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Q: ive been going out with kid for only a week and a day. when he asked me out, it was really random and stuff(i didnt really like him) but as the week went on, we talked on the phone and in the halls and my best friend and her boyfriend said us 4 should hang out at her byfriends house. so i was really excited the whole day. so we got there and said hi and kissed and then the 4 of us made it to the couch. he kinda had his hand over my boob and suff but not like a prev grab kinda way, like i didnt mind it. so i felt weird making out in front of my best friend and her bf( they have been going out for a year and obvii are experienced a lot and stuff) so i kinda just laied in his arms and i knew he wanted to make out. well my friend and her bf left around the corner to do something and we made out really quick and he was soooo bad (it felt like in the movie blades of glory) but you know i still went along with ituntil they came back. well 2 other times the same thing happened and by the end of the night i just wanted to leave like i was totally turned off or whatever, and it was really akward when im with him or on the phone. this kid is really nice and sweet though and my friend really thinks were a goood match and the awkwardness will ware off but i dont know, like i even asked her not to have him hang out with us again tonight! just cause i dont want to make out with him again ( i mean i was expecting to be in the moment and butterflies in my stomach) so now i dont know what to do ( i dont wanna break up with him beore christmas cause i would feel bad and stuff)
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i had the same experiance but it was right before my bf's b-day...
and i didnt wanna break-up with him soo i kinda avoided him and then he dumped me.
sooo it was all good.
but if you do want to break up with him...
just wait untill a couple days after christmas and when he calls dont answer it but dont press ignore. just let it ring...
good luck
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Q: About 1 yr ago, I used proactiv, and it has helped me so much, and I stopped using it, cause after I put it on, my face would be red, and it'd be chapped.
and when I put make-up on it looked so bad. Should I still use proactiv or not? I'm breaking out again, and I hate it! I use to wash my face with other soap, and use other medicines, and I think I wasn't suppose to do that. Like if I had a pimple, I used some acnefree wash stuff.
Clearsil or anything never worked, only Proactiv.
What do I do?
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i think you should keep using proactive...
but like a couple hours after you use it and before you use it put lotion on your face so that it doesnt get chapped and dry...
i hope it helps
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Q: Hi ppl im 18 and i have thought about going down on a girl and muff her pussy ,i just want to knw what a pussy taste like
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well the girl is probley going to cum.
and i heard cum taste's really really gross!!!
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Q: i had sex the other day and im supposed to get my period.. but it was unprotected, so im scared. he said he didnt cum in me so if i were to get my period in a few days, would that mean im not pregnant? or would i have to wait for next month?
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yes if you had your period then your not pregnant...
but for next time make sure you use a condom because you never know if the other person has a disease and if you dont want to get pregnant then its best that you do use it!
it very dangerous to have sex without protection.
dont trust a guy when they say that they didnt cum...
you can never be too sure...
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Q: Ok so well i`m 13/f.
I'm a very family oriented girl, and my family is EVERYTHING to me. However, lately, I know that i've been acting bitchy to my parents, and giving them attitude/answers. I always apologize and say i`ll never do it again, but i keep doing the bad things [not doing what they tell me to].
But the thing is, i've been having so many problems at school & being pressured, that my mood is just CONSTANTLY bad. So now it's break, and I have two weeks. Also, in feb. is a trip [to a diff. city] that I REALLY want to go to. My dad's already paid the 1st deposit, but is now saying i won't go if i keep up my bad attitude. Can someone please tell me things that I can do to fix my relashionship with my parents?
Thanks so much!
xoxo!!!!!
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well everyone talks back to their parents...
and if you want to go on this trip then try your hardest not to talk back.
like if your parents say something to you and u feel like saying it back say it in your head or go to your room and write it down, but dont give it to them. that will usually clear your mind.
when they ask you to do something, do it even if you absolutily dont want to.
you just have to keep up with this utill your trip and when you come back then you can go back to being the same...
or if you still wanna keep up the good relationship with them then just keep doing all this.
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Q: okay well there is this boy and he just is driving me nuts. Like i have liked him sense november something. and i like him alot and he always jokes about having sex with me and i guess this sounds nasty and wrong but i guess i sorda like it because it makes me like him more. I think he dosnt like me though and i have no clue on how to tell if he does and i also want to know if a boy likes when a girl make outs with him before their going out? How are you sopposed to know how to kiss and when to?
