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13/Female.
I love wearing thongs my mom don't know it though I feel more confortable in a thong then any other kind of underwear my mother don't know I wear thongs and she doesn't understand that that's whats in and no one wants panty lines last year I asked her if I could were thongs and she said no It's so unfair. I want to be able to wear thongs it's not like I'm going to show it to anyone or anything like that. I won't wear them with skirts (ofcoarse I'm not that slutty). How can I ask her again and convince her to let me wear thongs?
I will rate 5's for good answers.
Thanks a bunch!!!!!!! (link)
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hm...i think you have 2 options..that i can think of atlest
1. keep wearig them, just do your own laundry so she doenst know
2. try and convince her that its your body and its what you feel comfortable with and that she shouldn't mind what you wear since its you wearing them not her...but also tell her what she wants to hear..meaning her side..tell her that you understand why she wouldn't want you to wear them but you would rally appreciate it if she wold let yo, try and make a compromise..maybe only have a certain number of thongs or soething.
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Im 13/f
There's this guy I really like. Last year, we were really good friends, especially since we had all our classes together. Now we're in the 8th grade, we have NO classes together (grrrr)! I barely see him during the day. Now we've kind of spread apart. What can I do? Do you think Instant Messaging could help in any way? (link)
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yea!! it could definately help..i tink that you should try and hang with him on the weekends and just try and keep in touch..maybe hang with him at lunch..or after school
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15/m
theres this georgous girl in my spanish class. shes 14, freshman and im 15 and a sophmore. school just started and i only talked 2 her once, that was b/c the teacher had us introduce eachother in spanish. THIS GIRL IS SO F***ING BEAUTIFUL!!! im really bad at talking to girls but i really wanna get to know her better. any ideas? (link)
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aw..thats awesome! k..what i think you should do is just try and talk to her before or after class mabe or maybae if you see her in the hallway..say something aboutu spanish class..that's really good that you guys have that together..its already something you have in common. mabe if you don't have assigned seats in spanish you can sit next to her. if you kno any of her friends maybe you can ask them if you guys could all hang out..hope i gave you soe ideas that will help..good luck! :)
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this anoying fat boy really likes me. he is thinks he is really cool and tries to start a conversation with me every day.i try to ignore him an show him that i dont like him. he wont stop anoying me and he dosnt give up and i hate him. He says alot of cuse words which makes him even more anoying. i am in 8 th grade an you would think sending a message to a boy that i dont like him should be easy but its imposible with him. i have even told him i dont like him . ive tried telling him nicley and even meanly but he wont stop annoying me. i feel like chocking him. i dont know what to do. Do you hav any suggestions?!!!! (link)
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aw haha i think every girl has been your position..what i think you should do is just ignore him..obviously this guy isnt getting the idea..maybe if you ignore him and odnt give him any attention at all-even bad attention-hew ill never you alone.
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How do I make my ex-boyfriend jaulose so he would come back to me?
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hm..just like flirt with other guys in front of him..maybe somehow get the word to him that you might be seeing another guy so he gets curious anc comes to asks you if its true..these aren't sure to work cuz he might just nt be interested in a relationship right now but it's worth a shot. :)
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Ok, theres this girl i kno, we sat next to each other in science. At first, she was just some hyperactive weird person. But I got used to her, and eventually we had to change seats, could be with anyone, but it had to be someone of the opposite sex. To keep it simple, we chose the same seats, except in the back of the room, as did a bunch of other people. We became friends, I invited her over one day, but as a friend. Since then, my family's been making jokes about me and her together. I was in complete denial.
Then the other signs started to show. My best friend---as in, my friend-who-I-can-tell-anything-I-want-to-and-he-won't-pass-on friend, said to her one day, "You know, you look like *my name censored*'s girlfriend." Immediately, we both rejected what he said, and walked out of the room.
But then whenever I saw her in the hallways, she would hit me over the head with her notebook and say "It's all your fault! That's it, we're through!" I called it fun among friends. My family called it flirting.
But then last night, I found myself taking my yearbook out and just staring at the picture... I stared for a good five to ten minutes before falling asleep on it.
Also, I know it's summer and all, but for the last week or two, I can't wait for school to start. Not because I like my teachers. Not because I'm a nerd. Because of this girl.
How do I ask her out? How do I even show signs that I like her? And where do I tell her? In the middle of the hallway would look kind of awkward... I'm really shy, so I can't recite any famous lines or anything like that... and I can't bring up the courage to just straight out say that I like her. I'm a bit young to start dating, 7th grade. What should I do? I'm a mess, if this keeps going on, I'll wind up mentioning her in Improv class!
Like that guy in The Gods Must Be Crazy, I get stupid around girls. Ironically, just now, she sent an e-mail saying "HIIIIIII!!!! hows ur summer been goin? good? bad? aliens? well ok. MOON MONKEYS!!!! im spazzy"
Naturally, I wanted to reply, or else make it seem like I'm at sleepaway camp. I'm not gonna lie, so all I wrote was "o hi =P im havin a good summer, u?" and thats it.
PLEASE I'm desparate, help me, you have no idea how screwed up I am!
