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ok well ill get rite to the point. my friend asked me out like 3 weeks ago and i sed no. but no that i come to think of it i think i should have sed yes. but my sis says that i should just go ask him out but i told her that its to late and he prolly doesnt like me ne more. wut should i do? i dont wanna ask him out cuz i gess im scared that he would say no.

Go for it .. else you'll never know! He must still like you if he only asked you out 3 weeks ago! Good luck! xx

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ok idk how to say this. i read my sisters away message the other day and it sed "my life is so perfect. so dont try to ruin it" and i feel like my life is crap cuz of everything that is going on. how it her life so perfect and mine so horrible? wut am i missing?

Its just an away message like alot of things say stuff and the people actually dont mean it! Talk to her ask her about it! :)

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I'm sorry if this is long, but please will someone answer this. all right, normally i'm really cool about boys and stuff. i don't let them walk all over me, and i don't get all -head-in-the-clouds-ish. but theres this guy named Tyler that i have heard off from my friends. they say he's cute and super sweet, but i've never talked to him, and never seen him. well i got a new dentist and its his dad. and you know, me and his dad were talking about him, and stuff, and i left, but when i got home i felt so weird. i mean...i feel as if i like Tyler. but thats not possible is it? cuz i've never even met him! but i feel anxious and excited and nervous, and i just want to get to know him so much! but i don't just want to instant message him, 'hey, your dads my dentist, and i feel like i like you!'

its so weird, and i just don't know what to do! and he's online right now, and i'm just stressed is all. thankz to anyone that helps.

Just message him and say 'Hey.. Im ...., your tyler?' and then say 'Oh ive heard alot about you i just thought id message ya.. u sound a pretty cool guy!' good luck!

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My and my friends are setting eachother on a blind date but do u know where the best places to go would be.......?Remember were only 13 LOL

The movies! :o)

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i dont think im grl friend material. i dont know why i guess i just think that. does anyone have any ways that i could become more grl friend material. im 14.

Thats what you think! Be yourself 100% .. you cant do anymore! Someone will appreciate you more for being yourself than acting something your not! good luck

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i feel like when im playing sports i have certain expectations to look up to cuz my sisters are all awesome at soccer and basketball and then there me and i think im not that good. but all my friends disagree. idk...wut do i do?

Just because your sister is good at them doesnt mean you have to follow her! your probably alot better at other things then she is! try and find your own thing to do where people will notice how good you are at it!

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Hey, guys! I'm supposed to call this guy I like back in ten minutes. We're not dating, but we can both tell it will happen soon. He asked to see me again, and we couldn't come up with things to do. He said we could go swimming, but I'm not the most confident person, and I wouldn't feel comfortable swimming infront of him. I don't want to tell him this, because it's highly embarrassing and something I just wish to keep to myself. I know you could tell me that if I can't tell him something like this a relationship wouldn't be good, I just don't feel like it's his business. Can someone please tell me what to say to him, or suggest another outing? Please help me!!

Just because you cant tell him that doesnt mean it would reflect on your relationship, some things are personal and you like to keep them to yourself! Try going to the movies say 'Well theres a really good film i wanted to watch.. id prefer to go there.. how about it?!' Good luck :)

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i like this boy a lot i mean iv liked him for like 2 years how do i make him fall in love with me.? ps he kinda likes me but i want him to like me more
ps.... what questions are good to ask a 14 year old boy?

Point out your things in common like 'Oh i like that song aswell! Its really good' or 'Yeah ive seen that film aswell.. i liked that bit where..' etc! Good luck x

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HELLO! now i'm getting just a teeny bit tired of no one rating me when i answer your questions. i mean, look at it this way, i put in a lot of effort to make sure you all have good answers and all i get is 12 measly ratings, DESPITE THE FACT THAT I HAVE ANSWERED 106 QUESTIONS. so 12/106 people rated me, that's kinda unfair isn't it? so i'd appreciate it, if before you asked me advice, you considered wether or not you're planning to rate me afterwards.

I agree, ive answered loads and only received one rating, but then again i signed up on here to help people! But i do think its benificial to receive something in return which makes you realise you have actually helped someone!

