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Okay let me warn you this thing will be like 2000 characters, but let me start by saying i met this girl when i came to missouri to visit my grandma, we like eachother, well we love eachother, i dont feel like i could live wtihout her...we dated last year and broke up and then i tried for a year to get her back and finally did, however i found these questions asked on advicenators..about her ex..while we were going out:
*well my ex boyfriend is coming over tomarrow and i made him a scrapbook of all our memories cause i want him to know how much i still care about him! he has told me 3 times since we've been broken up he loves me and hes said he misses me all the time! but theres also another girl that he likes and im trying to pretty much win him over..but anyways..i was just wondering if you had any ideas on how i could do like a scavenger hunt kinda thing to lead him to it cause i want this to be special!!! please help asap! thanks!*
i knew her ex was coming over to get the scrapbook but she said that was it and that she didnt have feelings anymore and what not...but the most painful is the next one...
hey! well me and my ex boyfriend mike went out for 3 months..i know its not a long time but we talked and dated for like 4 months before that! well anyways we have been broken up for almost 6 months now and we both have went out with other people!i have always asked him if he liked me and if wed ever get back together..well he never would answer the whole like you question but he would always say i dunno if we will ever go back out cause i dont normally go out with ex gfs so i thought ok fine whatever! well i tried moving on ya know and i finally got to the point i thought i was over him! i even had him over like 4 weeks ago..i could kinda tell he had feelings for me cause he would keep asking me for a hug and hed like put his arm around me and he gave me a hickey and we had a total blast together..but it kinda felt like we were just friends so i thought well maybe i am over him but yet i still missed him! so i went on vacation and didnt really talk to him for 2 weeks..the day i get back he ims me and was talking to me and said he liked me so that kinda made me feel good but then i also realied that maybe i wasnt quite over him and he had also asked if he could come over next week so i thought sure! well so the next night we stayed up til 3:15 in the morning talking and he had said he still loved me and always had, he missed me, and itd be great if we eventually got back together but he didnt want that right now and he wanted to keep things slow for right now! then the next night it was a repeat we stayed up til 3:30 and he said he missed me and my picture was his background on his computer and what not! well then things just kinda seemed weird! i just had this feeling it wasnt gonna be a good day but i kinda tried letting it go past me and i wrote his xanga past memories and i told him i still loved him..so i guess that was a bad idea cause he totally flipped and was like omg i cant believe u did that , you know i dont like my friends knowing everything, blah blah blah! so i was like ok im sorry and i showed him how to get rid of it! so then he wouldnt say i love you but he said i miss ya and your pic is still on my background so i was like okay maybe things arent that bad! but he also told me he didnt know if he was going to come over next week now because i made him upset and he couldnt believe i would do that which seemed kinda weird to me! but the thing is i want him to come over cause i wanna see him and talk all of this out in person and i even made a scrap book of us cause i want him to realize how much i really do care! well then theres this girl melissa that has liked him for about a year now! well hes always told me they were just friends and things like that! and the other day i said something how hes always with girls and calls them hun and stuff and hes like i hate when your like this cause you always think i like these girls when really we are just close friends! and i want to trust him but its so hard! and then like today i read his xanga and melissa signed it saying i cant wait to watch fire works with you tomarrow and then it had this quote that was like seduce my body blah blah blah seduce my soul and ill always be yours! and im so clueless on what to think about that! i know they both use to like eachother and they went to a dance together after we broke up and all he ever tells me is they are just close friends but he is with her all the time! and i dont know what to think of it! i just dont know why he would sit there and say all of a sudden out of no where that he loved me and missed me when for 6 months he wouldnt say a word to me! PLEASE HELP ME!
sent while we were going out yet again, i love her with all my heart and i dont know what to do, i finally won her back and i dont want to let her go but i feel like its just a game and she is playing me. Should i keep her or let her go? any advice?
