like. it would be pretty funny if we liked the same shows.
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I need to answer the following questions on this piece of art:
What was the purpose of the painting/sculpture? symbols? religious significance?
Who painted it?
were can it be found and / or who commissioned it?
why is it special or important?
copy and paste this web address into your web browser
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_School_of_Athens
this will tell you every thing you need to know.
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i'm in the 11th grade, when I'm at school I don't feel like I'm good enough, I feel like everyone is staring and talking about me in a bad way. I keep to myself to avoid being judged and to avoid my business getting around, I'm extremely quiet, I'm constantly getting asked "why don't you ever talk?" I'm only like this at school, there's 40 people in all my classes if I'm talking to one person I don't like the other 39 being able to hear what I'm saying.extremely self cautious about the way I look, even though people tell me that I'm really pretty, I feel like all the people around me are prettier which makes me feel ugly I'm self cautious about my smile I've always had problems with my teeth, my mom had it fixed but I still feel like my teeth are ugly because I lived with that problem so long so I avoid smiling also. People are always asking "are you okay?" when I'm at school is when I think about all my insecurities and no matter how hard I try to be social and happy it just doesn't work for me. Some girl in my grade asked if I was okay when I responded with yeah her response was oh because you look like one of those people who will just snap oneday and shoot up the whole school. I really took this offensively but instead of being rude to her I nicely said "i would never do that!" her response was "you never know it's always the quiet ones." why does it bother people so much that I'm quiet? When people talk to me I talk back, but nobody tries to talk to me they just ask why I'm quiet without putting in any effort to talk to me. Why can't people just except me for how I am? Why does it bother people that 1 person is quiet out of the thousands that go to my school.
Thats a really good question... Just be yourself and if more people ask just say what you feel and tell them I don't talk because nobody is talking to me of there is nothing to talk about. Dont feel like your not pretty cuz you probably are. Dont doubt yourself. Its not good for your self esteem. Try to talk more. If there is someone that looks lonely or don't not have anyone to talk to try getting to know him/her and maybe you guys will become great friends.
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Hi. I'm 13/f.
So there's a girl @ my school that I don't really talk to unless she talks to me and I think she's hitting on me.
I'm a girl and she's a girl. I think she's lesbian or whatever but I like guys 100%. We were doing this thing at school where we needed to bring in lipstick and she was asking me to put hers on yesterday. She was looking at me the whole time but I didn't notice (I did NOT know she was lesbian yesterday) and today I felt really dizzy and we were outside playing kickball AGAIN and I just felt like walking and reading my book "out of my mind" by Sharon M. Draper. (because beleive it or not it actually helped with my dizzyness.) so I laid down in the grass and 2 seconds later I heard her say, "well if you want to play it that way..." and I heard her lay down beside me like 2 feet away from me and she was looking at me the whole time again. Coach made us stand up right away, so nothing else happened.
Was she hitting on me? I don't know but I'm really freaked out about this and if she was, how do I tell her that I don't like girls?
Thanks for any answers in advance!!!
sounds to me that she is but you never know maybe she just wants to be friends. You have to give her a chance well the friend part because you really don't don't know her until you talk to her and get to know her better.
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Hope you make the right decision
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I'm 11 and my babysitter is touching me wrong.He's 16 and he babysits me everyday after school. When I finish homework and watch tv he makes me sit on his lap and he puts his hands up my shirt.I say stop,but he says its okay and to just come down.Sometimes he even puts his hands down my pants.I know what he is doing is wrong and I want to tell my parents,but I'm to scared what do I do?
Go to someone RIGHT NOW.. That is just not right and that is abuse against another child and something CAN be done. Got to an adult right this minute and tell them don't wait another minute. Please go help yourself.
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Hey Im 16 and a senior in highschool. I met this guy in an interschool competition. He's the same age but is a senior in some other school. We started talking after the competition and became good friends. We have gone out on three dates till now. And yeah, we have kissed each other and made out a little. We cannot resist each other at all. And hence the makeouts were a mutual desicion. I am falling for him. But the problem is that even though he says he is falling for me, he keeps on telling me he cannot date me cause he's a bad guy and he cares for me too too much to hurt me. He says he is not one of those dateable guys who will love their girl completely and he might find a new girl and dump me.That would hurt me and he doesnt want to do that! He hasnt had a past record of cheating or anything it's just that he tells me he wants to be sure before he asks a girl out that he will be completely loyal to her and not flirt around with other girls. He also liked this girl a year back and he says he feels guilty that he got over her and fell for me! But when we meet we actually act like we are dating, cause he gets me stuff, he tells me he loves me, we hold hands. we actually act like a couple in love. we also talk all the time. I dont know what to do. Because I really want to be with him. But cant figure out how to make him ask me out? and if he is really a bad guy? HELP.
