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There's this outter tube. Does that go in your vagina or not?
If that's to hlep you stikc in your vagina, then what actually goes it?
The "outter tube" is called the applicator. It's just there to help you insert the "innter tube" (the actual tampon.) Yes, you stick the applicator slightly inside of your vagina & push the end of the applicator towards you so that the tampon can be smoothly inserted. Then throw away the applicator. The end. :)
Is it true that if you rube your breasts they will get bigger?
No. The only things in this world that can make your boobs bigger is plastic surgery, weight gain & time to develop.
sorry if this is completely stupid but i'm just wondering..
i heard that if you straiten your hair, over time it will get thinner and thinner, is this true? thanks so much :]
Straightening will just damage your hair & cause you to lose more. But to avoid this (or if you really do want to make your hair thinner), go to your salon & see what products would be best for you.
17/f
Okay so I'm kind of overweight. I'm not a whale or anything, but I'm big enough to feel really uncomfortable wearing a bathing suit. Today I bought my bathing suit for the summer. I tried it on and I thought it was perfect for me. It's light at the top and it changes to darker shades towards the bottom. The top is a halter and it has a built-in skirt that conceals my less-appealing cures. I thought it look good because it concealed my huge butt while showing off my nice shoulders and neck.
Anyway, I get it home and my mom tells me it's an "old lady bathing suit." I got mad at said, "Well at least I'm not a slut!" Apparently, if it's not a skimpy two piece, it must be an "old lady bathing suit," in her opinion anyway.
What's your opinion on this? Should I get a different suit? I don't want to be laughed at when I go to the beach or to the pool.
Should you get a different suit? Absolutely NOT. You found a bathing suit that YOU like & feel comfortable in & that's ALL that matters. I'm not overweight & I have a hard time finding ANYTHING as it is...so props to you! Regardless of your weight, it's better to be more covered than stuck with a bathing suit revealing too much. Going swimming shouldn't be a fashion show. When I go swimming, I definitely do not judge other people's weight or bathing suits. So don't worry about what other people think!
This summer my boyfriend and I want to go to the beach together. The lake is really disgusting, so don't suggest to go swimming in it. The beach does have a boardwalk and lots of paths to go roller blading, so we plan on doing that. There's a little cafe there, but that's about it.
Any ideas for stuff we could do together? Just the two of us? I wanted to lay in the sun and read together, but I don't want to just do that the whole time.
Build a sandcastle (silly ones, perhaps), take pictures, collect seashells, go deep sea fishing, go get massages, learn how to surf (or attempt to, hehe), walk on the beach at night, watch the sunset or the sunrise. :)
i am a 13 year old who hasnt gone out with a guy yet! ugh.. i wanna feel how it feels to be in a relationship and have the guy love me in that way and i'll be able to have my first kiss and all that. it hasnt happened yet and i notice like everyone i know practically has already gotten their first kiss or first boyfriend.. not that im in a race to get one, i just let it come to me and if i see a guy thats cute, i'll say hes cute and stuff.. i just wanna be in a relationship and stuff!!
and i've been asked out by guys about 5 times but i dunno if they're being serious or joking. how can you tell? only three of those 5 times i knew it was a joke... but i really dunno! i reply "no" to them because i dont see them that way like romantically or anything.. ugggggggggghhh what do i do and stuff? thanks
Slow down, you're only 13 - no need to rush into such things. You're young & at the age where most kids start becoming interested in dating. But it doesn't mean everyone jumps into a relationship at the same time & anyone who doesn't is any less of a person. Yes, it's natural to have a desire to get your first kiss & experience "love" & every little thing about a relationship. But the truth is, most people your age are not mature enough to become romantically involved (or like you said, be serious about whether they want to pursue you or not). Basically, you really aren't missing out on anything that great. Just give it time! You have plenty (& I mean PLENTY) of time ahead of you. Wait for someone who is worthwhile; not just with anyone because you're desperate to have these things happen so quickly.
