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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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im 15..going on 16 and i havent had a boyfriend yet. everytime someone brings up the subject about having a boyfriend i get so like nervous and self-conscious because im afraid they'll ask like oh who was your last boyfriend? how many boyfriends have you had before? and my old friend was talkin bout boys and my other friend goes yahhh but she hasnt had a boyfriend yet. and the girls like OMG WHAT? you havent had one yet? seriously?! like she was shocked. because apparently alotta people think im prettY? i dont see it but whatever. im not that good with guys i mean yah i talk to them and all ..but as friends. im way too shy to like hang out with them or something. maybe they just dont see me as girlfriend material? my best friend says maybe i may look like a bitch or something..or guys are just afraid to come out and tell me because they are scared of rejection. but actually im not kinda scared to get my first boyfriend (if that ever comes :( because i really wont know how to act since ive never had one before. ahhh please give me suggestions anything will help..seriously!

A lot of girls your age haven't had boyfriends. Just because you haven't had any doesn't mean you aren't pretty and you aren't a wonderful person. Some people take a little more time to find their first boyfriend, and when you do find him, it'll be even more special.

I haven't had a lot of boyfriends, only about 3, but they were mostly all long-term boyfriends.

The right guy is out there for you, you just have to give it sometime. Don't look for love, let it find you. It'll come, I promise you. ♥

does anyone know any REALLY REALLY good songs about missing someone and loving them but more about missing them and all that? thanks.

Lifehouse - Hanging By A Moment.
Starting Line - Last Impressions.
Areosmith - Angel.
Goo Goo Dolls - Iris.
Keith Urban - Making Memories Of Us.
The Afters - Beautiful Love.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Young Rome & Marques Houston - For Your Love.
Rascal Flatts - God Bless The Broken Road.
Josh Kelley - Home To Me.
Death Cab For Cutie - Passengers Seat.
The Pussycat Dolls - Stickwithu.
Lifehouse - You And Me.
Shawn Desman - Butterflies.
Dallas Green - Caseys Song.
Howie Day - Collide.
Chingy & Janet Jackson - Don't Worry.
Lyfe Jennings - Must Be Nice.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.
Aerosmith - Cryin'.

Hope you find something you like. ♥

ok this is how it goes.
there is this boy dan, and he asked me out like 2 months ago and i said im not sure yet. i finally told him i liked him and he kinda just ingorned it. then he started liking this girl sam, then kaylee, and then my own cousin! but i guess he kinda gave up on them and now he starts calling me babe and flirts w/ me just like he did before he admitted to liking me, and i kinda still have feelings for him. if he ever asked me out again should i say yes or is he just another playa?
id appricate (sp?) if u answered

-kayla, 14

It's hard to say if he's a player or not. Guys that are around your age tend to dig a lot of girls at the same time. And really, there's nothing all that wrong with that. I guess he gave up on you since you said you weren't sure. Then he went on to liking new girls.

If you like this guy now and he likes you again. Why not give it a shot? You could be missing out on something special. You never know until you try it out. Go for it. ♥

i recently got limewire.. what are some good songs to download??

i like most stuff from screamo to pop

&& some of my favorite bands are hellogoodbye, box car racer, underoath, panic! at the disco and stuff like that

