Hey! My name is Kathleen. I am overrall a spontanious person. I love to talk, an all my life my friends and family come up to me an ask random things about how they can make there life better. So I feel that it is only right for me to help others to. Only if you all choose to except me. I am willing to talk about anything. I mean it, I am honest. I wont tell you a lie, I feel as you should all know the truth. I hope everyone decides to welcome me in. Thanks!
E-mail: neelhtak_1989@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Milo, Maine
Age: 16
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Yahoo: shybabygurl_014@yahoo.com
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Member Since: April 3, 2006
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ok so theres this guy...he's amazing, gorgeous, but he's 21. we've been hanging out a lot for the last 4 months and stuff but he always told his best friend who told me that he only liked me as a friend and nothing more. well like a week after that we would be hanging out watchin movies at his house and he would cuddle with me, lean in towards me, hold my hand and stuff and it just seemed like he liked me but he kept denying it. but now, all of the sudden, he's been acting all weirdo around me like when we're around his best friend he's mean, snotty, and annoying, but when it's just me and him he's sweet, nice, and fun to be with. i was told by his sister's friend that he was torn about the age difference but idk now...it's not really THAT big of a difference in age. i can't tell if he likes me and is worried about what his friend will think since i'm a junior in high school and he's a junior in college or if he's just 2-faced. can someone help me out please! (link)
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Well, maybe he does like you but embarassed to show it to his friends. Nothing against you but who knows. That or maybe he is just using you.
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I have this problem. I'm so scared of guns and robbers and everything. Everywhere I go I picture a guy with a gun coming to get something from me. I'm sick of it. I guess I just hear all the stories of things like that happening and I'm living my life in fear. How do I stop?
thanks (link)
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Well try talking to your friends or family an just have them hang close by for awhile until it breaks.
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Every year, our school has a senior tshirt design competition. My friends have all made awesome designs, but I want to make one too, just for fun. Any ideas?
The only colors allowed are red, black, and white. The shirts are white, and our school mascot is the scorpion. (link)
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You should do the scorpian king! That would be awesome. lol
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A few weeks ago I told my friend Amy that I would go to a concert with her. It's a battle of the bands and the winner gets a spot on warped tour, and I'm friends with several of the bands who are going to be there. Then today I got an Invitation to my other friend's [Rachel] 16th Birthday party.
When I told Amy that I was planning to go to Rachel's 16th birthday party She got really upset. She wasn't invited and is mad that I would rather go to the party then to the concert.
But Here is my reasoning for going to rachels party:
-She is only going to be 16 once! and I can see these bands anytime
-I didn't even buy the tickets for the concert yet
-I always hang out with amy and I really don't get to see Rachel that much
What should I do? Should I go to the party or the concert?
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See if you can bring Amy to Rachel's birthday party, or see if you can go to a different concert with her another time. Because your right you only turn 16 once.
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me and my best friend have been friends for almost 3 years now. this year though we have been fighting more. im moving in a couple months so its kinda sad that are last year together is like this. how do we stop fighting as much??? 13/f (link)
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Trying talking to her and tell her how you feel. Tell her how much you hate fighting with her and see if you guys become closer.
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ok for my 16th birthday I want to have a Toga party. I want to have like techno, pop, and rock music. I have a few questions:
-Does Party City have togas? (in Texas if that helps?)
-What all should I have to do at the party?
-What kinds of food? (keep in mind it's roman related)
-what kinds of activities//games should I do that would be fun for people my age?
-Karaoke? (most friends are in the upper choirs)
-Toga Twister? haha (a friend suggested that.. but of course with shorts under)
-Black lights?
any other things you would like to add would be greatly appriciated! or any other ideas for a party. I'm the kind of person that's a little "off the wall"//"crazy" so if y'all have any unique party ideas feel free to share them!
thanks (link)
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Glow and the Dark paint that is washable, that would go awesome with the black lights.
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ok so my weekend started out w/ my friend liking me then ended up w/ him asking my best friend out. he told all my friends that he would date me then when we were talking about it he was like yea i just want to be friends which is fine b/c i like someone else but he put me through all this andthen asked my best friend out its bugging me sooo much not necessarily them just the fact that relationships never work out with me its never really an option and im tired of always feeling like im forgotten by boys or w/e i just dont like feeling like the world is against me please help! (link)
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Well I think you should tell your friend how you feel and see what she says about it. An no one is ever forgotten by male or female.