so im 15 and my boyfriend JUST turned 18 and im about to turn 16 in october. i finnally told me parents he was 18 after two months but he turned 18 in may so yeah. well when i told me mom she was a little upset but when i told my dad he freaked out saying he can never come to the house agian or call me ever agian. We both are in love ive been crying ever since my dad told me that and so has he. we have summer school together which will be over in a month and he said he will wait for me to turn 16 to go back out. we are pretty much broke up but we are still talking. i plan on going behind my parents back and keep dating him but i can only do that for so long. well my question is, is there any way i might can get my parents to let me date him agian? they really love him, until they found out his age. i havent stopped crying cause i really loved him. What should i do,
Sit down with them & tell us what you told us. I wouldn't exactly scream "I love him" in their face, because that might be the thing they are most scared of. You are their daughter & they are just being protective of you. Just simpy state that he's your friend as well as someone you are dating & you really care about him. All you can do is remain calm & have a good talk with your parents. If they don't want you seeing this guy, then rules are rules. They are your parents & you're going to have to obey their rules until you are 18 & no longer under their roof. I would not advise you to sneak around & see him. If you were ever caught, your parents can press charges against him since you are a minor & he is not. Even though you may not have any kind of sexual relationship, it is still illegal in most states.
to get to the point i wanna have sex with this dude, itll be my first time im ready and all. i've thought it through but the only thing thats holding me back is i got these ugly stretch marks on my stomach and i guess im embarrassed by them i dont want him to see them. what can i do to get over this?
So basically, he's just a "dude" & not a boyfriend or husband. (& if so, I'd hope you would call him something better than just "this dude.) To begin with, you are not ready to have sex. & yes, I am just that smart to come to that conclusion. You should never have sex with someone you aren't completely comfortable with. If you were truly comfortable with him, you would know your flaws mean nothing to him. By worrying about your flaws only shows that you can't trust him & you are worried about meeting his standards. Have more respect for yourself & wait to have sex with someone you care about & loves your every single flaw. It's so unattractive (not to mention idiotic & disgusting) when girls have casual sex with these "dudes." Who want's to be the easy, vulnerable girl? Why not be the one who is harder to get? I'm sure everything I said is nothing you want to hear, but if you don't want to make the wrong mistake, you'll listen to my advice.
hey, well i'm 14/f. how old do you have to be to get a tattoo?? i know i'm to young now, but how long would i have to wait?? cause i really want one. a small one on my foot. see, my cousin and half-sis both have a tattoo on their feet, and i think it looks soo cute!! my cousin has her sign (leo) and my sister has that one thing sign from the video "Where is the love?" with the little box with the question mark, and around the box it says where is the love, and i can't remember what is on the other foot. and also, how bad does it hurt?? it looks like it would hurt pretty badly, and i don't always handle pain very well. like, what does it feel like? is there any examples? if and when i get one, i want it to be one of those Fleur-de-lis and it would probably be in pink. would that be cute?? i know i'm thinking of this too soon, but i think its fun to just think of different things that would be cute. anyways, thanks a bunch!!! LUVLUV!!!!
Well to begin with, you are only 14. It's not a good idea to have something permanently drawn on you just because you think it's "cute." Your definition of cute will change over the next few years & you'll regret getting something that now looks tacky. Why not considering something that actually means something to you & that'll never change for the rest of your life? For example, on my right side (above my belt), I have "Live now" in Chinese symbols because I am someone who strongly believes we should live every minute like it's our last. Yes, chinese symbols are very typical, but I wanted something that only I would know what it meant. & No matter how old I get or how much I'll change, it'll never lose it's meaning. To answer your question - it all depends on where you live & the tattoo place's rules. Some tattoo places will do as young as 16, but will require parental consent (parent in present with an ID & signature.) If you're over 18, you can get it done anywhere without a parent. As far as pain - it's a tough one to call. Some people cry, some people like myself don't feel too much & laugh, & others are stuck in between & don't know whether to shed a tear or just keep biting their tongue. I can't tell you what your pain tolerance is, but I can say that'll atleast be a little uncomfortable. If you want to look into tattoos of other people, try: http://www.bmezine.com.
But don't be an idiot & get one @ 14. Wait till you're atleast 18. & if you still want the same tattoo by the time you are 18, then go for it if you want. There should be no rush to get the tattoo. You'll have it for the rest of your life & I am sure you can wait a 4 years before settling for something.