thankss

Zebrahead - Everything Falls Apart.
The Presidents Of The USA - Lump.
The Postal Service - Nothing Better.
The Verve Pipe - The Freshman Eagle.
Eye Cherry - Save Tonight.
Bowling For Soup - The Bitch Song.
Taking Back Sunday - You're So Last Summer.
The Postal Service - Such Great Heights.
The Vanished - Favorite Scar.
Unwritten Law - Save Me.
Shinedown - Burning Bright.
Live - Lightning Crashes.
Relient K - Be My Escape.
Bowling For Soup - Always.
The Spill Canvas - The Tide.
Ingram Hill - Almost Perfect.
JTExperience - Party Like A Rockstar.
Social Code - Beautiful.
Sugarcult - Back To California.
Fall Out Boy - Sugar We're Going Down.
311 - Amber.
Offspring - Can't Get My Head Around You.
Bowling For Soup - 1985.
Fenix TX - All My Fault.
The Used - Blue And Yellow.
Social Code - Cats And Dogs.
Everlast - Only Love Can Break Your Heart.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Ben Harper - Walk Away.
Fuel - Falls On Me.
Smile Empty Soul - Finding Myself.
Akon - Mr Lonely.
Everlast - So Long.
My Chemical Romance - The Ghost Of You.
The Verve - Freshmen.
Eagle Eye Cherry - Falling In Love Again.
Nickelback - Photograph.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.
Daniel Powter - Had A Bad Day.
Theory Of A Deadman - Santa Monica.
Lyfe Jennings - Must Be Nice.
Live - I Alone.
Criss Angel - Die For Me.
3 Doors Down - Going Down In Flames.
Hinder - Get Stoned.
Carl Henry - Perfect.
Massari - Real Love.
2Pac - Ghetto Gospel.
Thornley - Come Again.
Staind - Right Here.
Chevelle - Panic Prone.
Sean Paul - Keeping You Warm.
Matt Mays - On The Hood.
Breaking Benjamin - Rain.
Dead Cab For Cutie - When Soul Meets Body.
Dopamine - This January.
Spill Canvas - Stapplegunned.
Jack's Mannequin - The Mixed Tape.
Breaking Benjamin - Next To Nothing.
Candle Box - Far Behind.
Sweatshop Union - Try.
Classified - No Mistakes.
Nickelback - Far Away.
Twista & Trey Songs - Gotta Make It.
Simple Plan - Crazy.
The Pussycat Dolls - Stickwitu.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
Sevendust - Beautiful.
The Click Five - Just The Girl.
311 - Don't Tread On Me.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
The Dandy Warhols - We Used To Be Friends.
Rex Goudie - Run.
Dallas Goudie - Caseys Song.
Hedley - 'A' Song.
Blink 182 - Not Now.
The Rolling Stones - Rain Fall Down.
Hedley - Trip.

I hope you like some of these songs that I've listed for you. ♥

Hey Krissy!! You give great advice & thanks for answering this question...

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=401124

I do have another question though.

Well, i moved on. I broke up with my bf but now im with another guy. Lets call him D. D has nothing wrong with him. Hes really nice, not overprotective, and our relationships going good.. But i always think about my ex. Im always sad when i think about him & i feel like i still have feelings for him. Now ever since we broke up he says "have fun being with D, im out" and he leaves aim. A week has gone by & everytime i IM him he ignores me. Like i say hi he says hi and we stop talking =( I dont know what to do. Any suggestions?

Thanks!! =]

Thank you, and you're very welcome. Not a problem. :)

It sounds like your ex is really crushed about you finding a new boyfriend. I guess he just misses you and doesn't know what to think about all this. I don't blame him, because it does hurt when someone you love breaks up with you. I know he didn't treat you right and such, but it's still going to hurt him, a lot.

There's not really much you can do. If he doesn't want to talk to you, you can't force him to. You can explain to him that he still means a lot to you, but it was time to move on. Tell him you will never forget him and you still want to be friends. You don't want to lose him as a friend. Tell him that you will always be there for him and you're always thinking about him. Explain that if it was turly meant to be, you guys will find away back together. But for now, you guys just have to be apart. Since he doesn't listen to you while on AIM. E-mail him this or write it in a note. ♥

what's myspace? everyone is always talking about it at school!

It's this site that you make. You have your own profile and you put pictures up of yourself. You're able to meet new people and add new friends to your list. It's actually really fun.

You might want to check it out by going to the following site; http://www.myspace.com (the main page). Or you can even check out my MySpace, just to see what it looks like; http://www.myspace.com/wild2night ♥

14/f
I am a choreographer for hip hop dances. But my only problem is, I need good songs to dance to. Anyone have any good FAST PACE hip hop songs?

