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Jealousy
HOW THE HECK do you stop yourself from getting jealous?!
i have this good guy friend that i kinda like but im trying to get over, but i mean whenever he compliments another girl in front of me or talks about some girl he likes, it really kinda...gets me down i guess. i feel like im not good enough for him to notice me.
how do i get over being jealous of girls he compliments?
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Oh, don't worry everyone gets jealous, I swear. Also, since you like him, you can say something cutesy when he says that he kinda likes some girl. Like, "Aw, look you've gone and made me a lil' jealous. Way to go."
Though I suppose it all depends on the type of guy he is and such. I mean, that's what I do, but to the guy I like, it just looks cute and innocent.
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Being jealous isn't really anything you can help, it's sort of like being hungry. You just are that way.
What's important is what you do about your feelings.
If you are hungry, you eat.
If you are jealous in a pointless situation, you ignore it.
The only way to train yourself out of jealously is to remind yourself that it is baseless. Stop thinking "I'm not good enough." think "Man the idiot just can't see how awesome I am can he?" and then ignore the feeling.
It will fade away if you stop giving it power.
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You can't trick yourself into thinking your not jelous about something. It doesn't work like that. If your jelous, your jelous. It looks like youve got yourself a little crush. (:
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