Part of this is advice, and the other part is stuff I want to know. I am possibly thinking about relocating from Grand Rapids, MI to the Dayton Ohio area. Unfortunately, I don't have much money to move at this time, nor do I have a vehicle or license. A few reasons why I want to move is 1, can't find a job here where I live, 2, I kinda want to get away from family. I would probabily be going alone unless someone wanted to tag along with me. For those who have relocated from one place to another, how was it for you? Also, what should I expect?
Wow, this is something I can actually relate to in someway. My family just moved out of state last week (to where I grew up & lived for 13 years) & I decided to stay, which meant I had to move out. So I can relate on the 1) Limited money to start out with. & 2) Not having a vehicle. I have a pretty good job to afford everything now, but all the money I had saved towards a car went to everything revolving around my apartment. Fortunately, I have such a nice boyfriend who is willing to get me to the places I need to while I work on getting a car (& saving for other important things like school this fall.) I haven't necessarily relocated anywhere by myself, but I can definitely say that I'm on the same page as you. This weekend will be my second week in a state by myself (away from ALL family). & I must say it's pretty nice & sad at the same time. I am not sure how old you are, but all I can say is don't do anything you aren't mentally ready for. I'm only 19 & I still can't believe I am living on my own. It was so nervewrecking & last second when I decided to stay here & move out. But I have survived & I am really happy & proud of myself for making this decision. Of course, your situation may differently & you may not feel the same way if you decide to move. I would look into it more before making your decision. Go job hunting, look into apartments, try to figure out what your cost of living will be each month (bills, food, household items, etc.) Remember that if you don't have a car, it's not the end of the world. There are city buses! Maybe look into a place close to work & to a grocery store so you could walk to those places until you got a car.
In my opinion, I think you should wait till you have plenty saved up & everything planned out. Unlike me, it sounds like there is no rush on moving out. Get a temporary job & put money away before you jump into an overwhelming & sressful living situation.
What can you expect? You can expect to become more mature & financially independent. You'll have bills from rent to electricity to whatever utilities aren't includeded with your rent. Ontop of that you got to buy groceries, your cell phone bill, cable or internet & anything else you need or have to pay. You probably won't be at the mall every weekend or spending large amounts of money on stuff you don't need. I can guarantee you'll have to make some kind of sacrafices...atleast in the beginning when you are trying to get things settled.
So as I said, give it some time & thinking before you make your final decision. If you need more input on - what you'll need to buy with your new apartment or anything expense wise, just leave a message in my inbox. & I can probably use my expenses as an example to give you an idea of what you need to be making or how much you need a month for the necessites & other bills, etc. Hope that helped! :)
im thinking about getting a monroe piercing. i curently have my lip and my nose done, both on the left side. if i got my monroe done, which side would look better, the left or the right? the right probably, becuase i have two on the other side, huh? i dont really know, any opinions would be great=]
also, i know pain is different for everyone, but for you personally, how bad was it? if you have your nose or lip done, how was it compared to that?
eekk this is a lot.. but what was the process like? im wicked nervous about it, but i really want it=]
thanks!=]
Yeah, you might want to even it out by putting it on your right side. I know I had one on my right.
I've never had any facial piercings besides a monroe. I am pretty well with pain - I've gotten my tongue pierced twice & my ears which are no big deal. & I've talked & laughed through a couple tattoos. Basically, needles/piercings have never been that painful or an issue for me. I can't say the monroe piercing doesn't hurt at all. It's painful for atleast 10 seconds & uncomfortable a little after. But it's nothing no one can bear. If you've gotten your lip & nose done, I can't imagine it being too much worse than that. The only thing that's kind of awkward about the process (or was atleast for me) is they leave the needle in there while they take about 10+ seconds to screw in the stud. Maybe my piercer was just a little slow.
where can you get like cute sundresses? or order them offline?
Forever 21, Wet Seal & Charlotte Russe.
my hair always dries frizzy after i shower even after using frizz free shampoo....
how do i get sleek straight after i shower
1. Apply a dab of Sun Silk Anti-Frizz (only about $3 at Walmart).
2. Air dry or blow dry with a big brush.
3. Apply a little bit of S-Factor Dream Drops Serum ($30 @ Toni & Guy Salon or any other salon that carries their products.)
