My name is Jessica a.k.a. Gessyka
I love to talk on AIM online, and I love to hang out with friends. I teach myself how to play the keyboard and on it I can play "Fur Elise", "Heart and Soul" with both hands, and a few other songs. My birthday is March 31 1990.
I love to write, draw, play video games. Im not MUCH a tom boy but I like a lot of things that boys like (like skateboarding, video games, hockey, etc.)
I like to help people out very much and I'll help you out as much as I can if you need advice.
I've been through a lot of things, and I'm only 14. Some people think I have the perfect life but in reality, I DO have a lot of problems...
I've had people who passed away, crying all the time, people have told me to kill myself (sluts), I have seen people talk about suicide...I know some people who tried killing themselves, so many things that I'd rather not discuss that are pretty horrible, and a lot of other things now that are on my mind...good and bad and...*cough* puberty too...=(
Oh and I also believe in psychics, spirits (only good) and I'm a Christian Catholic.
MY BFF/Cousin IS RACHAEL! Button Rachael (lol)
Oh and I have a goofy sense of humor but if it's time to get serious, I get right down to it.
E-mail: truevalue53@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA, CT
Occupation: School, babysit (once in a while)
Age: 14
AIM: Infinityo0o (or) Met3oralp
Member Since: November 10, 2003
Answers: 385
Last Update: February 27, 2005
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i just had sex with my dad and i'm afraid that he got me pregnent..what the hell do i do! i'm so scared. is it possible for my dad to get me pregnent (link)
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YOU'RE SICK! and so is your fucking Dad. Why dont you tell someone so they can find out how much of a slut you are and maybe put your dad in jail...that would be nice wouldnt it? This is your own fault. Did you have your period yet? IF you did then you probably are freaking pregnant. you whore.
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can you get pregnant if you have sex without a condom while on your period? (link)
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Um...all of those things you just said are usually HOW people get pregnant so uh...yes. You can get pregnant from that. There's ALWAYS a chance of getting pregnant when you have sex whether there's a condomn or not...you never know what kind of complications there could be.
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There is this guy I really like. Today I found out that he cuts himself. The only thing is, he doesn't know that I know. How can I bring it up and tell him to stop without sounding all maternal? (link)
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How did you find out he cuts himself? Did you actually see it for yourself or is it maybe a rumor or something??
Cutters don't always cut for the intention of killing themselves...it's just mostly a way for them to blow off steam. It's not a good way at all but just don't do anything to him to cause him to cut himself more. I knwo you said you really like him so if you see someone putting him down stand up for him.
Try striking up a conversation with him and pretend to spot his cuts and say "wow what happened there?" and then he if makes excuses/lies then kind of look unsure or confused and just be like "Oh..listen, I heard some things..." and then go on from there and try to talk about it with him. Trust me, it won't hurt to talk to him about it.
If you have his email address or screen name it maybe easier to talk to him online about it.
I know this boy who likes me from my old school and in his profile it talked about how depressed it was so I talked to him and he said he cuts himself and he told me he was going to hang himself one night. I told him not to and I did EVERYTHING I could to persuade him out of doing it. He told me he likes me which helped because as I was persuading him not to hang himself he said "okay...I won't for you." and I just thought "wow...I probably just saved a life tonight." and I felt really good about that so...talk to the guy who you like who cuts himself. You've got nothing to lose. If anything, you'll help him.
Good Luck...and please talk to him...
~Gessyka~
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I don't know how this is possible, a while ago, i was crazy for pinapples. I'm still in a while ago though, so i'm still addicted. A cop caught me for eating and driving with pineapples and he recommended me to go to pineapple rehab, i don't know why he said that, is there really a pineapple rehabilitation center.
Piney Woman (link)
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dude...
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i am going out with this lad, but i am in love with his best mate. what shalli do? (link)
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You have to do what you think is best. Does your boyfriend's friend show any clues that he likes you?...
You cannot lead your boyfriend on if you don't have feelings for him anymore. But, you also want to be careful because if you end up telling your boyfriend's BEST FRIEND that you like him, it could cause many comflicts between the two. Maybe if you feel you REALLY like this boy...you break up with your boyfriend, and give a letter to his best friend. Make sure your boyfriend doesn't see. DO NOT DO ANYTHING WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND'S BEST FRIEND WHILE YOU ARE STILL WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND. Do not send him a letter until you two break up...that would cause even MORE conflicts and you wouldn't feel good about cheating on him. (Not that you would or anything, but I'm just making that clear).
If you really have NO FEELINGS left for your boyfriend, then what you have to do is just break it off with him gently and then give it a little time before you write his best friend a letter.
