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Going farther than makingout
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months, he's a wonderful guy, and won't ever do anything to me, he wants me to put his hands/or tell him anything I wanted to do, and I like that about him, he's amazing.
So, a few nights ago we talked about going further, and we're only going one step, AND ONLY THAT. We got that clear!
Well...he's going to finger me. He's had sex before, maybe 3 times, but in a 1yr relationship!
Is this going to be bad? Since he has had sex before...anyway, one more question, I should check his nails first right, and make sure no cuts at all, right?
Please don't think I don't know what I'm doing, I've thought about this for a few months, and I'm ready!
Sorry this is long..just can anyone give me some advice or something?
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Well, it really isnt as easy as you think it is. It is goin to hurt. And your gonna have to finger more than once.
And him not being a virgin and you are then its better becuase ones knows wat they are doing and make it easier and they can teach you. It may take more than once.
But u should make sure your on the pill first too. Im not trying to judge you or anything just make sure your ready, only have sex if your will to suffer the consequences it may bring.
WEll, i hope i helped a little
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its a good thing that he wants to go only one more step. that means that you actually do mean something to him.
but if you go want to do further then when "figering time" come around...
take the lead and make that led to something else.
well if hes going to figer you it has to be "in the moment" like you cant make it obvious that your checkin his figers for cuts.
hold his hand and just look down at it and play around with his hands a little.
that will make it less obvious.
and make sure his hands are clean and washed.
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