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Tell me now your words never meant me harm."

I'm Allison.
I don't really care too much about ratings. Either you want my advice or you don't.

I've pretty much been through it all. From internet relationships to broken hearts to divorces to bad friends.

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Here's a little about me non-advice related;
-I'm from Texas. Where the heat never ends.
-I love music from the indie/emo/alternative rock genre.
-Reading and swimming are two of my passions.
-Music is number one
I guess you could say I'm a very artistic person.

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hey! So heres my question, I am in 8th grade and my school has this "end of the year 8th grade formal"-ish thing. I just recently(as in like the last 3 days) started going out with this really great guy, and we are going to formal together. He is very nice and really sweet and isn't a perv like most 14 year old guys. So anyway, at this dance I think I might be wearing a strapless dress, and because im kinda skinny and dont have much boobs(im in like the biggest size you can be in a A cup, small I know ok geez) Do you think a strapless push up bra will make it look like i have more boobs? I know this guy wont care casue he is really nice, but I dunno I just want to look "sexy" haha. thnx so much! -marsbars

Ok
Trust me, Push-Up strapless bras suck.

It won't matter about the strapless dress[in relation with your cup size], just wear your hair down, and have really pretty jewelry.

But personally, I find halter dresses a lot more comfortable because you have to spend the whole night pulling up your strapless dress. Although halters tend to be more low cut then other dresses, which may look odd in some cases.

But if this dress looks absolutely o-mazing on you. Then forget the bra and wear that dress. It really doesn't matter whether you have boobs or not, we all came beautiful, boobs or no boobs. :]

\\♥LoveSucks♥//

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I'm 13/m and my middle sister is 15 like you are. The other day when I thought I was the only one home she surprised me and saw me jacking off. She didn't say anything at the time and still hasn't but I am so embarrassed when she is around me now. Should I try and talk to her about it ? I'm affraid she's going totell her friends or something , thats all I need....... I'd rather die then face her friends knowing that they know I wack off to porn.

Don't feel embarrased, your 13 and your hormones are raging, trust me you are completely normal :]

If you are close with your sister, then you should definatley talk to her about it; like explain to her about your raging hormones and that you would like it if she didn't tell anyone.

Even if you aren't that close, it should still be fine, your blood related. :D

But make sure you have this conversation out of hearing range of you other siblings, they could hold that against you ;]

I'm just kidding about that :].

Since you would like my point of view, I wouldn't tell my friends about it, because personally, it would make me feel akward. So don't worry too much about that part. And I would feel much better if you spoke to me about it.

So I say go ahead and talk to her, but it really is your decision

\\♥LoveSucks♥//

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Me and this guy Alex dated before, then he dumped me and said that hes too frigid for me and that im always depressed, when i was only depressed for 2 days because my friend killed herself...Then 1 day ago he said "I shouldnt have dumped you" and stuff and im like "Well lets see if we can go back" and he goes "Huh i cant just 'go back out' with you again..." and im just like "Wow you really cant think" because i thought that he would get the hint of asking me out again... But i think hes too shy or something...i know that he likes me and he knows that i like him, but can someone please help me see that he can ask me out again? Thanks!!!

This guy is a total jerk.
If he can't see that you were upset about your friend commiting suicide, then all he cares about is himself.
I suggest finding a new guy
But if you really wanted to go back out with him, ask him yourself. There is no rule against it.
Or you can just build up the relationship again.
But as I see it, when he came back and said he souldn't have dumped you, he felt a small remorse(sp?). Then I saw how you replied and the way he answered it makes me think that he really doesn't care all about your feelings.
Anyone deserves better than that.

\\♥LoveSucks♥//

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so i really like this guy. me, my best friend, him and his friend are all going to watch car races on sunday. the thing is im really shy around guys i like and i dont want to be that way around him. my friend and his friend know i like him but im not sure if he knows or not. so what should i do to not be so shy around him and to give him little hints that i like him?

I'm pretty sure that if his friend knows, then he knows.

Just try not to act to shy.
Maybe when your watching the race, subconsciously(Sp?) scoot over next to him.
Ask him who do you think will win, then make compliments on him. Like his clothes or his hair.
Don't follow him though. That would be creepy. Just try to be around him a lot.
Maybe ask him about himself, like his music taste, favorite color, just strike up a conversation you two can go on.

It's really not that bad, once you get in to it!
Just go with the flow!
I know you'll do great :]

Tell me how it goes :]

\\♥LoveSucks♥//

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i was shaving "down there" and i got an ingrown hair..does anyone know what i should do to it? should i just leave it? and is there anything i can do to prevent it further? (i do use shaving cream)
thanks.

Leave it alone and let it heal, like the person below said. I used to get those, when ever I shaved with cream, and I didn't want to use a pad because those hurt in my opinion.

So I suggest using Nair or Veet, its a cream that you leave on and it dissolves the hair.

You can get it at most drugstores, and it's not expensive. But remember not to leave it on for too long.

\\♥LoveSucks♥//

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