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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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I was wondering, what's the HTML code for putting a Flash movie onto a webpage? I rate high.

Thanks,

Fyce

hey, sorry for the orignal answer. but try google. cait♥

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Okay, so this guy that i`ve been wit` since we met jus` recently broke up. We were together for 15 1/2 months. He took me back everytime I cheated or anythin` like that. But, this time, he broke up wit` me. He said he loves me still, && that we`ll get back together "soon". But, right now he has "too much drama" && "not enough time" for a girlfriend. I love him so much && I want him back. This all happend 4/21. Everytime I talk to him..I cry on the phone..off the phone, or whenever I think about him. I want him back. I feel like no other guy is worth my time, but him. He`s my everythin`. I jus want to know how I would be able to start the "soon" process.

oh by the way..he`s livin` wit` lesbians && he gets mad when I talk to ANY of my guy friends. But i`m perfectly fine wit` that. I`ll stop talkin` to EVERY guy, jus` to have him back.

HELLPPp!!

i rate..GOOD! (:

hey, well it sounds like you cheated more then once. if you cheated then that means you really werent serious about him and wanted something more. dont shut off yoru life for this guy. ther are other guys out there for you. maybe just not right now. cait♥

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I've been going through a lot the past couple month (serious knee injury, parents splitting up, gramma dying) and im gonna talk to my priest about it. I am very comfortable talking to him, but i dont know what to say. I can tell him how I feel .. but what will that do? idk im so confused, HELP ME

hey, well my parents split too. its very hard to go through. i think talking to a priest is a good idea. maybe i should have done that. anways whatever you tell him he cant repeat. so basically your secrets are safe with him. so go ahead and tell away! if you want someone to talk to send me a message in my inbox asking for my AIM s/n because i wont give it out here. cait♥

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my uncle's german shepered bit me and i have a big bruise do i have a rabies? cause my uncle said he got complete rabies shots so i dont have to worry but my friends and my PE teacher said that i have to go to the doctor im confused
and my mom doesnt know that my uncle's dog bit me
by the way the dog bit me in 05/9/2006 and
i washed my wound after he bit me it didnt break my skin that much and no blood at all.


hey, i think its fine. but i would go to a doctor just incase. cait♥

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I'm 90 percent positive that my friend has feelings for me; but just needed someone elses opinion.
I'll let you be the judge. We were friends for about 2 years and then several months ago he had to move away for a job in another state. Before he moved he gave me his computer so we could stay in touch. I never asked for one or anything he just offered it to me which I thought was a really sweet gesture. We messenger each other whenever he's not at work and he always signs off by saying "chow bella" which means bye beautiful in italian. Just in the last two weeks he has done two really romantic things for me. The first was that he sang happy birthday to me on my voice mail for my birthday in a sweet voice and said he'd be mailing up a gift. The other thing was that when I told him that I caught the bridal bouqeut at my cousins wedding last week he said "hopefully you won't marry anyone from (the town I live in). Since he lives out of town I think he was hinting something. When we have our talks on the internet he flirts with me and says things like I'm funny and a great person to know and talk to. Sometimes we talk for more than a hour. He is pretty shy and likes to beat around the bush and hasnt actually said he loves me- but I think his actions show it.
What do you think?

hey, i think he loves youu! the best thing to do is ask. without being desperate that is. start it off casually like. so do you have a luck lady down there? or something like that. cait♥

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What does the sideways peace sign mean? I see everyone use it in there pics and stuff and I want to know what it means.