This is how I rate.
2 songs or less=1
3 songs=2
4 songs =3
5 songs=4
6+ songs= 5

Ying Yang Twins & Pitbull - Shake.
Nelly - Another One.
Carl Henry & Jr Writer - Perfect.
Joe Budden & Busta Ryhmes - Fire.
Gorillaz - Dare.
Shaggy & Oliva - Wild 2Night.
Madonna - Hung Up.
Chris Brown - Run It.
Sean Paul - Keeping You Warm.
Chingy - We Clubbin'.
Hermes House Band & DJ Itzi - Live Is Life.
Beenie Man - Kind Of The Dancehall.
Lil Jon, Trick Daddy & Twista - Crazy Train.
Gwen Stefani - What Are You Waiting For.
Joe Budden - Pump It Up.
Pitbull & Lil Jon - Culo.
Sean Paul - Shake That Thing.
Jermaine Dupri - Gotta Getcha.
Royal Gigolos - California Dreamin'.
Lil Jon, Busta Ryhmes & Elephant Man - Get Low.

I hope you enjoy these songs. They are very danceish. ♥

hey yall whats up I know this sound retarded but how do I change the back ground of myspace I cant find it any where plz help I'll rate good if you try to help
ME

http://www.freecodesource.com

That site should help you out some. They have some cute Backgound codes for MySpace. ♥

can you guys give me some places were i can get myspace layouts from. i would like either football or basketball.. but girly stuff will work to, thanks.
14/f

http://www.createblog.com
http://www.myspace.com-hey_lyts.url
http://www.whateverlife.com/myspacelayouts.php
http://www.myspace.com/viiislayouts
http://www.myspace.com/nighttimeskylayouts
http://www.myspace.com/vogue_lyts
http://www.myspace.com/myspacexlayouts
http://www.myspace.com/heckyeslayouts
http://www.myspace.com/stfuxlayouts
http://www.myspace.com/static__layouts
http://www.myspace.com/hey_musicmusic

These sites are great for cute layouts. ♥

can someone tell me the name of bow wows new song?

The new song is called "Fresh Azimiz." ♥

Does anyone know some really cute quotes or song lyrics that I can put in my info on IM cause I have a bunch but I either dont wanna use them or have already used them. Im looking for something like ""Only believe the things I wrote
I'll put it in a note, yeah
I'll cross my t's and dot my i's
Better say hello, don't you dare say goodbye *
I'll write sincerely yours and sign my name
P.s. I love you forever & today"
[AllAmericanRejects]" --that or "All a girl really wants is someone to want her back -one tree hill" --or that. song lyrics or cute quotes from tv shows like the oc or one tree hill or just cute quotes in general. thankss. Ill give feedback=]

http://www.holliesquotes.com and http://www.xanga.com/allthebest_QU0TES are both awesome sites. They have a lot of cute quotes for your AIM profile. ♥

is there a way to get tan without going tanning, self tanner or going out in the sun?

No, there is no way. ♥

there's this music video i saw. it was this dude in antartica or something and he's singing and taking off everything but his pants, then he says "it's time i meet my doom, i will never be with you" then he jumps off the cliff.
does anyone know the song and the artist?
i know throughout the song he's saying "you're beautiful, you're beautiful"
help!

That song is called "You're Beautiful" and it's by James Blunt. ♥

how do you pronounce gynecologist

You'd say it like this; Gy-no-call-a-gist. ♥

hey hey, I was just wondering, I'm a advicenator on this site, but when I ask for advice myself, Is it like - TOTALLY - anonymous? I'm not sure.

thanks

Yes it is totally anonymous. The only people that can see who you are, are L2 and L3 Mods. (They keep it to theirselfs, though. They would never tell anyone who is asking what question.) But to L1's and everyone else that is on or using this website, don't know who are asking any of the questions. ♥

i wanna look at porn but i dont want it to show up on hte url like porn for you or anything lol i use to go to xanga then look at the videos but i cant find anymore please help m/15

Just look it up, it doesn't matter if the URL is showing on your tool bar. You can always delete the URL's that you went to visit, aswell as your history.

