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Hi All, My name is Tara, 22 yrs breathing, and living in Houston, TX. BORN AND RAISED... I am currently a Junior at UH, and work at a school. I am an education major... so as you can see my life is devoted to service and I love watching my students grow in character and learning abilities.... I will try to answer advice honestly and to the best of my abilities....I've been through alot of ups and downs, but they have yet to stop me... I was that go to friend when my friends had problems as well...
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I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help.
You have no choice but to tell your parents and boyfriend. And if he leaves, he's nothing but a boi, because he supposed to stand by his gurl and be a man. But if he does leave get ready to smack him with child support cause every penny is now gonna go toward that baby...they expensive. The sooner the better. Now abortions, I am Completely against it, I think every baby should be given a chace to pursue life, getting an abortion is like killing someone (but this is all jux meeh!) I think you should have the lil angel! Good luck! :) God Bless! Beebyez!
Lately ive felt really bad about myself im not sure why... like i feel bad about the whole guy/relationship thing and my looks and my friends and i just dont know anymore... help me!
p.s. im 13 and live in a pretty small town in PA...
signed, low self confidence
You remind me of me in everyway, and I hate to see other pplz like this. But I the way i got through this was to listen to sad muisc and cry... just pray and ask the lord to make things better...you can only stay down if you let the devil keep you down. I don't have the best looks in the world either, but I belive everyone is beautiful...and also don't let those kind of thingz get to you cause it can hurt you mentally and physically. Jux try to find something that makes you happy, or take a long walk by yourself and think about your whole life, like the past, present, and the future. I find my Joy and Happiness in Children, & also in dancing and cheerleading! I say keep on praying about whatever your problem may be because the Lord will ALWAYS make a way! God Bless! Hope This Helped! And keep in touch with me about your problem! GL! ~1ne~
how can i get a guy to like me?
I say BeeH YoU! Dun be somebody your not cause then he'll like the person they used to know. BeeH real around him! And if you currently like someone/or find someone you like, tell them, I know if they say no it's gonna hurt but what have you got to lose? Your life? Really think about it! But I say be you and stay beautiful! BeEh fun, no guy wants a boring girlfriend too! Hope this helpz! GoD Bless! :) Beebyez!
I have liked this guy for almost two years and he seemed interested too! but he is extremely shy and now he just graduated Highschool so i won't get to see him anymore, i invited him over my house but he said no, any suggestions on what i should do? i mean he really seemed intersted in me cause he e-mails me everyday.....Any advice on how i should get over him then? should i tell him how i feel in an e-mail?
YES! I think you should tell him how you feel! But over the phone, I did that over the computer thing, and you can really tell or not if the guy accepts. But I say, dun be shy, jux tell him, and if you think about it, what's the worst that can happen? If he says no, it will be his loss, and it's not like your gonna lose your life over this. If you don't wanna tell him anything, ask him how he feels about you and go on from there! GL! Hope thiz helpz! Beebyes! ~1ne~
I Lost my period last month on tha either 1 or 3 ummm i havnt started yet n i havnt had sex none im still a virgin im scared cause my mom wants to take me to the doctor .....what could b wrong with me
Nothing, I been on it for 4 months, and now I completely fine. If the problem persists, then go to the doctor. The only thing they can do is put you on birth control to regulate your period. But GL! You'll be fine, I'm sure :)
Why don't ANY girls under the age of 18 actually have good grammar??
That's not true.... according to my calculations and judgements... then teens in today socitey enjoy the use of "slang" most feel like if they don't use the "popular" words that are known today that they will fall into the least popular teen area better known as the "geeks" in slang terms. I think the only time girls need to show their true intelligence is when they are at school...other than that, meeh stickinz to the slang! ~1ne~ (I can't spell either HAHAHAHA!)
Anyone alive????
Yeah I am , you wanna know how? "Very Carefully" :) ~1ne~
when im if a (virble) fight wit some one im not good at comin up wit good comebacks what do i do so i dont sound stupid?
I'd be like look, "your TRASH, and I'm not fighting wit you no more cause you ain't worth my time...." If you wanna be a bigger person than that, don't say nothing. Don't finght evil with evil! Hope this helpz! ~1ne~
Male 15
Why is it that i am never able to ask a girl out?
Most people say im just a stupid chicken and make fun of me. I need help :( Wats ur opinion?
Hey! I think you should just tell the gurl you like her! I was the same way as you never wanted to ask the guy,but when it comes to reality think about it (really)... are you gonna lose your life over this? So what you may be hurt.. but it's nothing your life depends upon! Take a chance! Besides if she says no, she's missen out, and go has someone for everyone! So keep yo head up and smilez! A girl can easily fall in love with a smile! :) May god bless you always! ~1ne~
i have been single for like 5 months and i feel really lonley i dont like anybody now but when i do i feel like they are not gonna like me back i mean i dont put my pic on my advice column cuz i feel like people are gonna be like "wow shes ugly she needs to take that off" what do i do??
I feel for you.... you remind me of me... but the thing is, I've only had one boyfriend in my enite life... and I've been single for 8 months. But never ever think your ugly, I know it sounds like alot cause I am my own worst enemy. But I say "Every Ending Is A New Beginning" , and "There's Someone For Everyone".... keepz your hopez up....and later life is gonna get you down again, but if you believe, the Lord will ALWAYS make a way! God Bless and Good Luck! Pray for me! :)
im going into highschool and i know that colleges always look at ur extra activities so i wanted to join something at my new high school.. but all the sports ive ever done ive never really kept up with and never been very good at.. also i want to lose a few pounds while doing it!! anyone have any ideas?
I think you should do either cheerleading or dance! It's fun! Plus you get your letterman jacket! Who wouldn't want their letterman jacket.... Plus cheerleading or dancing is an EXCELLENT way to excercise and you get popular doing them! I think you should try it! If not, try volleyball! :)
how do u get a boyfriend i dont wanna act like a whore
I'm always in that boat, but I think you should just be you.... you don't have to hang all over him or anything like that... you don't have to prove yourself to anyone...so jux be real! :) And smile and make eye contact with! Flirt a lil though! Laugh at all his corney jokes too! Good Luck and God Bless! ~1ne~