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doesnt neone have any fun sites to go on wen ur bored??

www.bored.com
that place has so many websites that can occupy you.

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ima 14/f, this guy *Nathan i liked smokes weed.. he didnt really notice me, so i started smokin weed with all the people he hung around with. Now, im kinda like addicted to weed. I got Nathan, and im in love with him... but he wants to have sex, im scared that if i dont he'll break up with me. but i can't tell my dad any of this, so he can help me cuz he would like flip out on me. what should i doo, please im really scared, and i really wanna stop smokin and go back to the old me, but than nathan wont like me!! just please someone help me!!

signed, scared n wants to stop!

STOP SMOKING!!!! NO guy is worth risking all of that! If you dont want to do it, then tell him you dont! And quit hanging out with all those people that smoke weed. If Nathan REALLY cares about you, then it wont make a difference if you smoke weed or not, or if you want to wait a while for sex. And if you still cant stop smoking weed then your going to need to get some professional help...

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i have this best friend and i like him alot but he doesnt like me and like everytime he does something and i get mad he says something real sweet and i wanna like him more and like he doesnt wanna go with me cuz he doesnt like me im so love struck what do i do???

uhmm id say stick with it for a while, just dont give up. Be really flirty with him and like touch his hands or something, and who knos maybe you'll leave an impression on him and he'll start to like you. But if nothing happens after a while, theres probably not a great chance of anything ever happening, and itd be time to let it go.

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OK, so I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for about 7 months. The thing is.. Ive never met him b4. He lives in the same state and everything. But we live like an hour away from each other :(. I mean we could probably meet some how but i dunno. we hardly ever talk too. I havent talked to him in 2 weeks, partially because i was away but he still hasn't called either. He knows im home. I jus wanna kno if I should stick with the relationship or just be friends. I love him with all my heart. I am just really confused right now :(. Please Help!

wow..7 months and you guys haven't met. I think you should just break it off, i mean if you never talk, and never have even met, and you live an hour away from each other, it would most likely be better apart. Because then you can start focusing on guys that live by you. Its not like you and your boyfriend can do anything often cuz you live so far apart, and if you havent talked to him in 2 weeks, thats like not good at all.

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theres this boy i love nd wen we broke up we didnt tal as much liike we really care for eachother the break up wasnt supposed to happen ndw e really like eachotther nd hed tell me hed call me bac but he wouldnt he would wait like a month nd i kno its kinda stupid but should i call him .. or not
help even thought its stupid ..

of course call him! if your missing him then you call him! He's probably just as scared/nervous as you are, and afraid of you not wanting him anymore. Just call him, its worth a shot

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hey its me agen! thanks for my last question u guyz helped me lots! evry1 of u!! haha my sn is blondebaby3249 if u wanna IM me! ok heres my new question...
last year i had 3 real bestfriends i mean we were like TOTALLY the bestest friends now this summer its like... rite in the beginning these 2 girls hate me now they call me a slut and stuff when ive nevr had sex and stuff! and they say i wear too much eye makeup(which i dont) and i dress slutty! so ive tryed to not put as much eye makeup on but then this one girl outta the group is like i dont care what u say im not gonna be frinds with u agen! and im like ok bitch! and were in this huge fight and then the last girl outta our 4 is like my neighbor so we gotta be friends... but that one girl is like saying shes gona make my life miserable and stuff and im totally confuzed! PLEZE HELP ME!!!

okay, all those girls sound like HUGE bi*ches, except your neighbor if shes still your friend. I say ask them what is up and what you couldve done to make them say all that crap, and if they dont give you a real answer, or if they just go ahead and be immature about it, then distance yourself from them for a while and hang out with other people. After a while they'll get over it.

