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hey you guysask me anything you want, i love answering questions and giving advice
im just ur normal 19 yr old girl..second yr of college.
ive been on this site since my sophmore or junior yr i belive
anyways thanks for visiting my page
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hey. ok there is this older guy i like. we flirt all the time & stuff. im not for sure he likes me but i think he might. he always talks about hooking up and stuff. like today he said u wanna go make out? i really want to cause i like him alot the problem is he is expierenced. and i would feel really funny tellin him i dont know how!!!!
Hmmm, well i know you will be tempted to make out with him, but before that you need to think about it and ask urself if he's realy worth it, because of the fact he's older he knows that younger girls will listen to him and go along with what he says, and he didnt even ask you out! i mean....why would you want to make out with someone who is not ur boyfriend? I dont want to sound like an old lady, lol, because im only a sophmore and I myself never madeout or had a bf...but thats because im waiting for someone special. haha, anyways....if you decide that he's worth making out with then just go along with it, noone was born being an expert on how to makeout...and even he had a firsttime when he wasnt experienced. Just whatever you do make sure you dont regret it because guys like to tell their friends what they do and brag about it. Dont let him take advantage of you! Goodluck with all of that and if you have any further questions let me know or IM me. Goodluck girl!
My brother (he's 20) has been dating this girl (she's 22) for about 2 years on and off. The only reason they got together was because my brother found out he was the father of their now 3-year-old. They can never seem to stay together for more than 3 months at a time. But each and every single time they break up, they end up getting back together. They are together now and I found out today that he's going to ask her to marry him. The problem is this girl has caused nothing but problems for me & my family. I have an aunt who won’t even come to family gatherings if my brother's girlfriend will be there. She likes to cause problems and not a whole lot of people in my family even remotely like her. She's also had my brother thrown in jail for no reason at all when they were separated. How he can take her back after that is beyond me. I don't think she's good for him at all. I know he can do a lot better than her. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to see him marry this girl but I also want him to do what he thinks will make him happy. What do you guys think I should do? Sorry this was so long...
I know it seems like a tough thing to watch because ur probably worried about him and his future, but since he's an adult now and has a kid, im sure he put some thought into his desision and theres realy not much you can do about it. I hope everything works out for the best =)
My name is Leah....
Me n my boyfriend have been going out for 1 month.. but we went out before 4 four months...
Me n hym are in love like so much!! n we r perfect for eachother b.c we know everything about eachother... but
LAST NIGHT... I was on the fone w/ My friend Adam n then My friend who was sleeping over...((Lisa)) wanted to talk to ((MIke, my boyfriend)) b.c. they r tight... n i was like go head idc.. cuz i wus on the fone w/ Adam n he was leaving tommoroe...
Well i wusnt flirting w/ Adam... but to all my friends (( guy n girl )) i say I love you... but not the same way i love Mike...
Well since my friend, Lisa was on the fone... w/ mike... He heard me say i love you to Adam... he started getting pissed at me cuz he thought i was flirting w/ Adam....
So wen i talked to hym later that night im like Wait, r u mad at me..?? Mike is like ya... u were flirting w/ Adam.... i wus like no i wasnt!! hes like YeaH! im like no!! im like w.e . since u dont belive me i gues im a liar....
well i broke up w/ Mike that night b.c. i though that since we r going into jr. high this year... n since he thinks that i was flirtng by saying I love you to adam.. then i thought.. we needed a break....
do u think i was right to take a lil Break... n do u think i shoudl go back out w/ Mike.. b.c i rly love hym n hes the sweetest guy i have eva known n he treats me like a queen... n he loves me soo much!! n i love hym.. but sumtimes i like being single.. but every time i think of Mike i am always liike omg i miss hym i love hym soo much!!
PLEASE HELP ME!!
xOx-Leah...
If ur just going into middle school then forget about him, i mean im gonna be a sophmore and i still never had a bf...lol. U'll still have time for all this drama, just move on and u'll find someone new. =)
Okay my best friend just told me shes bi..And im a girl to.I dont know what to do, should I still be her friend or should I like not be..Im kinda creeped out cause I dont want her to like hit on me or nething.What should I do? Im only 14 to what should I do
If you guys are best friends then dont just stop being friends! I mean it probably took a lot of guts and courage for her to tell someone, and if you guys are best friends you need to have her back no matter what! Good luck!
How do you get parents to be less strict?! i rate high! =)
Theres no real way to make them be less strict because maybe they grew up with strict parents too and were tought that way, but maybe they will losen up if you act more responsible, then they can trust you more and act a bit less strict. Good luck! =)
heya im going to be a freshmen this year so its my first time in a public school. i was wondering if most people use backpacks or binders or w.e cause i heard that most people dont and i dont want to look outta place.. any comments would be helpfull and i rate well
~thnx~
Most people here in California wear Jansport backpacks or something like that....but not roller backpacks, lol dont buy those...and they put their binders in them. =)...but if you heard most people dont then ask someone were you live because maybe its different here.
okay so there is this boy that ive liked for a long time... but yea c hes a mayjor playa and everytime i hook up wit him or w/e he always plays me over but his charm is sooo good and cute that i fall for him no matter wut! how can i just forget about him! and erase him from my life cuz i knoe that the next time i talk to him hes gonna b all flirty and touchy feely to me and then i'll fall for him all over again. please help me get over him.
Well think about it, HE'S N0T W0RTH IT, lol you said it urself..just think about how he used you in the past and dont let it happen again.
i wanna start shaving should i just ask my mom?