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well its hard to tell if a boy likes you, but if he does then you'll know...
you can get some clues about him liking you if you hang out with him when hes with a bunch of girls and if he flirts with them to... then hes not serious about you, but if he pays more attention to you then to them, then that is one sign that he likes you...
you could always get one of you friends to ask:
"do you like her?... tell me i wont tell anyone"
but of course after that she come and tells you.
some guys like the making out thing b-4 you go out... but i dont think you should make out with him because then you've already giving that up and thats less of a reason to asking you out because it already happened...
and for kissing, it come natually, just follow the guys lead, dont force it to happen because then it will turn out bad...
you'll know when to kiss, when the boys leans in!
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Q: I'll make this short and simple.
Last year, I went with a guy to Homecoming, a friend set us up. We danced really dirty, became friends. Hung out twice: went to movies and once to taco bell. There are periods when he calls me often... I don't call him often at all.
I have been ignoring his messages ever since we went to taco bell, about September-ish. He texted me 3-4 times, never called me. All the texts said was what's up.
Today, 12:15am, I get three missed calls from him, a text message saying "whats up hadn't talked to you in hella long" and then a voicemail saying "I miss you call me back as soon as you can."
I don't like this boy. He seems fake, he used to drink heavily, although now he claims he doesn't do that anymore. He's very stupid. It's impossible to have an intelligent conversation with him, he pretends like he understands exactly what I mean. He doesn't.
My question: do I call him back, or keep ignoring him? I don't see him at all (we don't go to the same school, live half an hour away from each other, etc) I felt like I led him on while I was talking to him (I'm not sure if I really was though). We had some awkward moments where we questioned if we are just friends or are interested in dating. But what if he has deep feelings for me and I'll hurt him by either rejecting him or ignoring him. I just don't know what to do. I've never been in this situation before...
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well he might have strong feelings for you but in this case its about you and how you feel. you cant be with a guy that you dont even like...
i dont think you should ignore him...
you should call him up and say:
"look i had alot of fun with you on homecoming night but where just too different from eachother and your just not my type. i think its best for us to go our seperate ways"
hopefully he'll get it!
good luck =]
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Q: i used to had a boyufriend we were together for 2 years and a half and afte r several things like him not being tolerant enough , and him criticising everything i do , wehre do i go , who do i talk to , my friends, family, my clothes, the things i like to do , and even the music i like to listen to ....this was a huge deal for me and i d ont want him back cause hes done kind of cheating things to me , but a part of me still wants him to be there, but i dont want him back! but when i notices he stops talking to me or things like this i always do something that give him like the hope we are getting back (oh cause he always try to make us be together again) the weird part ...is that a part of me knows that im better of without him, and hes not the one for me ......but the other part...still wants him to like me and being there like trying to get back and doing this kind of things =S that part doesn't want him to move on , i cant imagine seeing him with someone else or dating anyone else,,,but at the same time i dont want him to be with me!! pleaseee help!! this is killing me and im also hurting him cause one day i make him understand i still want to get back and the next day i tell him something like oh im glad we broke up its better off this way :S
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well he was your boyfriend for 2 years and the thing is that you are going to have these feelings wheather you want them or not...
If you dont want him back then try your best not to lead him on, and i think you should tell him that you only want to be friend...
you know there is nothing wrong with flirting with your friends and "flirting buddies" is probley the only thing you 2 should be. i know that you dont want to see him with any other person, but thats the reaction people usually get when a relationship is done and you care about that person alot!
you just have to learn how that let go!
thats really all you can do...
i hope i helped
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Q: dno where this goes...
i feel like my family and friends dnt appriciate me. none of my friends ever want to hang out with me im just left at home by myself and even my best friend doesnt really talk to me anymore. we have drifted so far apart and as much as i try it just feels like she doesnt even care. i just want some one to appriciate me like a boy friend to love me or something.
last year i had belimia... and i was depressed well thats what my parents thought. iv come so far from that i mean getting better and everything... but now it just feels like im back where i was then and that its gunna happen all over again, i have no 1 to turn too and i dnt no wat to do anymore...
