okay.. hah. well, me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year and blah blah blah. and i still havnt given him head yet. weve done everything else, except sex. and like i do want to do this but i just cant help but think that the idea of it is gross. i just have it in my head that itll be totally disgusting. and its not that im not mature enough or whatever because ill probably always think this no matter what age i am.. that is until i do it. so can anyone offer some reassurance or just personal experiences? thanks.
Buttacup answered Thursday October 11 2007, 9:10 pm: I think if you think it's gross now, you won't after your second time. The first time might be awkward, (so sorry to say) but afterwards it'll be enjoyable, and I doubt you'll find it gross then.
Razhie answered Thursday October 11 2007, 9:04 pm: You might think it's gross after you do it as well.
Some people just don't like it.
That's okay. You and your partner just need to be able to live with it.
It does seem like an odd thing when you think about it, and if you don't want to try it, well, don't. If you want to give it a try, then do.
There is nothing anyone here can really tell you. I'm one of those few women who seem to really enjoying performing oral sex, it's a bit of power trip for me but I'm me and you are you. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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