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Im 25 years old and my boyfriend just recently found a wart on his penis that he had removed. We have never had unprotected sex, but I got tested for std's anyway just to make sure. The results came back negative for HPV, and all the rest of the bugs out there. My question is how can I stay free of infection if I ever wanted to have a baby with this person whom has genital warts? (link)
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Good question, him having what he has there is a major problem for pregnancy, so actually to be on the safe side he would have to be treated and get well.
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I live in Alabama. I'm from Finland, where I am to return in a month. The thing is, I have been dating this handsome guy. Few days ago we got tipsy and were joking around about him giving it to me, but we weren't that serious. But now I think I am serious, can't stop thinking about it and can't decide whether or not it is a good thing. Oh, and here comes the best part; I turn 16 in October. He's 17 going on 18. It would be a good memory from America, because Finnish guys are even more assholish than American guys are (yes, it is possible). I know he's desperate and I am starting to become like that too. I want him so bad! My best friend in Finland would think I would be slutty but my heart would otherwise hate me for the rest of my life because my heart wants to bang this guy, and I don't care if I'd have a reputation in Alabama (who really would care about that?). I care about having a reputation in Finland, and that's what you get if you have sex when you want to. I don't know, what do you think I should do? Sorry about the enormous lenght of the question, I'm a storyteller. Thank you. (link)
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You're in a bad time if you know what i mean, to think where and when you might be called a H? is not the idea, what comes after the doing in what you will have to face, unless you just want to get L? it's you're???.
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I always thought guys got boners really fast but my bf doesn't. He's the first and only guy i've ever touched DOWN THERE and when he finally does get an erection it takes like , forever for him to ... you know what. Any idea what is a normal amount of time it should take and do you think he is just nervious?
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You're 14 year's old and you want to have sex or you already probably had sex, it is to soon for you to have sex, no mater what i say i belive you will have sex if you haven't, on later times you will look back and see that you are in a position you which you wouldn't be, see sex not only bring's satisfaction to the human body, it also come's with it's string's that cost hard times in you're life, so no matter how it is you are to young to have sex.
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okay im in 10th grade and im Really into fashion. i shop mostly at hollister abercrombie h&m bebe and forever 21..i mix and match things but it seems like whenever i dress up and look nice all the girls get really b*tchy and say mean things (and i don't look slutty in the things i wear either) so i just wear jeans and a regualar shirt like from a&f to school just so they'll have nothing to say about it. but when i wear that i feel like everyone else...what should i do? (link)
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To mix with you're friend's try to be like them so they won't have to talk behind you're back, the way girls dress that you hang around with it's there gig so if you go to a dance and wan't to dress go alone with you're boyfriend, to keep thing's cool with you're school friend's dress casual. or you can take the????.
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15 turning 16/f
I have this good guy friend and about a month or so ago we had a thing. The problem is he lives far away but at the time I didnt find it much of a problem (we're talking about 20 minutes away but we don't go to the same school). Anyways he told me over msn that he liked me and I told him I liked him to. About a week later was a joint birthday party between me and my best friend. He was invited. All week people had been telling me to look forward to my party becuase he had something planed for me and I was really excited.
When the party came he spent the entire day with me and when we were sitting on the couch alot of people told me he was about to hold my hand until I accidently moved or something. We were together the entire day. Then night came and there was some drinking. I wasn't drunk at all but he claimed he was, even though he didn't act any different.
To keep it simple we ended up making out when everyone went for a walk and then one time we went for our own little walk and ended up making out alot with him ontop of me and such. Nothing else happened. I was however overjoyed and really happy becuase I thought we were going to start dating. A couple hours later he told me he just wanted to be friends cause we live too far away. I was upset but I sucked it up and said i was fine with it, he also told me he had forgotten the whole night.
