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Not much to say about me...But here is a site for those of you that need some advice :) It is anonymous so don't be shy, if you have a problem, tell me about it! If you want to know more about me or who i am, check my xanga site!

My friend is rather cool fyi, heck, but he's definitely not as cool as me.

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Ok I'm not sure if I should lose weight or not I am 5'2 or 5'3 I'm not exact, and i weigh between 100 and 105, like on and off, but I don't know weather to just stay the way I am or lose weight. help me.

No way. Thats a perfect weight for your height. I wouldnt stress about weight to much. Because most weight it muscle anyways. It really depends on if you feel good about yourself. If most of your weight is fat then maybe you should just get toned and not necissarily lose weight. Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

Whoah girl, chill. I think you COMPLETELY missed what that guy was saying. I think all he's saying is girls, in general not you specifically, need to just accept themselves and let it all go. Where did you get from his post that he was saying YOU were all insecure and did the other posts about the bodies and stuff? That was just out there in your response... but okay, keep on giving that advice ;-)

No no no. Lol, i think we all misinterpreted everything. I was just saying that I dont do that stuff often at all so Im not like that I just give the advice and whatnot but i really was appreciating his concern and I totally agree with him. It just came across to me that there was a bit of an attack. But I see that i was wrong. Thanks for letting me know.

(Girls are insecure, we do need to get over it. Haha.)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

hi its been 2 months since my dad left for monterrey to learn french an he will be gone six months. Anyway im stuck at home with my sisters and my mom who are driving me crazy and it seems like the only way i can get away is by smoking and ive got asthma and one kidney. i just need advice on soning out because if i keep up the way ive been smoking ill be dead before im thirty. Any good advice would be nice and i will rate high.

ok, Definitly chew nicotine gum. It will kill your craving. That would be good. To keep you from going crazy go out with your friends more. Just so you can get away from your family. Or go for walks, to clear your mind. Maybe call your dad so you can talk with him. Hope I helped!

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

ever since i was a baby ive had really blue eyes, and now i want to emphasize them. everyone thinks theyre really pretty, will wearing like, teal colored clothes emphasize them?

Wear a lot of solid colors. I guess teal. But blacks should do it or greens maybe. Also wear eyeliner. It will make your eyes more noticable and look wider. Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

Alright..I've lost a good amount of weight...but I still have a huge butt and thighs...and I'm pretty freaking skinny everywhere else...how do I get them smaller...any good toning exercises anyone knows of?

Leg presses. They work your butt and thighs and it works wonders. Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

i always seem to go for the wrong guys and get hurt in relationships. how can i stop that

Before getting into a relationship go on a few dates with the guy to even see if hes right for you. That way you arent getting hurt and you are being cautious. But at the same time you are seeing if the guy is right. Ya know what i mean? Hope I helped ;)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

I am 17, 5'11' and 103lbs. I ont know what to do. I need to gain weight. I was just wondering if anyone could recommend anything for me. I am so skinny its disguting. Help Please!

You dont really need to gain fat. You can gain muscle. That way youll be toned, and healthy instead of eating junky foods and being unhealthy. Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

in about a month my family and i are driving to florida from ny. there are 6 of us and we drive an expedition. im afraid that my 3 annoying brothers (11,7, and 4) are going to make this trip hell..what are some ways i can prevent this from happening? Also..for anyone whos stayed at a disney resort..whats your favorite one and why? We love the Carribean Beach resort but in case we go somewhere else what do you suggest?
Thanks

Just bring a cd player and some headphones. And SLEEP. Lol. Or read a book. Always works for me. And Ive only been to Disney once and I too stayed in the Carribean Beach resort. So i dont know of any others. Sorry. Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

I always look at myself and see how not pretty I am. I hate it. Then I look around at all my friends..why do they get to be automatically pretty? No makeup for some--but still not ugly. I have kind of chubby cheeks but not huge. I have dark blonde, almost brown-ish straight hair a little past my shoulders. I'm sort of tan, but not much. My eyes are hazel, mostly green. If I go out or to school, I wear eyeliner and that's it. I also have a little bit of a belly. I really think I'm not pretty. I've never had a boyfriend, and maybe that's why? Any ideas for makeup that's not too drastic, that will make my face look better? If you have ANYTHING..please tell me.

A lot of people feel the same way you do. Including myself. And you probably are pretty. No one is ever happy with themselves. Its just the way people are. But if you want to be more happy with yourself, then try to loose the stomach and just wear a little bit more makeup. I only wear eye makeup. I use eyeliner, mascara, and a natural color of eye shadow (its a shimmer brown. any type of brown usually works).As far as loosing the stomach goes, just do crunches. Crunches actually work really well. And there are many different "types" of crunches to work different parts of the stomach. I hope I helped. And dont stress to much. Its probably all in your head.

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

ok i have pretty skinny legs... like i eat well n stuff im not anorexic or anything like that but ive always had really skinny legs... i want to give them some shape... does anyone know some good excersises to do that? thanx a bunch! i rate high

Its not so much that you need to gain fat, its muscle. So just going running, or do leg presses. It gets your legs in great shape. Sports are good too. Softball, basketball...etc etc etc.

