My name is Christine. I live in a popular town in The Caribbean island of Jamaica. I grew up in China, Texas (not a very popular town though) and then moved to Crystal Beach, Texas. We finally moved to Jamaica, and as i got older, i had to deal with the experiences of friends, teachers, school, family, mental illness, drugs, and others. I know a lot about sex, though not enough to get completely by, because i want to remain fresh until i am married. NO offence to others, because as an advice giver, i have no right to judge. I am catholic, (which is a denomination pf Christianity). I am part French, Indian, Spanish, and British. My mother was adopted, so i dont know the other side of me as much. I took my father's side more, and i am as you can say cajun which is mostly french. I look like i am American, though i can look like other races if i spoke the language. I really do hope you like my advice, i am very sweet, and experienced in certain fields, and I try to help my absolute best with anything you give me. If there is no happy answer or postive one, i will try to calm it down for you as much as i can. I am sorry if i fail to give good advice, but i try my best, Thank you in consulting my opinion, if you ask for my advice.
E-mail: lilgothicbiotch@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: texas
Occupation: student
Age: 13
AIM: xxlunaxspikeyxx
Yahoo: yes i do now sweetybodeety@yahoo.com
MSN: yes i have msn lilgothicbiotch@hotmail.com
Member Since: May 20, 2006
Answers: 145
Last Update: October 25, 2011
Visitors: 9618
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I'm wearing a lime green dress to prom and it has some silver at the bottom half. My date has a black tux and a white tux. Which do you think he should wear? (link)
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i think both would look good.. but the... black would look good .. cause u DO NOT want to match...
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My skin is really oily and i get a lot of zits on my forehead an nose. i can't get it to go away. i use shine free makeup but it's just not cutting it. it still get's oily. i was my face everyday. is there anything i can use so my face isn't as oily and my zits will go away? Please don't say proactive or clearisal ultra or w/e i really don't have to money to buy that stuff. (link)
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i am not sure what w/e means but um... that might mean or anything else.. but umm.. try this cheap seabreeze... or neutrogena achohol-free anitseptic cleanser... very very good... and affordable.. also if u don't want to buy it .. use.... soap that has lime in it .. i dont mean bar soap i mean.. human-friendly dish soap.. that has lime contents in it... wash and it will take away oil easily
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my hair right now is a medium brown with blondeish highlights. i want to get it professionally dyed, but i don't know what color. definitley darker, maybe red, maybe brown? please give me some hints on the exact shade i should pick.
i am kind of pale and of german descent. my skin looks very ruddy against red hair that is too yellow, so no to that!
thanks:) (link)
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get redish-brownish hair.
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I have light brown hair and blue eyes. What makeup would look good on me and what colors, and what wouldn't look so good? Thanks I rate 5's for good answers. (link)
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hhmmm... i think.. light pink lipstick.... light pinkish-tanish blush.... and..pinkish-tanish eye shadow.. i do not know your face figure..or the shape of your eyes but see how that works for you.
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Ok, so I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I have together for a good solid 7 months. We're sexually active, but trust me when I say that our relationship is about more than just sex. We respect eachother and this is the first relationship I've had that really means something to me. I'm not positive if I'm 'in love' but it sure comes close.
So, we've had sex maybe 8 or 10 times since we lost our virginity to each other a couple months ago. At first, I was totally "I'm ALWAYS going to use protection!" but we've gone a few times without (but we've made SURE to pull out). I know that that there are still SO many risks but I thought we were being careful. Well the more I've been thinking about it (and it's been increasing lately) the more I think I might be pregnant! The thought alone totally freaks me out!! I'm adopted and my birthmother had her first child at age 13 and me at 15 and I've always promised to myself not to follow in her footsteps. I've been researching everything online and I havn't had any of the 'earliest signs of pregnancy' EXCEPT for my missed period which was supposed to come yesterday but I've had missed/late periods before. Apart from that I havn't been bloated or tender anywhere and I don't know if it's just paranoia, but my stomache's been looking a little "poochy" lately. The last time we had unprotected sex was maybe 2-3 weeks ago but again, he pulled out wayy before he came.
I'M FREAKING OUT, PLEASE HELP!!
-kbabe (link)
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ok ... if your getting poochy.. feeling sick..getting headaches..feeling tired when you shouldnt' and if your breasts are tender then you are maybe you just gained a little wait... you must have paranoia (oo just saying out of this prob you have.. oo 'paranoia' reminded me of when green day said it.. it was so sexy ! lol) sorry that had nothing to do with that .. lol
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So there's this boy i like and i thought he liked me too. The only time we would talk is during math class, so normally i would look forward to it. Most of the time we would talk the whole time. Today, though, when i tried to start talking , he wouldn't really talk. so i would ask questions, and he would be like "no" or "i don't know". He kept on saying how stupid math class was and then "we only have 12 minutes left..." then at the end of class he tried really hard to talk to me. What does this mean? Does he like me? (link)
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i think he likes you but he is just trying to concentrate on math.. maybe he got a bad grade told his parents he tazlks during class so he is trying to concentrate.