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I'm worried about my friend, she's involved with a guy that makes a fool out of her every chance he gets. i try to tell her that she should just leave him alone but, she wont listen. should i just let her be and sit back while she's being made a fool of? (link)
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The best you can do is tell her that you there no matter what happens. An still try and tell her that you looking out for her.
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my friend constantly copies everyone, and changes her opinion to match everyone elses. she lies just to be the saem as everyone else. it annoys me SO much, and i hate it. how can i tell her how i feel?? (link)
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Just tell her she should do her own thing instead of everyone else. Everyone should be themselves
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My prom is coming up really soon. Everyone is so excited about it, but I'm just not at all. I've had guys already ask me but I have no interest in going with any of them. I've told them all the same excuse that, "I'll be on vacation probably". One guy who I would love to go with, might ask me now. What am I supposed to say and do when the others find out I lied? They're all great guy friends who would be hurt and embarassed by my terrible lie. (link)
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Face the truth, because lieing is never right. You should own up before they find out.
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Sorry this is long but I WILL RATE!
Ok so my friend we'll call her Kim liked this guy well call him Bob. Well Kim was kinda scared to talk to him and see if Bob liked her so I did. He wouldn't tell me if he liked her or not and that not a hard question so for the next few days my school had some field trips and he was on my buss and the buss ride i kept asking who he liked if he liked her or not, still he wouldn't tell. So then i told him i'd annoy him till he told me, and he was like what ever. So then for them on for like a week i'd see him in the hall and for about 2-3 minutes for the next week i'd annoy him. I could see he was getting annoy so i kinda stopped a little. And since then i stopped and recently he said told me that he was getting annoyed and i don't get how i havn't mentioned or asked who he likes or Kim since Friday. I just don't get it i stopped annoying and he's still annoyed why?! And he'll IM like everytime he's on and I usually talk and he just says on or two worded answer then signs off when i start to talk him. And my other friend keeps bring the whole subject up and I just don't know what to do should i talk to him about the situation (i don't relaly know him to well so that might be hard) or should i just stop talking him or just forget the whole situation or even something totally diffrent.
Please give me some advice!! I WILL RATE!!!!!!!! (link)
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Your being a really good friend, but enough is enough. Sometimes you need to know the boungries. But maybe it's also a sign the either he doesn't like her. Or maybe he might have intrest in you. You never know, but if he is that annoyed you might want to give a little space.
Because then again it could be like the old days an not want to admit it. Who knows, he might he might now. I am sry that he called you annoying.
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im really scared for my love life..
right now im 15 and in about 2 months i will be about 16! i havent had a boyfriend before..ive only madeout with one person and thats all! i feel..so out of place. My problem is i dont fall for people easily..so i like rarely ever have crushes..i mean im not lesbian or anything thats for sure lol but i dont know whats wrong with me. im wayy to shy for my own good. I mean i like meeting new people but im so scared what people are going to think of me. And my friend that transfered to my school always wants me to hangout with her and people from her old school but i always make up an excuse because im scared and my self -esteem is so low. I thought i was starting to like this kid..i mean i dont know but now him and this girl are going out..and i have a feeling they will be together for awhile..so that sucks. No guys seem interested in me soo its hard. I dont know what to do with myself anymore! Im soo shy..im not outgoing like at all..im too worried about what people will think of me! and i just feel like i need somebody in my life for once..but i dont see that happening anytime soon :[
can someone please give advice on what i could do or just anything?
i will rate high.
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I am sure everything will come into place, we all have had our moments like that. But you need to find little things that you like to do with your friends. An you will make more friends. Just always be true to yourself, don't change who you are to have someone like you. I know you will find someone when you are ready.
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*****I RATE HIGH*****
Hello,
I am a 13 year old girl. I have a Best Friend of 8 years. I love her to death, but she gets mad at me for no reason sometimes. She'll get mad at me, and make me upset in the beginning of the day, and then will talk to other girls about me during the day, then the next morning will act like she didnt do anything to me. Although I am soo hurt inside, and I feel like crumbling up and dieing. She does this constantly. I always try to tell her how I feel about all this but she always yells at me and gets more angry at me. She doesn't know how to except my feelings. She always talks about herself too. Every word from her mouth is about HER HER HER! Everytime I bring something about me, and my life, she immediately changes the subject.
How can I fix this problem, without loosing one of my BEST FRIENDS?
from:
sam
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Well you could invite her over for the night, an sit her down. An be like (friends name) listen, I want us to be best friends an I understand I'm not perfect but you shouldn't get mad at me all the time. I need to be by my side to help me as i can help you. Make sure you make clear points on that you have a life to and even though hers is great you'd like to talk about yours an just have a good time with her.