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well sometime people drift apart...
you really cant do anything about it.
if you feel like you bestfriend is ignoring you confront her about it.
and if after that she still keeps ignoring you, its sad to say but you need some new friends...
you need friend who care about you!
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Q: 16f okay well me and my bf have been going out for only a month. and usually my relationships go realy slowly like it takes a month for us to just get comfortable with eachotger. but this guy is so diff!!! we are really comfortable with eachother and already moving on to the next level. and sometimes i just feel like this is too much of a good thing. like we are getting attatched way too fast. but in a way it feels like the right thing to do. anyways my question is, is it okay to do oral after only going out for a month? and im kinda rusty with all that so im kinda freakin myself out....i mean hes my bf i shouldnt be afraid....but idk. any tips oradvice will help on any of this. im not sure if it makes sense but ya lol
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yes you can do things with him after a month. it doesnt really matter how long you've been together, all that matters is how strong you feel about him.
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Q: This one guy in my school is driving me nuts. Sometimes I get the hint that he kinda likes me. Then another day, its as if he's looking right past me and not at me. We kinda have "history". He asked me out and I said no. But now he's kinda changed and I like him now. But sometimes he notices me and sometimes he doesn't care at all.
I want to know if he likes me or if it might all be coincidence.
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well the thing is guys are like that sometimes.
i think that hes just playing hard to get.
dont let it get to you!
if he wants to talk to you then believe me he will be the one to come up and talk, but other then that just give him time...
he'll come around
=]
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Q: I like this one guy at my school. I've liked him for a while, and i think he maybe knows? But all he's been for me is heartache. The funny thing is, it's just one big crush. I don't think he likes me. And a couple of times, hes made it quite obvious. But part of me still holds onto him. How do I just let go? He's only in one of my classes, and I sometimes see him at lunch hour, and usually always after school. Its not like he's in every one of my classes. I need advice on how to get over him.
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to get over one guy...
someone has to come along and heel your heartbreak
i think you should snuggle up in your bed and listen to a sad song and just let all your tears out!
there is nothing wrong with crying!!!
you have to remember that there is always someone out there for you, even if its not the person that you wanted
i hope that helps :]
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Q: well i got out of a bad but serious relationship if you know what i mean. hard to explain, but now i like this kid. im preppy and he is emo adn were total opposites. but we both love writing and the only time we really talk personally is on myspace. well he reall is proud of me for my success with my poetry and no one else feels as excited as i do. except him. idk... what should i do.. my writing is my one and only love. i can say what i truly feel and not be jugded, adn i always thought no one would understand that. plus my family doesnt know that i got a scholarship for poetry cuz they want me to continue the fam business of being a cop. how do i tell them the way i feel about writing .... and how do i react to this secretly sexy guy
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I think your parents will be happy that you got a scholarship. its seriously a once in a life time chance and you would be giving up an amazing opportunity. you should tell them!
and about this guy just go along with it. dont let material things get in the way. follow your heart! you two will end up where your suppose to end up.
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Q: i have a boyfriend, and he is amazing and perfect. But I can't help but to be tempted by other guys. I just really need passion in my relationship and my boyfriend is so awkward about it. How can i resist temptation, because I don't want to mess up my relationship or hurt my boyfriend =/
and i can't really tell my boyfriend to pump it up in the bedroom - he can't help being a little nervous about that kind of stuff.
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well if you do want more passion then you do have to talk to him about it other wise your always gonna be tempted.
to resist temptation, make sure your not alone with another guy, so that way nothing gets out of hand.
and remember, whats meant to happen will!!!
wheather or not if its for better or for worse
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Q: if me in this boy was goin together for 1 year and some month and he started talkin to this girl so i broke up wit him and he got mad but we still talk i still love him i still spend a night at his house do u think we should go together again or just be friends? i think about him alot n i can't talk to no other boy cause i think we will get back together someday but i do talk to other people. What do i do? please tell me
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well if you still have feelings for him you should talk to him about getting back together.
it will probley make you happier and if he was just "talking" with that other girl then he
100%ly deserves another chance.
