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We have a music/dance show coming up..and not everybody will be on stage at the same time (non-ensemble) what is the best way to do..soi everybody (25) know a 1:30 hour show in about 20 hours? or am I not giving myself enough time? (link)
That's not enough time unless you guys plan on literally working your asses off for the entire day.All that you can really do is practice non stop and hope for the best.If you can,I'd see if you can get a new time.

Good luck :)


and i dont know, we're sorta growing apart cuz this ordeal. We've been friends for not even a year, but we're really close friends already. what do i do to keep our friendship? Do i act like i agree with her?

thx.

kp:) (link)
You don't need to pretend that you agree.Just tell them that you respect their views.If the feeling isn't mutual,then they aren't worth your time.True friends don't let political stances effect their relationships.


13/f

everytime i try to remember an important date, I end up forgetting, like my orchestra lessons, I miss them and now my score has gone down to a B and i'm scared Ms. H might pull me out of the class. How do you remember things? (link)
If you don't think you'll remember to look at it if you write it down (I know that I usually don't),write it on your hand or use post it notes and put them somewhere that you'd never be able to miss.


How do I go about throwing up.
I'm not bulimic but I feel sick, and it's like the stomach flu, I know that if I can just throw up I will feel better.

So is there a sure fire way to do this. I have a deep throat so using just my fingers doesn't work.
Any ideas on exactly how to do this? (link)
It sounds gross,but if you eat you'll more than likely throw up sooner or later.


my boyfriend and i were doing it one ngiht and i didnt know he taped it. and he showed it to all his friends they write whore on my locker and my desks and they always stare at me. i yelled at my boyfriend for it but he said i have a nice body and should show it some more. what should i do? (link)
Press charges.I'm not kidding.That's possibly the worst violation of privacy possible,and no one deserves to be put through that.If you don't step up then he just might keep doing it,maybe even to other girls.

Don't be an idiot.


during puberty where I think about sex a lot, and kinda get attracted to it.

I kinda sneek into my parents rooms and look at their porno videos, its sooo BAD. But i can't stop looking at that stuff.

And sometimes I go to websites with pictures, bad pictures.

I wanna stop, but cant, what do I do?!

thx

kp:\ (link)
You can either cope with the fact that you're a human being and you enjoy sex,or you can just stop and do something else when you have the urge to watch porn.


I don't know if I liked it or hated it, it was a mix, what do you people feel about smoking? How about alcohol?

I don't think much about it but, i dunno.

thx

kp:| (link)
I don't like smoking and I don't like alcohol.Both of them have a pretty high potential of ruining people.


this is kinda a weird question for me.
usually i would be asking how i would know a guy likes me.
right now i'm asking how i would know if i'm acting like i like him.
or just for a site saying something like, how to tell if she likes you.
'cause last time i got a site from wiki or something saying how to tell if he likes you.
so um, thanks ahead of time.
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If you're giving him extra attention and being particularly flirty with him,that's more than likely enough for him to be able to tell.


what is dry sex? is it just sex with clothes on, and is it exactly the same as regular sex? (link)
It is sex with clothes on,but it isn't exactly the same as regular sex since the reproductive organs aren't making direct contact with eachother.


how come my left boob is killing me and my right is just fine? my left has a little ball in the front and it hurts bad. (link)
If by a ball you mean a lump,then that's something you should get checked out.There's a chance that these could be signs of breast cancer,and that's not something that you want to put off.


So me and my friends we are really good kids... and we have really wanted to do something i dont know "rebellious" so should we?? we were either gunna drink or go get high or something... but i would just be a once in a lifetime thing though. oh and i am 14 by the way (link)
This a decision that you guys should make for yourselves.If you're all really up for it and want to do it for sure,then go for it.If you have any doubts,don't do it.

I'd recommend trying pot over anything.It's the least harmful of anything that you would plan on doing,including alcohol.


hi there ,
on the 14th of april satuday we had big fight. That night he hit me too because i was causing problem. But its not only that we love eachother too much and we used to have small fights but it used to be ok after 2-4 days but its been like 12 days we haven't talk. last night when i talked to him he said we are already broke up , we cant be together now.But i can't live without him i really love him. I don't want to loose him in any cost. i still want to keep our love alive. now he don't talk to me at all he just say go away, fuck off, leave me alone , no and stuff...please let me know what should i do but i dont wanna loose him in any cost. im so much in tension. i can't sleep , i haven't ate anything. i bought sleeping tabs today.im very serious abt him now . (link)
Lmao@staying with an abusive piece of shit.

