Hi my names vicki. I'm 19 years old. I can try and help help alot of people and give/offer good advice. Anything you want help on i will always try never turn away someone in need. xx
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ok so this is the problem. Ive been going out with this kid for 4 months now, and i broke up with him a lil whie back for like 2 days bc i had feelings for this othre kid. In the summer the other kid and I almost hooked up and we screwed around and i really liked him. but that same night the other kid ( lets call him John) John broke up with this other girl, and so i forgot about The other guy and went out with John. BUt latly i've been haveing mixed emotions like i still like the other kid and when im not with john i feel like i dont want to b with him ne more and stuff but then i hang out with him and its like it all goes away. I really need some help. I rate 5's/ (link)
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How come you keep calling them kids. I think you should cut all ties with them start a fresh and look for a man not a kid. Good Luck.
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Across the street from me, an elderly couple sold their house and the people that bought it have two young boys, ages 4 and 7 I believe. They have asked me if I'd like to babysit for them and that's fine with me. I've babysat before but normally I'd do it free of charge. It's come the time where I'm getting older and I need to get money. I'll be driving in a year and my parents aren't going to be paying for my gas and car insurance. What would be a good amout of money to ask for? I don't want to be asking for too much. I'm 15/ female. (link)
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Its up to you how much you charge. Do it by and hourly rate.
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14/F. Next time my dad goes to the movie store I get to pick a few movies. I prefer scary movies rated pg-13 or R. Movies I like were Saw and the Ring. I personally thought the Grudge was stupid. Any ideas? (I will take suggestions other then scary movies if they are good) (link)
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Try flims such as Cabin Fever, Road Kill or the Chainsawmassicar. Cabin Fever and the chain saw massicarr was really grusome but good film to watch.
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ok i havent gotten my period yet this month but it seems like i never have a regular period cycle..and my boyfriend and me were like messing around at his house but i was just giving him a handjob but he cumed but not on me....and i dont think it was any whree near me...and i was expecting my period around the 13 or 14 or around there and me and my boyfriend just recently did this stuff like a few days before the 13...is it possible to be pregnant? but i didnt get morning sickness or anything.. (link)
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As long as his spunk didnt go anywhere near your pussy then your not pregnant but if you want to put your mind at rest buy a pregnancy test.
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omg my hair is sooo frizzy and i dont know what to do about it! i've tried many products but nothing seems to work!
please help! (link)
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I have really bad frizzy hair and i straighten mine with the iron. Do it the same as you would with straightners by getting bits of hair then use the iron. It straightens its perfectly with no kinks and its thinner and softer too. Make sure the ironning bored is the same height as the top of your head and always sit on your backside with a friend to do it.
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this may sound very goody goody but.. i am so sick of everyone doing drugs and drinking.. not that im completely innocent i mean ive done it before but it seems like right now every single person is into that and half of them are doing it to forget about problems.. now i did learn about drugs and i did learn that weed can actually make depression worse and i also know that after youve done weed for a while your wanting to try a new drug so what do i do.. i hate it that my friends do drugs and drink and dont tell me to forget about them and get new friends because i love my friends.. and also.. everyone in my school does it.. whether you want to believe that or not is up to you.. but really.. the ones that dont are like .. messiahs or something.. please help
*stonecoldmystery* (link)
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Well i'll tell no lies i use to drink to blank out my problems but now i dont because intime someone realised what i was doing and reached out to me helped me. Was there 24/7 to talk to about my problems and it really does work. Explain to your friends that your there for them if they need someone to talk to explain that you want to beable to help but dont know how. See how that goes. They can only be helped if they want to be helped. If all else fails find new friends. Good Luck.
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ok im 13 and i wanna no should i care what people think? theres a guy i really like and he asked me out but he's like a 7! i need answers! (link)
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Never care what other people think if you do then you'll never get through this big hard world without being happy. I would advise that you'd wait just a little longer as hes only 7 he might not know what he really wants after all hes a child and your growing into a young women.
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Everytime I fight with someone I start shaking, is this normal? (link)
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When you start to shake when your fighting is all to do with the adrenaline in your body and the possiblity that your a little frightened at the same time.
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ok...im 13/f 7th grade... this might sound crazy... but i no i am in love!! i have a boyfriend and i am completely in love with him!! ive never felt this way about any of my other boyfriends and i know he feels the same about me... he makes me smile just thinking about him... i melt when i see him! theres only one thing... this is wierd... but since we're young and all... is there any chance this could last forever (link)
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Hello Sweetie i'm not going to lie to you but nothing lasts forever, but while your happy and in love make the most of it and all you've got to do is keep the trust communication between you and work and the relationship and you could stand a good chance.
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im 14 with a 2 year old 1/2 sister. i love her to death but sometimes i get fed up. i only see her every other weekend but if im trying to do my homework shes always trying to play with me. I feel bad to leave her, and i always feel im obligated to stay. my dad and stepmom dont really help no matter how much i stress i need to do my home work (link)
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I dont know whether this is good advice to you but why dont you play schools. Let her help you do some of your work ask her like the simple questions or set up some activities for her and say this is what u do at school and shell be well advanced like writing her name or drawing shapes ect... I did it with my little sister and it worked a treat because she thought she was as big as i was. Good Luck.
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For me, high school relationships are about gaining experience and finding what you want in a relationship. But, what happens when you find exactly what you want your first try? And, do we ever really get over anything? (link)
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My mom and dad were 1st true loves. They were together for 25 years unfortunatly due to work reasons they seperated but they still love each. I've never got over my first love i dont think you ever forget your 1st but my advice is live life 1st. The more i think about me and my 1st love the more i go out enjoying myself because i know if i'd settled down that early i would have missed out.
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I am so bored! Im at a hotel in New Hampshire and theres seriously nothing to do! What are some fun things to do at a hotel where theres no one your age. Dont tell me the computer because other people have to use it and its too late to go in the pool/hottub..You have to be 14 to use the workout equip. and im only 13 HELP! Im going to die of boredom i swear (link)
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I know its propberly not the greatest idea but i was stuck in a hotel in london and i was that bored i caused havoc its good fun while it lasts.
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my parents are divorced and i live a hard life....and what really frustrates me is when i see my dad and his gf making out... it makes me sick to the stomach!!!what will make me not feel this way????
♥ indeed2 (link)
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I think all you need to do sweetie is sit your dad down and have a quiet little chat. Explain to him the way your feeling and try and come to some sort of an agreement. If you cant talk to him to him in person write him a little note explaining the way you feel. Good Luck. Hope it goes well.
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for excersise I am walking every other day the other days doing taebo. I do curl ups squats and the ab lounger everyday. I eat oatmeal for breakfast and a smart choice meal for lunch and dinner how much could I possibly loose in 2 in a half months and what could I do to speed it up? I am overweight and I really wanna do this....plus theres a guy :) (link)
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The main thing you need to do is just keep up the exercise and eat healthly, but you've got to be sure that its something you really really want to do and not something that your doing to please this guy. If the guy likes you he'll like you for who you are not for your looks. Good Luck.
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I'm currently a senior in hs and already have a dress for my Senior Prom but I like my Junior Prom dress better. So would it be weird to wear last year's dress again. Or should I just suck it up and wear my new one. (link)
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Wear your old one if thats the one you prefer why try and go out in something you dont really want to wear. You wont enjoy the night and you'll be asking questions about your dress all night.
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