To delete everything so your parents don't find out, go to "Tools", then "Internet Options". Once you are there, go to "Delete Files" under "Temporary Internet Files". This will delete all the URL's so they don't show up in your tool bar. Then to delete all your history, just click on "Clear History" down at the bottom under "History". ♥

i wanna get bear share to download songs for my ipod does anyone know if it gives you viruses or anything?

I wouldn't suggest getting BearShare. It's really slow and it will give your a computer a virus.

The best downloader is Ares. It goes really fast, you can find any song you're looking for and it doesn't give you any viruses. I've had it for over a year now and I haven't had any problems with it. ♥

Hey yall, well ive been getting into like rock, emo(sp),depressing, sad, songs....can anyone give me some songs of them(artist and title please) thanks everyone for your help.. i dont know what i would do without you all!! ill rate 5's

Zebrahead - Everything Falls Apart.
The Presidents Of The USA - Lump.
The Postal Service - Nothing Better.
The Verve Pipe - The Freshman Eagle.
Eye Cherry - Save Tonight.
Bowling For Soup - The Bitch Song.
Taking Back Sunday - You're So Last Summer.
The Postal Service - Such Great Heights.
The Vanished - Favorite Scar.
Unwritten Law - Save Me.
Shinedown - Burning Bright.
Live - Lightning Crashes.
Relient K - Be My Escape.
Bowling For Soup - Always.
The Spill Canvas - The Tide.
Ingram Hill - Almost Perfect.
JTExperience - Party Like A Rockstar.
Social Code - Beautiful.
Sugarcult - Back To California.
Fall Out Boy - Sugar We're Going Down.
311 - Amber.
Offspring - Can't Get My Head Around You.
Bowling For Soup - 1985.
Fenix TX - All My Fault.
The Used - Blue And Yellow.
Social Code - Cats And Dogs.
Everlast - Only Love Can Break Your Heart.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Ben Harper - Walk Away.
Fuel - Falls On Me.
Smile Empty Soul - Finding Myself.
Akon - Mr Lonely.
Everlast - So Long.
My Chemical Romance - The Ghost Of You.
The Verve - Freshmen.
Eagle Eye Cherry - Falling In Love Again.
Nickelback - Photograph.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.
Daniel Powter - Had A Bad Day.
Theory Of A Deadman - Santa Monica.
Lyfe Jennings - Must Be Nice.
Live - I Alone.
Criss Angel - Die For Me.
3 Doors Down - Going Down In Flames.
Hinder - Get Stoned.
Carl Henry - Perfect.
Massari - Real Love.
2Pac - Ghetto Gospel.
Thornley - Come Again.
Staind - Right Here.
Chevelle - Panic Prone.
Sean Paul - Keeping You Warm.
Matt Mays - On The Hood.
Breaking Benjamin - Rain.
Dead Cab For Cutie - When Soul Meets Body.
Dopamine - This January.
Spill Canvas - Stapplegunned.
Jack's Mannequin - The Mixed Tape.
Breaking Benjamin - Next To Nothing.
Candle Box - Far Behind.
Sweatshop Union - Try.
Classified - No Mistakes.
Nickelback - Far Away.
Twista & Trey Songs - Gotta Make It.
Simple Plan - Crazy.
The Pussycat Dolls - Stickwitu.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
Sevendust - Beautiful.
The Click Five - Just The Girl.
311 - Don't Tread On Me.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
The Dandy Warhols - We Used To Be Friends.
Rex Goudie - Run.
Dallas Goudie - Caseys Song.
Hedley - 'A' Song.
Blink 182 - Not Now.
The Rolling Stones - Rain Fall Down.
Hedley - Trip.

I hope you like some of these songs that I've listed for you. ♥

i need something cute for my aim profile

http://www.holliesquotes.com and http://www.xanga.com/allthebest_QU0TES are both awesome sites. They have a lot of cute quotes for your AIM profile. ♥

how do you get 12 friends n like change the name on your top 8 or 12 in mmy case?

Just go to the following site; http://www.r4wr.com/friends

Here you'll be able to have a Top 12, instead of a Top 8. ♥

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