hey, its the same thing. its just a "cooler" way to display it. cait♥

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There is this girl in my town who whenever I run into I feel just utter contempt for. The problem is I'm not even really sure why because she's become such a loser.
Well first of all she has a bad reputation in town. She used to be a prostitute and got pregnant two years ago. No one knew who the father was and after she had the baby social services took it away. She also was a drug dealer and got banned from the volunteer centre I used to work at. I think the main thing that upset me was that she dated my first serious bf after we broke up. She would spread rumours about me and would flaunt their relationship in front of me. She also used to be really skinny when I was overweight.
Well since she had the baby she's gained atleast 50 pounds. She's also unemployed and the last time I saw her she was dancing at the bar with her big gut sticking out and being a complete slut.
Everyone (my friends) said she was gross. I have so much more going for me than her; I'm employed and have my act together and I don't sleep around and I'm a LOT prettier than her because I've lost a lot of weight.
So my question is why does it still upset me when I see her? Because she's turned into such a loser? Can anyone give me some advice?

hey, well no one is prettier because there skinner. the reason why is because you used to sorta envy her. because of that, that feeling will always stay with you. cait♥

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Hey guys,
ok I've hit a real low-point in life.
I've already tried killing myself, and that's not it..it's over the stupidest thing ever; looks. I hate myself so much. I'd do anything to be pretty, I've seriously begged my mom for plastic surgery 20 times a day for this whole year. I need to change. It's not that I care what others think cause they seem to think I'm pretty, it's myself, my inner-critic. I won't be happy until I change completely, but my mom made it clear plastic surgery is not an option, so what do I do? I don't remember the last time I was happy, seriously, every time I finally wake up happy, I look in the mirror..and all I see is: bulging stomach, big nose, hairy + manly face, disgusting face, short legs, unproportionate upper-body, tiny feet, weird ears, ugly + uneven skincolour, everything is just humiliating!! I hate myself sooo much, I just don't want to be me anymore, and please don't tell me to seek help or just accept who I am, I don't want to. I want to change. How though? What are some major things I can do to just completely change without plastic surgery?

hey, whatever you do dont kill yourself/cut yourself. plastic surgery isntn the only answer. bulging stomach- eat healthy join a gym or do sit-ups. big nose- theres nothing you can do. hairy&&manly face- for the hair you could get your eyebrows and lips waxed. for manlyness wear make-up. try black mascara on the top and bottom lashes. wear brown eyeliner on just the bottom eyelids. if your light skined wear pink eyeshadow if your darker skinned wear goldish. for blush wear a mix of pink and tan blush. skip the cover-up/foundation and use bronser. for lips put chapstick on and put lipgloss on over it( it sticks better ). diqgusting face- if you mean acne wise wash yoru face every mornign&&night everday. short legs- wear an anklet to dress it up. upper body- theres nothing you can do accpet eat right. tinyfeet- dres them up wiht toe rings to make them loook appealing. weird ears- dress them up with earrings to make them look more appealing. uneven skin color- go outside and tan go tanning at a place or use jergens natural glow sunless tanner. cait♥

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i was thinking about getting vcast for verizon, but i have a few questions:
*if you dont cancel your plan, but you want to switch yourphone, do you need to pay a fee?
*wen you rip music onto your vcast phone, do you have to pay?
* and does anybody have additional things to say about the vcast phone?
thanks, and i RATE 5s

hey, well if you cancel your plan early there is a few of a couple hundred dollars. my friend who had a vcast cancelled and the fee was like 300 dollars. i dont understand the rip part of your question. cait♥

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if i have like flab under my arms will doing pushups get rid of it?

what other exercizes can i do that will work quickly like get rid of most of the fat in like 2 weeks or less.

please help i dont want to wear sweathsirts the rest of the year. ill rate 5's

hey, push-ups will work. also try lighting light-weighing weights. about 2-5 pounds. start off small tho. also do this. sit on the ground with your legs bending at your knees. place your hands on the florr with your arms bednigna t your elbows. make your fingers facing outward. pick up your butt and go up and down. kinda confusing i know so any questions leave one in my inbox. cait♥

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http://www.abercrombiekids.com/kids/onlinestore/html/zoom2.html?alphaList=1:2:3:5:&attrTemplate=h&prnbr=12257&colors=4&zoom=1&colorName=Green:Grey:White:Dark%20Brown:¤t=5

