Question Posted Wednesday December 19 2007, 11:34 am
Hi, i will first giv u a brief summary - i 1st met my ex when i was 16, he was 27. We have always had a rocky relationship due to the lack of trust. I know he could never just have 1 woman from his reputation n i wud often do things to get him back. In Feb this yr we got engaged, due to be married March 08. On bonfire nite we had a garden party with our neighbours n i got the impression somethin was happenin btween him n the girl nxt door. I split up wit him cos i knew i wud never be able to trust him n it wasn fair on either of us. It has been 2months n he is seeing the next door neighbour - so my suspicions were correct. Altho i have a new boyfriend i cant help but get jealous n he plays on that. He has told me he wants me bak n still wants 2get married n wit it bein this time of yr i am tempted but i jus know i'm never gona be able to forgive him. Please advise........
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MissKhalili answered Thursday December 20 2007, 9:13 pm: if i was you i wouldnt fall for it.
i mean if you 2 were engaged to be married and he cheated on you then what make the difference that you are married? he will probley cheat on you again. i know its hard to let go but that the only thing you really can try to do, and it probley will take a long time but you really have no choice. just do other things to keep your mind off of him. in the end everything that is suppose to happen, will happen, and its the way its meant to be.
Steve83 answered Thursday December 20 2007, 12:01 pm: You have got to want to help yourself first. It seems to me he wants his cake and eat it too. I have one question to ask you, How can you be in a relationship with someone you can't trust, and who apparently cheats on you. Besides, 27 year old dating a 16 year old is wrong. Sounds like he's a user who is only trying to get sex. [ Steve83's advice column | Ask Steve83 A Question ]
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