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Hey guys,
ok I've hit a real low-point in life.
I've already tried killing myself, and that's not it..it's over the stupidest thing ever; looks. I hate myself so much. I'd do anything to be pretty, I've seriously begged my mom for plastic surgery 20 times a day for this whole year. I need to change. It's not that I care what others think cause they seem to think I'm pretty, it's myself, my inner-critic. I won't be happy until I change completely, but my mom made it clear plastic surgery is not an option, so what do I do? I don't remember the last time I was happy, seriously, every time I finally wake up happy, I look in the mirror..and all I see is: bulging stomach, big nose, hairy + manly face, disgusting face, short legs, unproportionate upper-body, tiny feet, weird ears, ugly + uneven skincolour, everything is just humiliating!! I hate myself sooo much, I just don't want to be me anymore, and please don't tell me to seek help or just accept who I am, I don't want to. I want to change. How though? What are some major things I can do to just completely change without plastic surgery? (link)
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excercise.. go on a diet.. wear make up... do up your hair (get a hairdo) try to feel better about yourself when things change.. like when u lose ten pounds.. congradulate yourself... shev your face get a wax on you legs... i dont know what to do abou your nose though.
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pleeease help! I have a guy friend that is always up on me i use to like him but i like someone else now, so he always flirts with me and has his arm around me and holding me and i dont want to tell him NO GET OFF ME! caus i still wanna be his friend, just not like a couple, what can i do to kinda give him the idea i dont want a boyfriend and what can i say to make him stop putting his hands around me other then no or get off me or your making me uncomfotalble, they all sound so stupid (link)
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give your friend hints like, "oooo i met this HOT boy and i REALLY like him," it might hurt him... or you could.. say, "i just want to be friends,"
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Well, I had a guy best friend 6th through 8th grade .. went to school together .. dated once in 6th grade .. were best friends. Well, I had the BIGGEST crush on him all through middle school and even after, but when we left middle school we went to different schools and he was never home when I called, so we just lost touch.
Then a little over a month ago, he started working with me .. it was crazy but awesome. He told me he wanted us to be best friends again and what not. Well, he told me last Thursday when we were cleaning the dining area that he had a crush on me all through middle school, but didn't want to tell me because he was scared I'd reject him since he dumped me and I told him, no I had a crush on you too, but I didn't want to tell you because you broke up with me .. well anyways .. we've hung out a couple times since then.
And tonight he asked me to come over and watch a movie and I did and there was a bazillion chances that a move could've been made, but it wasn't because the catch is .. he has a gf .. who he has dated for a couple months ... he really likes her, but he said if by chance they ever do break up, he wants to see if there is anything between us anymore .. so we'll be hanging out a lot since it is summer and all I just don't know what to do.
I really like the kid. Gr. (link)
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well.. if he really DID like you then he would break up with that girl and go out with you! since you really like him just tell him, " if you really like me.. then you would break up with her and be with me,"
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My jaw makes a dull click sound every time I yawn. Is this just going to go away after a while, or should I be more concerned and go to the doctors? (link)
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i think a doctor should deal with that.
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last summer i met a boy in a chatroom ... yes i know chatroom. I use to go in them all the time when i was bored and whatever play around i guess anyways i started talking to this kid, and over time i actuallu started to like him. I never seena picture of him at first so i know i liked him for him and not what he looks like. We kinda dated ... ughhh sounds gay i know i know. Its not like i cant get a guy in real life, i can and i do but i always end up thinking about him. I've seen his picture only a month ago and hes alright! not cute or anything but i still love him. His personality is wonderful and i cant get enough of him, but the whole idea of meeting him from online makes me feel like a geek! i dunt noe. I had a boyfriend before i met him and i was in love or at least i thought i was. i already knew what i wanted but now i want him!! is that weird??? And i know hes not a fake!!! he has a myspace and has ALOT of friends on it from his school and we talk on the phone?? do you guys think its weird .... do you think its possible to be in love with someone you hardly know but in a way you do!! (link)
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his personality may be wonderful.. but.. you may NOT be in love.. cause if you ever like lived together and you did something stupid.. you would have to know how he would react.. i don't think it is weird... but i met this fooooine boy on the internet.. his personality is gorgeous but.. his name... is beau... pronounced (BO)! can u imagine marrying a guy named beau ? well i didn't care cause i caled him my boo and he laughed cause it is close to his name.. but he knows what boo means (bf,sweetie) well anyway.. it is not weird but i think it is puppy love.. not to be mean at all.. you should really see him on webcam one day cause he may not be using his real picture.
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Okay so there's this boy:). blah blah blah. He's so cute & all. He sits behind me in 7th period and I have 1st & 8th with him as well. We flirt ALOT & alot of people think we should go out. We're always together except outside of school. I signed his yearbook & he got mad because I didn't write my number! He can't stand me to be mad at him & will give me this pity sort of thing. I'm 5'2 5'3ish so I'm not exactly Shaq. The thing is, he's a little shorter than me! It really bothers me with a guy being shorter. I like him and all but I'm afraid that if I went out with him it would be wierd. I don't know what to do please help! I'll rate for GOOD answers. (link)
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oh i think then he'll be just fine.. but right now he hasnt grown much...