I'm getting that Abercrombie Kids sweatshirt for my 12 year old, female, 100 pound cousin. And I think I should get her a size Small. Would she fit into that and would it be really tight? Small is the only size left so if she can't fit in it, any other cute sweatshirts like that? Websites please, it doesn't matter what store.

hey, well im 13 and weigh about 90 pounds. in abercrombie kids i take a size large sometimes even xlarge. i dont like to get stuff at abercrombie kids tho. i usually go for the xsmall or small at the regular abercrombie. i mostly get xsmalls there tho. how about this sweatshirt for her at the regular abercrombie instead. http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_275723_-1_12843

or even this one

http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_275716_-1_12843 b

i was looking at the color dark grey in the first one adn the color heather brown in the second one

cait♥

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Hey. Well, for anyone who lives in Maryland or has been there before, what do you guys think of Maryland because I live there, and I was wondering how other people (especially those in others states) feel about it. Like do they think it's fun or boring. Also, could you also tell me that people from other states say about Maryland?

hey, people think maryland is a boring field state. cait♥

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Is there a way to shrink your myspace down? Like make it overall smaller? like http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=68910282

hey, try www.chasebadkids.net

cait♥

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what turns a guy on or makes them think your hot?...in a non slutty way. How can you get a guy to want you easily?
true experts needed!

hey, just be yourself. dont act shy its a turn off. just look cute. and turn on the flirt. cait♥

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im having a little trouble with make up .I have (medium) brown straight hair and brown eyes.

I wanna wear make up but not look like a circus clown. any ideas on what to do or any product ideas???

hey, here are things to do.
♥ wear black mascara on the top and bottom lashes
♥ wear brown eyeliner on only the bottom eyelids
♥ wear light pink eyeshadow if your light skined and goldish if your dark skined
♥ use bronser instead of foundation
♥ for blush use a mix of tan and pink

cait♥

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My ears kinda stick out a lot. And my hair is straight, so when I wear my hair down my ears stick out of my hair and I look like an elf! Is there anything else I can do besides surgery so that my ears don't stick out? And what do I do about my hair?

hey, you can change your ears. but scrunch your hair or make it fuller and bigger. your ears wont be as noticable the bigger/fuller your hair is. avoid all up-dos. cait♥

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Hey. Well, I'm 13/f and African-American...if that helps any bit. I have an outie belly button, but it isn't a big one-it's average sized, like kind of small-medium. I was wondering if that would look good in a bikini or 2-piece bathing suit. Thanks a bunch!

hey, im 13/f and i have an outie that isnt big either. it looks fine in a bikini. bikinis are the only things that i wear. cait♥

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Hi. I'm 13, female, and African American. I have scabs on my legs (I'm brown skined and the scabs are dark brown), that are not that bug though. I was wondering what would be the best cream, etc. to use that would clear my legs the soonest without weird side effects, and where I could get that cream and for how much, etc. Thanks a bunch!

hey, there isnt a cream for scabs like that. ask your doctor if there is anything that you can do. there could be a special medial cream or an operation that you can get. cait♥

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i have this freind n well shes not pretty i no that mean but its true but anyways, this guy on myspace is like u r gorgeous you r hot n all this stuff n its a lie its this kid she met @ my freinds party n she doesnteven no him! she hasnt seen him since then n i dont want her to get hurt hes prob. just you no one of those dumb assses whos retarded. wat should i do? talk to her ab it? i juss dont want her 2 get hurt.

hey, well i know someone who got into a relationship with someoone on myspace. its veyr dangerous. the guy that she was in a relationship with was a rapist. tlak to her about it ASAP. cait♥

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Why was Robert E. Lee unique in the war? I just need like a sentence or two describing that. I'LL RATE 5'S FOR ANYTHINNGGGG THAT EVEN SLIGHTLY ANSWERS MY QUESTION. Please helppp!!!

hey, try this website. http://www.let.rug.nl/usa/B/relee/relee.htm
cait♥

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