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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.

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Alright, my boyfriend is turning 14 and I don't know what to get him for his birthday. We've been going out for 5 months&&& we're really serious. For my birthday he got me a necklace that's silvergold or whatever it's called and it's a heart and theres 3 little diamonds inside. What should i get him?!

HELP. any suggestions AT ALL. will help.
BIGGGGGGG TIMEEEE PLEASEEEE.

guys love to get things they are interested in. You have been going out for 5 months so there has to be something that he likes that you know about. If he likes video games then you should buy that or maybe a dvd, cd, or if he plays some kind of instrument like guitar get strings for it. I know all guys love food. Surprise at his house with a party or something.Most of them like clothes to so you could get him a t-shirt with his favorite band on it.

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How would you describe love in your own words? I just want to know ho other people think about love and how they feel towards it.

I think that love means that you are always thinking about this person even if they make you angry you still think about them and laugh. I also think that love is when you truly believe that if they died a part of you dies with them or with you. Love is when you cherish ever moment you have with them because you never know what life will bring you. Someone you love is someone you can trust about anything especially your life, you feel secure with them around.

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My Birthday is on November 2..and i wanna have a party but i have no idea wut to do! does anybody know where i should have my party and what a good theme is? thankss so much in advance!

You should have a party at like a dance club or some kind of place that is popular and brings a crowd. Since it is so close to halloween have them dress up in cool costumes or something. I never really had a theme for my parties but it sounds like fun. Maybe if you want to invite tons of people in should be in some kind of gym.

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Hey everyone! My hair is naturally wavy and very thick. I have it cut it layers with angled bangs. If I wear my hair natural it looks, well, like crap. I would love to make my hair either curly or wavy. What do you think is the best product and how do I make this possible? Rollers? Curling Iron? Any specific product??

I think that friest you should straighten it and then put hot rollers in. This is quick and fast and makes the curls look beautiful. Use the hot rollers only if your hair takes forever to dry. If it dries fast then just wash it and put them in rollers and sleep with them in. The first choice works best for me. Get thermasilk hair spray or any hair spray and spray it when you get them in and them hair spray them when you have it styled the way you want.

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hey im trying to save money for an ipod video and i was just wondering if it would be good to buy the movies online right now so that when i get it i just need to add the movies to the player?

ALSO, does neone know if the ipod video plays actual videos or just music videos. THANK YOU! =D I RATE ALL 5's BABY

I think that you should get at least one video b/c you want to get the ipod as fast as you can so if you spend all your money buying the videos then it will take you forever to get the ipod. I am pretty sure they only play the music. I may be wrong about that but my friend has one and hers only plays music.

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Yeah... so i'm a freshman (14 M) this year at FMHS in Flower Mound, TX...and there's this really hot senior girl that i only see in the hallway, but i don't know how to meet her. What do i do?

I know what it is like to be a freshman and liking one of the seniors. well if you had any classes with her i would suggest asking for her help about something and then starting from there but since you dont why not bump into her accidentally then going from there. Or get some resources and see if she has an email or a screen name. You could talk to her online to help you get to know her better since you only see her in the hallway.

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i like my friend and i cant stop thinking about hehr but i dont know if she likes me back what should i do?

If you truly like someone then you should tell her. I know that you are scared that she will say no but if you really like her you will take that chance. If you are rally good friends and she can talk to you about anything then she is the right one for you. Dont let her get away. If you dont at least talk to her or write her a note you will regret it and wonder why would have happened if i had said something or anything.

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When you masturbate, does is make ur lower area smell more?

When you do that it does make it smell more because all of the fluid in that area is coming out and it smells worse when it is out than in.

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im not sure if im exsperincing a real feeling for a "guy" friend of mine or if im just doing it to like someone. I'm afraid to ask him to do something because i don't want to ruin out friendship but I'm afraid that if i don't say anything than I may miss a good chance. i want to try to like him but i don't want to ruin our frienship, which i value more.very confused here..please help!

Asking a friend if they like you is the hardest thing especially if you value your friendship more than anything. I think that if you really want to be his g/f then you should go for. Why not just ask him how he feels about you in what way. If he says friendship then stay friends but if he says more then go for it. But there is a chance that it wont work out but that is the probablity of every relationship.

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Ok well I am grounded and I am not even supposed to be on the computer, but I need some help on what to do because I am BORED TO DEATH. I am supposed t obe using this time to catch up on homework, which I have done. And I have studied too. I am grounded from the radio, phone, friends, and internet. Please help!

Well you didnt mention tv. If not that then you can read a book or a comic if you into those. Video games are always fun. Write a note to a girl or something. Why dont you tell your parents that you have done what they asked and you ask them politely if you could do something fun. Try not to get grounded it sucks especially if you do it constantly then you will know what real boredom is lol.

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k well theres this guy and he wrote me a note and put it in my locker but he didnt really write it his friend wrote it but he told him what to write and then today i was like "phillip you know i like you" and then he smiled and like held my hand for a minute then when his friend came he let go really quick but were not going out so u think theres a chance that we will go out?

I think there is a very good chance that you will go out. If he was holding your hand then thats a good sign. Maybe you should talk to him or write him a note and ask him out but if you wait there is a chance he will do the same.