I know it's hard...and I know you can't control these feelings...but whatever happens has to come from yoru heart and nobody else can tell you what to do.
Good Luck!
~Gessyka~
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well, i have had my period but it's late. like a week and a half late, what should i do and why is this happening? (link)
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Don't worry that happens quite a lot...especially when you just started your first period a few months ago. It's normal to miss a week or two sometimes. Don't worry about it...you'll be fine. If it goes on where you miss it for a few months then I would tell somebody. But a few weeks is nothing to worry about...when I first got my period I missed a whole month...just don't worry...you're fine.
~Gessyka~
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ohhh... this is like a wierd quest... but im 12 goin on thirteen and i have something white that smells really bad everyday on my panties? is this normal. it smells strong! and it's making me smell bad under there! (link)
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You're starting your period! Start to wear pads and take a bath EVERYDAY...You may wake up with your period one day so I would go to sleep with a pad everynight...
You have your period once a month but in the beginning of your period the first few months may be kind of jumpy. So don't be nervousl...just make sure your hygeine is well taken care of and start to wear pads...
Good Luck...
and dont worry...you'll be okay. Periods don't hurt...you just may get crtamps thats all.
~Gessyka~
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ok, im gay and i love my best friend, i wanna do things with her...what should i do? i think she's the love of my life! i wanna have sex with her cause shes so hott and OMG i gotta tell her!
DIKEY (link)
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Okay...I have nothing against gay people...I know a lot of gay people...but just let your friend know that you're gay before you tell her anything. DO NOT say that you want to have sex with her...taht would definitely freak her out. Again, I have NOTHING against gay people just show her some respect and just let her know the truth but don't tel;l her you "love" her right away. Juat let nature take it's course and DO NOT have sex with her...unless she wants to and no offense by the way you said your question/problem I got kinda grossed out by how you just came out and said you wanted to "have sex with hre" so dont tell her that. (obviously).
Just...do what you feel is right.
~Gessyka~
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i like haven sex wit kids is that bad?!? liek 10 to 13 year olds and im 60 (link)
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YOU EFFIN PSYCHO...go turn yourself in to a jail becaus eyou have no life...
you're messed up and you need help.
and if this is a joke...well then F YOU!
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what do u do when ur best/f wants to kill herself and u cant do anything about it bc u dont live any where near her any more?
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Tell someone...call her house and tell her parents over the phone. It may be awkward but if it nmeans saving your friend...you just have to do it.
~Good Luck~
*hug*
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i babysit this child whom is eleven. She is a very impresionable child, she goes on to the internet to meet boyfriends and cuts herself.what should i do? (link)
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Oh my gosh...lately I've been hearing a lot about people who cut themselves...I'm not going to lie...I've...actually done that once before. ...but it was NOT MEANT for the intention of suicide...I REGRET EVER DOING THAT...and I'm okay...I was never addicted to it...but...does this 11 year olds parents KNOW that this young girl cuts herself? This is not good. She's so young...she may not understand how badly this could hurt her emotionally and physically. You're best bet is to ask her about it..and if she lies to you about it then tell her parents/guardian...but the thing is...telling them may actually provoke her to cut herself more...trust me...you really can't stop her if she's totally addicted and WANTS to do it...you know what I mean? Yes, there is a way to help her but...you have to show her love...maybe she feels lonely...
Lonliness is all tied into her cutting herself and her "internet boyfriends" maybe at home she's not getting much affection. Maybe she just feels isolated...
do you know how her life in school is? Or with friends and family?? There's so many things that can be tied into this...
Does she have any problems she talks to you about? If she does try to work from there AND PLEASE keep me updated on this...I need to know more about how this turns out. I don't want this girl to cut herself. I literally cry about things like this almost every night. I know so many people who have cut themselves and it hurts to think about it...
Just please...talk to her...tell het guardians to put special parental blocks on the computer to prevent her from going in chatrooms and talking to random boys who she calls her "internet boyfriends".
These things can lead to serious consequences and please just let her know that you're there for her anytime she needs to talk, but also don't forget to set boundaries for her as her babysitter.
~Good Luck on this~
~Gessyka~
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My friend wants to know what to say to get a boy horny? lol...i dont know what to do any advice?? (link)
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haha...I'm sorry but boys are so stupid...
anything will make them horny...its pretty sad actually...
