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For anyone who actually reads this, thanks.Well, I had a boyfriend, we'll call him "Tod". We went out for about 3 months. Well, all these people were coming up to me and saying, "OMG!Are you going to be okay?!" Honestly, I had no idea what on earth they were talking about. So, I asked "Tod" and he told me that he kissed another girl on the lips! Me? Upset? Yeah, but I could deal with it.I told I didn't care. He told me that he couldn't stand to hurt me again, so he said it was over.Well, about 2 months later, he asked me out again, and I said yes. And just recently, we broke up. Everyone was telling me that he told them it was "another girl". This time, I had it with him. I was through with getting hurt because of his freakin mistakes when I didn't do anything to hurt him! So, I'm never going out with him again. But..I think that there might be "another guy" for me. We'll call him "Justin".He's one of my friends ex-boyfriends.They have been going out on and off like me and "Tod".And my other friends are telling me to not go out with him because she might get pissed at me.Well, first of all, I know she will, but I think I really like "Justin" and just the other day, I told him that I really like him. He told me that he really likes me too. But we're not going out. Yesterday, he was talking to my sister, and she asked him if he and I were going out. He said "yeah" and my sister said "since when?!?!". Then he said "since now". But I asked him if we were really going out, and he said he doesn't know! What's that supposed to mean?!Sorry it's soooo long! -Alex

Alex, if you truley care about your friend you wont pick Justin over her. Trust me is it not worth it. It only ruins friendships and your heart. And you need to confront this Justin guy and tell him you never confermed the fact that you guys were going out. And as hard as it is its "chicks before dicks". Theres plenty of other guys and if your sure you like this one give it time. Good luck Alex!!

xO.Carrie

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Well there is this guy i liked since i met him ( kind of like love @ first sight ) he likes me too he tells me he loves me all the tiem but we dont go out . Well i liked this other guy ( Dakota ) since last year and when i asked him out he said he had a girlfriend well today he broke up with her and he stares at me at lunch now and there is this other guy ( Brian ) and he has always been there for me since the get go i love them all IM NOT A HOE but which one should i choose ?!?!

sorry i didnt know,
You never mentioned that!!

xO.Carrie

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14/f. I'm really starting to like this one guy, Brett. I don't really know him that well. He's a year older than me. We were in band together for a year in junior high and now were in band again together. He makes funny faces at me and playfully sticks his tongue out at me in band. Is this flirting or is he just being himself. He almost never actually talks to me and he's probably said about 10 words to me in the 3 years that I've known him. Is this flirting or is it just him being himself? He's never showed any particular interest in me but he kind of does this stuff with a couple different girls my age.

You can never really tell, especially with guys you dont know that well. I suggest you get to know him better. Just go up to him and say "Hey whats up? How was band?" and start up a conversation. You`ll become fast friends and you never know maybe even a little more!! Hope I helped and good luck!!

xO.Carrie

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umm i have this boyfriend and he LOVES ME A LOT and i love him 2 but i have a little crush on some other guy.. and umm well i dont want to hurt my b.f by dumping him, what should i do ????? And when i hang out with this other 'guy' i feel like all safe n stuff. what should i do ??

See wich one makes you happier. If you truely love your boyfriend you wont break up with him for a crush. If you want to keep your relationship, just be friends with this guy and perhaps he will become a best friend to you. Hope I helped.

xO.Carrie

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Okay, I'm a girl show I should know, But what exactly does PMS stand for, I know pretty much what happens when your PMSing, but what does it mean?

Oh boy do I feel stupid lol.

Pre Menstrual Syndrome. Pretty much the side affects you get before your period comes. Such as bitching. lol Hope I helped. And no need to feel stupid, i didnt know what it meant for a long time. =]

xO.Carrie

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hey i have this problem.. there is this guy in my grade who used to like me but i always thought he was kind of a dork so i didn't talk to him that much and when i did i would just kind of joke around with him. anyway i figured out that i have really liked him all this time and what made me figure it out was that i found out that he is moving to Hong Kong in January! If i tell him that i like him now then im worried that he might not still like me and he might tell everyone that i like him. i was thinking that maybe i would tell him on his last day but then we'd never have a relationship...please help me because i need to know what to do!
~Jen

"You never realize what you have untilits gone" Unfourtunatly that is a true statement. If hes mature enough he`ll handle the fact that you really like him and wont go telling everyone. But even if he does tell everyone, no ones going to do anything about it. But this might be a little hard on him if he`s moving. But if i were you i`d tell him, and not on the last day. Even if you were to tell him now you would never have a relationship unless it was long distance. But i think you should stay in contact with him. Like having a long distance "best friendship" and maybe in a few years when hes older he will move back for you. You never know. Good luck!!

