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my hair is completely recked from straightening my hair everyday. i love to wear my hair straight. so what are absolutely amazing shampoos and conditioners and like soothing milks that i could use to make my hair look unfrizzy soft and silky? and also, fix all my dead ends. please help! i rate 5 just for answering (link)
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well, a trim will get rid of the dead ends. you could always get it permanantly straightened and not have to straighten it for like.. a LONG time, but i'm not exactly sure how it works. but it's probably less damaging to your hair because it doesnt involve heating it everyday. garne` fructise smoothing milk works really well(sorry i can't spell it haha) otherwise go for pantene shampoo and conditioner, its a little more on the expensive side but its not the most expensive and it repairs your hair beautifully.
hope i helped :)
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hello, thnks for the answer... nah i'm not conceited.. i don't think that i'm pretty, that's only what i hear.. and i don't choose friends.. i know that i'm not pretty and also not ugly as well.. but only ugly guys like me i think, no cute ones... (link)
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hm, i think all you need is a little boost of self confidence. i'm sure you're gorgeous in your own way. you just have to find your best feature and flaunt it! trust me, it will get the guys to notice you more (the cute ones) and they will notice that you are confident but not conceited. there's a small difference but there is a difference. you just have to show them that you've got what they want, so to speak. ;)
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well. im 15/f and i like this guy that i KNOW likes me back.. i see him about every week or so.. we flirt and all.. but hes not doing anything about it.. all of my friends say that he told them that he 'adores me' and all.. but hes really not taking anything to the next step.. is there something i can do to show/tell him that i want him to go further? tell me if im doing anything wrong.. or if i should be doing something..
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maybe he's just one of those guys that wants the girl to make the move first. you could lean in close and cuddle and stare into his eyes and maybe he will get the hint
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What is a Godmother/Godfather?
Example: When your friend has a baby and wants you to be the Godmother.
Thanks in advance! (link)
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When a person is chosen as a Godparent (godmother/godfather) it means that if anything were to happen to the parents of the baby, you would be the one to take care of them. If they were to, sadly, die then you would become the 'parent' or gaurdian if you want to get technically of the baby and you would basically be considered the mom or dad
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My boyfriend, Isaac, of 3 months, has been different lately. He doesn't call as often and he barely ever asks me to hang out .. i'm always the one asking him to hang out. (We see each other a few times a week.. but it keeps getting less and less.) My friend Nicolas was talking to Isaac (they are friends) and asking him how things were between me and Isaac. He asked Isaac if he was getting bored with me yet. Isaac said he wouldn't mind seeing me just once a week, and he didnt want Nicolas to think he was "pussy whipped." So Nicolas told me all of this. But the thing is, i dont know whether or not to believe it, because Nicolas also likes me and is jealous of me and Isaac. But I dont think he would lie, but its possible. But I'm going to assume it is the truth because it all makes sense. What should i do about Isaac? Should i just call him less and lay low for a while or what? Thanks, sorry it was long, i will rate high :) (link)
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well, i think Nicolas is also telling the truth. Maybe Isaac is going through some peer pressure where he never gets to hang out with his friends as much as he used to and they are saying stuff like he's "pussy whipped". I think you should lay low and see him a little less, like he wants but make sure you talk to him about how he feels about everything before you do anything about it. Try to think of why he liked you in the first place and pay more attention to that feature about you and try to make him feel like you aren't controlling him even though you weren't in the first place.
On the other hand, if Nicolas was truelly lieing then i would watch out for him. I doubt it though because if he likes you enough, he wouldn't want to hurt you and he wouldn't be selfish like that.
Before you do anything, I would probably have a talk with Isaac but keep it open and not demanding answers. Don't ask alot of questions either. First, see how much he will tell you voluntarily and anything else he doesn't talk about you can question. (Guys hate when you ask to many questions, they feel as though they don't have any privacy and that they ARE 'pussy whipped') Trust me, I have alot of guy friends.