Tell her that you need to start shaving and that all ur friends are shaving and stuff like that...lol. But ya, just tell ur mom you want to start. =)
Okay me and me sis have started a band yet we dont own any instrument or know how to play. But i can feel it in my soul that im am destined to be great.i need to work up 170 dollars by next month or my guitar that is the cheapest one i could find will be sold. any suggestions to make money. i will try to rate you .
stay away from oommpa loompas!
Um--you can do a bake sale (lol), lemonade stand...um a yard sale, or you can ask ur parents to find you a babysitting job, you can ask for money to do chores around the house....if you have any more questions feel free yo ask. =).
how do you learn to do new hair styles? any ideas for websites or anything?
Magazine websites usually have a hair section that tells you some hairstyles, if you cant find any then you can look it up on google and it'll list some sites.
I've had a huge crush on this guy for almost a year now. He know's I like him, but he tries to ignore it like most guys do. He's in with the "popular" croud, but he's still acts really sweet and out-going and doesn't care what other people think. He waves at me a lot, he stares at me a lot, he plays with my hair and asks me to do stuff with him (in school, i.e. be his partner), and he also talks with me a lot more then other people. And just little stuff like that.
I know that a lot of people say "If you like someone, you automatically think they like you back", but I really think he likes me. But that's just me, and my friends think it's stupid to talk about, so does anyone have any adivce? Does he like me? o_O;
Maybe he likes you, maybe he doesnt. Its realy hard to tell because guys are so confusing and somethings they pretend to like you to confuse you....but i never met the guy ur talking about and i dont know you so its realy hard to tell, but there is a definate possibility that he does because of all the things you said he does.
Just for the info, I'm the shyest girl in the grade. Okay well I'm friends with this girl and she has a tendency to brag...a LOT. Okay, she is not very popular but she is the only one I can hang out with because I can't get to the next "group" in popularity levels. Then I made friends with this popular girl but I don't know how to approach her and talk to her at school, they all seem in one tight group. So basically I need to make new friends, but I'm supershy and I have a big fear of being rejected.
Being popular means nothing, i mean you dont want rumors to be spreading around about you, do you? lol just open up to people with the same interests as you. And start conversations by asking some questions or complimenting people. Everyone has a fear of rejection, but if they dont like you...then their obviously not even worht ur time.
Heyy...i want to wear a lil makeup its lite but im in 7th grade and my mom wont let me wear it out of the house.....should i just not wear it ask her or just wear a lil lipstick?
When i was in 7th grade i always put makeup on but the people in my classes told me that i was too young and that it was too much...but i grew outa the makeup phase and now i sorta hate it. But ummm...just wear like a light colored lipgloss and some mascara or something.
okay, i am a 17 yr old girl, and the guy i am crazy for is 18, only like 3 or 4 months over tho, and my mom is freaking out over it! she's like, "if you guyz do anything, i will get him for rape" im in a tough situation and i dont really know what to do. i went to my friend and she said "follow your heart" how typical... ;D (luv ya tho sis!!!! if ya see this here! lol) ...anyways. i dont know what to do because i simply adore him, and my mom is okay with us hanging out and holdign ahnds and stuff, but i dont know about dating. help me!!!! cuz i dont wanna lose him (not that i am gonna do anyhting sexual with him anywayz! ) and i dont wanna dissapoint my mom... so either way some oen gets let down, and i really dont know what to do!
If ur 17 and he's 18 then theres like no problem, ur almost an adualt and if he was 17 and you were 16...that would of been the same thing. Maybe be friends until ur 18th birthday and then go further in ur relationship?
okay i love my boyfriend like sooo much and i know he loves me too...but he gets these mood swings where one day he acts like he cant live without me and the next day he acts like im just another bump in the road...what should i do? thanx so much~!
>*BaiLeY*>
Its just Male PMS...lol, dont worry about it, guys are like that..all of them, the guy i like is mean, nice, mean, nice, mean, nice....but if it starts getting worse or you just cant handle it then just talk to him about it, maybe he's not aware of it, or he feels like u'll like him regardless of what he does or acts.
ok i really like this girl in school and i gave her some chocates and a note telling her how i really feel and now she is not my freind anymore and she is dating one of the most popular guys in school please give me advice ill rate u
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boy in denile
Well if she's acting that immature about it then she obviously isnt worth ur time, as hard as this might be to deal with, just move on, the chocolates and note was a realy sweet way of telling her, and if she treats you liek that in return then you obviously need someone better. Kepp ur head up.
Ok today at school , I met this really hot guy and I was wearing a tank top and a pair of light pair of jeans when I bumped into him and he looked at me and said sorry but before he finished his sentence he looked down my shirt and saw everything , he blush and just asked me out.!! Dose he really like me or what???
Help!!
If he asked you out right after he saw down ur shirt, then he's not the type of person you would trust and want to go out with...right? i mean...he doesnt seem like someone that i personally would go out with...i dont think he likes you, well i wouldnt know cause i dont know you...but i think he's just a weird type of guy.
What are some good fashions for back to school?
Actually .... most of the things that their selling in stores right now are realy good, i mean mostly everythings good fashion, it just depends on what you like.
my best friend always says he is gonna hug me but he never does and it makes me sad and mad i wanna slap i try to get more attention from him? he always hugs my other best friend never me.... what do i do?
Maybe since he never hugged you before, he doesnt know how u'd react..so thats why he always says he'll hug you to see what u'll say and to see if u'd mind. I bet he wants to...just hug him first!
how do i know if i need a bra?
Girls now even wear bras when their in elementary school and you could see through their shirts...but thats just training bras, i guess you wear that until you can fit into a real one.