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Hey, I really like this guy but I don't really know him. He's going to be a senior and I'm going to be a sophmore, and yeah. This is gunna sound stupid but he is on my brother's baseball team and he always looks at me like.. in a good way soo i dont know how to take it or anything.. so yea..

If he's on your brother's baseball team, I would use that to my advantage and go to the games and practices as much as possible. Try talking to him and getting to know him better and encourage him before the game starts. Also, to get your brother to help you out and ask if he's really interested in you. Hopefully, he'll ask you out sometime. Good luck!
♥ Brooke

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everyones saying you bleed wen you have sex


...please explain this to me & is it weird for him? my b/f is not a virgin and i am

You're just "popping your cherry". Some people will bleed and some people won't. You shouldn't be having sex with him unless you're comfortable with the possiblilty that it may happen.
♥ Brooke

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i know this is kinda gross .. but ive been broken out on the back of my shoulders for the longest time.. probably since freshman year, im gonna be a junior in the fall. is there anything i can do besides using creams? they really dont seem to be doing anything :/

My brother had the same problem until he bought AcneFree Soap. (Woah. I sound like I'm on a commericial. Haha.) You can get this at Wal-Mart. Its about $12.00 but, it works!
♥ Brooke

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I am not big AT ALL, I am very little and I am NOT bragging. I am 13 years old and I'm female, guys don't really want to go out with me because I'm so thin. how do I got more meat on my bones faster than a few mounths or weeks?

P.S. I am 65 pounds.

Maybe you have a higher metabolism than most people and its harder for you to gain weight. I suggest eating more breads and pasta dishes.
♥ Brooke

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im sick with a plain cold...what are some good medicines that actually work that ARE NOT pills
ill rate


XoXoX

Go to the doctor and get a check up. He'll ask you if you would like a liquid or pill.
♥ Brooke

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what are good types of hair gel/moose for when you scrunch up your hair and it makes it look curly/wavy
i rate HIGH!!!!!!! plz help!!

I use TX Curl Booster and GOT2B Curling spray. You can get these at Wal-Mart and are only about 2 dollars and they tighten lifeless locks and create lavish curls. I found out they're more effective if you use it when your hair is wet! I don't use moose because curling spray is just simpler and easier.
♥ Brooke

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hey. well this might be confusing so i'll apologize now. in novemeber of last year my aunt got married. i hated my new uncle. i know, thats rude but its also true! i loved my aunts old boyfriend .. he was great! they were going out for 6 and a half years! he was so funny too but then they broke it off. then my aunt met this other guy who she is now married too. he's okay i guess but hes such a freak! he totally changed the relationship between me and my aunt. before they met eachother me and my aunt were best friends!!! now we cant even have a simple convorasation with out him standing there & making sure everythings appropriate.

heres a little about him:
- hes a Church freak ( i guess theres nothing wrong with that .. )
- we have to listen to religious music ( and since he wont let me listen to B96 or KissFm .. i asked if i could listen to country music and he said 'no!! if you want to listen to that sh*t .. get ur own ride!' )
- he wouldnt take me and my grandma to fannie may because he said 'Jesus didnt sacrafice his life so people could waste their money over the stupidest f*ckin things!'
- we have to pray before every meal.. even if were in public. this one time my sister started eating before we prayed and her punishment was she had to say the prayer , she couldnt eat her lunch ; and for the rest of the month she had to go to church 3 days a week.
- he treats me and my sister like were 3
- he wont get cable for the same reason he wont take us to fannie may

what should i do about it? i cant talk to my aunt about it because i know she'll get so mad. how can i learn to like him? please answer.. ill rate high for good answers!!

love,
I HATE HIM!!

He sounds completely arogant and annoying. If I were you, I'd get the both of them together, talk it out, and tell him that you and your sister are not three and shouldn't be treated as such. But I also think you should respect his religion by at least praying before you eat when you are together. As for the religion music, I would bring a portable CD player so I wouldn't have to listen to that Jesus Loves the Little Child crap. Good luck!
♥ Brooke

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a few months ago, i was rejected by this guy. now i like his friend. i wanna ask him out, but would i look desperate if i did?

Its been a few months, and if moving on is considered desperate, then you deffinately are. I suggest you go for it and ask him out!
♥ Brooke

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I seriously need some help.. last night my little sister (10) must have gotten a hold of some scissors because my hair is completely chopped... the night before last I colored her hair green (shes a bleach blonde) and I guess she did that to get me back.... WHAT DO I DO?!?!! my hair is so short and uneven... it was down by my lower back...any help would be appriciated!

Carma is a bitch!

-If you or your mom can't fix it alone, just set up an appointment with a hair salon and see what they can do!
♥ Brooke

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Hey...I was wondering if I was having normal period pain or not. I have a slight fever, not very high. And I'm having pains in my stomach (everywhere not just in the lower part) and some back pain. I'm getting headaches and after I eat I feel like I'm about to throw up. Plus I'm suffering from a loss of appitite. I should have started by now but i'm a little late. Is this normal?

Usually, the first 2-3 years of you're period are irregular, so I wouldn't worry about it being late. As for the pains and sickness, try taking a Midol and a nap. :) If it doesn't get any better the next couple days, try going to a doctor.
♥ Brooke

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Ok my hair is curly and a little past my shoulders! I have some questions about it.
Does leaving it in a towel after a shower make the curls less.....well curly? lol

What are some ways to make the curls less intense after its wet without the use of a relaxer?

Thnx!

I have the same kind of hair. With mine, leaving it in a towl after a show doesn't effect my curls. But to get my curls less ..curly and more of a wavy and less intense look, I just brush it when its wet, and then flip my head back and forth like a rocker, lol. And then just let it dry on its own. I don't know if this will have the same effect on you as it does for me, but hey, its worth a try!

♥ Brooke

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