It seems to me that he is a loyal guy and very trustworthy. When you say that he felt guilty for getting over that 1 girl and fell for you maybe he is just saying that she wast for him but yet he still has feelings for her.. Believe what you want to believe, but you also have to listen to him. What I am trying to say by this is when he says the he is not one of those datable guys maybe he means it. You are both seniors but yet in different schools and it is very nice that you get to spend time with each other because of your schooling. What I would do is sit down with him and tell him how you feel and say what is really on your mind and deep down in your heart. What really does not make sense to me is were you said quote "He says he is not one of those datable guys who will love their girl completely and he might find a new girl and dump me" well if he is not one of those datable guys why would he leave you and go to another girl. You seem that you have lots of feelings for him but to me that 1 line says that he does not feel the same way for you. Maybe he wants to be with you but does not know how to tell you and just says stuff that he does not mean. Like I said before when you to have the chance you should sit down with each other and ask him hat he thinks and tell him what is on your mind and in your heart.
Hope I helped
Hope you to find the good in each other and wishing you the best.
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P.S. If you need anything else you can always come to me.
ok i wont to give a gift to some one and i dont know what any ideas ?
Try to see what they are into. Gifts tell them that you really care for them and if you buy a gift that does not match there personality isn't good because they most likely will not use it, play with it etc.. Try to get to know that person better and hopefully it will give you a really good idea. Or what you could simply do is ask them what they like or are interested in.
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Are any of these people mildly interesting to someone who isn't a science geek? We have to pick one for a project and I have no clue who any of these people are
Ruth Benerito
Joan Berkowitz
Hazel Bishop
Emma Perry Carr
Pamela Clark
Marie Curie
Rosalind Franklin
Gertrude Belle Elion
Alice Hamilton
Darleane Hoffman
Shannon Lucid
Gerty Theresa Cori
Stephanie Kwolek
Janet Marcet
Marie Meurdrac
Rosalyn Yalow
Dorothy Crowfoot Hodgkin
Diane D. Gates-Anderson
John Dalton
Humphrey Davy
Irene Curie-Joloit
Henri Becquerel
Robert Boyle
S. Cannizzaro
Jacque Charles
Neils Bohr
J.J. Thompson
Henry Moseley J. Berzelius
W. Roentgen
J. Robert Oppenheimer
L. Meitner
G. N. Lewis
F. Aston
Joseph Priestly
Michael Faraday
J. Proust
E. Rutherford
A. Avogadro
Paracelsus
Robert Bunsen
Fritz Haber
D. Mendeleev
Fritz Wohler
E. Torricelli
Linus Pauling
Leslie Groves
Arrhenius
LeChatelier
F. Werner
I heard of Michael Faraday, Humphrey Davy and Marie Curie. I literally just read about bot of them. If I had to pic which 1 I likes the best it would be Michael Faraday. He always had tons of questions he also loved to read and later became a apprentice in a bookbinder shop. One day he went to a auditorium and heard a speech composed by Sir Humphrey Davy himself. HE wrote down all the notes he could and then later on he sent his notes to him and then he went on to become a scientist. Have you ever heard of Daniel Hale Williams. He was a African American and was the first person to ever preform Open Heart Surgery on a patient that had a stab wound to the chest. He also was the person to open the doors of Province Hospital. This hospital was open to any race and trained nurses and doctors of any race because back then hospitals would not have people that are not white walk into there hospital. Which I thought was not nice at all because every race has the right to have the same exact treatment as white people did.
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I was saving myself untill marriage to have sex which I thought just meant penetration of penis in vagina. I didn't really know about anything else cause I wanted it to be a surprise for me.
Please dont laugh at my agge. I'm in my early 20s. I've only had one boyfriend but he never did anything to me apart from kissing & outside foreplay, which I was fine with.