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ok i have a friend who lives across the country. well he keeps tellin me he likes me and today hes like, wut if i called my g/f up and broke up with her and asked u out? well long distance relationships dont do anything for me. anyways he keeps askin me out(which is really dumb) and stuff like that. then he was saying i love u and when he was getting off he said i love you like a sis. i dont get it! he wants to go out with me but loves me like a sister! i dont really care about relationships, im only 13 and sos he but i mean come on. wut should i say to him or do to just make him realize wut hes saying. we have been friends ever since we were born and i dont want to ever lose him as a friend and i do like him he is just driving me insane. will someone pls help?

tell him all of that stuff! that long distance relationships dont do anything, you dont want to loose him as a friend, and you dont htink it would work out between you two, and that your only 13 so it would be too hard right now to try and deal with a long distance relationship

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ok its me!me and my boyfriend are really really strong we both love eachother very much! except theres a couple other guyz that i think are major hot there are 3 other ones... brent, karl, and jake.. they are totally hot!! and i had a dream about jake.. me and karl are like totally real good friends and brent and me are good friends 2 .. and they all think im hot 2!! but i dont kno what to do cuz ive broken up with brooks once and we just got back together the next day cuz i was dying without him!i really like jake and karl the most but idk what to do!! HELP ME PLEZE

i think that you should end it with your boyfriend, because you`re obviously confused, and its not fair to your boyfriend if he`s made a commitment to you but you like 3 other guys. So first you should break it off with your boyfriend, and then see what happens between you and any of the other guys.

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ok heres the deal sorry if it's kinda longg..

well my boyfriend one day got into a fight and i was so like depressed nd shit that i cut myself and yeah but then we got the fight resolved, and like we went out for a week after skool ended and then he dumped me cuz he felt guilty for being my boyfriend and not being able to see me..and he went out with this grl nikki from his camp, then after that we got back together and then after like 2 weeks he dumped me again same reason diff. girl her name is lauren (also goes to his camp) then dumped lauren and went for another grl katilin who came to vist from maryland for a week and then dumped her and now were going out... notice the pattern and i think he does love me on some extent but he also has to be with other girls oh and b4 katilin i went to bahamas for a week and didnt have fone service so i didnt get 2 talk to him and my bff told me that while i was gone he hit on her and told her he loved her nd everything and also now wen were going out he still sometimes tells her that even though shes not interested and like he told me that during the yr. he has to dump me and go out with this gurl nicole to help her make her ex boyfriend jealouse cuz he cheated on her but she likes my boyfriend (whos name is charlie by the way)!! ?? help!!!!!!!!! is he just desparate?? lost intrest?? cheating?? does he really love me??? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! or

uhmmm he sounds like a player that always needs a girlfriend. id say dont give him a chance anymore, because it sounds like he goes back to you everytime he's threw with someone. Either that or talk to him say i dont like where this is going, why are you doing the stuff your doing and do you like me or not becuz im sick of you breaking up with me everytime we go out. or something like that..

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Ok well theres a fair in town.ive been goin every nite. Well Neways. Theres this really hot guy that works at the ferris wheel. Whenever im theres hes always staring at me n smiling and talkin to me does he like me?. I wanna tell him that i like him n stuff but i dont wanna sound stupid. Thing is hes also older i heard him talking to his friends and he said he doesnt mind dating younger girls. What should i Do?
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well do you even kno him?? if you don't then just start making small talk with him...ask him if he lives nearby and stuff, and every time you walk by, make sure he knos that you walked by. Just make him notice you alot, and maybe he'll do something like ask you if you wanna do something. Better yet, If someone else works at the ferris wheel with him, ask the guy that you like if he wants to ride with you. and on the ride just ask him like if he has a girlfriend or what kinda girls hes into or something and take it from there.

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when i mean't plain hair i mean like no hair styles like i have hylights and layered but what i mean't was when i said like different hair styles i mean't like curls or something like that

With layers, you can curl them in or flip them out. you cann wear like braided pig tails, you can do low pig tails. You can twist it, or get like half of it corn rowed. Crimpin takes a long time so you could like crimp it and put it half way up, or all the way up. You can do like a Pony tail n then mess it up and make it into a messy bun. You could scrunch it n make it curly, which doesn't takea long time. You can wear it just down straight with a few spirely curls. teres lots you can do.

