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I like this girl and i think she likes me she gives me clues that she does but im not 100% sure I like her but i have a g/f and i dont want to make it obvoiuouse that its me who wants to know if she likes me how do i find out if she likes me without her knowing i want to know?? (link)
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Hey! Ask her would be the best thing to do. You have a girlfrirnd, so why are you thinking about going out with another girl... ???
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This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex? (link)
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Your a little young, but make sure you can handel the responsablities if the condome breaks...
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Ok..I like this kid jonathan..we went out but like practically just broke up.My friend likes him now and i know it but she wont tell me..she keeps beating around the bush!The thing is she starts to like everyboy i liked,matt,sayon,peter,the list goes on..but now its jonathan..im not letting her do it this time.but i dont know what to do should i stop being friends with her or just tell her to step off jonathan what should i do?! (link)
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Why don't you like the fact that she likes the people you like? You should ask her seriouly why she likes these people so much. Be nice about it, but yea you can tell her to back off a little bit, but don't be snotty about it, be nice about it. :-)
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My friend and i were pretty close and then we got into this big fight. We made up a week later. Could we still be as close as we used to be??
xox cara (link)
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Hey Cara!! Yea you can still be as close as you all use to be! As long as you all made up, and are relaly happy!
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ok so i went out with this kid Sean, and things started to get weird so i broke up with him, then i was starting to think of asking him back out but i thought he liked this girl Sarah, who i happen to hate, and he said he didnt but the next day when i was going to ask him out he was going out with her .. what should i do?
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Hey cutie! Tell him how you feel. But I hope you two are still really good friends.
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im a 15 year old guy. since i was 7 i wanted a serious relationship where id meet a girl in high school and marry her. now im in high school. i met a girl. and id love to marry her. but she doesnt like to think about commiting. i dont know what to do about. how to approach it. i wanna know if it can work between us, i wanna know if she could love me like i love her, eventally to the point where id be with her forever... (link)
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Hey! You know theres a whole lot ahead of you, so many girls, that will be even better than her. But i know what you mean. You are still young to commit you know? You have to ask her and be straight up about it, dont hessitate it. But it's weird most girls like to commit, guys are the ones scared of it.
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I just started using tampons. And when i wear them they hurt like heck. Did i not have it in all the way or what? please help! (link)
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You don't have it in all the way. Use the plastic ones, they don't hurt!
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is it realli wrong to date your best friends ex boyfriend? cause this kid likes me..and i realli like him..but i have a feeling my best friend will get mad if i go out with him. cause she gets jealous even if i chill with him! please help soon cause i'm gonna chill with him tonite! i rate high! (link)
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Hey, it's not wrong inless your best friend is over him. Just tell her how you feel, and hopefully she will understand.
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My so called friend i think is only my friend cuz he likes my girlfriend and he even said so, i think there is a chance that she likes him, should i see if she really wants to go with him, or let her know that he really is a jerk or what...?? help please!! (link)
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Hey! Yea you should see if she wants to go out with him.
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i sorta REALLY flirted with this guy n made out n blah blah with him.. but one of my best friends all of the sudden likes him.. what should i do :\ (link)
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Flirting is harmless. Does she know that you made out with him? If she didn't know than, maybe you should tell him, it was ONLY a kiss...
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I've had a huge crush on this guy for almost a year now. He know's I like him, but he tries to ignore it like most guys do. He's in with the "popular" croud, but he's still acts really sweet and out-going and doesn't care what other people think. He waves at me a lot, he stares at me a lot, he plays with my hair and asks me to do stuff with him (in school, i.e. be his partner), and he also talks with me a lot more then other people. And just little stuff like that.
I know that a lot of people say "If you like someone, you automatically think they like you back", but I really think he likes me. But that's just me, and my friends think it's stupid to talk about, so does anyone have any adivce? Does he like me? o_O;
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Hey Cutie! He could like you, could be leading you on, or even just be flirting. I think it's about time to tell him you have a crush on him, or whatever, because you never know, he could like you back!!
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my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do???? (link)
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Hey! You should diffently tell him! It's the right thing! The truth is always the right road to go.
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i wanna start shaving should i just ask my mom? (link)
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Your legs right? Lol if it's just your legs go ahead, but your gonna hate it when you start!
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i woke up early to my mom closing my bedroom door and a couple minutes later i heard moaning and it grossed the crap out of me and it was so nasty. i dont know if i should talk to her about it because im scarred for life man. what should i do? (link)
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Hey Cutie! Well, what she must of closed your door for a reason, if she doesn't want you to know than she wouldn't of closed your dad. You can ask her about it, but she might not answer you, but you can always try!
