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i jus can't get over it. ( long but please read ) =[
okay this guy,and i had been friends since last summer of 06. i was dating his bestfriend at the time. & he had a gf of like 2years,which is now 3years. the guy i was dating was my first love,and he done me so wrong. had me on the verge of committing suicide ( i know it was stupid, i'm over that, lol ) but anyay. me & my boyfried broke up after bout 6 months. and his bestfriend, the guy i was secretly in love w/, him & his gf broke up on & off allll the time. me & him were really good friends,we always flirted. and he was like my best guy friend. finally i told him i liked him,and he liked me too. we didn't really even have to sayit bcos we both knew. but we were together like allll summer, and he said he was tired of his gf's bitchin, and all her drama. he would always tell me he was leaving her. and for a while they were broke up. but they got back together,so finally i just out & told him he had to choose, and he said he chose me... i was so in love with him, i would do absolutely anything for him. but after that night he was at my house,and he chos, i hadn't talked to him in like 3 days. come to find out he was w/ his ex. and they were stil together. i wasn't as mad, as i was disappointed in him.. =[ he is really good friends w/ some of my family, so he was at my house one day, and i couldn't even stand to look at him.. it was that bad, he kept saying how he was a bad person & stuff. and i would jus shake my head,and look away, i've cried my heart out over this boy. he was everything to me. even though we never were officially dating. we haven't really talked any. i think the last words i said to him, was that i needed him. i didn't realize how much he meant to me until i lost him. & i jus cannot get over it.. i don't know what to do.. i kno that " it jus takes time " but i had a first love, i kno how it is. and this is 20 times worse. i want to talk to him so bad, but his gf is really obsessive, and his mom wont even let me call his house. i jus want to know what his thinking. i don't know what to dooooooooo , help !! =[
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I know how it feels to strongly believe that you can't get over it, so if you really want this, then you've got to fight for it. But I've also experienced guys saying that they like you back, just to satisfy you, and soon enough you realize how empty the words were. I really hope they weren't empty in your case, and again, if you really want him, fight for him. Let him know. Guys don't usually show it (ego...ugh) but I know they have to contemplate what you say.
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sometimes the greatest and most treasured thing is what we already have and we don't realize it until we have lost it and if you can try and talk to him at school ask one of your friends to call him or talk to him so that way his mom doesn't know about you secretly talking to him. Hope all goes well!
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