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okay.. hah. well, me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year and blah blah blah. and i still havnt given him head yet. weve done everything else, except sex. and like i do want to do this but i just cant help but think that the idea of it is gross. i just have it in my head that itll be totally disgusting. and its not that im not mature enough or whatever because ill probably always think this no matter what age i am.. that is until i do it. so can anyone offer some reassurance or just personal experiences? thanks. (link)
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I think if you think it's gross now, you won't after your second time. The first time might be awkward, (so sorry to say) but afterwards it'll be enjoyable, and I doubt you'll find it gross then.
Keep in mind, that's just what a friend told me! Sorry I can't say I've had that experience, but I hope I helped. =)
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okay. this is still a far way away. but just as a heads upp. for christmas how much tops should you pay on your boyfriends christmas present. and if this makes a difference we would be goin out for 3 months. andd like 2 weeks on christmas dayyy. thankkss muchh! :D (link)
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I think it's less of how much you spend but on what. For example: if he's a gamer guy, get him a video game. Um, think every guy likes God of War. The first one's like $20 now. Likes sports? Replace his raggety sports equipment with some new gear. Show that you know him!
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im not very experienced with flirting, but me & the guy i like do tease eachother all the time in class .usually i feel stupid because i dont know what im doing and sometimes what i say to him backfires. his friend who sits next to him laughs about it lol . and sometimes they talk about what i just said and make fun of me ): but theyre not honestly being mean , its all funn.
he sits behind me, so its a little hard to talk to him and stuff without making it totally obvious that i like him.
how can i flirt with him , while hes sitting behind me, in class, without having it be a giveaway ? (link)
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Giggling is always a plus! Especially if it's something he did, they always love to know their undeniable humor is appreciated.
I'd take every second that you're faced at him (like entering the classroom) smiling or making faces at him. And you know what? The whole backfiring thing? Really cute. He probably digs it.
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13/F
People are always insulting me and my friends about watching Naruto, Bleach etc... They say its a baby show. First off, it is not. There's porn in it, for God's SAKE!!!!!!!!! What do I tell peopel who tease me and my friends? I tried to ignore it, but now it's just pissing me off. I'm obsessed with anime. So are my friends, we shouldn't be judged should we?!
p.s if you're the matt guy who keeps insulting me on this thing, don't you dare leave any advice, cuz you're making me mad. See? I finally posted a question about your anime cruelty! You should be surprised I ain't got ninjas on yo ass!!!! ^/_\^
p.p.s not a threat, it's a joke, pth! ^/_\^ (link)
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Ignore the assholes, hun. =)
Keep watching if you like it, and those who make fun of you and your friends for it probably don't have anything productive to do, and therefore try to piss you off.
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So my best friends hate one of my friends. They said that he follows us around like a lost puppy or something, and I really like Chad. They think he's annoying and going to try and steal our band but I know Chad wouldn't do anything like that. But I'm sorta afraid that Mike and Danny will get mad if I keep hanging out with Chad, and they're like, my two best friends in the world, I don't know what to do. Like I mean Chad, I really really like him, he's practically my twin brother, but Mike and Dan are also really important. And I really don't know what to do. I can understand why Chad is all lost puppy like, his dad's over in Iraq and he doesn't really know what's going to happen in his life from one day to the next and I really like being there for him and making him laugh and smile. But Mike and Danny, I don't think they can really understand what he's going through right now and I've tried to explain it to them but they don't seem to understand. I feel so awful right now. HELP! (link)
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Try to explain to Mike and Dan that you think Chad really needs support now. They should understand, just keep letting them know that they're not going to be replaced or anything.
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I am not sure if this is the right place for this question or not but I have long dark brown THICK hair, I straighten it and it looks frizzy and I want my hair to look shiny and be smooth what is the best shampoo and conditioner to use? (link)
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I completely agree with Whoa, I use Garnier Fructis: Sleek and Shine and it's made a big difference. Both the shampoo and conditioner.
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why do i always fall for people i cant have?
ahh i hate that about myself i never like people my own age.. and the people i like never like meback.. they probably take me as thyre younger sister i realy hate that rite now i like this boy whos 3 years older than me i duntknow if he likes me. is there something wronge with me i mean like im not a wierd person alot of ppl love me in my life i just dont know.. helpp
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I know what you mean! I've always been more mature than my peers, so I've always attached onto older guys. I had always just considered it a friendship, y'know, but then one of them liked me back. He was 2 years older than me, so it was okay. Hell, my mom even liked him.