Hope I helped :)
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could someone give me the steps to successfully scrunching your hair? i always try it and can't do it right (link)
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First, you should have your hair wet. Flip your head upside-down and blow dry your hair while grabbed and squeezing your hair at the same time like a fist. once in a while put some mouse or gel on your hand so that your hair will hold. flip your head right-side up again and finish blow drying it while still squeezing it in your fist. once your hair is dry use a little bit more gel and mouse in the areas of your hair that are less scrunched and scrunch them.
It looks mad cute!
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okay. like. i guess you could say im skinny. or normal. but in my opioionn im fat. i always pinch my stomech or w.e and its gross. i have thoughts about being annerexic or belimic. and i dont want to be annerexic cause like i love to eat. and if i could like perge or w.e i sware id be belmic in a heartbeat. and its like i cant stay on a diet im tempted too easily and i exsersize but i mean im sick of the fat on my stomech and i dont do any sports. what can i do. i know my thoughts arnt "healthy" and i want to change it. but the fat on my stomech has GOT TO GO.
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i have that same problem. but, i'm planning on starting at a gym. if you can't stay focused get a personal trainer and tell them that you want to be toned in the stomach area and work at it.
if you don't want to spend money you can also do situps or crunches. side crunches also work.
This website has excercises you can do and a weekly plan to keep in shape.
http://cleo.ninemsn.com.au/cleo/fitness/toneup/toneup104.asp
hope i helped:)
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I find myself caring way too much about what other people say, especially when it comes to my family. Last night I cried myself to sleep because two of them had said something nasty about my boyfriend -- which I should be used to, since they've loathed my boyfriend from the day I met him four years ago and they've made no secret of it. I really can't go on like this, getting upset every time they say something nasty to me (not just about my boyfriend, anything). What are little tricks you can play with yourself so you don't care quite so much about what other people say? (link)
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think about the positives. if they say, for instance, your boyfriend is rude remind yourself that he is respectful towards you and is careful around them, and they are just being picky about your life. it isn't their business to make sure you know how they feel about him.
that's just an example but if you just think about the reasons why they are wrong and you'll be able to just shake it off like it's nothing.
trust me, it works.
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how do you get rid of pimples by, lets say, tommorow? ill rate 5's (link)
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well, if you wash your face, use Clean&Clear invisible blemish treatment overnight, and wash your face in the morning it should go down. Then to cover it up while clearing it up you should use OXY Balance maximum tinted acne treatment.
It always works. It won't go away in one day but it will clear it out in 3-5 days and it won't show during that time period.
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Alright so a few nights ago I got really, really drunk. Like, I can't even remember anything besides taking the shots.
But the thing is
I got drunk and this guy fingered me+I gave him head. I'm a virgin so really the only thing that's 'been in me' was his finger...
and I'm pretty sore
But the thingis...
I don't know If he actually put his dick inside of me. He might've, but he doesn't remember either.
I got my period the next morning, so I'm wondering if there's any possibility at all that I may be pregnant.
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wow. you're not pregnant, you got lucky. if you were pregnant, however, you wouldn't have gotten your period even if it was the next morning.
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My friend is mad at me. The details don't really matter but my main problem is I think she's going to tell my social studies teacher that I didn't help with other project. That is not true but she can be a real bitch sometimes and it's not under her to do something like that. I helped her find most of the information and pick out different things for our project I just couldn't put it together. How can I keep her from telling my teacher that I didn't help? Oh I don't really care if she's mad at me because she's a bad friend anyway. (link)
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keep a mental note of everything that YOU did towards the project and everything she did. if she tells the teacher tell them that you two have gotten into a fight and it is like her to be that way, then back yourself up telling him what you did and what she did and what you did together, if anything.
