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A LiL BiT ABOUT MOi.,.,.,

i DONT SEE THE POiNT iN ASKiNG STOOPiD QUESTiONS.. iT BORES ME :(

ERM WAT ELSE?
i LOVE LiSTENiNG TO MUSic, GOiNG OUT WiTH MY FRiENDS, GETTiNG A LiL BiT TiPSY AND OF COURSE ADViCENATORS :p iTS SO GREAT, THE AMOUNT OF TiMES I NEEDED ADViCE AND iVE COME HERE, iTS AMAZinG.

THATS ALL i CAN THinK OF RiTE NOW
:D EMMA ♥
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My one year anneversary is coming soon, and i have no idea about what to do, i want to make it special and something that me and my boyfriend will never forget, i dont want the usually movies or dinner thing, we do that almost every weekend, so i want to do something we have never done, and please dont say have sex, because we want to wait until were married, please give me some sweet and romantic ideas, im so blank right now!!! thanks in advance...♥

signed,
need your advice!!! (link)
awwww
that is so sweet!
it depends if your boyfriend is the proper romantic type. if he is why dont you go for a walk under the stars, dont plan anything see where you go you can tell him all the reasons you love him all the reasons you treasure him. or tell him to meet you in the park when its dark and surround yourselves in candels and make a book of all your favourite memories and pictures. just make it romantic then you can lay under the stars and fall asleep in each others arms.
hope i helped
xx
just enjoy it!
(rate me!!)


Ok well im a 17/f and me and my boyfriend have sexand everything but like 4 months ago his condom broke and we didnt know it and now im pregnant. Well i want to keep the baby and my parents are all for me and any choice i make about the baby. Well my boyfriend and me are decieding if we should keep the baby and he wants to help raise the child if we decide to keep it. well i dont know if i should keep the baby. you see i will be able too because i act very mature for my age, i already moved out of my house when i was 16 because of family issues and i already have 1 child( i was raped when i 14 and i didnt give her up for adoption) what should i do should i keep the baby or give it up? (link)
i feel so sorry for you.
i have never been in your situation and i hope i never will be. (the rape) do what your hearts telling you to do. its entirely up to you. if you can handle one child already you must be very mature i wouldnt be able to. its good your boyfriend wants to help raise the child. he obviously loves you and will support you whatever your desicion.
please do whatever you feel is right. dont give up the baby if you dont want to you might regret it.
do what your heart tells you.
xx
good luck.. sounds like you have a great boyfriend


umm i want to know why your such a bitch to people when they ask you for advice!? ur supposed 2 give advice not be a straight up bitch~ bye (link)
look im not interested in what you think about me. i give advice how i want im not going to be bullied by you.. your not worth it bye


Im 23 years old and very attactive have been with my husband whos 33 for 6 years. It takes me along time to reach orgasim and can only do so my oral sex or by him touching my clitoris.
I put alot into our sex life to keep things spiced up and enjoy it but when sex is over he acts like performing any sort of "favor" for me is a chore. Ive tryed to tell him his behavior makes me feel like he dosent want to do it and only is doing so to make me happy. When Im thinking this its impossible to reach orgasim.
He dosent understand its not that hes doing the wrong thing its just how hes doing it.
Ive tried and tried to explain this to him,them women need more emotional stimulation and not just physical. I would like him to say nice things or act like he enjoys it but he acts like its just a chore to do it. I though all guys liked to touch woman. Whats the deal with this? Its so frustrating because I get aroused during sex but then when there is no release because I dont want to have him touch me as a chore I just end up feeling used.

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i dont want to sound mean but you're 23 are you blonde? because you spelt "orgasm" wrong. it has no i. sorry...
but i think you guys should have a serious talk about this... "unhappy sex = unhappy marriage"
i really dont know what to say.
sorry
x


ok...well this is really bothering me..cuz my brother told me i was spoiled and and i told him i do work around the house for my mom...this is the convo...

ME: i help my mom around the house i wash the dishes i clear n set the table i clean my room and make my bed daily and i always put away the groceries
HIM: how much do you get for all that?
ME: i dont get money i earn the stuff i want by doing that.
HIM: you are definetly spoiled.

please tell me if you think i'm spoiled...this is just gonna bother me alot((he's a half sibling))
different moms (link)
your not spoilt at all.
hes jealous


Im 13 and im 200 pounds basicly and everyone hates me even my mom..Because im so overweight..my dad left my mom to go have sex wit another woman cuz theey wanted a "fit" daughter!!!!SO.....then like my mom had sex with another guy she waaas dating..and she took the pregnency test and shes havin triplets!!!!and she said shes givin me up..Cause im overweight..so im at my Grandmas house 4 now on.......so 2 make me happy my mom gave me 2 babys so..i was there NEW MOM!!! I feel like noone cares about me!!!Can you give me some things to say 2 my mom..about just dumping her children on me!!! (link)
kill your self and then see how much they need you and love you as the babies.. no one has the right to do that to you. you should report her or something.