I was at a temporary job, my supervisor who is 45 liked me & I started to like him back. My parents were against it from the start. So I stayed with my friend for a while & met up with him sometimes. I stayed at his house one night & he knew I wanted to be a virgin untill marriage. But he asked to finger me. I didn't really know what it was so I asked him will I still be a virgin & he said yes. I said ok & let him, then I started bleeding & he said its ok, its only foreplay.
My friend asked my how it went & I told her what happened and she said I'm not a virgin anymore because of the fingering. We didn't have actual sex.
The guy said when he was at school fingering was foreplay & he didn't know.
Then a few months later anotherr guy did it me but this time I quickly pulled his finger out.
Now I feel sick & disgusting cause I embarrased my family. I cant even look at them without feeling disgusted in what I did.
The bleeding doesn't help. I got over the first guy & thought I could carry on into another relationship but this guy tried/did the same thing.
I don't think I am a virgin anymore cause of this & now I feel hurt & used. I feel sick all the time cause I know this will be with me forever.
I disappointed my dead grandparents on both sides & all of my family. I just dont know what to do because I can't change this. Sometimes I feel normal & sometimes I don't.
I think fingering is losing virginity. So girls, please take my advice & NEVER let a guy finger you. Now I feel like I'm going to be a slut on my wedding night. I've always been a good person & I just dom't understand why this happened. I was weak in saying no. How do I get the courage to say no next time?
Well I just want to say that you still are a virgin because you didn't preform any type of intercourse so don't worry. I know that you wanted to wait to do that till you were married but minds do change. It is totally up to you what you want to do next time. If you want him to then go right ahead but just remember its your choice and he cant pressure into doing something that you don't want to do. Another thing to remember is no matter how many people do that to you, you are still going to be a virgin until you have sex.
Hope I helped.
Wishing you the best.
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Is 5'7 tall for a girl?
You are fine. I'm 5'7 and im 14 I always was like I'm to tall or when I'm by somebody tall im like im to short so basically what I am trying to say you are at a normal height.
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I have always seemed to come across to people as hard faced-fiesty , but deep down I'm just a big softy , and no one gets to know that side of me because they see me and think I'm someone different- but they don't know the childhood I went through- is there anyway I can change this?
I totally agree with AdviceMistress they have a really good point. Try opening up more or if there is someone that looks lonely or so just go up and talk to them and maybe they will introduce you to there friends. Dont worry even thought there are alot off people out there that do not listen well of just decide to not get to know the best of you there are some people like me that will try and hopefully get to know other people. You should never be alone and you should always have some friends. Try making new friends.
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i have a self esteem ,self image problem .i know it effects everyone and everthing in my life but do not know how to fix it.i take evrything said the wrong way and respond the wrong way. i dont trust anyone.i gained weight because someone called me a skinny bitch a few times and over heard a women tell another that they should watch their husbands around me.now 10 years later i am 50 lbs over weight,have now friends,no job,no life.i went to see a counciler and she basically said until i want to change she cant help me, somehow i think that was what i was paying her for?maybe i am just ment to be this sad pitiful person that i am
Don't be sad be happy. You have your own opinion of things which is a good things. You should have a good self esteem and a good self image. Dont listen to what other people say or think about you. If you like yourself just the way you are then stay the way you are. If you think you skinny eat more than you use to, but if you think you are more that skinny that try dieting or just simply watch what you eat and what your intake is. I'm just trying to help you by saying that. Be happy with yourself and don't worry. Everything will be fine later on down the road. I don't know what it feels like without a job because im only 14 but try pursuing something whit your interests. If you like painting try finding a painting job. If you like people try going into the medical field. If you like babies try working at a daycare. There are alot of options out there for you, but it all depends on what your interests are.
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Hope you get your self esteem back to its normal self.
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I was just playing with one of my neighbor's daughters and she wanted to go around in circles over and over again like ring around the rosy, so i played with her because she really liked it and then when we stopped i was very very dizzy. so i want to know how can i get rid of dizzyness without and medication or anything like that?
Thanks for any answers in advance!!!
Hello really the only way you can stop the dizziness besides taking any medication is to lay down and put a cold wash cloth on your forehead. You may fall asleep and yes that will help to. Sometime dizziness turns into migraines.
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I'm a girl and almost 13 and I've started my period, I accidentally fingered myself and it kinda hurt (don't ask, it's a long story) but can someone please tell me... I don't know what's going to happen. I've looked everywhere for advice and now I'm really embarrassed and scared... Am I going to get... You know what... Pre.....?