xO.Carrie

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Is it wrong to like a guy, and love another? Does that make me a hoe?...lol I give advice, but every1 calls me a hoe b-c of that!! But after u r done reading this then check out my site...sExY_LiL_BoO_BeCkY

-*Thanks a bunch!*-

-bEcKy-

Your most likley young and just "testing the waters" Dont worry about it. You only worry about it if you A). In a seriouse commited relationship, B). Engadged, or C). Married.
Hope I helped.

xO.Carrie

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can anyone tell me how to get an icon/picture on my column.. im trying to figure it out and its just not working.. so can someone please explain it to me in detail bcuz i really need help on it.. thanks

Go to a place where theres icons you like. Find the one you think is perfect. Right click it and save it to your computer. Then go to Profile settings and under your picture browse for where you saved the icon and there ya go. Hope I helped. If that didnt help and you need further detail IM me at KER xxx 28624 on AIM or just drop one in my inbox.

xO.Carrie

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so he cheated but im giving him another chance but heres the thing i cheated first. i really didnt do anything all i did was kiss another guy. thats all. but he (who shall remain nameless)slept with my friend while i was away. and made out with another see the making out part didnt bother me but the sex part did and still kinda does. but i love him and i wanna be with him. i mean come on i was engaged for 3 or 4 months. so im giving him another chance and all but then all of a sudden the girl he slept with i hear is bragging right well heres what i did about that i punched her in the face hehe it made me feel so much better and i dont regret it one bit. but then all of a sudden this other girl whom i did nothing to is all freaking out and saying shes gonna sue me for mental anguish hah my ass she will. but yeh shes telling my boyfriend i had sex with sum guy in front of her i no i like kinky but im not that kinky. but yeh so now all this shit is happening and i really dont no how to handel it anymore its all really messing me up and i dont no what to do somebody help me please im gonna loose me mind. oh yeah im 17 and a chik

Thanks

Fist off, she cant sue you. Well she can but if she does your not going to get much punishment because your underage. And second, there is way to much cheating, rumors, and lies going on in this relationship. You need someone who could treat you a lot better than that. I know you love him and I probablly would to if i was engadged to him but you need to find a way to get over him and find someone else. Your only 17 trust me theres someone else out there that will treat you like a queen! Oh and By the way, way to go for punching her i would have done the exact same thing. Hope I helped.

xO.Carrie

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ok i no alot of people want to be in good shape but i really want to be thin liek a model do i need to be anerexic or elemic..shuld i? or does anyone no a way to get skinny liek i want to be please help thnx!!..x00x

STarving yourself or making yourself puke isnt the answer to being thin. Its unhealthy and taking a risk at your life. Its really seriouse. If you want to learn more on how going about getting thin, RUN everyday for about 20 min. Start at a slow pace then work your way up. Do a lot of self stretches each morning or night such as crunches and stuff. Lifting weights its good too. Drop one in my inbox or just IM me at KER xxx 28624 on AIM if you need more help. I`ve been helping people get in shape for about 3 years now. Good Luck.

xO.Carrie

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I have this problem where everything i wear must match. I wont wear somthing if it doesnt match perfectly. It takes me forever to get dressed. Is this bad? If so does anyone know how i can stop?

Wow, I am the EXACT same way. Its called obsessive complusive. Haha I even make my bra and underwear match along with my outfit even though people cant see it. But you know it never really bothered me I think its a good thing. Your outfits turn out cutter that way. You shouldnt worry you should be proud like me!! =]

xO.Carrie

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okay well i usually get my period around every 21 days.

i was supposed to get it like 5 days ago but it never came

i know its normal for periods to be irregular at this age but i've had my period for 4 YEARS now.

so why did it skip? what are some possible reasons? help im scared!

and im not pregnant because i never had sex before.

You have absolutly nothing to worry about. Periods are random and surprising. They can be irregular all the way up to age 18-20. Dont worry about it im sure your fine. P.s. Abstenence!! way to go!!

xO.Carrie

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I think I am sorta ugly, so I want to wear makeup but not a lot. maybe like eyeliner and eyeshadow and some mascara. [something like that] i dont want to wear tooooo much! [not like 2 girly]. i dont want my friends to be surprised so i dont want it to be a major change, but plz gimme tips! thank ya!