~D3vY
OK it sounds to me that maybe shes afraid to be alone. or she just doesnt know what she wants. I think she loves you, just maybe the distance is a little much for her( if u guys have a disstance) or She still has feelings for him and shes now relizing that shes better off with you.. it sounds to me that the guy shes trying to get back with only wants her for sex..Try talking to her about it..tell her you find those an you are worried about loosing her..see what she says..Maybe shes trying to see if you pay close attention to her..I hope everything goes good for you..Write me back if you need any more
my hair is SOOOOO frizzy, i cant stand it anymore. how can i get it to stop frizzing so much? is there a good shampoo/conditioner etc.?
will rate high!!
~thanx
Try aussie Frizz gell and blow drying your hair streight.
i bought a really cute sweatshirt at aeropostale but when i tried on at home it was too small. i bought it at an outlet mall in st. augustine but i'm not there anymore. can i return it at a normal aeropostale store??
Yes you can, they may not give you cash back but you can return it at a mall near you
Ok..Im 13 ((almost 14))..and Im 5 foot 10 inches and like REALLY skinny..Is being tall like a turn off to guy..
High Rates for good advice
Being tall is not a turn off..Just get clothes that fit..try to grow your hair long so it makes it look like your a little shorter..everyone is beautiful in their own way..when you have confidence in your self other people will have confidence in you.
idk how to scrunch hair! i really lik how it looks i need to kno what product(s) work best and whats the best way to do it...
gracias
I use Aussie frizz Gel and Aussie hair spray and Aussie Scrunch Spray its really cheap and it works..I soak my hair with gel and then take my fingers and push it up all over my head an then apply the scrunch spray an scrunch a little more it helps boost it..an then hair spray to keep in place hope i helped.
Another product that works very well if your willing to spend a litle money is Bed Head..you can buy them at a local hair salon or at a beaty shop
hey i need some good eyeliner
please name brands...regular or liquid is fine
thanks
Jane, Avon, NYC, Mary Kay, Mabeline.... I usually wear avon or Jane..they work very well for me i use Black in Jane and Green in Avon
i dont know if i should dye my hair darker or lighter. I want a big change but i dont know what to do. I just dont want it to look bad. If i go a shade lighter with blonde highlights my hair will probably be dirty blonde or blonde. If i go darker, i'd go to my natural color which is dark brown. Does anyone have any advice on what i should do??
In the summer i always diem y hair lighther because it looks better if you are tan an it makes it look like your kinda with the season. LIght as hot, dark as in cold. try that. Then to spring it up a little bit..try a different color highlights maybe like a red or a black with blonde hair...Its hot.
high school starts soon whats the best way to get a good reputation with people? im really nervous please help me out!!!
Dont ahve a grudge against people, an look like your a nice person..have a smile on your face all the time..help people if they need help, an ocasionally talk to people you dont know..Join activities..like sports or clubs or even plays
i have a great friend who is turning 16 tomorro. he desserves a great little get together because hes soo nice and caring. him along with me and 5 other girls are really close and i want to do something for his birthday. (not a party, just a get together for 5-10 people)
i was thinking having us eat at a restaurant and of course my friend eats free..what do you think? what could we do after?
thank you
Go to a nice resturant eat dinner, an go bowling, movies or even to the mall to just go to arcades look around hang out or something...or go to the mall eat dinner there an catch a movie if your mall has a theater.
okay well i met this dude through a friend...and like his parents are split..so now this weekend he is going to his dads and he wants me to call him and like thats no problem ...but i ahve no clue what to talk about...if you could answers this asap....
thanks!
Talk to him just like youd talk to your friends. Tell him what you did today maybe that will bring up some conversations. talk about tv shows or music.
I have really short nails.. i get really nervous and so i bite them. i want to grow them out for school but dont know how because i will end up biting them so does any one know how i can stop. and grow them out. thanks i rate 5's for good answers.
If you can get fake nails..You wont bite them as much an even if you do its fine..Your nails will grow longer under them..an by time school starts your nails will be longer..If that doesnt work just make sure you always have something else to cheew on like gum or something instead of biting your nails stick a peice of gum in your mouth
When going to Victoria Secrets what are you suppose to do when you want to know your bra size? Do you just walk up to a sales lady and ask her to measure you? What does she do?