[b]If *insert girl's name* is reading this, you know who you are, and you know who I am, so if you're reading this, ignore this post! If you already read it, tell me in September![/b]
-Dakmor (link)
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Aw wow! Atleast I have enough information that i think i can help you. I think that what you need to do is hang out with this girl more. I know that you guys flirted in school quiete a lot..and she might have an idea that you like her or she might just think you are flirting. It's a very good thing that she emailed you, it means she is thinking about you and probably wants to stay in touch and probably hang out! So in your next email, throw something in there about wanting to hang out. If you hang out with her more, maybe she'll admit if she likes you or you can work up the courage to maybe hint that you like her. If you want to ask her out and see what she says jsut go for it! One time when you're hanging out just be like "hey you're a really great girl and love spending time with you so..will you go out with me?" or however you want to phrase it. If she sayes yes then, fantastic! if she seems hesitant it might not be because of you, she mite just feel akward in the situation. I hope my advice helps you, lemme know how it goes!
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ok, well i really care about someone and have strong feelings for them. I feel like I don't want anyone in the world but him. We dont really talk much, alls i can say to him is "hi" and he'll say "hi" back. He knows i like him but he doesnt like me. I really want to talk to him, but i'm scared mostly of what he'll say back. what should i do? (link)
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omg i was just in that exact situation this year! What you gotta do is just be bold and go up to him and be like hey whatsyp and just start talking..He'll realize youre outgoing and talkative and probably stop in the halls to talk to you too :) Hope this helps..good luck
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um yeah i asked this quistions before but some real jerks answerd ok so here it is
does ne one have some tips on surfing? and dont give me some craped up answers like you dont know how to surf
thx (link)
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hmm..surfing is hard to edxplain how to do over the internet..you really need to like have a physical instructions. If yyou wanna learn or learn how to get better, take some lessons. If you're a beginner try using a foam or soft board becuz they're wide, soft, and easy to learn on. Also try popping up on the board on the sand so its easier out on the ocean and try surfing when the tide is pretty mellow and consistent. HOpe this helps, good luck surfin!
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hey, I was just wondering what bands you liked...
-*johanna (twistedsister17) (link)
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underoath, static lullaby, shotblue, the smashup, drive by romance, boy sets fire, alexisonfire, boy sets fire, plans for revenge, The used, at midnight, bleed the dream, kill switchengage, silverstein, papa roach, linkin park, hawthorne heights, opiate for the masses, the killers, my american heart, anberlin, senses fail, dead poetic, The calm, Number one fan, Bedlight for blue eyes, a change of pace, sum41,so they say, haste the day, 5 minute ride, piebald, love hate hero, die like me, the twiligh collective, idiot pilot, amber sky, a beautiful elegy, my eyes darken, divide the day, ikarus, roses are red, it dies today, from first to last, spitalfield, black maria, head automatica, hopesfall, mareen, blame it on rio, inmemory, farewell to twilight, a dying dream, a shattered hope, black out skies, secret lies of freemasons, the darbe, kids in the way, nature living, the smashup, drive by romance, plans for revenge, open hand, section 8, a dead give awy, vaeda, end result, a thorn for every heart, norma jean....hahah ya its a lot
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i use to cut alot but after i started goin out w/ this one guy i stopped for him. We broke up after 6 months and for this whole past year every time ive wanted to cut i've thought of him and would think about how much he would hate it if i started again. Well im still in love w/ him and i finally got the courage to call him and tell him. He told me that did love me and that really broke my heart and i've been wanting to cut really bad but i don't know what to do!someone plz help!!!!
thanx
-twiSted (link)
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Okay, whatever you do try and keep your mind off him or anthing that will remind you of him. If you feel yourself wanting to cut do something else or think of something else that will distract you. I've heard that if you snap a ruubberband a few times on the place where you usually cut it helps..try doing ne thign else tat will get ur mind off of him. get outside, call a friend, isten to sum music..I hope this helped
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i have "issues", and i think my friends know i do. i havent exactly talked to them directly about it yet. and im not sure how. i've been going through rough times and everything, and i just wasnt sure if i was supposed to talk to them about whats going on. i really dont know how to bring it up in a conversation, either. like im not just gunna blurt it out. i'd feel really uncomfortable.
my question is just.. should i talk to my friends about it? or just keep it to myself..?? (link)
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Well, thats up to you. If you feel like you can trust them and think that they can help you then ya go for it. But if you would rather talk to a professional or keep your thoughts to yourseelf then thats fine too. If it gets to a point where you think you can't take it anymore then i really advice telling someone so it does't build up.
