Yeah. So I have this problem. I'm 16 and a girl. I don't mean to sound conceited or anything, but I really...can't get guys to leave me alone. I have a boyfriend, and I have no desire to flirt with or be hit on by any other guy than him. I mean, I went to Kalamazoo for this vocal thing, and I just wanted to strike up conversations and talk to new people, so I talked to a couple of guys, and they asked for my number, like, three seconds into the conversation. It's really annoying. I tell them I have a boyfriend and they manage to ignore that fact. I know guys have selective hearing, but really. Do I send out "I am single, come hit on me" vibes? Any ideas about what to say to get them to go away?
Here-To-Help answered Saturday June 12 2004, 8:57 pm: I know what you mean...and don't worry...you don't sound conceited. I know what you mean because a few boys in my school liked me and asked me out a few times. I kept refusing but they still kept trying to ask me out adn even though you have more guys asking you out I know how irritating it can get when you just want to be friends with a guy and they don't understand.
Tell them the truth...that you have a boyfriend. Tell them that you're not interested...be nice about it but if they keep on pressurting you or trying to force you into something be bluint and aggressive/assertive...
This is you...and you can't forget to walk away...
~Good Luck~
and tell them the truth...that you're not interested and that you're already taken...
sure...they may drool about it...just don't forget to be nice and don't totally crush them...
nofxchick19 answered Friday June 11 2004, 11:53 pm: well tell your boyfriend he might be able to do something about it or the guys just really like you and you cant do anything about it sorry
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