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I have blonde hair & greenish/hazel eyes .. i love to CHEER & DANCE!! and i also love giving advice :) so yeah..ask me some questions!!

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Location: Massachusetts
Age: 16
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Member Since: May 25, 2005
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Last Update: August 23, 2005
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Ok,theres this group i want to be in,there cool,they're like --i love you hun!! and there really random like they will go --i want to bang alex! jokeingly though! or this girl would go "i love you *hug* to the other girl,but of course there just friends.there awesome..and im almost in that group but im not the favorite that people pay attension to. My question is how to i start conversations and become more outgoing,and more the person they pay attension to instead of the boring one in an awesome group like this!!?!

why are you so desperate to be in a group like this? well i dont know, just say the same things that they say. and if you want to be hyper so bad then get some caffeine in your system, i dont know. this seems weird..

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K, so theres these kids thta always calls me flat, my crush hears that. Ok so i bought this bathing suit thta has padding in it, should i waer it even tho thye will now theres ometihng in it not noticeable but the bathing suit just makes me look big


Thnakyou
And any helpful advice ill give a 5!

who cares if you're flat, love what you have! hahaha. but yeah, i wouldn't wear it because if they notice it's padding and not your real boobs then they will probably tease you even more for it

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okay well if u read this question you might think i'm lesbian. BUT I'M NOT I SWEAR! i'm straight as a straight line! it's just well i compare myself to other girls if they have something and i don't. like boobs or a butt or really skinny! and i really need help to STOP because i DONT want people to think i'm lesbian! CUZ I'M NOT! i think there nasty people! but i need help to stop comparing!

there is nothing wrong with comparing yourself to other girls, every girl does it. if u have a problem with it then just dont say it to other people, keep it to yourself!

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OK , my birthday is coming up and I really want to get my belly button pierced. But I don't know if I should because I don't want people to call me slutty and the big thing is, IM AFRAID IT WILL HURT LIKE HECK! Does it? If anyone knows , please answer my question ASAP because I need an answer quickly.

I have mine peirced! It doesn't hurt bad at all, its just like a little pinch! Don't worry about people calling you slutty! Guys love it haha & if girls call you a slut for it then they are obviously just jealous!

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Ok so the guy I like, likes me too I guess, but it's complicated. We're gonna go out on a date and "try it out" see how we are together.

Anyway as a joke last night he asked me to tell him something that he could do, that would make me hate him or break up with him. Today he wanted me to write down a long list of those things.. now is he just continuing the joke? Does he wanna know what not to do if we went out, or is he trying to find a way to get me not to like him anymore? I'm a little lost... thanks!

Seems to me like he is just trying to get an idea of what NOT to do ;) Just see how things go, if he DOES do the things well then you know he doesn't like you

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Hi.. i've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 10 monthes and we really love eachother! Before we started going out, he kind of liked my best friend, but he asked me out instead. Turns out, she's liked him since before we were going out and they flirt soo much! I know flirting is just natural but my other friend told me that she wants us to break up and im really worried.. What should i do!? Thanks!

you really need to just trust your boyfriend. if they start hanging out alot or talking alot then you have the right to get suspicious but deffinetly dont accuse him of anything because that will make him extremely mad!!

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what does putting out mean?

it means having sex!

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i was wondering if there was any fun way to clean because i hate it.

haha well idk if you can make it fun but just blast your music really loud & sing along!!

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i was wondering how you put the moving words up on your site and how you get them bold and different sizes?

www.lissaexplains.com will tell you everything!

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Thsi will sound stupid alot, but I'm only 12. My heath teacher didn't explain this to us, She explained everything else exept this. ( I also give advice) Okay, what the heck is STD?

An STD is a sexually transmitted disease such as AIDS. They're notttt good so use protection =)

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ohk i have a bad case of ashy elbows ... anyhome remedies to make them less dry ?? thnx

just scrub em really good in the shower & put lotion on them atleast once a day, if not more!

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I have 2 kids no husband. I have made alot of mistakes in the past escpecially being premiscuous. I have compltly turned my life around now. Is it too late for or will God forgive me and except me into Heaven. Please someone who belives in God or is a Pastor or something help me.

