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Alright my dog died 2 years ago...I'm still not over it and since then I havn't really liked dogs much and my family gets a dog so my little sister will have a dog to grow up with which is cool in all...but like I'm not ready and I don't want to get all attached to it and have it die again. My parents don't understand that at all and think I'm "crazy" b/c I don't pay attention to the dog and they keep yelling at me for it...what do I do?

my dog died 3 weekz ago.. n 4 days after my parents got a new dog.. it helped the pain.. i mean i still miss my dog.. but i think u shuld say.. its not my responsibility i still am not ready

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Ok well latly i have been living with my aunt lissa ( we'll call her that ) but me n' her never get along so i moved in with my aunt barbara.. I love'd living with her because we get along good n' shes really nice n' everything but shes always making me babysitt and i can lyk barely ever go n' do ne thing.. well i get a certain ammount of money a month ( for my aunt to raise me ) and so my aunt lissa gave that money to my aunt barbara to use it on food n' clothing for me for back 2 school- but instead i kno my aunt had to pay her house rent ( she rents a house) and i kno she used that money for it.. and shes in a really bad fincial situations n' problems, and when my aunt lissa found out that shes been " taking advantage of me n' not paying me for babysitting " she wanted me to live back here with her- i guess we get along better but i really liked living with my aunt barbara except the fact that she took the money i get n' took advantage of me babysitting.. And shes mad at me and i dont think she'll talk to me since i did tell her recently lyk a week ago b4 i had to move back to my aunt lissa's that i was happy living there.. i dont want her upset or mad at me and i wanted people's opinion's on if i did the right thing.. PleAse Help i'd appreciate it soo much n' ill rate you!

well if she took advantage of you then yes. i know you still love her but you need to go with the most responsible..

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Both of my great grandma's just died. I went out shopping with my best friend all day yesterday after going to a doctors appointment with her dad. I feel terrible about not helping my dad with the funeral stuff... Should I feel bad?

no because your a kid.. you shuldnt have deal with that kind of stuff.. blieve me u may think u feel bad but u jus dont no wut to feel

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I live in a small neighborhood, huge houses and lots of kids. That is the bad part lots of kids, so i have a bunch of friends, and they are constantly fighting. But i am always stuck in the middle, and then i give advice to 1 friend and the other thinks i'm on there side. It is so confusing and bad. hOW DO I handle this?? And i already tried the whole "its not my fight so don't get me in the middle" it doesn;t work!! i rate **LaUrEn**

Just say.. work this out on your own.. i cant get in the middle.. or make them sit down and talk it out

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i've been going to school with the same guys for 10 years now. i don't think any of them like me as a gf. how do i get them to notice me more?

be more out there.. be more active in skewl n sports.. n meet new friends

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I need to get rid of a few pimples over night. Do u know something fast that I can use that wont cost much? HELP YA'LL!!

tooth paste.. or cover up always works.. :)!

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my friend tina looks way older for her age and she is 13 and older guys like in their 20s hit on her. and we went to the movies by ourselves i though we were going to get raped because these guys were following us around all nite and she told them i was 17 but im 13 and i dont even think i look 15 how could i pull of 17!


Older or not!

Your friends goin to get you into serious trouble.. Be careful when your around her because you could end up being someones next rape victim or even worse.. Just be careful 13 year olds shouldnt be playing 17 year olds

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ahh!! ok, soo I've been playing the piano for about 5 years. when I first started my mom literally had to drag me there because I didn't want to do it. then I was lying to her saying I enjoyed it. I thought, hey if I did something for my mom, maybe she wouldn't hate me. But anyways, I have been telling her I dont want to do it anymore for about a year. She said to me today "I dont want to listen to this. you dont want to do anything but sit on your lazy ass" OMG, I can't stand this! I hate the piano! My mom tells me she loves me but those are just words. she doesn't actually mean it. Whenever I try to talk her her she's like "I'm not going to listen to this! You're a very ungrateful spoiled brat" Oh, and she was on the phone and said "she always complains school is very hard for her, but why would she graduate number 2 out of 360?" OMG, I have to study about 5 hours a day, and spend about 3 hours on homework!! Please help! She does take me to the barn every day and does help me but I think thats only because horseback riding is my sport and she wants to get me "off my lazy ass"

aww.. im sry hun.. you should bring up 2 out of 360 n say if i do so well in school then y cant i quit piano..? i do horseback riding.. and tell her how u feel

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I like my best guy friend alot.. but the thing is i set him up w/his g/f and shes a friend of mine.. and i have a b/f who i also like.. what do I do?

I think you should tell the friend of yours.. Because she obviously would want to know.. and also who do you like more..? your guy friend or your boyfriend.. because if its equal or close to equal.. then u have to dump him.. But yeah figure that stuff out n then write back to me..

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Hi, it's my 15th birthday coming up soon, and I want to do something really good, like have a big party or something. The problem is, I want to invite all my friends (which span over a WIDE area - i have friends from loads of schools), but they don't all know each other, and some don't get along that well. Also, my best friend is a year younger and at a different school, but absolutely NONE of my other friends know her. I really want to invite all of them but I don't think they'll all enjoy it - especially my best friend as the only person she'll know is me. What shall I do?

HAVE A HUGE PARTY.. make it last long soo u can have time to hang with everyone.. dont worry things will work out fine!