But then, came the time when he graduated and went off to high school 4 hours away and I was stuck here. Ever since then, I came to the conclusion that instead of looking for older mature guys, I'd just have to wait for my classmates to finally grow up.
Oh, and I totally found one. ^.~
Best of luck.
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HOW THE HECK do you stop yourself from getting jealous?!
i have this good guy friend that i kinda like but im trying to get over, but i mean whenever he compliments another girl in front of me or talks about some girl he likes, it really kinda...gets me down i guess. i feel like im not good enough for him to notice me.
how do i get over being jealous of girls he compliments? (link)
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Oh, don't worry everyone gets jealous, I swear. Also, since you like him, you can say something cutesy when he says that he kinda likes some girl. Like, "Aw, look you've gone and made me a lil' jealous. Way to go."
Though I suppose it all depends on the type of guy he is and such. I mean, that's what I do, but to the guy I like, it just looks cute and innocent.
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(14/f 8th grader)Sorry for this being long!Also sorry if this will sound stupid or anything but I've had a crush on this guy since the last days of my 7th grade year.Anyways,lately hes been staring at me or when he makes joke he all ways turns around(or look at me when i turn towards him)he looks striaght at me with a smile.I like the fact that he does that(of course)but I'm not really sure if he likes me.Also,my friend(sorta like a best friend)keeps telling me hes looking at me when hes in the lunch line.She also likes him too,but not as much now cause now she likes another boy shes obsessed with.I do take a peek amd see if he is and HE IS but i'm not sure if its me or something or someone else...Also i caught him 3 times looking at me an a monday.I guess you could sorta say our friend(hes sorta cool to talk to when you'er bored in class) umm...lets call him Kyle.well Kyle had detention the whole day for a offending a photgrapher pretending his hand was like a pistol and trying shoot him(the photographer)and he got detention for friday and monday the whole day.So it was boring the whole 1st period and the frist time I cuaght him was:1-I was looking around the room bored outa my mind and I saw him and he quickly turned around.
2:I was fixing my shoe looked up saw him staring at me agian except this time it took him longer to look away.
3:Got up to turn on the lights he stared at me till i sat on my seat.
My friend keeps telling me that maybe he does like me but I'm always not sooo sure.All i wanna know if those are signs that he likes me or somethin' cuse I'm really confused...Also just to give you an example of what kind of guy he is,he's like the skater guy who likes to listen to the band KORN and hes not really much of a flirt hes more of the sweet kind of guy who'll help you on your homework or let you copy his homework..... (link)
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I can't see any other reason for him to be lookin' at you so much =)
He's sooo hoping you're looking back. You've gotta be flattered!
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15/f sophomore. I have an A in my English class, and I get good grades in things associated with it. Our teacher makes us go on a website, to help out with our reading. It's supposed to test our reading speed. I took the placement test and got an extremely low score. A 4.5 out of like 10. And the weird thing is that my speed is 240 words per minute. I just can't seem to understand at a fast pace. I'm a careful, slow reader. The way the test went was: There was a paragraph...a story...and you had to read it. After a certain amount of time, the lines would disappear and you would run out of time to read the whole thing. I can't understand what I read SO effing quickly...and now, I have a low reading score/level to base my other results with. This is so degrading. :( Do people have to read fast or something? Do you think it's fair?.. =( (link)
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I'd approach your teacher/instructor and tell him/her that you're wonderful at English, but you're the type to take your time. Seriously, they might actually listen and take in what you say.
I'm very much like you, I read quickly, but for some odd reason, I read every line twice. I'm in advanced classes, but for each test I'm the last person to hand mine in. It's not saying that you're not efficient enough, it just says you need a little more time to understand the whole reading.
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okay.so there are two guys i like, guy number one, is so goofy, and i really like him. but i don't talk to him as much as i'd like. and he might be moving,but i'm not forsure yet. guy number two is a big dickhead,but he really isn't that mean to me. he can be so sweet at times. but the thing is he has an on & off g/f of like a year. and everyone has told me he isn't gonna leave her for good. they are broke up at the moment, but they still talk. and he tells me he don't wanna stop talking to me culz he really likes me. i really cannot decide who i want more. i like both of them alot, helppppppp !! (link)
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Honestly I'd go for dude # 1, but maybe that's just because those are the type of guys I like. I've had an instance where I went out with someone everyone told me was a dick, but I didn't believe them because he was the sweetest thing to me. Aaaaand, when we broke up, he stopped his "good boy" act and I saw how horrible he really was. I'd stick with the guy who's MUCH less likely to end up hurting you.
