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welp i consider mahself to be perty outgoin n easy to get along wit at times...as long as u dont put me down or put down things i believe in...we will usually get along...alot of ppl come to me n ask me for advie n most likely i can help anyone out....i havent failed yet lol n hopefully i never do...one of these days i hope to make a wonderful career outta helping people with any problems they have

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hey yall im really skinny :/ it gets annoying bcuz i want to gain weight cuz im lack a sick of bones and its not vey healthy looking and im kinda flat and have no butt.. i tryed eating more! and i eat ALOT. i just dont gain weight. my friends tell me not to worry and that theyd kill to b as skinny as me. what should i do?

well u got a high metabolism...u should go to the doctor n get there opinion on what to do

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okay ive been messing with the new layout and i dont know if i should change anything about it... could you check it out and tell me what you think?

love Michelle ( blackmamba)

lookin good

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ok look im 5'1 and im 13 and i weight bout 150! i dont look thatt fat but how can i loose it in one month

****AMY****

drink water...no pop...pop gains weight on u like crazy...dont eat as much as u normally do..have like a salad...n something else...and exercise...and it will work...u just gotta stick to it everyday for a month and if u do that u will probably loose alot

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my sister has horrible breath. even if i make her brush her teeth, it still smells like rotten baloney. how can i help her? she smells bad!! and she uses her bad breath as a weapon on me. help!

lol oh my..um shove gum in her mouth!

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I'm going to go tanning in my backyard tomorrow and im fair skinned. Does anyone have any tips for me to get a good tan? How long do i have to stay out there? If i ware sunblock will i still get a tan? I will rate!

i would say bout 30-40 minutes dependin on the sun...and no if u wear sunblock i doubt u will becuz its called "sunblock" lol good luck

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hi. my rich grandparents just bought me a saleen s7 for my 16th bday. I LOVE THE CAR and ive always wanted it. The only problem is, even though my neighborhood is fairly nice nobody has a car like mine and everyone is making fun of me! they say rich girl, spoiled brat, snob and stuff like that. My car got egged too :(. How can i make this stop??
thankz

show em ur not a "braty snoby rick spoiled girl" and if that doesnt work...then just fuck em...everyone is always gonna be jealous of u somehow....weither if it ssomethin u wear or somethin someone buys for u...tell em ur g-ma is rich n if it wasnt for u wouldnt have that...and ur not some spoiled brat...ur thankful for what u get and if they want to believe that then fine...but there probably missin out on a great person

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i have been single for like 5 months and i feel really lonley i dont like anybody now but when i do i feel like they are not gonna like me back i mean i dont put my pic on my advice column cuz i feel like people are gonna be like "wow shes ugly she needs to take that off" what do i do??

first off...dont put urself down....the more u put urself down and think negative things..the less confidence ur goin to have...u just got to give it a shot....if u like a person and they wont date u becuz of ur looks..then why would u wanna be wit someone like that? all i can say is believe in urself...guys find it attractive when girls have confidence...if u dont...that turns em away...just keep tryin

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Im moving in a few months, i hate it that i have to leave all my friends and everyone. i mean ill never forget them but im scared well loose touch and i dont want that. and when i go 2 a new school im gonna be so scared i hate it! ahh im so scared!

dont worry bout it...i know its scary at first...its always scary...but u gotta think bout the new things and fun things ahead of u....makin new cool friends....maybe its for the best...fate will never let u down....u cant be scared of every new thing..becuz if u r...then u will never experience anythin that comes into ur life thats new...that could be good for u...im not sayin its weird to be scared...but u gotta take the good wit the bad...and let things happen....and dont worry...as long as u keep in touch wit ur friends...u will never loose them...the only way u will is if u just stop talkin to them all together n im pretty sure u dont want that...n neither do they..so u dont have much to worry bout....dont worry...things will work out fine

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ok...my boyfriend isnt that great of a kisser. hes not bad, hes just not...great lol. should i just let things move along and see if he gets better at it or like...i dunno? lol, advie please!

well either u can wait...cuz he might not had alot of experience...n usually ppl do get better...but if he doesnt then u should be like "hey lets try somethin new.." n show him how to kiss but without tellin him....tell him u wanna experment wit kissin...show him the ways u like to kiss...or the ways u want him to kiss...n do it often...he will catch on