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Yeah. So I have this problem. I'm 16 and a girl. I don't mean to sound conceited or anything, but I really...can't get guys to leave me alone. I have a boyfriend, and I have no desire to flirt with or be hit on by any other guy than him. I mean, I went to Kalamazoo for this vocal thing, and I just wanted to strike up conversations and talk to new people, so I talked to a couple of guys, and they asked for my number, like, three seconds into the conversation. It's really annoying. I tell them I have a boyfriend and they manage to ignore that fact. I know guys have selective hearing, but really. Do I send out "I am single, come hit on me" vibes? Any ideas about what to say to get them to go away? (link)
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I know what you mean...and don't worry...you don't sound conceited. I know what you mean because a few boys in my school liked me and asked me out a few times. I kept refusing but they still kept trying to ask me out adn even though you have more guys asking you out I know how irritating it can get when you just want to be friends with a guy and they don't understand.
Tell them the truth...that you have a boyfriend. Tell them that you're not interested...be nice about it but if they keep on pressurting you or trying to force you into something be bluint and aggressive/assertive...
This is you...and you can't forget to walk away...
~Good Luck~
and tell them the truth...that you're not interested and that you're already taken...
sure...they may drool about it...just don't forget to be nice and don't totally crush them...
~Gessyka~
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im lookin 4 a good pair of shoes u can skateboard wit but are still cute got any ideas (link)
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Hehe... I just want you to know that I love skateboarding.
Anyways, yeah like nofxchick19 said, airwalks are great shoes to skateboard in and also some K-swiss shoes...I don't know...it all depends on the style. I don't wear K-swiss but the shoes I DO wear arent great for skateboarding in really...
~Gessyka~
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my friends sis is 11 and she weighs 102lbs she want to know if she should loose weight or if she is good for her age. (link)
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It really depends on how tall she is too...
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How do you know if a guy is seriously right for you? Like, how do you know if they're not playing you and they're for real? (link)
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Sometimes you know and sometimes you can't be sure...
I seriously thought I was in love with a kid and I guess I thought he was noticing me a little...but afterwards I felt so foolish when I came to find out he has a girlfriend. My heart was broken and I never thought I'd ever be happy again..
But there is this other kid I like. He is so caring and he doesn't know I like him and I guess he is really cute now and a lot of girls like him...but he is the sweetest guy I've ever known. I'm too shy to tell him how I feel and I'm not saying he's right for me...becuase I don't know...but the bottom line is if the guy you're talking about is anything like the boy Im talking about...he'll be for real...trust me on this.
You'll know when a guys right for you...and sometimes it's hard to find out...but you just need to give it time and even though it's hard to do that.
Good Luck...
Don't worry...you'll know.
~Gessyka~
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This guy he likes me.. but hes 18 and im 14. And i dont want to be mean to him hes really nice and all. but I mean.. yea.. lOl... and your R E A L L Y pretty! lol.. well please help! (link)
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wait until your HIS age...ust wait until you're 18. He shouldn't like you as anything more than a friend is you're a minor and he's an adult...that's not right...that's messed up. Stay away from him for 4 more years. Just think...by the time you get out of high school you'll have him all to yourself...and if he really likes you he'll wait. If he doesn't wait...he was probably just a psycho anyway and he wouldn't be worth it at all...
THAT'S ILLEGAL!!
Tell somebody.
~Gessyka~
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Is it legal to spank a kid?
And is it legal to hug your kid even if they don't want a huge? (link)
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I wrote the poem which is in one of the previous posts entitled "Everytime" . I was feeling rather depressed today , and so i wrote another poem . Tell me what you think about it ....
Bt\ , to all those who asked ,
i'm 13 going on 14 .
You
I thought that I was contented
I thought I knew you
But that was just an illusion
You took me for a fool
All this pain that I went through
Did I ever mean anything to you ?
All those times I cried
Why weren’t you by my side?
So many nights I spent ,
Sitting by the phone
Just hoping you would call
I was so alone
You told me that you loved me
But why couldn't you look me in the eye ?
I guess this was what made me see
That i was living a lie ..
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That's a really good poem. But...just to make sure you know for sure, you don't always have to rhyme...just let the words flow...like just close your eyes and imagine your feelings...sometimes what I do is I close my eyes and actually draw on paper the images I see in my mind...and then once I look at my completed drawing I write a poem about it. It helps a lot.
~Gessyka~
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ok ive never used a tampon before i dont know how :S can someone just please tell me where to put it in?? (ive looked at the instructions yes but im still a little confused) how long to wear it for??? is it dangerous?? please help (link)
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No...tampons are not dangerous...there's really no way how to explain how to put it in...I know the directions are cxonfusing but I'm not too good at explaining these kind of things. =/
You leave it in for a few hours...make sure you change it though...I think the limit is 8 hours (so just put one in before you go to school in the morning and then just take it out about an hour after you come home from school or something)...
I'm not entirely sure because different brands may say different things so just pay close attention to the directions and it SHOULD say how long you should keep it in for.
But DO NOT keep it in all day...you'll be fine...don't worry.
~Gessyka
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