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

I'm 13/f and I'm a little over 105 pounds. This is pretty normal, and I'm happy with my body, but my tummy has been a little pouchy lately and I want to know how trim it down because my uniform for track is spandex and is really tight and I don't like my stomach sticking out. If you have any ideas what I can do-----plz help!!!!!!

The ever famous crunches, Crunches are really good suprisingly enough. Plus there are different things you can do. Instead of the regular sit up/crunch or w/e. If you wanna know some Im me and ill let ya know.

I'm overweight... I participate in a lot of sports and i think i get enough excercise... i could be doing more... but my big problem is sweets... its like an addiction... i just cant seem to stop eating them!!!!!! does anyone have any ideas on how to help me eat more healthy?

Slowly start getting yourself away from them and more towards fruits and veggies. What you can do is dip apples in chocolate or peanut butter. and slowly get away from the sweet part and just eat the fruit along. I dunno, that might work. Or just stop buying those sort of things so they wont be around the house for you to have. Hope I helped.

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

ok well i like this guy and he likes me he said. but i want to ghet him to focus totally on me because we arnt going out so he like flirts with other girls you know a typical guy. well hes punk and stuff and really funny. hes a really good kisser to but how do i keep him wishing he had me. i also need makeout tips. i know everyone says go with the flow but i need more please help!!!!
ill rate high!!!

Play hard to get. Dont always go after him, make him come after you. Ya know what I mean? Instead of always talking to him first make him talk to you. Also have confidence. Confidence is always a good thing. And guys love it. If you think you are hott, or pretty or w/e, then a guy will think you are as well. As far as making out goes, i have no idea. Hope I helped some.

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

Im extremely tan just because of where i live. Is anybody else like that? But my face isnt as dark as my arms and legs and stomach and ect. its like it fades when it gets to my neck/face.. is it because i have my hair down so its harder for the sun?

Maybe its your hair. Your face probably just doesnt absorb as much sun as the rest of your body. If you want to even it out then use sunless tanning lotion, or bronzer. It works great. Hope I helped.

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

i wanted to know if i should switch schools...cuz i have like 4 friends in my school now...n i dont wanna leave em...but i reli hate this school soo much..n its not like i am moving further away...id juss b switching schools...but idk what to do...cuz i love my 4 friends but lifes hectic in that skool n makes me wanna do serious stuff to myself...plz help me
-Jenn-

Yes i would say definitely switch. If there is a chance that you would hurt yourself in anyway than you need to leave. And as you said, you wouldnt be leaving, just switching. So you could see your friends over the weekends and stuff like that. Hope I helped.

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

Hi I just need an answer fast, so I'm asking you because you were the first one on the search list thing...
OK there is a hockey game tonight for my HS, and I need to know what to wear. I'm just going with my friends, but my boyfriend MIGHT go. What should I wear to be comfortable and not freeze, but still look cute?

Jeans. Converse, Vans, or something along those lines. And a cute shirt, like a t shirt. but not grundgy. And then take a sweatshirt with you.

Are there any girls out there that know ways to make guys notice you? Phsycally and personality wise? Any tips on subtle flirting?? Ant tips on Overtly flirting? I rate well.

Guys really like confidence. If a girl thinks she is pretty than she is to the guy. Unless she is already pretty. But confidence is still good. Like smiling a lot and laughing. And just showing your personality all around. Flirting wise, be touchy feely. Like as you pass the guy you like in the hallway and poke him in the side or something. They usually poke back. Lol. Stuff like that. Or write on his hand. Be like "let me see your hand" and grab it then write something on it. anything you want. Maybe write something that will give him hints you like him. Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

I'm 5'7", and under 100lbs - unrealistically skinny, but unfortunately definite. The only problem is that my stomach is not as flat as it could be, any tips on gaining weight and stomach flattening?

CRUNCHES CRUNCHES CRUNCHES!!! I do crunches all the time and it is working so well for me. That way you are gaing muscle instead of just loosing MORE fat. Leave a message in my inbox if you want to know some great way to loose the fat. There are different types of crunches for different parts of your stomach. So leave a message if you want to know what they are.

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

Hey! Ok: so I have hundreds of pictures in my a box in my room. I take a roll at every other week. My question is: How can I display them in my room (without frames) I have some along my mirror. But what is a cool way of hahging them up? Thanks so much!

They have these really cool wall hangings. And they look almost like a bulitin board but they have ribon on it thats criss crossed. And to put the pictures under the ribons so it will stay. It sounds kind of weird but it looks really cute. They have all kinds of patterns for the background of the wall hanging. You could probably find them at walmart or target or something like that.

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

Well, I hope this doesnt get deleted because I really need some advice. If anybody knows how to handle Geometry proofs and knows how I can get ahold of it, that would be great. It is over Finding congruance of triangles, by using a proof. Please Help!!! ^_^

_-Devin-_

OOO!!! I know that stuff!!! You can prove triangles congruent by the following:
AAS (angle angle side), SAS (side angle side), ASA (angle side angle), SSS (side side side), HL (Hypotenuse leg theorum) and then there is a bunch of other stuff too, so IM me for that stuff. My sn is KandyKane2454 :) Hope I helped!!!

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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