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Since of late i havent been really happy anymore with my bf, so i talked to him about it today and we decided to take a break. It didnt kick in yet that i was now seperated from him for awhile but as im writing this ... im starting to realize that maybe i shouldnt have done that.
I said i needed a break becuz i wasnt happy and i wasnt sure if i really wanted to be with him and even though this feeling was on and off... 75% of the time i was feeling that i needed a break so thats why i took it. I needed time to figure out if being with him was what i really wanted.
IM so scared of losing him but becuz we are taking a break we arent talking and im scared to admit that maybe i was wrong . Yet im also scared to go back with him and find that i really did need the break.
What should i do?

If you actually feel you went wrong 'taking a break' just tell him, im sure it would hurt more seeing him with someone else than telling him you made a mistake! remember we all make mistakes you arent the 1st and you wont be the last! good luck!

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I'm a 24 year old woman and I don't live with my parents anymore, but recently I stayed with them for a couple of months and I accidentally found out that my father's been looking at pornography on the internet. To say it was a shock is such an understatement. I'm still shaken up and upset after 6 months. My parents have been happily married for over 30 years and I've never ever thought my father would be the type to look at porn. Ever since I found out, I kept a close eye on my father and I started to notice that he does look at young women in mini skirts etc. when we go out. It's raised a lot of questions like, have I been a fool to think my parents are happily married, are they hiding something from me or is he having an affair and on and on. I can't see or think of my father in the same way I used to anymore. It just feels like I've been traumatised. Please help me. How can I get over this?

Try and talk to him about it! I dont think because he looks at porn means he's having an affair you should really ask him before you start to run it around your head, you'll just drive yourself insane! good luck!

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Okay here it goes....Both of my best friends are fighting!! They continually tell me how much they hate each other!! She'll say something about him, and he'll say something about her!!! They won't stop!! I feel like I'm in the middle of this whole thing!! How can I make peace between these people? And how do I make it so I'm not in the middle of things??

Signed,
Stuck-n-Middle

Get them both together and try and solve their differences!

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i just dumped my bf i totally regret it he is hurt he just doesnt wanna go bak out cuz his friend told him not to and idk i need help

You might regret it because he's upset! You must of thought it was right at the time, just think how you felt about it then! talk to him and try and solve it!

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iif i wanna tell the boy i love how i feel and ask him how he feels towards me how would say it exackly ?

Say 'can we talk, its kinda serious for me i hope you dont mind listening' everything else should come naturally from there!

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So I've always been attracted to other gitls.I don't think guys are attractive at all.I have had ex b/fs and stuff but I think girls are hot not guys.Does this mean I'm a lesbian?Do you think its wrong?

It doesnt actually mean your lesbian, your probably just curious you'll find alot of girls go through that, its just discovering yourself! Dont make a rash decision like 'Oh yeah im a lesbian' because your feelings will change alot as you get older, so just see how you go and then you can make a decision whether you are or not!

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Hey i was jus hoping some one could help me. well u se ive been hanging out with this guy alot and weve made out and done some other things. but were not goin out more like *together*.ok so here the problem. my x boyfriend jus broke up with his girlfriend and hes just been some one i could always talk to. and he other nite we were hanging out and did some shit. so woul that make me a cheater? and should i tell the guy im together with. it was jus a one time thing but i dont regret it.ne advice is good! thankx!

Well if you wasnt with the 1st guy then you arent a cheat! So you could talk openly to the guy you made out with about what happened with your ex!

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I really, I mean really like this guy.He is my age and he is 1 of my bro's friend's brother.He goes to school with me.The last few weeks of school me and him were becoming really close.Im scared that next year he won't remember me remember me anymore.What can I do?

If he likes you.. he wont forget :)

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ok...my best friend is mad at me because i tried talking her into going back to my church because she has done some bad stuff lately. I apologized and told her i like her for who she is but she wont talk to me...now what do i do?

Leave her for awhile.. try talking to her again and if shes still being moody with ya.. leave it for abit she'll come around

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i have been tryin my best to give you guys good advice and i hope im doing a good job..but no one seems to be answering me back...does this mean im no help??...could someone help me and tell me how im doin??
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Ha no1 replies to me either ive like give 30 or sumfin comments and only got 1 rating? lol im sure they all like your advice!

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Omg.. i really like this boy in my school we hang out all the time movies at eachothers houses but i odnt know if he likes me but....im afaird if i tell him how i feel he will be like all weird around me and stuff!!! Should I tell him how i feel or just keep it as freinds?!?!?
Please help ME!!!

Ya know what.. he's probably thinkin the same! He wouldnt be at your house all the time and spendin time with you if he didnt like you! Id tell him!

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