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Me and my mom have always had this sort of best-friend sort of relationship instead of a mother-daughter relationship. I didn't tell her everything, but I did tell her enough and wasn't embrassed infront of my friends with her. Infact, I kind of like to "show her off." She's really funny and basically acts like someone my age would act - only 43 and graying hair. But right now everything sort of changed.
A few weeks ago my mom went out on a date (My dad and her are divorced) and she said she would be out a few hours. Dinner, a movie, the basics. So figured it would be a perfect time to.. well, masturbate, I suppose. Only apparantly the date didn't last as long as she expected, and I didn't hear her open the door. And she kind of heard me, since I tend to get kind of loud. I have no idea what she was thinking, I just know that she opened the door to my room and saw me. Then shut the door and didn't talk to me for the rest of the night. After I got dressed I went and found her in the kitchen, and told her that that had been a little awkward, but she didn't say anything or do anything. She just kind of ignored me. And every since then it's been kind of weird, especially since my mom is one of those pre-martial-sex-and-I'm-sending-you-to-a-convent type of people. She's only had sex once, and that was when she "planned" to have me.
Now, instead of feeling all laid back when I'm around her, I keep getting this feeling like she's giving me a dirty look, like she thinks I'm some kind of skank. And actually, I know that she thinks that, because me, being the curious one, listened in on her phone call with her best friend, who my mom told that I was turning into some kind of slut ever since I started going out with my boyfriend, which really isn't true, since I was doing this long before I started going out with him.
I just don't really know how to make things cool between us again. Or how to break the ice so I don't feel like I'm being watched ever second of every day because my mom believes that I'm doing "dirty things." (link)
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ooohh.. well umm.. i have never been caught i do it dead of night late at night..lol now how to make you too get back together.. well my friend doesn't know i do it .. but she called me and read me an article on what she found... i heard it is healthy... it slows down the process of wanting sex actually and umm.. it is not a sin .. good for that.. uum... and it is just part of growing up.. so find research on it to make yourself sure.. and then .. just try to talk to your mom about it.. for more help on this problem .. contact me at prissychrissy101@hotmail.com
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ok well i need more workout songs does anybody no anygood ones ....i want stuff like "every time we touch" i want stuff with thats kind of beat if ya no what i mean well i give 5s for people who give me 5 or more songs (link)
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ok i will give you some workout songs that i think are workout... i know they are not 'official' labeled as workout but you can have a workout dance to it... shakira "hips dont lie" , gwen stefani " hollaback girl" and umm.. thats all i can think of right now
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what age can kids start to babysit other kids? (link)
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if you're a family friend of a baby you about to sit.. i guess 14 and if you are just an employee i think maybe... 15
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What should I say to my boyfriend that just got fired from a job he was in only 2 week? There was other people fired as well, I don't think it was him. I said that must be the most frustrating thing to go through, but other than keep saying that (or I'm sorry, which I heard guys hate to hear) What do I say??? (link)
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say, "wow.. you did not deserve to lose that job.. it seems that you were doing great at it to me,"
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Lately I've been getting lots of white heads.
Like every morning a have another one, its stupid and annoying. I wash my face daily. What can I use to get rid of white heads and keep them away?
p.s; please don't say proactiv or clean & clear
I rate high. Thanks in advance.
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ok there is this one i have to keep them away before they start it is called neutrogena achohol-free antiseptic cleanser.. it is in a clear bottle.. it is very nice.. its betterr than seabreeze
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Is Gerard Way gay or bisexual or straight?
P.S. He's the lead singer for My Chemical Romance if you didnt know.
Please help. (link)
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i think he is straight... oh yeah he is.. oh i know for a fact cus i know this girl and she met him .. he is totally straight.. i think... lol
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is there any way to change your image quickly but not too fast to make people think you're a "poser" or something? ..idk any advice? (link)
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ok.. in a matter of fact, i am doing that right now.. i was unpopular. weird and boyish.. i was sick of it when came to my new school i live in jamaica but i am from texas.. anyway... when i came to my new school i was tough.. boyish... weird.... unfit for being popular.. and quarky.. i sucked! lol. i changed gradually.. i am hanging with popular girls am invited to more stuff... and i am feeling happy that i am not totally dainty but am showing i am a girl hear me purr! haha.. anyway... change gradually.. thats what i did.. slowly...
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is there any way to change your image quickly but not too fast to make people think you're a "poser" or something? ..idk any advice? (link)
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ok.. in a matter of fact, i am doing that right now.. i was unpopular. weird and boyish.. i was sick of it when came to my new school i live in jamaica but i am from texas.. anyway... when i came to my new school i was tough.. boyish... weird.... unfit for being popular.. and quarky.. i sucked! lol. i changed gradually.. i am hanging with popular girls am invited to more stuff... and i am feeling happy that i am not totally dainty but am showing i am a girl hear me purr! haha.. anyway... change gradually.. thats what i did.. slowly...
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