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hey.. do you think its right for your friends to hook you up with a guy you dont even know that well. i was JW cuz i broke up with my BF recently(my "soul mate" i asked you about awhile back) and to make me forget about him, my friends are sendin me on a blind date with some guy i dont know that well. do you think this is fair of them? cuz i tried tellin them that i didnt think it was right, and they were like "Psh..whatever." PLeaze help!! Youve given me great advice in the past, please dont let me down now babiigurl!!
`-*Natalia*-`
Hey, thanks sweetie! But since the whole "soul mate" thing didn't work out,(BTW sorry that it didn't work)it's not a bad idea to look at other guys. But you're right..it's not the best thing to go on a blind date. I mean, it's possible for you two to have a connection after you talked a while, but I've never really like the idea of blind dates. You should be able to forget about him on your own, being you broke up with him. Your friends obviously aren't considering your feelings towards this whole blind date thing. But if you need anything else, drop me one in my inbox! Goodluck girl!:]
hey..um..i was wondering...
Wheres Hawaii at?
HAHA You're funny..well I know NOW that it's not up by Canada :[
Well,me and my best friend hooked up the other day, and now i feel like it was a huge mistake. its so weird, holdin her hand and everything. she just comes across different, now that shes Katie my GIRLFRIEND, and not Katie my best friend. But i dont wanna break her heart. Whats the best way to break up with her, but still keep my best friend? thanks..i like readin your stuff.You give good advice.
Aww thanks! Well ok, I was in the situation before, so I know it's not the easiest thing! Tell her you see her more as a best friend than you do a girlfriend. Although she might not take it the best way, hopefully she'll understand! It will be hard on her, unless she feels the same way you do about this whole thing. There's no way to be 100% sure she will stay your best friend though, Goodluck!!:]
ok yesterday i wore a long sleve shirt to school and forgot to put deoderant on(whoops) i by acident reached up and he saw my sweaty arm pits i was and still am so imbarrased!! I dont want him to like break up with me or anything b/c of them..would u do that to ur girl friend or boy friend??????
Although that's a bit gross..no I wouldn't break up with my b/f for that reason..that's just dumb. If he breaks up with you over that, then he wasn't worth it! Hope I helped!
What are some things I can do to make a girl like me more... and also how do I tell a girl that I like her? I mean, I really want to tell her, but I'm too shy..
Please answer this question, I really need to know ASAP!
Wow, well first off..you can't MAKE a girl like you more. You can flirt a lil& be more spontaneous, but that doesn't guaruntee anything. Tell her she DOES know this girl, very well. If you don't like her friend then don't worry about that! Hope I helped!
he makes hearts all the time, smiles at me and is nicer to me than usual. i like him but i dont know if he likes me. van anyone helkp / i give 5s for all attempts. thnx.
**prill-z**
Seems like he likes ya! Flirt back, drop hints you like him. Have fun!:]
dear babii gurl thanx for the advice but me meghan and mirandaand jessie are not as close as u probably think well ne way on saturday meghan is having a birthday wat should i get her and wut should i do to get meghan jessie and miranda's attention so theyll hangout with me
You're very welcome hun!..Well it's kinda hard to understand how close you girls really are, being this is simply an advice column so you can't give full detail. I don't know ANYTHING she's into..I don't know how old she is or anything. As for getting their attention..just ask them what their plans are..I'm sorry I can't help you with what you need, try being more specific about things next time, ok? :]
This school year, I've noticed that nearly all my friends are boys. I've never really got on with boys before but nowadays I'm always hanging out with them. Is there something wrong with that? I do have friends who are female but I find I relate to boys better.
13/f
I have a lot of guy friends as well, there's nothing wrong with you at all! Some girls tend to relate better with guys, it happens!:]
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ahahaha Short Shit #1 I love you morrreeee!& cCongrats..although unfortuneately I have no prize for you..sorry!
dear babii gurl thanx for the advice but im very shy how could i not be so shy to ask meghan miranda or jessie if they wanna hang out
If they are your best friends..and you have known them for so long, it shouldn't be too hard! If they get online, just be like *hey what are your plans for this weekend* and if they don't have any be like *would you want to go hang out at the mall or see a movie?* If you call them or vice versa, just bring the same thing up..their plans for that weekend..Hope I helped!
-Amber
hey, what do you think is the youngest you can fall completely and madly in love?? cuz im only 13 but i think i found my soul mate!! give me your thoughts thanx!!
-*Natalia*-
Aww! There is no age on love. It's very rare at your age, but it IS possible. I hear people saying all the time "You're too young to be in love", don't listen to that, it can come at anytime..within reason of course! :] Congrats if he's really the one!
-Amber
how do you get rid of back cramps when your in your period???
You can take advil or any type of pain reliever..that's all I do& it works most times! Goodluck:]
No.. Trust me. You are so much hotter than me :P
The hottie Im thinkin of is much hotter than the hotties youre thinkin of ;)
I wearing parts of a Wonder Woman costume..the skirt with the whip.so..uh..when are you coming over? ;)
Hey um, like, its like cold in here. like, um, what do i like, do?
~*Hi5*~
~*Whos first?*~
~*TOOT TOOT*~
"Liar liar plats for hire".."It's pants on fire PATRICK!"..."You should know...LIAR!"
You dork, don't forget..having a cape on does NOT give you the ability to fly..I learned the hard way :[ No not really, but that would be fricken hilarious now wouldn't it?!
Maybe you should like.. try those like AWESOME inventions they like, made awhile back! I think they are called like..BLANKETS!