:)
im 16/f. what are some 'summer essentials' i should get. like makeup & lotions & hair stuff. i cant really think of anything. ideas are appreciated. thanks!!
- A tinted/sunkissed moisturizing lotion
- SPF of atleast 30
- A light foundation with SPF 15
- Waterproof mascara/eyemakeup
- Bright colored nail polish
- Paul Mitchell Super Skinny Serum or Sunsilk Anti-Frizz OR Anti-Poof
- A good moisturizing shampoo & conditioner
i really need a new cheap digital camera. i was looking through the target website and i found this one for 100 bucks:
http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/sr=1-8/qid=1180893918/ref=sr_1_8/601-6454491-6023347?ie=UTF8&asin=B000MAF0XU
i'm not a camera whiz, and i dont know anything about them, so if you guys know anything about cameras and if you read the little description thing, is that a good quality camera? THANKS SOO MUCH
I have a Samsung 5.1 megapixel camera that cost me about $150 at Walmart last summer. I know one of the ladies I work with (& my boyfriend) got the Samsung 7 megapixel camera for the same price not too long ago. They are really good cameras for their price. You want a digital camera that's ATLEAST 5 megapixels, preferably 6 or 7. So I definitely think you should go for it. Just keep in mind, you will need to by a memory card because the internal memory probably doesn't hold too many pictures. & those memory cards can cost you about $20-$35 depending on where you get them. I know they are $35 at Best Buy. Hope that helps!
well i always wanted to eat a girl out why i really dont know but i was wondering do girls really enjoy it when guys eat them out?
There are ladies out there who aren't comfortable or interested in allowing guys to do that. But those who are open to the idea WILL enjoy it. I can't imagine anyone not liking it considering there's really no way to mess up. It all depends on the person though.
theres this girl and i dont like her like a girl friend or anything but every time were together all we do is sexual things... so you think its bad to do this we have never screwed and wont but we just play around do you think i should stop or do you even think it matters?
Eventually, someone will get attached & get their feelings hurt. I can guarantee you, there's almost never a good ending to a friends with benefits situation. In my opinion, I don't think it's right to do those things with someone you don't like or have any intentions of having a relationship with. It's trashy, it's disrespectful to both her & yourself & it's just NEVER a good idea. I don't mean to preach but YES, it does matter & YES, I do think you need to reconsider what you are doing.
Im still a virgin and i was wondering to thoses who are no longer a virgin do you wish you were or are you glad you had sex cause i want to have sex but then again when getting married it would be alot more fun
It's only natural for you to want sex, but are you ready & is it the right thing to do? - is the real question. It's more "fun" & special when you're with someone who is holding out too. All I can say is don't waste it with someone who's not going to be around weeks or months down the road. Save it for someone who you love & truly care about - such as a husband or atleast a very serious boyfriend. You may not realize it now (at a younger age), but when you wait till you've matured..you'll be SO THANKFUL you waited till then.
So I have a myspace tracker on my myspace page and it works. But I have heard people say that trackers are illegal to use on there and that people get deleted for using them. Is this true??
I don't know if it's illegal, but I DO know for a fact it IS against Myspace's Terms of Condtion.
okay im 14 and im about 5' 2'' and 97 lbs. these guys at school keep calling me anorexic and i want to take it as a compliment but its getting annoying because they always shove food at my table at lunch. i usually dont eat at lunch because im not hungry. (we have lunch early and i eat breakfast) what can i do to make them stop?
thx!
Well first off, you should never take being anorexic as a compliment. It's a disease millions of people suffer & die from. Second off, you do not need to explain your eating habits to other people. I know you may not be hungry, but just by having a snack of fruit or veggies (something light & less filling) might be better than nothing. By skipping meals, it's unhealthy for your body & in result, your metabolism can slow down. No matter when or what you decide to eat, that doesn't make it okay for these guys to act like this towards you. You need to talk to a teacher or an administrator. Things like this should never be ignored or taken lightly at school. You are there to get an education, not to be teased for your eating habits.