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If you were asked to sign a prenup, would you sill want to get married to that person? I always thought that if you go into marriage with the thought of divorce then it will happen. Signing a prenup is kind of like saying "hey, if this doesn't go well then we can just get a divorce and all my money will still be okay."

Yes I would because if i truly loved the person then i would do anything for them. I know some people do it as a security thing just incase they met the wrong guy they dont have to worry about it but i would If he didnt ask then i wouldnt only if it was his request.

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does doing squats really make your theighs smaller?

Doing squats help work the innner thigh. it may make them smaller if you do them consistently.

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i like bands such as: the spill canvas, fall out boy, underoath, hellgoodbye, hawthorne heights, mae and stuff like that

what r some more bands i could try or some songs to listen to that fall basiclly into the same genre

and where can i dowload music, my comp is pretty old so are there some sites that will def work?

thanks

Well there is a website called battleofthebands.com that you can listen to bands that have their own music and in the process of becoming famous. Some bands similar to the ones you listen to is Funeral for a Friend or Mudvayne. Imesh is what i use so you should try that.

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My friend went to a different school for high school this year. I plan on going to the samne high school next year, but I feel that even if I go we won't be as close baecause she knows wher she is going and of course she will have knew friends. I just don't want to get in the way of that. she assures me that we are still going to be friends but I don't believe her. I am scared that if u transfer, she wouldn't treat me well. i am thinking about not going because of thatr. should I transfer ao do You think I should go? i reall need help/ and how can i break this info to me freind I don't want to hurt her?can you email me your answer to RAging taurus058 @yahoo.com. Thanks!

I think that you should transfer because you want. Yes she may make new friends but she will always keep her old friends too. When you transfer you will make new friends also but you will still want to be her friend. I think that callingher will remind her that you are friends and you should continue to hang out even though she goes to a different school. I had a friend who went to a separate school than me but we ended up going in the same school but were still friends. Even though she was the friend I wanted for when I transfered i made new ones. I think that when you decide about transfering it shouldnt be about her it should be about you and how you feel.

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I have this problem of disorganization, and handing stuff in late, at school, when I'm like an A+ student, but then sometimes for lateness I get dropped down 5-10 points. I really dont want to get bad grades because of my disorganization, and lack of neatness. My locker is messy, I keep saying that I'll do it tommorow, but never do, and the same with my room. Therefore, I get in trouble with my parents and teachers. A lot of times, while I'm doing homework (especially on the computer) if I'm bored, or not, I always seem to get distracted by something. Even my stories that I write sometimes dont even have any problems in them (not for school though) and I make the characters go off on tangents, like I do a lot of times in real life. Can someone give me some organization tips? All answers will be greatly appreciated.

I suggest getting a bindor and getting folders for all your subjects. With the bindor buy those plastic slips that you can put notes in them you can get them at the dollar store. Cleaning your locker is probably a good idea and dont put it off. Actually dedicate yourself to doing it and you will. After you clean your locker try to keep it clean each day dot let it get messy again.

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wondered if there are any advice on this topic. i don't mind players, as long as they don't play me... are there any signs to tell if a woman is looking for more than just (pretty shallow) fun?

One way of telling is she always wants to be alone. Another sign is always feeling you up. If she talks about personal stuff liek sex all the time it is probably all she wants. Not all women are like that but most are. If she wants to go to the movies and wants to hang out then that is just wanting to have fun in the relationship.

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okay does ANYONE know any good military songs? my dad is in the air force, and enjoys listening to them. i wanna make him a cd with all military/war sogns for his birthday. (his favorite music is country, but any kind is cool)

someone pleas help?please?

kthanx!

If you go to askjeeves.com and type in what are some military sings? they are cds you can purchase or other tings under that topic.

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okay..i asked a question a few days ago listing everything that makes me think that the kid i like likes me back..everyone who answered said that it was obvious. now..my best friend is supposed to ask him who he likes..he keeps forgetting..but he will..eventually. i want to hang out with my crush a couple times before i tell him..but my weekends have been booked. so my question is..should i

1. wait to tell him after i hang out with him eventually?
2. wait to tell him after i find out if he likes me or not?
3. both 1 and 2?
4. just go for it.

also, finding the right opportunity is also a problem. when i do tell him..how should i go about it?

Just go for it it wont hurt. He obviously is to afraid to telll you so maybe if you wrote him a note or something then he will write back and you wont have to worry about it anymore. I think that you best chances of finding out right away is if you ask him upfront.

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Well I have been dealing with an impulse control disorder called Trichillomania. For those of you who don't know what that is, it's a disorder in which you have impulses to pull out your own hair. Well about a year ago I started pulling out my eyebrows, I have pulled them all out and they have been this way for that amount of time. I keep plucking them out every time a new one grows in. Well now I am in therapy for this and taking anti-depressant medication(Zoloft) which has helped the intensity go away to pull. Now my eyebrows are starting to grow back. It has taken them a week to finally start growing back without me touching them. I was wondering how long do you think it will take for them to be fully grown back in, and is there anything I can do to make them grow faster? Rogaine? I heard it works, but not so sure.

If you go to askjeeves.com and type in how to grow eyebrows? it will pull up a good bite of resources. Rogaine only works on certain people depending on the person but it may work for you so you should try it. I also found a cite called billiondollarbrows.com that looks interesting or may to you.

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