Seriously though,he's an asshole.If he has the nerve to hit you and disrespect you,then he doesn't love you.I'd dump him and get into a better relationship.

Believe me,everyone thinks that they're in love and that it's the real deal...This isn't,so move on before you regret it.


hey i don't really have that many toys that my guinea
pigs like, but what are some household items i can use
to get them going? when i take them out, they just sit
there.. and sometimes they fall asleep! one is kinda
fat... i want to get her moving. advice? thanks! (link)
You could always get those balls that you put them in and they roll around. If you don't feel like buying anything though,just give them anything that isn't toxic and they can't swallow. Wooden blocks or small stuffed animals would work well.


is there a site where like, it says about what the lyrics of songs mean or something like that? maybe a forum or something.

thanks. (link)
http://www.songfacts.com/


Okay as most people know tomorrow is the first day back for some people..

What should I wear with jeans !?!?! please help! =D

i like hollister and abercrombiee. so any suggestions are appreciated. websites are good but not needed. (link)
Well,since it's pretty much Spring now (At least it should be.It's still cold as hell were I'm at...) I would wear something bright.Green or yellow would be best,in my opinion.Maybe a nice tank top or something if it's warm out.


im 15.f and im Asian
i know that looks arent all and that a lot of its personality but I was just wondering...

what kind of Asian girls are guys attracted to? are they attracted to people with small eyes or big eyes?Those ones that look all the same or ones that stand out a little bit? I dont know. I was just wondering Thanks (link)
Generally I'm attracted to the cute ones,I guess.It seems like they're better when they aren't necessarily hot...but cute.


Are the only Zelda games compatible for the Gameboy Advanced Link to the Past and Minish Cap? If not, please tell me other titles. Also, since GBA games are playable on the DS, and GB Color/Pocket GB games are playable on GBA, are Pocket GB/GB Color games playable on the DS? Thanks =] (link)
There's also a version of the original Zelda for the GBA.


i want to drop out of this academy and go to a normal high school. I dont know how to convince my mom to let me do it. How can I convince her? (link)
Just tell her that it isn't working for you.If she cares about your education she would let you go somewhere that you're comfortable with.I'm guessing that it has to be payed for too,so tell her that it could save money or that sending you there is a waste.Also,through my own experience,I can tell you that normal school is no worse than any special school.In fact,they can even be better.


Anyone know some good melancholy alternative/90s rock/Rock/Pop songs?

Please no rap. I hate rap. (link)
Flesh and Bone,Death Day-Alien Ant Farm
Yesterday,She's Leaving Home,Blackbird-The Beatles
Changes,Planet Caravan-Black Sabbath
No Rain-Blind Melon
Sing,End Of a Century-Blur
Parachutes-Coldplay
Time and Time Again,Color Blind,Round Here-Counting Crows
#41,Spoon-Dave Matthews Band
O Green World-Gorillaz
The Funeral Of Hearts,When Love and Death Embrace-HIM
Today,Comin' Back To Me-Jefferson Airplane
Something In The Way,Dumb-Nirvana
Tear-Red Hot Chili Peppers
I of the Mourning,To Forgive,Galapogos,Thirty-Three,By Starlight,Soothe,Blew Away,Disarm-Smashing Pumpkins


Does anyone know any sad songs to just have a good cry to...like rock and alternitive...please...thankyou if you do. (link)
I Of The Mourning-Smashing Pumpkins
To Forgive-Smashing Pumpkins
Castles Made Of Sand-Jimi Hendrix
End Of a Century-Blur
Yesterday-The Beatles
A Day In the Life-The Beatles
Changes-Black Sabbath(there's also a version with Ozzy and his daughter Kelly)
The World Has Turned and Left Me Here-Weezer
This Brilliant Dance-Dashboard Confessional




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