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about 50 responded to my last question about sex. My b/f was trying to to get me to have sex with him. When I told him I wasn't ready he accused me of cheating on him with my my older brothers friends lets call him tim(whom is also my frined) I do like tim but I would never cheast on ne b/f-he then sed he didnt care be cuz he cheated on my with sum1 i have known like my whole life-altho we were never very close-now i think tim might ask me out and i really want to say yes but i think it would hurt my ex and make him spread rumors saying a whore and a slut and stuff. I really didn't cheat on him but he won't listen to me and has his 9 yr old brother answer the phone when i call and tell me he can't talk-he evn had him call me a whore- i have no one to talk to becuz my bro and sis in law live a state away-my other sister moved there about 2 days ago and my other brother went to visit them becuz i have stuff to do this week. I'm so alone and NEED HELP FAST PLZ HELP!!0ill rate well!

if he wants to be a jerk let him...u should go out wit "tim" if u worry bout ur ex ur never gonna have a good relationship wit anyone..let him talk crap..its not gonna effect anyone but u..if u worry n ppl that listen to lies...if ppl really know the real u...then u got nothin to worry bout...as long as "tim" and any other guy u date...knows the real u...dont worry bout it...and u should stop callin him...if he wants to be an idiot n stoop so low to let his lil bro call u a whore...then thats just plain immature...if he was a real man...he would face u...n not get all hyped up n outta control when u say no to sex...he would respect u if he actually cared n wouldnt rush..so fuck him

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Im 5'0 and 13, and I weigh around 115, is that fat?

no way...now when ur like 14 n ur 5'0" n like 180lbs ...not thats fat LOL u aint got nuffin to worry bout hun

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can you get your cherry popped by getting fingered?

yep u sure can...

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i have this white stuff in my underwear.. what is it?! kthnxbye

just a discharge...not much to worry bout

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i have been fingered like 3 times but after were done my stomach hurts really bad, is this normal?

yep its normal..well for some ppl...if he goes to deep sometimes that could be the cuz...or becuz his fingers might be kinda big to....but if its neither of those...then i would say get checked out

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15 female..been dateing for bout 3 months
me and my boyfriend fight almost every nite! n sometimes they get pretty damn bad! mean we love each other more then anything in the world...and almost all the fights are started by me...and we hate fighting i mean we hate it more then anything in the wrold! and i'm so scared that were going to get into one fight and that will be it! i mean me and him have been trough so damn much! and i'm jst terrified that i'm going to lose him...but he tells me that no matter wat he want leave me...but sometimes the way he gets mad at me makes me think his bout to break up w/ me...but he tells me that he has never got that mad at me....wat can i do to stop us from fighting so much...cuz we hate fighting

i know exactly how u feel...me n my boyfriend calvin of a year n 3 months...we fight alot to...n most of is cuz of me 2...i try to just think what i say or do that makes us fight so much....n everytime i talk to him i try n stop from sayin things that made us fight last time...unless its somethin i really wanna discuss or i really feel i need to talk to him bout...like an issue wit his friend or something...but if its over somethin stupid then its just not worth bringin up anymore...n if u really hated fightin so much...u wouldnt do it as much..maybe u should both not talk for a few days..see how it goes..n if u feel better by then...then u know u shouldnt be together...theres always a major reason why u n a loved one fight so much...find that reason...look deep....and NEVER let him tell u he wont leave u..becuz u never know what could happen to change things..tell him how u feel n how u think when u guys fight makes u think he wants to break up..talk out ur problems and watch what u say...cuz otherwise...ur 3 months will be down the drain...but also keep in mind...ur still young...dont take things so serious...good luck to u

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The absolutle LOVE OF MY LIFE, the one person i love most in the whole world, ive been broken up with for a year now, and i love her sooooo much, and i cant let go! i just cant, no matter what i do. Shes way over me, i think, and i just wanna let her know how i feel, but i dont wanna bother her with it...what should i do

adam

you should always tell someone how u feel...no matter what...becuz u never know when u will get another chance..and u never know...it could turn out for the best....or it might not...but u can also learn from that...dont be shy...tell the girl how u feel...u dont want to not tell her n wonder bout "what if's" down the road...u only live life once...

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my best friend has changed soo much since last year.. her brothers are stoners and drunks and now she is starting to smoke and she also drinks some.. and i love her dearly and i dont kno what to do i try to talk to her but i am afraid shell get mad at me or something, somebody please help me!!!!

welp...u needa talk to her..becuz how else r u gonna help her..u cant just sit there n let it go by if u care as much as u say u do...it seems shes ina bad spot right now n she needs u by her side...not sit there n wonder what to do...go talk to her...help her...remind her that u care...n ur always gonna be there for her no matter what...becuz if u dont...alot could happen to someone u love due to drugs n drinkin...more then u can imagine

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