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well here is the story..
i met this girl..and she use to go to this school called johnson and thats when i first met her..well she said she might transfer to this school called mounds view where i go. and then i was thinkin ya right like that would EVER happen but guess what it did! she transfered to my school after first quarter..and we are sharing a locker! she is one of my best friends. the only problem is she says she misses johnson and she said her and her family are looking for houses around that area so she can go back there next year since she misses the people and everything. i mean she likes mounds view because me and this other girl are there..and we are her best friends but she still wants to go back to johnson next year. im really sad i tried to tell her nooo stay at mounds view im gonna miss you! and she still wants to move back. i know i cant change her mind but im just scared that next year when she moves back im not gonna see her like as much as i do now (like every day) and we wont hangout and she will just want to hangout with people from there. im scared im gonna lose her. i know what your gonna say..if your best friends then you will never be torn apart! its true that im 16 so i have my license..and we could hangout in the summer a ton! but im just scared about next year. :[
im scared she is gonna blow me off for her johnson friends or something..even tho that wouldnt be a good friend she is just MY BEST FRIENd!
what do i doo? thanks to anyone that answers! i will rate 5 (link)
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All you can do is be there for her when she needs you. If your best friend you will understand why she wants to go back, an if you trust her you should know she wouldn't do that. But also you should sit down and talk to her about how you feel about her going back. i am sure she will explain that you guys will always be best friends.
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whenever i try to open up itunes or some other programs it always says
The application or DLL C:\WINDOWS\System32\WININET.dll is not a valid Windows image. Please check this against your installation diskette.
what can i do.. it wont let me open itunes and i NEED to open it.. (link)
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Try uninstalling it all together an reinstalling it.
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Okay
So i really like my bestguyfriend or whatever you want to call it.Im not sure if he likes me back though, my friend says he does cause apparently he "flirts" with me often,but i really dont notice it,how do i know if someones flirting with me!?? It really annoys me when i dont know,cause im often called a flirt,and i honestly dont know why. (link)
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Well the question is are you flirting with other guys as wellas your friends say you flirt with him? An it's also depends on how close you are with him, if your really close friends an tell each other everything then it will be very hard to tell. But if you guys are sitting alone or maybe in a crowd an you noticed him kind of starring at you with a strange yet loving look. Then you never know he might like you back.
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Now few websites I load I see
http://www.affiliatetarget.com/cgi-bin/51/1.cgi?
then the link and it says please take a moment to visit our sponsers. THis messes up my xanga and messes up my questions and answers here. How do I get rid of it?
RATE 5's. (link)
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Well it sounds like you may have a virus. Maybe you should run a scan then try it because you computer may just be running just really slow.
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ok well i just brought two budgies, and i think i know the sex of one, because the area outside of the beak is a rich blue. ive read websites and books and it tells me rich blue is male. the other budgie has a bluey brownish colour. is that male or female??? (link)
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Yes I agree with them it's female.
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Wow, Right, I am 13 years old...this is going to sound terrible but i have had sex wit this boy. GR. Me and that boy are no longer together :( My period was suppose to come on the 14th of March...did it? NO.. But then on the 1st of April.. I began to bleed. I thought it was my period. But now im starting to think differntly because the blood comes out on the tampon..but not the pad. I have been very depressed lately trying to figure out wat to do. I am very scared. I dont want to tell my mom cuz i dont know what she'd do. My friend said he'd give me money for an abortion if i am pregnant but i think abortion is murder and completely wrong...what should i do? (link)
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It sounds like your period, but also this month it could be because your going light. Since your young as it is. You start of slow and it doesn't regulate until your about 17 or so. Mine still does it. But if you that worried or think other wise consult your doctor what you tell them stays between you. An if you tell them it's confidential they are not aloud to say a word to the parents. Good luck!
P.s I know thats hard because I have almost been there. It's very scary!
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Could someone tell me the best thing to use to whiten my teeth. Brushing with whitening toothpaste doesnt satisfy me and i want some thing quick and easy. I have already tried Crest Night Effects Whitening Gel and its really messy and hard to apply. Is there anything easier to apply that i could get at walmart? I have thought about the whitening strips but i am unsure. Thanks in Advance! (link)
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The whitening strips work really well, I use them all the time. I also love getting the compliments. You should try them.
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