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my best friend is a guy. he likes one f my friends and wants to ask her out. his last two girlfriends were horrible to him and i really want him to be happy. they are already friends and she is showing signs of liking him, though she tells me she doesn't like anyone and will tell me when she does. do you think there's a possibility that she likes him and won't tell me because i am so close to him?
also, he wants to ask her out soon. so i'm trying to help him come up with a really cute and romantic way. any ideas?
thank you. =). (link)
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it seems like she doesnt want to tell you because you are so close to him. she may think that you like him and she won't tell you because she doesn't want to create a problem. make sure she knows that you don't like him like that and she will probably be more open with you. either that or she's just a really big flirt and it looks like she likes every guy she hangs out with.
he could pretend to be her secret admirer on valentines day and he could write a note saying meet me whereever and then he could be like waiting there with flowers or something and ask her. that would be so cute!
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OK, I know NOTHING about laptops but I'm looking to buy one in the next year or so. All I really want it for is working on and going on a few websites. I know you can get laptops which you can access the internet from, without a connection - how does that work? Do you still have to register with an internet company like you would with a normal PC?
Basically, I don't know a thing and would like to be better informed before I start looking. If anyone could tell me what I should be looking for, it'd be a great help :) (link)
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well, i use a laptop and i have a network card that lets me connect to the internet wirelessly. i still have internet going into my house but i have it set up so that my main computer is a network and i have my laptop is connected to that. i wish i could give you more detail about it but i didn't do it, i had my father do it. you should talk to someone in the store where you are planning on buying your laptop because they might know how it works better than i do.
hope i helped though. :)
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i need to know if grils like geting secret antmirers gifts on valin time's day( i'm giving her a cristl heart) and if i should insribe some thing on it, what should i do. (link)
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aww thats so cute!! any girl would love that, hey i would love that!
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Ok, i really like this guy and he is really really sweet.I have known him scince the beggining of the school year and he knew that i liked him but then someone told him that i didnt so now he thinks that i only like him as a friend. Well, we usually walk to class with my friend and on Friday he waited outside for me and we walked back to class alone and he seemed alot like he likes me so what are a few signs that he likes me? (link)
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aww i think he really likes you. i would go for it! i know this is so kindergarten but trust me, it works. i would just one day be like, "wow. my friend really likes this one kid but he doesn't think she likes him anymore." and see if he gets the hint.
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I don't know if anyone could possibly give me any tips but .. everytime I curl my hair, I part my hair into two parts on each side of my neck. The right side always looks perfect but, for some reason, the left side always comes out flat with a little bit of curl to it - not like the ringlets that come out on the right side. Is there anything special I can do to prevent this? (link)
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you should try putting some mouse in your hair on the left side and then curling it and maybe leaving the curler in your hair a little longer than the right side. you could also use a little hair spray while your hair is still in the curler and the carefully pull it out.
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My friend and I want to record all of our memories on a skirt and frame it. However, we're clueless on some cute ideas for what to do. We don't want to just put our insiders on it in permenant marker we want something creative. You guys got any ideas? (link)
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you could use fabric pens and rhinestones or you could go cute and take scraps of cute fabrics and sort of sew them on but leave them frayed and write stuff on them
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What does "I wear my heart on my sleeve" and "I wear my heart under my sleeve" mean? (link)
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when you 'wear your heart on your sleeve' it basically means that you show your emotions openly with others. i've never heard of wearing it under your sleeve though.. that's a new one.
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Ok, i went out with this kid,john, and he was black. MY mother didn't approve of him and there for me and him broke up.
about a month later, he moved =[
I cried for days, but eventually got over it, and can live with out him.
today he came back to ( my town ) to visit or w/e, and we were talking on the computer. on myspace he sent me messages saying hel'll call me, and that he loves me, should I beleive him? and if we meet up like tommorrow should i go for ( it ).. (link)
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you should act the way you feel. if you love him then show it. and he probably is telling the truth. if you've gone out before then there is a strong possibility that he still loves you.
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i know this sounds weird, but can a girl have sex when she has her period? (link)
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you could, but it would be pretty messy. if you are going to do it though, you should let the guy know first so he knows what he's getting into since its not as clean
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