Now im still not over him and we talk all the time. Ive hung out with him twice recently and both times were alot of fun and at points he was really sweet. I dont know what to do because I doubt he has any interest in me (he always talks about how hot other girls are) and theres no future there. How can I find a way to get past this and move on?
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Lack of experience or another reason that he has is in someway keeping him from making the moves that you wan't, I can not advice you to do the move's insted of him, however sometimes that's what it take to know where you stand, see if he tell's you that some other girls are hot and he likes them, this could only mean his trying to impress you like someone he is not. other then he wouldn't be sitting net to you, i belive he hasn;t gotten to first base, need to know more, you're probably it because he went to you're birthday and spent the night with you, you need to dance with him and take the lead, you know what i mean.
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so i asked a question on this already but i have another one.. this time im going to add more details
so at the beginning of this week i experienced a back pain on my lower right that gradually increased and all week it hurt.. saturday i went to this warped tour thing if anyone knows what it is and you know the sun was superrr strong i was sweating and then by the end of the night the sun went down and i got cold i guess from sudden temp change.. but i was so much more cold than everyone around me shivering and all and all of a sudden i got dizzy and stuff and i had already thought maybe its a uti from the back pain.. so i got home and i had a temperature.. the next day i went to the doctor and had a urine test and a strep culture done because my throat had pus a nd was red.. no strep yes uti .. well that was sunday.. today is tuesday i still had a 103 fever up until today now its down to 99 keeps going from 99 to 101 now my throat still hurts and sometimes my heart "feels" like its speeding up but i really cant tell and i get a little short of breath so i took my inhaler once im on antibiotics and moltrin.. im kind of scared at the moment because i always see in the news how some people were misdiagnosed by doctors and such.. anyway im 18 female .. any idea?? (link)
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First of all definetly you need to be fallowed up by a Doctor run some test on you, if you use a inhaler for any reason you have to be very carefull on using other medication, sometimes you are warend about counteract. You seem to have to go to the emergency romm or Houspital don't waste time, if they don't find any thing rong with you see a eye specialist, in any event you're semptom's need to be examaned with out delay for you're safety.
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how do lesbians have sex? I mean I understand how gay guys can do it they can stick it up the other guys butt...but how do lezbos do it????
I dont see how they can get any pleasure... (link)
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You are curious, this most times makes wondering a know how and probably involment on how, doe's this makes sence, I heard conversation's one of the use is there finger's, and they also buy plastic object's for sexual use, like virabrator's among other thing's, if you are not interested in doing any of those thing's it could be best for you.
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okay so my myspace page got hacked and i didnt go on it for like 1 month, i changed my passowrd and everything. so when i went to check my myspace i had some song playing that i never added to my myspace page. i went to try and delete it but the song i did want was there so that one got deleted while the one i didnt want didnt. so i changed my song in hopes that the one i didnt want wouldnt be there but it is. and when i click my profile 2 songs play at once. the one i want and the one i dont. its annoying dont know what to do help?? and the worst part is i cant delete it becuase when i try to the song isnt there. but it still plays in my page? please help i rate if it helps. thanks! (link)
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Report this to the myspace and tell them the problem, you have someone directly connected to you're Myspace page. My space have protection for this kind of problem's and get those sick heckler's out of the way.
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Ok this is gonna sound funny but here I go. Last night I had a dream about having sex with my friend / other friends ex and I don't know why I don't think I fancy her or does the dream mean I do fancy her plz help me figure this out
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A dream is a dream, leave it as a dream and forget about it, I had a dream that i was flying, if i go up a building and try to fly, i'll be heading down a hundred miles an hour, not a pretty sight.