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I went to this party and I'm 15 and I drank but I only had one beer and than I woke up the next morning in my bed. After that for the next couple of weeks I got sick daily, I started to get worried and had my friend buy a pregnancy test for me and it turned out that I was pregnant. I don't know how that's possible because I'm a virgin. But I can't remember what happened that night at the party. I don't know what to tell my parents.
~Pregnant?~

ask friends what happened.. maybe they no.. could you have been slipped a drug in your drink? check around ask.. what happened.. n if u are pregnant good luck with the parentals

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Well, when I was in the 5th and 6th grade I went to a middle school in my hometown, but I wasn't enjoying it at all their besides the fact that my friends were there. Everybody else there was stuck up and they did their best to try to humiliate people.

Since I wasn't enjoying the schools in my hometown, when it was time for seventh grade I decided to transfer schools and I got in a big fight with one of my friends about this. But eventually we made up and everything was fine. The point is though, that i felt like my friends and I were growing apart and it was only my first year in this school. Now I'm in eighth grade and I'm still going to the same school I transferred to but I kind of promised my friends from my hometown that I would go to high school where they are going because I seriously thought that's what i wanted. But now I don't becasue something bad happened with me and one of the "popular" girls of the cshool in my hometown and I don't want to go back (not because I'm scared but becasue I will probably do something stupid like punch her out) even though I dont seem like a tough girl. Either that, or I wont be able to focus in school anymore.

What should I do?

I want to go because I want to see my friends again and I DON'T want to let them down.

But then again, I really don't want to go because the people there are stuck up jerks who only care about themselves. I don't care what they think about me but I just can't stand being around people like them. Plus, there is more smoking adn people who get high at the school where my friends go to and I'm totally against that.

Also, how can I break the news to my friends that I may not end up going to the same school as them in high school?

I'm so confused...

What should I do???
Thanks for taking your time to read this long letter.

I think you should tell her straight out.. n say why.. n say im sorry to break tha promise its just something i have to do for myself.. n say i hope ur not mad

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hey, my best friend well i say we are cousin because i have known her since she was a baby we used to talk about are problems together but know she does not seem bothered so i ring her to try talk to her but she still does not listen she talks to every one else while i am on the phone. i can feel us falling apart like are parents have i tryed talking to her saying it was important and i told what was wrong and she just said no we will not fall out then put the phone down how can i get her to listen me with out her oing that i o not want to fall out with her i love her like a sister please help me

Just give her time.. but make ur point clear.. that you love her like a sister.. n thats a bond u dont wanna lose.. if she still trys to push away just give a lil bit of space

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i have alot of best friend problemz itz me again so many problemz jus trying to find a way to deal with em. well... im the person that has a little brother with a big temper n a dad that i think takes money away from the family to spend on himself n the one that everythingz breaking in her house etc. well my best friendz i love em all but... one uf em tlkz to me on the phon alot n sumtymez it seemz like im not good enough for her other friendz n stuff there are tymez where were like the bestest friendz ever but lately itz like that. n therez my other best friend that i literally onli talked to her once this summer n she tlked to the other person only that i had on the other line when i tlked to her n i keep trying to call her baq n she wont answer. n the other best friend i get really jelous of her n at first id only answer if she called me. but after i came baq from vacation ever since she hasnt called me... well i wuz scared cux she brags alot n thats y i get jelous well... i got advice from ppl on this thing n it gave me the corrage to tlk to her but now im calling her n she doesnt answer the phon ether like the best friend i wuz tlking about b4 this. wut do i do? i dont kno where to start with any of this except maybe the first best friend that i wuz tlking about n thats like a little tiny idea that if it doesnt work than thats it i have nothing else. help!!

aww im sry hun things will get better.. just try to let things cool down.. maybe start gettin out theere n meet new friends.. maybe that will work

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im pregnant nD idk who the father isz

do u have a boyfriend..? mayb its him

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i'm starting to get some things ready for back to school. i'm gonna go clothes shopping soon at the mall and I want some really great clothes to "wow" everyone at school. anyone know where to get cool clothes??

aeropostale.. gadzooks.. express.. the limited n cool places like dat

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my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie

tell someone.. you need out of that house..! tell an adult any adult just tell!

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alright, you might all think i'm crazy but don't judge me CAUSE YOU DONT KNOW ME! anyway..sorry but umm i'm 8 months pregnant and no one knows, not my parents, not my friends- no one...i've been able to hide it pretty well with baggy clothes and the fact that i'm a little big as it is naturally..since it's getting pretty close to my due date- and i havent seen a doctor once, yet...does anyone have ANY advice..please i'm in desperate need...and i'm really scared...i don't live at home beacuse my dad used to beat me and my mom was having an affair..so i moved out and i live with a friend..im 15 but my friend is 19..and he's not really good with this stuff..please help me !

ok if you dont want ne1 to know.. go to a docters office in another city.. maybe you should tell the daddy? or maybe a rly rly good friend.. so she or he can come with you for support

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I am 14 and i just started going out with this guy 2 1/2 weeks ago.. he lives like 30 mins away and hes a total jock so we don't really get to hang out much... so when I have him over I want him to enjoy it with me do u think 14 is to young to be giving head? some of my friend think it is but I don't..

a friend of mine did it after a month.. n she wuz 13.. n he dumped her 2 days later.. its not gunna bring u closer its just goin to bring you farther apart.. but do wut u must

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My best friend never approves of my "sexual activities" with my boyfriend! Lately, I just wont tell her because I hate how she overreacts but shes my best friend and I cant keep secrets from her!! I feel terrible! Now that I've had sex, I want to tell her but definitly dont know how. She'll get so mad at me.. Should I tell her? What should I say?

say this " i know you wont aprove but im sry i had sex.. its my life to do it.. n i want you to be part of my life but you shouldnt overreact because i can make my own decision.. i want you to be my friend but i dont want you to get mad over things i tell you because i trust you "

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