guys do like big boobs? well thats to bad!! guys you will like small boobs now! lol.. god why am i so cute.. (link)
get over your self


ok well me and my boyfrioend are goign to be celebrating our 1 yera anaversry, and were bith ready to ahve sex. what i need to kno is if theres anything really special and will make him feel really good.and new and crazy ideas will do! i'll try anything, and i mean ANYTHING!i rate very high! (link)
u ave to f**k him good....
make it nice buy buying special underwear n make sure you are looking HOT put some sexy makeup on like black (a bit like jessica simpson) light a few candles lead him to where u want him and kiss and everything like that. make it a night to remember.
hope i helped


Hi. im not writing this question for people to tell me im unique and crap, but lately, ive just been feeling bad. I think im ugly. People always tell me that im ugly. its just my face..i mean my nose is just so weird that i feel so self conscious and whenever im with my friends it hurts me so much always seeing guys all flirting with them and stuff. ive never been asked out, and people always tell me that im ugly. i know its mean, and only sometimes i feel pretty. i know that if i feel beautiful, i am beautiful, and being confident is bueatiful, but i dont want that crap. i need some way to make me feel better about myself....any suggestions? (link)
hi
first let me tell you that you are not ugly! and the more you believe that the more ugly you will feel! so stop putting yourself down all the time. and about you thinking your ugly. i know its hard to stop feeling so down about yourslef but honestly once you start to realise what a great person you are and what great people are out there for you to meet the less ugly you will feel. you mention your nose dont be self conscious about it. whenever you are with your mates again just think in your mind "i am gorgeous" over and over again untill you shine with confidence and beauty. honestly. so who cares that you have never been asked out? just wait for the perfect boy to come and whisk you off your feet! :) just be happy and let your confidence shine through. i think part of your low self esteem is pschological sorry if the answer not what you wanted but its true. and also treat yourself to some new clothes, make up transform your image. if you are really unhappy with the way you look, go to your doctor and explain and you might get a free operation to fix the problem (i dont know if you are in the uk but that is what happens over here) but then remember if you do, you have let your low self esteem bully you into surgery and u want to be happy without any thing like that!
hope i helped.... tell me how it goes
love emma
x
:)


Let me start out by saying that my sister is a nightmare. A big fat nightmare who makes your life turn into serious Hell. She is a thirteen year old snob who gets in everyones business, demands things from my parents who take it even though they don't like it. She has been damaging my life the most by trying to beat the crap out of me in front of her friends when I was severly sick, she didn't beat me up, but she kept trying to, and it made me upset, and I cried because it my body was aching. She has tried to smart mouth me in front of her friends, when my mom tells her not to do something, when shes not around, she will do it anyways, and when I try to stop her, she get up in my face, and says, "What are you gonna do about it?" Now, when things like this happens, I call my mom, and she'll just say, "stop it" even though thats probably about the hundreth time shes done it. She also lies, very bad. My parents know, but not as much, she tries spying on my phone conversations with my boyfriend, she is also known to read my other sisters diary to her friends on the phone, and laugh about it with them. She also told all of her friends something SO personal, I am not going to say, but it was so personal about my older sister. My parents do nothing about this. No matter how many times I try to ask them nicely, or I just slam it in their faces, they go talk to her, and she plays the innocent one. I told my mom tonight that she has made my life a living Hell, and all she said was, "well, she said the same thing about you" That made me so angry, because she looked at me like she believed her over me or she didn't know who to believe, HELLO! I am the innocent one here, everyone always says mean things about her, so they know shes the one whose rude! She is also known to hurt me in front of people, she'll grab underwear with blood in it, and will announce to everyone that its mine! When its really hers! I have dealt with this for a long time, and today, I just couldn't take it, I screamed in my room so loud, and tore all of the posters off of my wall, and scratched my face. I have gone crazy! When I heard somebody pick up the phone while me and my boyfriend were talking, I ran to my mom and yelled, "GET HER OFF THE PHONE NOW I HATE HER SO MUCH SOMEBODY JUST KILL HER!" And then, I went rambling on to my boyfriend how much I just want to kill her, and now I keep day dreaming about ways that I can kill her. I also kept saying, "shes a slut, a whore, a b*tch, a little sh*t, and an a*shole." I know shes a slut, but I will not get into detail about that. But I am asking somebody to please not tell me I need anger management, I know that this behavior is not abnormal, what person would not go crazy after dealing with a lying sister and parents who won't do anything about it? My behavior is scaring me, I've never hated somebody this much, I usually just like everybody, but everytime I think about wanting to kill her and it makes me feel good I get scared! I can't really talk to my parents, I've screamed it in their ears, and I've told them nicely, they don't listen to me.


