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Q: okay- i have been getting cramps, and i have that "discharge" stuff.. am i getting my period??
yep i think ur getting ur period now

Q: this month is my birthday and i dont kno what to do since im turning 14 and i am 2 old for a sleepover.. so what should i do?
umm i dont think ur too old for a sleepover, im turnin 15 and i plan to have a sleepover. umm u could go bowling or dancing, thats always fun.

Q: I was just wondering...are there any good tricks or tips to having an orgasm?...Im 15 and all i have done is finger myself... I have no clue what a G spot is...When i was fingering myself...i found a sofy spongy spot...i think thats my GSPOT...im not sure. Help? plz?
no clue
very sorry
very nervous
wierd question
sorry
look it up

Q: how can you reduce air resistance in the sport of surfing? *for a project. thx in advance
wear a wet suit, or a cap.

Q: Grrrr... this makes me so mad... My sister is tottaly whipped by her boyfriend she is 19 and has a 1 year old daughter. Okay I am bi polar and have a lot of depression and I was talking to my sis about that and her boyfriend butted in and said he didn't give a crap and that I was spoiled and just wanted attention... well anyways my niece has like set rules in that house becasue of Nathan and my sis Listens to him.. she can't have her TV on when she goes to bed and he said is it just me or is 3 bottles during the night enough and my sis said ok we won't give her that much.. I mean casue my niece wakes up and thats how she gets back to sleep. She needs to get back together with her babys father... I am getting so sick of her new boyfriend and don't get me wrong my sister loves her baby to death but this guy has got to go he is turning my sis against me.. Please help... she hung up on me and won't even talk to me... What should I do?? Sorry so long
just go to her house or somthin and talk to her. her boyfriend is a real ass. maybe u should kill him. lol im jokin dont do that, but you need to have a talk with both of them or talk to her when he's not around.

Q: The boy "C" I have been talking about is starting to talk to me again. Well not actually talking but I'll hit him and he'll hit me back and he'll sit next to me. Anyways a whole lot of people is telling me that they like him and they have way more better chances of going with him than me.But you see I really really like him. We havent actually had a serious conversation because of all those girls that always all up on him and if there not around then his little clique is around. I really need to know what to do around like 1:30 today it will help me a lot!
tell him you need to talk to him later when there are no more girls around him. or email him, or just write him a note.

Q: I'm 14 and I've never made out with a guy, but I think something might happen with this kid this weekend. I don't really know what I'm doing so does anyone have advice? Is it weird that I've never made out with anyone?
its not weird, just do it, its fun!! lol

Q: ok i like this guy and we flirt a lot! he has a gf though. i think i've caught him staring at me and he always is sweet and nice. he is not the most popular boy in the class, but he is also the most sweetest boy. when we flirt people always point out to us that we are flirting and we both say" no we arn't" he is one of my friends too. my friend told him" dont cheat on prism(his gf) when we were talking and flirting. and he said " i wont" what does this mean? i mean i like him an lot, i had a dream that we kissed.

what does this mean?does he like me??

*confused grl*
guys are weird, i think you just have to be patient and wait for him to do somthin about it, maybe even play a little hard-to-get or somthin....i donno lol.

Q: so at my school if you dont live in greystone {The rich part} or wear abercrombi (which i think is pointless to pay 80 bucks for prefaded and pre riped jeans)any way if you arent privledged then ure pretty much the scum of the earth.All the punks have spiked or really long hair and wear black shirts and riped jeans. all the preps wear collerd shirts and north face jakets. any way they label the rich kids preps and the middle class to lower class punks. So punks hang out with punks and preps with preps but, this prep likes me and i like her and every one knows so we are both hated by our own soacial clases. so what should we do
go out with her! i hate labels!

Q: Okay, I actually think I have ADD. I've secretly researched it for a few months now, and I have a lot of the symptoms majorly. I used to be really good in school, I used to be able to focus and concentrate most of the time. Now, I have SO many things going on in my head and I seem to act like I'm listening, but really my head is off in like, a million different places. I told my friend that I had it and she's the type of girl that will just not concentrate because something is "boring". She thinks that she has ADD too. Everytime we talk about it, she starts laughing ("I have ADD, lol!"). It pisses me off so much. How is anyone going to take me seriously after she tells EVERYONE she has it, and starts laughing after? Its kids like her who use out the term ADD. I bet many students like her go to their doctor and say they have it. But what about us who actually think we have it? I feel like the doctor is just going to turn me away and say "yes, you think you have ADD along with the rest of the student body at your high school...". I NEED to get help quick, but how am I supposed to approach help, and how do I convince my friend that she doesn't have it, and not everything in this life is "fun". I can't even concentrate on the things I enjoy anymore...
yea i know how you feel i have ADD too, but ie never really told anyone about it. tell your friend to stop and then tell someone in your family to take you to a doctor and then you will know for sure. the doctor wont turn you down.