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I like this guy and we've made out a couple times. Now im thinking of going further and jack him off and finger me..im just so selfconscious about my hair..i can try to trim it but theres just a lot of hair..and forget shaving..i get these red bumps no matter if i use lotion and stuff...so what should i do? trim? just not do anything? he would probably be turned off if i didnt do something about my hair right. : / be honest all you guys if you answer
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hmm..a lot of guys i've talked to acutally dont mind the hahir..but i think that the best and healthiest thing to do is just trim it, and maybe shave a little bit? If you want the red bumps to go away, use pimple cream..the clean and clean acne spot treatment is best. I think that he probably wouldnt mind if he fingered you and you had hair..most guys aren't really turne doff by it..but it really varies..Hope i helped
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ok im 15/m and i just got this job as a counsoler at a little kid day camp (dont start with the michael jackson jokes ive heard them all) andi really like it so far. we just got this new art teacher and shes really hot. the only thing is that shes an adult, went to college etc..... i really wanna get with this person but shes older than me and i dono what to do. please help u always give me good advice! (link)
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haha don't worry i wouldnt make fun oif you, i think its cool you work at a day camp. Anyway..getting with anyone a lot older is always tricky..I don't think you can really get with an older woman becuase usually they aren't into that whole thing. But you can be really friendly with her and enjoy her company working with you..but if you want a good relationship i'd suggest going for someone closer to your age..hope i helped :)
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hey... nice advise column... okay i am a prep that likes punk/rock music... any good song ideas? (link)
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Yeah sure..i got some good bands yo can check out..But not specific songs
here are a few..its a variety of different music..but if you want to narrow down what your favorite genre of music is i ccan help you out even more :)
-underoath -spital field
-alexixonfire -hopesfall
-dead poetic -from first to last
-inmemory
-idiot pilot
-so they say
-the penny royals
thats only a few..so if you want more, drop another in the inbox..hope this heloed :)
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hi people
i want to get nair this four minute lotion thingy. its when you rub it on you and wash it off four minutes and your hair comes off? does this work (link)
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yeah I have used it before and it works pretty well, its just pretty bad for your skin so if you're going to use it, don't use it a lot.
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doe anyone know the name/artist of the song that goes like this "everythings gonna be alright..rock a bye.." ik its really old but i need it!! i rate (link)
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lullaby by shawn mullins
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ohkay, i have this huge problem.. last night i bought a bathing suit for the pool party im having tonight and i just realized there is some huge thing that says "WARNING tampering will break glass and cause ink to leak out" I paid for it nd everything but the lady didnt take it off! taking it back to the store cant be done so what do i do!!!!! (link)
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Take off the thing, idk wat its calle dlol.and if it leaks ink..just wash ur bathing suit and it should come out so you can wear it tonight
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theres this girl that i really like at my school. her name is karrisa and shes the popularist girl in the grade. she has a bf thats a senior who shes going to prom with. i never talked to her, i never met her. she doesnt know nething about me but if she did she prob heard a really bad rumor. i really like this girl and her best friend thinks im way outa my leauge. what should i do? (link)
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i think that you should give it a shot! Who knows, maybe she does know you and thinks you're a great guy! Just go up to her and introdce your self, or if you feel more comfortable..go with her best friend and she can intorduce you guys. I'm sure she's not outta your league..i mean if your like in 8th grade, i would be a little skeptical but if you're in the same shcool as her..then you should be good :) Good luck with this grl
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Well, I am going to the club tonight and I am short and my legs and like big, and I am wearing a mini skirt. I love short skirts but i hate my legs. Is there anything I can do to make them look skinny by 8 o'clock tonite? (link)
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if you're wearing a short skirt, try a short fluffy skirt cuz those help with bigger legs..Jean skirts are good with skinnier legs...either way you'll look fine :)
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hi well my mom has been using some drug for maybe a couple years, but i dont know what it is but i know for a fact she is. she'll stay in the bathroom for a long time and doesnt stop sniffing after or whatever and acts really weird, doesnt go to bed that night and like picks at her hair and shit and freaks out when i walk in and i love my mom and i hate the rest of my family, my sister is the biggest bitch and she is so mean to my mom and everyone.. whats my mom using? i cant help but being sad and today i was out with her and my sister called and said tell mom shes a disgrace and i want her to go back to the lake ( our house in nh where my mom goes when my sister or dads mean) and she hungup so i called back and said she was real tough and to tell her herself, so she told my mom on the phone and she was so sad.. and my mom dropped me off and started crying and said shed be back in a little... shes not home and now my dad asked wut happened and i didnt really hear but my sister said something about my mom and stuff was everywhere in the bathroom near the sink.. thanks=/ (link)
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o my gosh, you poor thing! That's such a tramautic situation to be in, and im sorry you have to be put through it. I personally don't have any experience with parents and substance abuse, but here is what i think you should do. Go to your mom, and basically just spill out everything about how you feeel about her, and her drug abuse and your family. Tell her that you really care about her, and you lov her and it hurts you to see her doing this to yourself and its affecting the whole family. I'm not really sure what drug your mom could be using, it could be cocaine but i really don't know. anway, tell her that she really needs to stop it, and talk to a counsler about quitting and maybe alternative solutions to solving stress (If that is the reason why she is doing it). Do you think you could talk to a school counlser about it? Or maybe a member of your family first? Maybe your dad, i wouldn't go to your sister just yet because her anger seems not to be helping the situation. I hope everything gets cleared up really soon, and that your mom stops her substance abuse. If you have any more questions or if you just want to talk..just drop another in the inbox and my screename is on the side. Keep my posted about what happened..best of luck!
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