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ok so i met this guy his name is travis hes 22 and me and him have been friends for a few weeks
well we know we like each other and stuff but theres the problem of him living in a different county from me and i know my parents won't let me date him because hes 22 and im just 16 but my problem is my foster sister jaymie found out i was talking to him and she just blew up about it and started bitching me and him out calling him on his cellphone and stuff which wasn't to good so me and him taled online and stuff and we decided we shouldn't talk because i didn't think it was right what they did . the problem is i really miss him hes the one person i could talk to about anything . the worse thing about this is my real sister casey was threatening to tell our parents if i didn't tell her everything he said about he because she really liked him once and wanted to date him but he didn't like her. i just really miss him and now jaymie aka my foster sister sometimes checks up on me to see if ive talked to him since that happened which i happened and i really miss him .me and him were going to hang out and see how we felt about each other and then see if we wanted to date . i want to know what i should do because i seriously miss him . also if u think i shold talk to him and lie about it i can't lie i think its just wrong and i can't do it so please help . :( thanks in advance .ok i know ive already asked this question befor but i still need more help oh and to update this question i have recently been talking to travis a little bit and i have actually been resenting her for telling my sis jaymie about it . i got the feeling after she done that she just done it because he didn't want to go out with her when she liked him and shes jelous that he likes me and i like him . ive also noticed that this isn't that first guy ive liked that she ruined my relationship with.also i read my sister message archive on yahoo recently and she is against me having any relationship with a guy . any advice please help because at this rate im never going to be with a guy i like and im starting to hate my own sister for her selfish actions . thanks in advance . oh and ive met travis in r/l befor i didn't meet him on the internet or anything thats just were weve talked the most for all those ppl who think im talking to an internet perve. (link)
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Drop it young one, it's most likely that he know;s that he is not in his Country, he is in the United States where a baby girl like you can be to him no more then prison time. You should think about what you can cause, No good.
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15f, about 5'8, 129lbs
i want to have bigger boobs i am a 34-36a and its kinda embarrassing because i barely have any cleavage. i know im still developing and whatnot but i just hate having small boobs and want to know if theres any safe way to make them grow.
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The safest way to make you're boob's grow is to let the develope themselves in the way you're body groth will handle it, never be ashame of any part of you're body, The Creator created all thing's in this and all world's, there for give thank's that what ever boob's you have are of a normal being, and that you don't have any deformation, take you're time, it seem's like you're in a hurry to impress men, so what you have on you should be appreceated,some brest develop more after the female firse pregnancy.
play it safe and don't get into body problem's.
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hello! i'm a 15 year old girl and i cut myself, not all the time, but just whenever. i don't even have to be really depressed to do it, just in the mood for it. i've been cutting since i was 14, and a bunch of my friends think it's gross. my problem is this: i can't find a reason to stop. it helps me with my problems, and i'm not trying to commit suicide (no wrists). the way i see it, i would rather cut than do drugs, drink or smoke, and cutting makes me happier. otherwise, i'm a good B-average student and athletcially involved. i write a lot. so why is cutting so bad? it's my personally choice, and it helps me. i just can't see the cons... (link)
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I don't know if you belive in Jesus Christ our Savior, You need some special guidenance and attention on you're daily activicties, you must realise that cutting you're self is not in any way solve you're problem's, You must change the way's you are living you're life, you are lacking something and you must analise as best as you can to see what could you do in order to add something that would make you're life more fullfiled, you can accept Jesus Christ as you're savior and let him come into you're life and bring new and safe activities, ask him for guidness and streanth for you to find love in you're life, annoitment of the body comes from the faith and beive in the thing's of the Creator which will appear on you're life when you accept Jesus Christ as you're Savior, All of this is free and you have to pay nothing, only you're loyalty and honesty into salvation, you're shall start a new and better life, May the Savior be with you alway's.
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my vagina is red itchy swollen it hurts to walk and it changes the way i walk. what is this? i am not sexually active or anything but when i wipe i do it from front to back. does anyone have any idea on what i might have (link)
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What ever it is it seem's like it is very advaced, seek medical help. don't waste any more time the faster you attend to it the better of a chance you'le have to treat the problem if you have one. Good Luck.