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okay this guy,and i had been friends since last summer of 06. i was dating his bestfriend at the time. & he had a gf of like 2years,which is now 3years. the guy i was dating was my first love,and he done me so wrong. had me on the verge of committing suicide ( i know it was stupid, i'm over that, lol ) but anyay. me & my boyfried broke up after bout 6 months. and his bestfriend, the guy i was secretly in love w/, him & his gf broke up on & off allll the time. me & him were really good friends,we always flirted. and he was like my best guy friend. finally i told him i liked him,and he liked me too. we didn't really even have to sayit bcos we both knew. but we were together like allll summer, and he said he was tired of his gf's bitchin, and all her drama. he would always tell me he was leaving her. and for a while they were broke up. but they got back together,so finally i just out & told him he had to choose, and he said he chose me... i was so in love with him, i would do absolutely anything for him. but after that night he was at my house,and he chos, i hadn't talked to him in like 3 days. come to find out he was w/ his ex. and they were stil together. i wasn't as mad, as i was disappointed in him.. =[ he is really good friends w/ some of my family, so he was at my house one day, and i couldn't even stand to look at him.. it was that bad, he kept saying how he was a bad person & stuff. and i would jus shake my head,and look away, i've cried my heart out over this boy. he was everything to me. even though we never were officially dating. we haven't really talked any. i think the last words i said to him, was that i needed him. i didn't realize how much he meant to me until i lost him. & i jus cannot get over it.. i don't know what to do.. i kno that " it jus takes time " but i had a first love, i kno how it is. and this is 20 times worse. i want to talk to him so bad, but his gf is really obsessive, and his mom wont even let me call his house. i jus want to know what his thinking. i don't know what to dooooooooo , help !! =[ (link)
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I know how it feels to strongly believe that you can't get over it, so if you really want this, then you've got to fight for it. But I've also experienced guys saying that they like you back, just to satisfy you, and soon enough you realize how empty the words were. I really hope they weren't empty in your case, and again, if you really want him, fight for him. Let him know. Guys don't usually show it (ego...ugh) but I know they have to contemplate what you say.
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im just doing a survey type thingy, and i was wondering:
girls, if you and your boyfriend were to get engaged, would you want him to pick out a ring and surprise you or would you want to pick out the one you want and him get it? (link)
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Although I'm not too fond of surprises, I'd be so much more flattered if the guy picked it out. It's kind of saying that he knows enough about me that he could pick out the perfect ring. =)
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I would like to forget my ex-wife, but my girlfriend keeps bringing her up;even though she knows it upsets me and I don't want to talk about her - I'd rather just forget about her all together. Example. we passed a add for the add with a girl with big breast,I said dang. then whe said I have a comment but it's gonna get you mad. I said then don't say it. She then told me that I already knew what big boobs felt like since my ex had big boobs. My ex-is short, fat and ugly. new girlfriend is short, thin and beautiful. she turns heads everywere she goes. Why does she keep bringing my ex up in conversations? she said because she doesn't understand why I don't want to talk about her? please advise. we are all about 35's uears in age. (link)
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It's very possible that she uses it as a self-esteem booster, like a "You have me now, I'm better than she was, and I want to be reminded of it," type of thing. I know it's kind of confusing, but girls like to know how much more they are to guys compared to others.
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What does a person do when a friend promises you something, says "got your back, I promise," and totally backstabs and ignores you and is unsuccessful at his/her promise? (link)
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I'd give your friend the chance to apologize and tell his/her side of the story, but if they're ignoring you, just try not to get hung over by it. You're probably better off without them if they can't even give you reasons for their actions.
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I'm 16/F
I have dyed my hair a couple of times, and I straighten it a lot although I do not think that straightening one's hair would make it fall out.
My hair falls out terribly bad, when I shower I have like fist fulls of hair and it is just so disgusting.
I have really thick hair so you cannot notice that it falls out, well it does not look like it falls out.
Anyway, I get my hair thinned out when I get my hair done and it still falls out really bad and looks really thick.
Does anyone have any ideas on why my hair is falling out so much? (link)
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Dying and bleaching your hair too much will turn it very brittle (depending on hair type, though) and that probably contributes to the hair falling out.
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