LostAngel is right. Don't worry you will not get pregnant. There is no need to worry. You just simple what to get to know your body more. Doing that in my oppinion is kinda starting to become mature. Once you know your body more you will be more confident of happy and you will start to wonder about many other things.
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Hi I am 13 and I am not emo, but i do write all over myself. I think that it is a good way to express myself, but my mom/dad says that it is not good to do that and it is a sickness! When I write on myself it is not out of depression or anger it is just to do it. But when my parents say that it is a sickness it makes me feel like i am not normal. I know that I am normal but some part of me says that im not.
I hope that you can help me out. Thnx :)
I think that maybe your parents are scared that you might get the ink inside of your body which could harm you. If you like to right on yourself only because it is an expression, I believe that that is OK but sometimes it is good to listen to your parents. They are there to help you in any way that they possibly can. Try writing poems or songs. It will calm you down because usual you write what you are feeling. If you like try drawing. Try a craft. do origami. Anything will help you well if you decide to to writing on yourself. I'm not trying to say that it is not right to write on yourself I'm just saying that there are other ways to express you emotions. Please don't doubt yourself. I know that it can sometimes be a bad feeling but it will get better. Trust me.
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Hope you find another way to express yourself.
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im havin a hard time in my life and the only way i see out is to kill myself no one listins to me im unhappy the people around me make me happy but thats just not enof i need to talk i heard if u talk about ur feelins they go away but no one listins to me i cut myself because it takes away the pain but only for a little while in 16 and nothing to show for my life so far if you where to ask anyone who know me to name one thing in good at they wouldnt replay because they know and so do i im a failure i know it every one knows it
Hello I just want to say that you have alot going on in your life and its not time to end it now. Please dont. There are people in this world that really do love you. You may not think that there are people that listen to you but they are there. You may just not realize it. You have alot of good things to come. I dont know when but everyone has something good to come. If there is someone just 1 person that you can trust I say go to that 1 person and talk to them. I mean id love to help you and I would love to listen to you because I love to listen and help others but I only know you through your question. All I have to say is please dont try that your 16 probably very beautiful, very smart, and alot of other great things like that. If you need to talk to someone I suggest going to your school counsilor and talking to her/him. They will help you because that is what they are there for. I hope you diside the right thing and that is to enjoy your life and be happy.
Just remember there are people out there that love to listen and thay do love you.
Im here for you if you need anything thind else.
Remember stay happy :D
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I want to have a job in the medical field but I can’t be in school too long, not enough money. I was thinking pharmacist or researcher or oncologist or art therapist, is there anything along those lines that can take around 6 years or less to be up and working, done with school and making enough money to pay back/live? I am a senior in high school
Yes there are many choices but it also depends what degree you want to strive for. I suggest going to a community college 1st and see what to do there. If you need help just talk to a school counclor. They should help you.
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who much does it cost if i wanted the top of my ears piearsed at? what stores are the chepest?
Hello well to start off the top of your ear is you cartilage and it depends were you go. I reall dont know your location so I cant really help with that but I have alot of friends that went to Walmart and got it pierced there. If you buy 1 of there earings that are in the case they will do it for free. If you do get it pierced you usually will have to get it on the opposite side that you sleep on well if you sleep on your left side you get it on the right side and if you sleep on your right side you get it on the left. You are not suppose to take it out for about 8 weeks and clean it 2-3 times a day.
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Im really into music so im always looking for more. Im pretty much into stuff like evanescence, lilly allen, atmosphere, the band perry, skrillex, bruno mars, dev, drake, duffy just to name a few. so please post any music that you think i may enjoy and thank you so much for your time.
Wel there is this 1 site that you can listen to all kinds of music and you get to pick it out and that site is last.fm and it is a really good site. I listen to my playlists almost everyday.
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15/f
I've dyed my hair a few times in the past, but I've rarely bleached it. Colour seems to show up very well despite my dark hair. Now I really want to dye it red but I'm worried about bleaching it again. Should I?
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO dont do it 1st of all bleaching your hair is not good so it is better to just color your hair and no it is not the same. Pleaching you hair turns it like a orange color then if you color it red it will be bright and 2 to 1 you will not like it. If I were you I would just color it red and not bleach it. I colored my hair red like 1.5 months ago and im about to color it again.
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