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I'm 18; my parents got divorced when I was 11, and I started having unsupervised visits to my dad's apartment when I was 13. I worry about my father - he takes his drugs and sees his psychologist and doctor, but the fact remains that he has bipolar disorder and very high blood pressure, and he refuses to try and help himself. He lives in a tiny, roach-infested apartment that smells horrendous, and he never cleans it. He eats red meat all the time, and never eats fresh vegetables. I've tried to talk to him about his diet and his living conditions many times, but he'll never listen, and if I ever try to help clean up the apartment he stops me, saying that there's no need for me to spend our limited time together doing chores. . . but our time together usually consists of watching TV, because he never goes anywhere. Do you have any idea how I can get through to him? (link)
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How old is you're father, sometimes age has alot to do on the way an elderly lives in strange way's seem's they loose interest on life fell they are lost and just live in the way of a fast way of living this world, it's something to think about on saying not to loose time on other thing's then injoying you're visit, belive me he is not alone, i know for a fact other elderly people that have strange way's of living, i took care of a old lady ounce, she was 98 years old and a millionare, she never wanted to change her gowns clean the house or clean any where in the kitchen, it was so bad there were spider webs from one side of the room to another, dirt was visable every where and she had old food on her gown and alover everwhere, evertime i would try to clean the house she would have a bad fit something so bad i would have to stop or she would have somekind of an attack, she would say dirt inside the house is clean dirt, dirt outside the house is dirty dirt, if it get's to bad sometimes it would be necessary to let the state handel the problem before he really hurts himself,they get adjusted seeing there is no other alternetive then to be looked after. Hope this helps you. Good luck.
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anyway, i found out the guy i like likes me too (i heard from someone else who is friends with him) i told her that i like him but sometimes he is really nice and flirts with me and sometimes he acts like he dosen't like me at all, she ended up talking to him about it and she told me that he said he likes me but hes not sure if it would work out and all because of our age difference (5 years) and because we're in different stages in our lives (hes graduating college, i'm starting) and he dosen't want to start something if it won't work out. is there still a chance that he will still ask me out or what? i'm really confused... (link)
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Little baby, what question's you ask are question's for someone who knows the future, belive me no one knows, Good luck in college, and there is alway's the possability ? possability. Good luck.
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Hey guys! I'm a senior this year and will be getting my senior pictures in the fallish. I have no idea what poses or clothes to wear. I know that I am getting a dressed up one.(what to wear?) One with my cheerleading uniform on and one with my basketball uniform on. Then one sitting down with all my uniforms behind me, and all my awards around me and my Varisty coat hanging up. (what to wear?)
Anymore ideas?
I was also thinking of a picture with my shirt off, but from the back, bc I have a tattoo in memory of my g*ma and I would LOVE to get one with it.
Its angel wings with "gammy" in a banner. Its a big tattoo on the top of my back. I'm a girl, so I'll be holding my boobs, but you won't see them anyways and I'll be looking at my tattoo or the camera. Or just a bad idea all together?
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So you're an oldie now and wan't ideas on you're picture's, well mostly is you who can feel confortable in which manner you take you're pictures, Like the one of you're bare back,However ther are restruction's on how you take a picture even though there should be no shame of the naked body, make the best of it, Hope i knew you i am a Senior to.
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I am a 16 year old female girl.
Well, it all starts about a year ago. I developed feelings for a guy. He was everything I had ever wanted in a guy. As well as he was my dream guy, he was also a friend of mine. My otherfriend somehow decided that she was entitled to him, and went after him. For about 7 months I hadn't talked to either of them, because I hadn't seen them and the awkwardness of the situation. Then out of the blue, he contacted me. He asked me if I had ever yelled at her, called her names, or harassed her. I was shocked. I replied "No...why would you ask that? Does that even SOUND like me?" Apparently my ex-friend had lied about me to make me sound bad so that she would win him over. He also had found out that she lied about nearly everything else in her life. What a great relationship, eh? He was furious, and I was hurt. She apologized later in an e-mail, and I soon found out she only lied to make me sound horrible because she was afraid I would steal him from her. Of course, I never would have done that because I had been over him for a very long time.