IS this your first time getting a bra? If it is get the smallest bra they have try it on..if it doesnt fit go one bigger..an so on...u will eventually find your size..if you have worn a bra before an just havent gotten one in a long time or just not from there...then hold the bra up to u in the store an see if its they way it fits an then try it on.
okay, even though i give out advice i need it for my room,
my room is being painted blue, and chesnut stained floor, and a mission kind of furnitur, its all dark, like everything, now i neeed things liike a bedspread or something like so, does anyone know here to get things like that??
x0o
brok3n
You could go to a simple store like walmart and get a comphitor ( dont know how to spell lol) For maybe like 80 dollars..With stars or just a regular blue..they have all different types... You could also go to a sears or target..they have some good selections also
Okay I'm looking for some great websites with like statements or like sentences like:
"There is no such thing as a stupid question just stupid people..... or whatever"
I forgot what they are called but something like that!
CAN YA HELP!????/ I RATE 5 TO EVERYONE!
www.firehotqoutes.com..or www.firehotquotes.com .maybe one of those not sure whitch one :-p
I'm going out w/ the greatest guy ever, but unfortunately he lives like, 45 mins. away. so anyway, there's this kid, matt, at school who's always kinda had this crush on me. well 2day in school, i hugged him like usual, cuz we're such good friends, and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i just wanna know if this is ok, cuz i would never wanna cheat on my bf.
thx
Erin
I dont think its cheating/ I mean you giyz are good friends, some countrys kiss when they greet each other. I mean talk to your boyfriend about it an make sure its okay. But it really should be if he trusts you. If he doesnt trust you then maybe the relationship isnt worth it. Trust is everything.
I am, going out with this guy, and in JUly (that time i was nbot going out with him), so anyway i was calling him names, becuse he lied to my friend (Rachel*), so in Augest the guy asked me out and i said yes so Emily, called Rachel and said that I was going out with that guy and she called me a slut. What should I do should i be her friend or no?
*-named changed
She might be upset because you are dating him.But if she is a true friend she will take back what she said and apologize to you. And if not then she wont, and you relize she wasnt your friend from the begininng if she thinks ur a slut.
Ok - my uncle hits on me at almost every family gathering. It really bothers me! I told my mom and she said she'd try to help me, but I still feel so uncomfortable around him. He's always staring at me and winking, and saying that I'm hot!
I'm just so uncomfortable ..
Tell him to leave you alone an your not intrested. Tell him how you feel about it. If you are scared to confront him alone have your mom or a cousin go with you to do it. Or even do it over the phone, and stay away from him for a couple days or something. hope i helped
okay so recently ive been hanging out with some friends that i wouldnt normally hang out with them out of school or sports. They smoke pot and they talk about ti all the time. since ive been hanging out with them i have been wanting to smoke it but i know its not the right choice. What do you think i should do?
If you know its not the right thing to do then dont do it. If they do it around you say you dont think you can, and if they try to force you in to doing things you dont want to, then they are not true friends. But if you are curious then try it once and see what happens.
Ok i ALWAYS brush my hair after i get out of the shower when i dont brush it its wavy/curly and tangled but then after i comb it its STRAIGHT!! and then i try and scrunch it and it never works i dunno why but anyways my hair is kinda long about down to my back and thick so can you tell me what to use and how to scrunch it? thanks!
If you run a brush threw your hair after you condition it, in the shower, then get out, get dressed and do your make-up and what else you have to with a towel around your hair. When you take the towel down pic your hair wid a wide combed pick. and then use moose and put it threw ur hair with your hands (Fruitesse is a good kind or G2b-bedhead) The use a extra hold hair spray an spray and scruntch it an it should hold an work. Hope i helped!
Ok heres the problem.. my friend got her peroid in 5th grade.. so she gets it normally now.. but when she was supposed to get it this month she didnt.. She never had sex.. what could be the problem?
She might have an irregular peroid. It could be because she doesnt have enough iron, or because she got it so young. If she is concerned about it have her go to the doctors and they will give her some pills to make her have a regular peroid every month. I had to do it when i was younger.it helps.