Q: Everyone is always saying "I hate tanlines" blah blah blah. Is it wierd that I actually like them? Like if you wear a tube top after wearing a bathing suit that ties around your neck, or if you had cris cross straps on your back. I think its kind of like a sign that you tan. idk, I think its kind of cool...is that wierd? I don't like tanning lines after you wear shorts, or a farmers tan...
yea i kinda agree with you, the guys that i ask think its sexy. lol

Q: Okay me and this guy have been "together" for about 8 months now...well were not technically going out but were kinda friends with benefits i guess...he said that he wants to not have a commitment bc he is going through alot right now but he doesn't want either of us to hook up with anybody else...just eachother...so should i take that as were going out or as were just friends with benefits? and also should i say we can hook up with other people or no? thanx ill rate a 5 to nebody who answers
i think you should talk to him, but i think it depends on how "hooked up" you are. if its kinda serious then i think you should take it as really goin out. maybe u shouldnt see other ppl yet.

Q: what if I know this person and she was going to cheat on this guy and I was her bff and i ilked this guy but she just got asked to be his gf and I dont know what to do because she is going to play this guy and I want to tell him because he will be really sad, what should I do ??? I dont want it to ruin a long frendship
i was in the exact same situation like 3 weeks ago. i told the guy and i ended up having a really good friendship with him. forget the girl who cheats! she'll thank you for it later.

Q: ok theres this boy i really like and i have a feeling he likes me to but he also seems as shy as me even though he seems to hide it bettr than me. But to the point. Ok i really like him and i want to say something to him even if its just "hi" but the thing is when i do see him my mom and my friends mom is there and they always watch us so its really embaressing and then i ignore him when i dont want to!! plz help!!!

P.S. i see him ocasionally but im homeskooled so it's sorta a different story...
meet with him somewhere where they wont be and cant look at you.

Q: i have a horrible sunburn.... i mean horrible! it doesnt even look that red but it KILLS! for example, i went to bed at 10pm and i woke up at 12 not being able to sleep bc it hurt so bad! what can i do! when can i start going to the tannign place again?
i dont think you should go to the tanning salon anymore, if thats what happened, or maybe put more lotion or dont stay in there that long. you know how there's that stuff to make you feel better when your congested? like vicks vapor rub? you sould put that on because it'll cool your back and it wont hurt as much.

Q: I am an 18 year old male. My best friend and I have been talking on messenger and we have both realized that we have extra feelings for each other. She is coming to my college next year to be with me. The only thing is she is bringing a guy who I am pretty sure is her boyfriend. She says she wants to start something when she gets down here but now I'm afraid with this guy coming too that I wont get my chance with her. Should I confront her about this guy and see what she says? Is there anything else I can do? Thank you
yes confront her she will explain

Q: I rate high....

Well me and this guy are friends I like him and stuff well he wants to go to the movies this weekend but my mom said I cant date until im 17. I told her its just as friends but she still says no. Just because she iddnt start dating until she was 17 doesnt mean she had to do that to me. What should I do? I really realllly wanna go with him.
just talk to your mom about it
i had the same problem until i talked to her

Q: dude, get a life and get off advicenators. noone likes you and your advice sucks!!
why dont u just shove a gerbil in ur fat mouth and shutup!!!!!!!!!

Q: okay well i g2g im still at school cya tomorow bye
stupid

Q: My friend has gone crazy! We used to be really close. Then, we got in a fight because she thought I was "copying" her (whatever that means" but about a month later, she called to apologize to me and said that "she was stupid" and blah blah blah. Whatever. Well, a month after that, (a couple weeks ago) we were talking on te internet (MSN messanger) and I said, "I have to go because my mom is taking me to KOHL's because they have a sale and I need another pair of pants." She got mad because SHE shops there and now, she thinks I'm copying her. I want to be her friend but what's a friend if you can't trust her? There's no point for friendship if it is going to work out that way! I need to know if I should just apologize for something that is totally stupid and pointless, or wait for her to calm down and call me so she can realize how dumb she's been? I have no earthly idea what has gotten into her. Like, we used to go shopping together for matching clothes and shoes but I never thought it bothered her. It never bothered me when she did something exactly like me! And yes, she has done many things like me just to be like me. We called each other all these REALLY mean names but I don't want to be her friend if I can't even go to the same store as her! By the way, she informed me about that store and it was on T.V but their clothes are really expensive but they are so adorable. By the way, I'm 13 years old and I rate 5's to whoever on this earth can help me! What should I do???
your friends a retard.....dont listen to her. i dont even know why ur still her friend

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