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i typed at the end of my answer...

its something with < followed by 3. that always screws me up when i copy and paste stuff on AIM. try x3 thats what i do now

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uMm...i saw my friend make a move on my bf..what do i do ?

umm talk to her about it definitly but just dont yell at least not right away becuz then that will just make her mad and shell not want to talk to you. and if she tries to deny it then tell her you saw her..but before you talk to her, ask your boyfriend about it and ask him what he thought she was doing, becuz if you were from a distance, depending on what she did she could have meant something completley different

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okay i have this guy friend and see i dont know if i like him because i havnt seen him in a while and he gave me a hug today and i liked it and then he told me he got a girlfriend and i got mad does that mean i like him?

yea im thinking so

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This question has to do with my boyfriend again. We've only been dating for 4 days, but have known each other for about a month. We talk even before we were dating every night for like 3 hours on the phone. So far, he treats me so great and I dont have any reason not to trust him. Let me add now that he is friends with my father and alot of my Dads friends. Well, he sometimes talks about marriage, which scares me a bit, but I honestly could see myself marrying him. Anyway, to get to the point, I was told tonight by 2 different people, my ex boyfriend and my best friends sister that I hate & she hates me, that my boyfriend has probably already cheated on me & that I need to keep an eye on him beacause he likes to cheat. Im really scared because, what if they are right. But considering the people that told me I dont know if I should believe them. I really like this guy am Im scared that if I say anything about what I heard that he will be pissed at me. What should I do? Should I say something to him & if so, what? Please let me know ASAP, I need to figure this out before he calls me later on tonight!!!

umm im guessing by the two people who told you, its probably not true. Either they are in it together to try and get you two to break up so that either she can have that guy or your ex boyfriend can have you. Or else your sisters best friend just hates you and wants you mad, and your ex boyfriend is jealous. One of those things is what im thinking is going on, but however dont forget about what they said...next time you talk to him be like "have you ever cheated on anybody tell me the truth" and see what he says, and if he has cheated on someone then you need to be really careful!

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Do guys like to be kissed with or without lip gloss? Wouldn't that be gooey and slippery? How can you tell if your lip gloss will taste good to him?

i kno from my experience none have liked lip gloss...try like just chapstick, becuz you can get that & it makes yer lips relly soft and its not like gooey and too unusual for the guy

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My hair is too plain and i am going back to school soon and i want something different then just in a pony tail does any body have step by step hair tips to give me a better look?
i am desperate!!!!

Do you mean plain like i-dont-have-any-hairstyles-plain or plain like my-hair-is-too-boring plain.

if its i-dont-have-any-hairstyles-plain then try and vairy it. LIke scrunch it one day, but then wear it straight the next day, and the like half up and crimped the next day, and then like french braids the next day, n then like twisties the next day, lol theres lot to tmake your hair completely different each day..

but if you mean my-hair-is-too-boring plain then you should before school starts go get high lights in it, and get it cut or get like bangs or something

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Ok my b/f j/ dumped me cuz hes older and he said he'd feel like a fuck up if he took my Virginity...but he still talks 2 me and calls me baby and tells me he luvs me and misses me but do u think hes being honest or j/ sayin that so he doesnt hurt my feelings please help!!! im so confused thanx

Well yea i think that he is being honest, because most guys wouldnt care whose virginity they took they just want it. Maybe after a while he'll realize that he really does like you still and you'll go back out, but if you really like this guy then try hanging out to him and keep making him like you, at least for a while or something.

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In the 3rd grade i used to always hand out wit this boy and i liked him to death. he liked me 2 this might sound childish but plz listen, he moved nad i did see him again until a few weeks ago.And i walked past him and he said hi gloria (my mom) and to me he said..."uhhhhhhh what is ur name"!! I was sooooooo mad! what the heck is goin in?

well he probably just forgot. Next time you see him be like hey remember when.... and keep bringing back old things and how much fun you two had together

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Well theres also another website that i sometimes go to.. which is http://www.vex.net/~x/xfade/index.shtml
thats basically the same thing as that other website, but then you can also go to www.aimutation.com and download this thing that goes for AIM. I have that, it works REALLY good i love it. But you haveta make sure to download one of the later versions of AIM for it to work. I don't remember where to go to get that version, but if you check in their guestbook thingy and go down a ways someone left the site on it so you can go get that version. its like AIM 5.2 something

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