Also, do not even think about having me talk to my sister, she is greedy, and selfish, all she cares about is herself, seriously, if its not her way, theres no way, shes a spoiled brat. So I guess what I'm asking is does anybody think I might be taking this too far? I know that I'm not, but does anyone think different? I know that this shouldn't get to me, but I have to live with her! I need ways to take my anger and sadness out, because all of my posters are ripped off of my wall. Also, my dad is getting me a therapist, so I can at least have somebody to talk to, but the whole time I'm probably going to ramble on about how much I hate her and wish she was dead, I have truly never felt this deeply of hate. My silly boyfriend wants me to fight her, but I'm not going to. But I hate her enough to. So, could anyone say something about this, like advice because I am in a huge puddle of misery. I just wish somebody would just think, "Maybe Sarah [me] has feelings too" when she makes fun of me, I wish she'd think, "Maybe since Sarah has depression, I shouldn't call her names because she feel pain too" And it makes me cry at night wondering how I'll ever get out of this Hell hole, somebody please give me comfort or anything that could help me. I've told my parents about my misery, so don't think that I havn't told anyone about this. I will rate. (link)
hi
this sounds stupid but wen shes sleeping go into her room and smother her with a pillow... where gloves so no evidence is left or try drugging her food or drink with laxatives


okay ive known these girls for a very long time but this year we started to be best friends. we always did stuff with each other and had sleepovers every weekend. but lately they both have been getting mad at each other and they both turn to me to either invite over without the other or for advice. i feel uncomfortable because i don't want to get in the middle and i want to keep both for friends. i want to be as close as we used to be. how do i make that happen? help! (link)
ok
well speaking from experience i would just tell them that you are fed up of being in the middle tell them to sort there own problems out


My eyelashes are really long meaning i cant wear Mascara becuase it makes them look even longer and weird. is there any mascara i can buy (that they sell in England) that will be ok for long eyelashes and wont make them look really long? thanks
xxxx (link)
hey i live there 2
where clear mascara
it will enhance da natural colour but i dont think it will make them appear shorter.
my lashes are quite long too
go down superdrug and buy sum eyelash curlers.
there only £1.99 so cheap and they work really well. hold them on for about 40 seconds each eye.
they really work and make them really curly and afterwards they look smaller cos they've been bent upwards

hope i helped
emma x :)


im about 3 stone overweight (roughly 48lbs)
i eat healthily i just snack way too much.
i really want to loose the weight because in september im starting collage and i want like a new begging in life or w/e.
i am really determined to do this...
i am not very good at keeping to a diet and not snacking.
i do excersise a bit... walkin
i need sum tips and advice on healthy eating i can actually stick to and how to loose weight quickly
thanks a bunch
xx (link)
i dont know how much i weigh in pounds
but im roughly 12 stone and there are 14 pounds in each stone


i need a new sn
im 14... taken by ryan (he is short) im kinda tall not short. i like rap music/ rock.im in love..help me find a sn plz.

xox me xox

i rate high =) (link)
i dont get your question, im from the uk.
whats a sn??


ok.. i am overweight and i eat like.. unhealthy foods.. well.. i want to eat salads when i am in school.. but i mean.. since im overweight people might make fun of me for eating a salad.. or anything healthy.. so i just dont eat.. i want to eat something healthy.. but i dont want people to laugh and dont say.. 0h.. just be happy with urself.. bla bla bla.. only if u know what to do.. write back.. ill rate you go0d

>>oVeRwEiGhT (link)
hey
sounds like you are too worried about what other people think of you.
eat healthy!!!
people wont laugh at you they are probably admiring the fact that you are determined to do something about your image.
always be determined and do plenty of excersise, nothing too energetic but walking or running around a park etc.....
yeah you should be happy with yourself no matter what your size. im overweight and im doin something about it because i want to make a new start in life, not beacause i want people to like me or w/e.
good luck
and remember......
do it for you!
hope i helped
emma x


Has anyone on here ever performed at orchestra hall...in minnesota? cuz my orchestra is performing there tomorrow and i was wondering what you thought of orchestra hall. thanks
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hiya
where do you live??
i live in england and played with a brass band in the royal albert hall
that was fab!!

good luck


When I'm making out with my boyfriend, he always gets a boner. I'm like right on top of him so it really turns me on. Is this happening to him because I'm turning him on? I'm a 15 year old girl so I don't know alot about this.

Thanks,
~*~Amy~*~ (link)
hiya

yeah you are turning him on.
i suggest you talk about this issue with him.
its a sensitive subject though.
dont let him force you into having sex though.
hope i helped
x




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