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okay....i have had a really fucked up life... see i was adopted...and when i was little my adoptive mother has always threaten to send me back with my biological parents...but i feel like it would be better because then i would know someone loves me. and i hate how my mother never lets me see thm, i mean i know that they gave me up for adoption but i would think about my kid everyday and just wish that i could have them back in my arms again, and is it to hard for my mother to let me fulfill that wish for them. and everytyme i think about my real parents i fall into depression, and i dont know what to do...can you help me?
another problem....recently my best friend has started to hate me... i mean i dont think i did anything wrong except be there for her, but she became best friends with this girl that i have never liked, i mean shes a slut. and now shes turning her into one...but anyways. everytime i think about her i think aboout all the fun times we had and everything and i begin to cry. and i know shes over me but i dont think i can let go of somehing that meant so much to me. and she doesnt even talk to me. and it makes me sad. how can i find a way to get my mind off of her?
other problem...lately my mom has been taking up drinking to comfort her pain. because my aunt has recently passed away. and ever since then shes ben a real bitch and been bitching at everyone. and yesterday she made my 26 year old sister cry. i mean what can i do to block all this out??
i mean no one knows about any of my problems....i have always put on a mask and put on a smile but it hurts on the inside.. and latel i have been trying let it all out but every time i do someone starts bitching and says im always trying to get attention and that i dont have problems and im making it up... and
lately i dont know what else to do than cry.. so can you please help me?? i could really use some advice...
signed,
lost and abandoned
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Hey! 1st problem: I'm sorry to here you are adopted, it must be very hard for you, my sister is adopted, and I hate that she is. But i still love her and miss her to death. There's not much you can do if your real mom doesn't want to see you.2nd problem: Ask your bestfriend why she "hates" you. You should talk to your friend and tell her what's going on, and how you feel. Well to take her off your mind, you do have to make new friends, but the memories are always going to be the same. Pictures don't change but the people in them do.3rd problem: Tell your mom that drinking isn't a way of solving things, theres a lot of other things she can do. Comphert your sister as much as you can! Crying works a lot, it does get out emotions you can't let out. It's good that you cover it up, but try to talk to someone like a person at school that you trust, maybe a counsolor. Tell me what happens!!
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k me and my x i dumped him we r still good friends and like eachother we r prob gonna go out again but tonight i am going out with him and i am nervous becuz we r prob gonna do stuff iv done everything except 4th and given bj and hj and im afraid of doing it cuz i might mess up, i wanna im just scared plz help (link)
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Don't do anything that you will regreat, and make sure your compherterable. Don't do anything your not ready for, if he makes you do it and you say no, it turns into rape.
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i have seen my friends boyfriend with other girls kissing on them and i told my friend right away but she doesnt believe me, she said that i am jealous ... also she is supposed to have sex with him and i dont want her getting hurt .. is there anyway i could get her to believe me? (link)
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If she doesn't want to belive you, it's maybe because she knows the truth will hurt. You could maybe have her tag along where ever you go, and see if he's doing it then?
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im 14 and went out w| this guy during the school year and i still cant get over him. even when i liked other guys and went out w| them, and just recently i thouight i was over him but every time i see him i like him again,and since hes like my best friend i see him alomost everyday, do you have any advice to help me get over him? (link)
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Hey!! You just need sometime alone, to be away from guys, so you can get over him! But just try to be good friends with him!
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thanks for that i will try..
know that you told me that would be happening i think i am going to try to spilt up the time i spend to my friends...i really do think rachel is a follower because every friend i make she has to make and then it seems like she steals them from me i may be wrong. THANKS FOR ALL YOUR HELP!!! i may have more questions about my relationship with these friends and maybe my others.i have some problems but they arent bad..dont think of me as a bad friend
now that i found this website i am going to come here often.thanks again (link)
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Hey Cara!! I'm glad I can help you!! I don't think bad of anyone, lol. Thanks, where did you find mine though? Who's profile? Lol. Come back again, I'd love to help you out!!
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Hey!! I have a comments for the advice you gave me and a new question.
The comment- Thanks for the advice. I have tried to tell my newer friend(becky) that i feel we are falling apart and that if you all could spend time together and maybe i could work on the dance with you guys(we do ballet) and she said if you are getting mad about something so silly about that that is just werid. So i dont know what to so now?
The Question- This questions involes "becky" too. During the summer and part of last year i have become really close to this girl named (alana(who happens to be older than me and becky)) and once becky saw i was hanging out with her she began to always hang around and when i am talking to alana and becky always interupts. this summer i have been hanging out with new friends and every time i go to talk to alana since i dont talk to her much since some of her frineds are there there is becky standing there talking to her or sitting there and wont move she would sit there for like the whole break. What can i do about this!
BTW!- you give great advice..you are really helpful
xox cara, 13 almost 14
what hs are you going to..and..i kno kara..i meet her @ahc (link)
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Hey Cara!!! I'm going to Richard Montgomery for the next 4 years. Tehehe GO ROCKETS~! Thanks for the compliment about the advice! Well it's good that you did make some new friends. Maybe Alana is kinda upset that you made new friends. She maybe feels , how you felt when becky and your new friend were close. What you all need to do, is just have each person say what they are feeling. Ask Alana why she is just sitting there!! There seems to be jelously going around in your group of freinds!
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