*What, are you gunna **** me?*
-->Calling Pally Ho!!
I have this boyfriend, he's a great guy and everything but hes REALLY shy. He hasn't held my hand or anything. I know he likes me a lot and I also like him a lot. His shyness is hard to deal with because I am completely opposite. All of his friends have told him that he needs to be less shy and I told him there is no reason to be shy around me because I'm not going to get mad at him or anything but he is still shy! Its killing me!! What to do?! Thanks for the help!!! Have a nice day! :D
When the two of you are walking together..grab his hand..not all guys make the first move ya know;] It's always alot harder for someone to become less shy once they are told to be more outgoing. I know from experience. Since talking about it didn't help at all, just be the one making the moves! Goodluck hun:] -Amber
Oh trust me, Im..not a major hottie. but i know someone who is ;)
What are you wearing?
you crack me up, too!! muh holla
~*someones coming*~
Oh yea, I'm sure you're a hottie! Well I know a major hottie as well! A few actually.. I'm wearing hmm..a cute new thing called CLOTHES! Too bad, eh? What are YOU wearing?? HAHA
*Muh-holla! Hi5*
....WOOSH! *Whatta loser*
My name's Bubba. MmMmMmMmMmM..you sound hot.
LMAO I love you, too!!
Oh trust me, I am a major hottie, and yourself? HAHA You crack me up:]
Alright, I'm a 13 year old female, in the 8th grade. There's this guy I really like... he's smart, gets way good grades (like the only guy I've liked who gets better grades, haha) athletic, nice, popular. I could go on, but let me get to the point. I've liked him for about 2 months now, and I keep thinking he likes me. I've heard 2 people say he does. So a few days ago, lots of my friends found out, since we were playing truth or dare, and everyone was like "Aww, how sweet you like so-and-so." And most of them seemed to think that he likes me too, but I'm not really sure anymore. Today at school one of my friends who found out totally wanted to tell him I liked him, and then I saw her go over and talk to him... She said that she had asked if he liked me, and he said yes. I was like, in a sarcastic way, right? But she said no that he was serious. I find that hard to believe though. So then she said he should ask me out and he's like, why, so I can face rejection again? And my friend was all, well maybe. Ugh I was sorta mad cuz she pretty much made it obvious I like him. I'm just wondering what I should do.. should I tell him I like him or what?!! I'm just worried that if I do he won't like me back and then things will be weird between us. And if he does like me, and we decide to go out.. well that worries me a little bit too because I heard that he's sort of perverted, he just doesn't show it as much as other guys. And the only thing I've ever done is hug guys. I'm willing to go as far as kissing/making out but I think my parents would freak if they found out. Arrgh.. please help! Sorry it's so long.
I think you should go for it girl! Flirt iwth him& make it obvious you like him. If he doesn't like you back..just play it off like nothing happened, that way it won't be too awkward!If you two DO hook up, don't worry too much, if he tries anything you don't want, just tell him you don't want to& I'm sure he'll understand! As for the kissing/making out..I honestly don't think it's a big deal b/c eventually you are gunna kiss guys..and your parnets are going to have to accept it at some point in time! Goodluck& I hope things work out grrreat:]
MmMmMmMmMmMmM...whats YOUR name? ;)
Haha heyy! mmm..my name's Robert, what's YOUR name? LMAO I love you!
-Amber
dear baby gurl i am very confused about my friend ship im 12 years old and attend chichester middle school .as you probably know as you get older you will wonder who your friends are and who your enimies are help me out.there is these three girls i have been friends with since kindergarden ,meghan ,miranda and jessie . meghan just slept over recently , any way she s always talking to me when im alone and she makes me feel like im am loved shes a very good friend and has a great personality.jessie is very sweet and is best friends with miranda (sometimes all three of them are best friends),but she dosent really talk to me when miranda is around .miranda oh boy she is very out going very pretty and dosent care what anyone thinks shes always herself me and miranda used to be very close, there was actually a time when we were best friends.im very shy and dont know how to tell them i would sometime like to hangout with them miranda and jessie have boyfriends so jessie is always sayin that her miranda ,vince and taylor are a group ,but they include meghan of course.i dont quite bond with them like i used to but they always say they love me (as a freind)and that their my friends how could i know for sure ?they never call me or invite me out to like the movies or ecx.im always scared to talk to miranda but not to jessie or meghan .meghan is so nice i can talk to her about boys and broken hearts she always comforts me. how could i get more involved so that theyll always want to talk to me. please write back always chelsea a ps. miranda is very popular and always has opinions that why im scared to talk to her ill never know if she'll say something negitive about me, please help
I know exactly what you mean. Unfortunately it's kinda hard to keep a group of 4 girls best friends for that long! Different people act different around other people, and one-on-one! Some friends get along better one-on-one, kinda like how I'm assuming you& Meghan are! But to hang out more..how about you invite them places..whether it be individually, like you& one of the girls..or all 4 of you! Ask them if they wanna go to the movies or hang out up at the mall or somethin! I wouldn't consider any of those girls enemies unless they have done somethin to you that made them deserve that name though! Hope I helped ya! -Amber
i have a crush on this girl..Chrissy..... she knows i like her but i am too shy to talk to her and ask her out... does anyone have any advice for me to get over it and talk to her or give me something to say to her to start a convo.... please help me out ... thanks -
Even though some people consider this the wimpy way of asking a girl out, write her a note. If she likes you back..ask her out in a note if you are too shy to do it in person. Yea, it is a whole lot better in person, but if you absolutely CAN'T do that then do the second best thing..either a note or a friend. :]