talk about it with him and see what happens
good luck :]
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Q: my boyfriend is coming to my house soon for the first time when my parents are away and i need stuff to do...besides making out.I dont mind other flirtin activies. I dont want anything like watch a movie because that is not very interactive. im 16 by the way
thanx
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there are lots of things you could do!
a great flirting activity it playing twister!
thats always is fun especially with someone of the opposite sex and it could get intense!
if you dont want it to be just tou two, you can also maybe invite another couple over to join the both of you.
have fun :]
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Q: Hi, i will first giv u a brief summary - i 1st met my ex when i was 16, he was 27. We have always had a rocky relationship due to the lack of trust. I know he could never just have 1 woman from his reputation n i wud often do things to get him back. In Feb this yr we got engaged, due to be married March 08. On bonfire nite we had a garden party with our neighbours n i got the impression somethin was happenin btween him n the girl nxt door. I split up wit him cos i knew i wud never be able to trust him n it wasn fair on either of us. It has been 2months n he is seeing the next door neighbour - so my suspicions were correct. Altho i have a new boyfriend i cant help but get jealous n he plays on that. He has told me he wants me bak n still wants 2get married n wit it bein this time of yr i am tempted but i jus know i'm never gona be able to forgive him. Please advise........
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if i was you i wouldnt fall for it.
i mean if you 2 were engaged to be married and he cheated on you then what make the difference that you are married? he will probley cheat on you again. i know its hard to let go but that the only thing you really can try to do, and it probley will take a long time but you really have no choice. just do other things to keep your mind off of him. in the end everything that is suppose to happen, will happen, and its the way its meant to be.
i hope that helps!
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Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months, he's a wonderful guy, and won't ever do anything to me, he wants me to put his hands/or tell him anything I wanted to do, and I like that about him, he's amazing.
So, a few nights ago we talked about going further, and we're only going one step, AND ONLY THAT. We got that clear!
Well...he's going to finger me. He's had sex before, maybe 3 times, but in a 1yr relationship!
Is this going to be bad? Since he has had sex before...anyway, one more question, I should check his nails first right, and make sure no cuts at all, right?
Please don't think I don't know what I'm doing, I've thought about this for a few months, and I'm ready!
Sorry this is long..just can anyone give me some advice or something?
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its a good thing that he wants to go only one more step. that means that you actually do mean something to him.
but if you go want to do further then when "figering time" come around...
take the lead and make that led to something else.
well if hes going to figer you it has to be "in the moment" like you cant make it obvious that your checkin his figers for cuts.
hold his hand and just look down at it and play around with his hands a little.
that will make it less obvious.
and make sure his hands are clean and washed.
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Q: I really am convinced that my parents hate me.
My dad has said he'd rather pay for boarding school than have to see me everyday, and tonight he said that he doesn't have time for me anymore.
My mother doesn't listen to a word that comes out of my mouth. I've noticed that I talk louder around her than I do around anyone else.
I am such a good kid. I get good grades, my room is close to clean, the whole shebang.
Why don't my parents love me?
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i think your parents DO love you, but they are probley just stressed out with work and paying the bills and stuff like that!
i think they dont realize what they are doing.
if i was you i would sit them down and be like
"look, you guy are my parents and im your daughter, why do you treat me like u dont love me? do you not want me anymore"
that usually gets there attention about what they are doing.
i really hoped that helped.
i wish you the best
Good Luck :]
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Q: I dont know why, but I am really afraid to drive! I'm 15 and I've already driven a couple of times, but everytime my mom asks me if i want to drive somewhere, my stomach just drops! Thats how bad i hate driving! I don't know how to get over this fear, and I mean, i'm not a horrible driver, I just am so nervous!
I'm takin drivers ed this summer, so my question is, how do i get over this fear before drivers ed?
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practice makes perfect!
ask your mom to take you out to an empty parking lot so you dont have the fear of being around other cars or in busy streets.
practice there and the once you think you've mastered the parking lot slowly go out into less busy streets and then eventually you'll get the hang of it!
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bio
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My name is sara
i put my opinion into things.
i love helping people with their problems.
ask me whatever you want, and i will try my best to answer it
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Gender: Female Age: 18 AIM: Member Since: December 20, 2007 Answers: 123 Last Update: December 28, 2009 Visitors: 7591
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