Im sure your not ugly. Plus its the inner beauty that counts the most. But like i always say "If you dont like something about yourself .. change it" So I suggest if you dont want TOO much of a change, start off by wearing really light make-up and work your way up week by week by making it darker till the point that your happy with. P.s. Dont wear to much, it makes you look fake. I suggest you go for the more natural look. Good luck, and im sure your just fine the way you are.

xO.Carrie

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okay meet this guy , and he todl all hsi friend he likes me mean he is relaly cute and stuff but iw anna get to kno him before i go out with him .. how do i tell him i wanna get to kno him in frount of all his freidns becuz his freinds are always tehre . . also all his friends think i am really hot and they said after i go out with him and when we break up i go to this one and then the next one . . what i dont get is why are they saying that so that means i need to get to kno all of them but how do i do that becuz they are always togher and they wont split up ? help me please

Ignore his other friends. There being immature pigs. Just start hanging out with this guy more until you get to know him better. Than you can decide wether or not you have feelings for him back. Make sure he doesnt like you just for your looks. Thats terrible when guys do that.

xO.Carrie

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my mom is really mean. she always calls me names. like just now i asked her where to put the dinner that jsut got here in the fridge or oven and she was liek the microwave you idiot! ugh i hate that! and i tell her i was gunna clean my room out and i did but she keep ssayin it iant done yet! and alwas says im always ont he comp and always says mean stuff bout me to ehr friends n my older sister and i really dont like it and i can tsay nethign to her bc then she will snapp mor ei used to be able to tell her nething now shes always bitchy:( plz help me i really rally really dont no what to do . now shes off the fone and is gunan snapp. she says that the reason we got fast food is bc I WANTED IT! so its MY fault she spent $15 on fast food. it was for the hole family! now she says get the fuck off my computer and go in your pig sti ass room. and she cried wtf! i hate this stuff! plz help!

Believe me, my mom was the same exact way. Just sit there and take it. Just ignore it because once you grow up she`ll realize how mature you are and how big of an idiot she was to you. I know it hurts but I went through it too. You can get through it.

xO.Carrie

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when do girls normmaly start puburty? wat grade

Well all girls are diffrent but anywhere from 5th grade to about 7th grade. Ages 9-13 or 14. Hope I helped.

xO.Carrie

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Ok so here it goes... well I used to go to school at this one school, and then i moved away.....well it has been almost 3 yrs since i moved....and this one guy i used to go to school with just found out my sn from sombody else like 6 days ago and we have been talkin a ton! i mean we are in the whole stage that he loves me a lot and all that stuff like we are going out....were not even going out!.....and well i think he's going to fast, but i dont know how to tell him how i feel...I mean ya i love him a lot too but i still wanna love him in the long run. Things are just going way too fast...well pleaz give me sum tips! I hope i made sence! I love this guy a lot but you know.....thanx in advanced!

Tell him this: You have found someone completly wonderful (him) and you are afraid of loosing it. You want to take things slow but you love him a lot. And if you truley care about him and he feels the same way he`ll wait. Good luck, these situations can be kinda tuff!!

xO.Carrie

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i really like this guy. hes really cute and hes SOOO funny. but people r always calling him fat. hes NOT fat at all so its really weird. hes really cute and his personality rocks. i dont want ppl saying shit about him tho. what should i do?

Ignore what other people say about him. They`re just making fun of them for there own entertainment because they have no lives and have got nothing better to do. So like i said, ignore then and go for him!! He sounds like a sweetheart. Good Luck.

xO.Carrie

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i've been working in a a really cool shop in my mall, its mostly girls that work here for some reason, i am one of them, recently we've been 'recruiting' so theres a few new staff, and one is this guy, not my type at all, plus i'm already taken'..it was all okay at the begining, and i didnt think anything of it, but its started to speculate in my mind that he might be trying to take advantage to touching me, i mean i'm pretty much buddys with all in there,and none of them touch me, not sexually but just plain his hand touching my arms and shoulders, then one day i was sitiing there just eating and he spent like 15 min in the loo, he came out asked me how i was and stuff then just before he went back to wrk he ebnd down slightly to touch my leg, i just pretended to ignore it and carry on reading, but my mind was not at all in the book, now i feel really uncomfortable around him, what do you think i should do.........?

You are way stronger than this. Dont ever ever EVER let someone touch you unless you want it. This unfourtunatly isnt sexual harrassment unless you say "Hey, stop." I know it`s hard to confront people believe me i used to have a hard time but ignore all of that. Just step up and either take his hand off your body or say, "Hey, Stop." and if he doesnt stop then its sexual harassment and u need to report it.

Good luck
xO.Carrie

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I've known this guy for like 3 years, and liked him on and off for a while. I like him, and just found out he's going to ask me out. What should I do?

Take a chance, go for it. Say yes if it`s truley what you want. You cant go wrong. Good luck.

xO.Carrie

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