Well, this guy friend of mine can never let things go. He hates when people lie to him, and just forgiving her off the bat (as I did )wasn't an option. I felt bad for him, and I was still a little annoyed at her. He somehow convinced me to cheat with him in order to get back at her and make her feel horrible, so I gave him oral sex.I might add that it was the first time I'd ever done that. I realize that at the moment, it was a horrible decision and I was very stupid to let him talk me into it. However,in the process, a flood of the old feelings I had came back. Within seconds, the feelings I had of strictly friendship toward him turned into something else completely. I talked to him later, and he said to me "Oh my god...why did I do that? I was trying to make my girlfriend feel horrible, but I only succeeded in making myself feel that way." I knew that we had no real relationship besides friends, but it then truly hit me. I had been used. Since, I have not been able to sleep much. I toss and turn at night. I want to confront him and tell him I don't appreciate being used like that, but I don't know how. I don't even know if it's better not to confront him. I'm very attracted to him, and want to repeat what we did the other day, but it was a one time thing. I still feel used.
These old feelings of like/lust/betrayal have started to come up, while I have this other guy that I am interested in, and he is interested in me. We enjoy all the same things, and we just get along great. There is definitely something between us. It's just pure chemistry. So currently I have feelings of lust toward my friend, while I'm confused about my feelings toward the guy I really do like.
I need advice. input. what can i do to make things right? (link)
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Keep away from the first guy, if you hadn't given this guy a oral sex this was more then the rong time to do it, consider this guy a weak ignorant stupid blank that has no true feelings in life, go you're way, and try to find a good respectfull life, this is what makes you're future good. Ask Jesus Christ to come into you're life and guide you, accept him as you're Savior and find peace and glory.
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my boyfriend and i of 2 years broke up and he already has another gf.. and i dunno what to do.. i cant handle him being with her.. shes a bitch and doesnt even care abt him.. he says he still loves me but i dunno if thts true because he rates his love for me on a scale. like 1-100 and i dont get it.. (link)
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You have problems that can be resolved, probably with another boyfrend, you don't want to keep getting hurt, if you're ex would love you he wouldn't be with another girl, respect has been lost it's better to go another rout then to lower you're self to you're ex standerts, there are alot of singles looking for someone like you.
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Sub: Erection Problem
My age is 48 (Weight 75 Kg.)
I have sugar (Type I) Range between 125 to 225
I had hand habit from my age of 13 (some time now
also)
I am not getting continue sleep for 6 hours. I am
working has a Technical Assistance. Working hours 6
hr.(not having hard work). Working inside A/C room.
My weight is not increasing. My weight was 85 before,
it is decreasing little by little.
Last 4 Years I am living out side India, Every year 2
month coming to India.
Last two year I am having erection problem
( I am not getting hard erection)
Note: During Sleeping Time I am getting hard erection.
When I wakeup I am noticing the penis having hard
erection, then it is coming normal.
Please advice and refer the suitable medicine or
advice to me.
Thank you very much in advance.
Best regards
e-mail: amjamalmohamed@yahoo.com
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Look for a good Herbal supplement take vitamins and minerals, Good luck.
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how can you tell if your cervix is low? and in the opening of the private area, about halfway of my middle finger there is something white looking.. it looks more like a thick line, i'd compare it to the width of 2 pencils put together.. is this normal? =. i have no gynocolegist..
thanks to those who answer :)
signed,
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If you're cervix is low you would experience pain or diconfort or both, about the white line you could have a old repture or a nervical injurey that can happen when in the process of sex, it is wise to have it examine if you experience pain and sometimes bleeding. Sometime there could be a groth that starts forming litlle by little on the inner tissues, i belive you should have an examnation by prffesional medical Doctor's.
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