God always forgives you for your mistakes.. everybody makes them!! To truley be forgiven in the catholic faith (i don't know what religion you are, but thats what i am) you should go to confession & tell a priest your sins. He'll clear your slate. God doesn't accept you into Heaven based on your mistakes he does it if you are a BELIEVER and a LOVER of Christ.

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would it be better for a brunette to go to a red shade? most of my friends are saying red instead of blonde...what do yall think is better?

if you're a dark brunette then blonde probably wouldnt be good because it wouldnt match your eyebrows and it just wouldnt look right to other people! if your hair is a light brown then i think blonde will look fine. you're friends probably know better though because they actually can see you & they know what will look good so id go with what your friends say and try red!

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I will be a senior now in highschool and I have no clue what I want to go to college for. Its summer and I dont have a job, all my friends and my boyfriend have summer jobs. I don't want to be stuck at home all summer bored to death. I have been looking for a job but my mom is so picky she wont let me have a job at a fast food restuarant and some other places. How can I figure out what I want to with my summer and my life??

About college .. you can talk to your guidance counselors. They will help you to decide what you can go to college for. And you can always go for general studies and just continue education! For the summer - just keep looking for a job! Talk to your mom about it and tell her that you really want to be busy this summer & hopefully she wont be as picky as to where you can work!

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I am not fat at all.but i want to go on a diet becasue my borther acts hard in front of his friends and says fat cow and stuff liek that.I hate it when hes like this. What can i do?

don't go on a diet because of your brother! if you dont think you're fat then dont worry about it. he's your brother, he's going to say it no matter what. to try to get him to stop, talk to him when hes not with any of his friends and just tell him it really bothers you. hopefully he'll understand!

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ok im 14 and my friend is 15 and we want to have a summer job somewhere. we were thinking of going to this one place that boards dogs while their owners are out of town or something but she doesnt really like dogs..and we were thinking about babysitting and stuff..do you guys have any ideas of what we could do?? thanks in advance!

not many places hire 14 & 15 year olds. when i was 15 i had a job at a grocery store & also at a nursing home doing dishes! not really fun but hey it pays! if you want to babysit i'd put up flyers at like store bulletin boards & stuff! good luck!

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alrigh tim 13 and well im half a virgin ( i havent had sex but ive given something) and well it was with my x boyfriend and this was like in april of this year and people are still talking about it and every since then theres this group of boys in ym class that are all my friends but ever since that thing in april they've all been like well kinda giving me names and stuff like today they said im gonna be a hooker when i grow up, you know stuff likw that and i was just like wondering if i should be worried about that.. like do you think it'll go to far and well how oculd i convine them to stop it?

well i guess your ex bf wasnt very trustworthy if all those guys know about it! but anyways, its not something you should really worry about. you know that you arent going to be a hooker, you know that what you did wasnt bad and thats all that matters! boys will be boys!! just ignore what they say =)

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ok i wanna temporarily dye my hair blonde for the summer just for fun *it's brunette now* is there anything i need to worry about so it doesn't become permanetly blonde? i don't wanna change my hair color for ever, i just wanna see waht it looks like...if u have any info plz lemme know!

buy loreal color pulse! it comes out after like a week of washing. if you like it then you can dye it but make sure you use a special shampoo for dyed blonde hair atleast once a month so that it doesnt turn orange or green! other then the loereal color pulse, i dont know what you could use that wont make it permanent but if you dye it permanent for the summer you could always dye it back to your original color when summer is over!

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ok well my mums friend has to be in his 30's maybe older! I am 16 he keeps telling my mum how nice i am and i am so lovely and beautiful like her.Ok thats fine but the weird bit is he keeps asking me to stay over at his house!!!!! I need some advice why does he ask me to stay at his house and never ask my mum?I need advice is he being friendly?The he says when you stay over we can watch some videos and you can stay in the spare room.

hmm that is a weird situation! i deffinetly wouldn't stay at his house without your mom, it seems to iffy to do so..but for all you know he could just be a really nice guy who just wants to get to know you better! deffinetly don't go alone though. hope i helped!

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