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Q: My teacher put us in groups and she put me with all ppl i basically hate! and i don't think we'll get anything accomplished cuz none of like each other! what should i do? thanks!

tell the teacher the problem and if she doesn't listen, your just going to need to get together with one of them and pull it off. sorry hope i helped, please rate.
Amanda

Q: Okay what is the best way to study 8 pages of history in just 5-6 hours? I need help, and fast please =) Thanks

flash cards on main points could be good..
studying in the bath tub is always fun too
rate please hope i helped :)
manda

Q: is 12 too young to wear thongs?

u could wait another year...

Q: Does anyone know of some good ways to make money? Im 14 and I can't babysit because there aren't any kids in my neighborhood. I can't seem to find any ways to make some money.

mow a lawn
ask to be sumones secretary
fast food
clean houses
watch pets
solicit urself

Q: Well in my view a love encompasses a never ending friendship that over powers all your other friendships. The one you love should be really the only one you truly need in the end other then God. From what I've seen of other people of the elder generation and my parents I like to think on this line. Do you concur or do you differ with this idea?

i think your right.
i believe in only one true love, and that love will conquer anything.

but i dont know what u mean by over powering all other friendships (what is that supposed to mean?)

Q: my hair is REALLY wavy and frizzy and cruly to a point were it looks horrible when i let it dry or blow dry it. so i bought a chi iron- if you dont know what that is it's supposedly "the best" stragitener- but when i straighten my hair with it after about ten minutes it starts looking bad! i've had it for about 2 years- so is it just dying? but it happened when i first used it 2! am i just not doing it right or should i use hair spray and how much hair spray? does anyone also know any other syle besides scruncing that might look good w/ my kind of hair? help is really appreciated! thanx!

just brush you hair while its dripping wet, get all the knots out. put some gell in it and brush that in to while its wet, be generous if u need to. then blow dry and the frizz should be better. if that doesn't help (this may sound weird ) but sum simple lotion on the surface of your hair can control frizz
gl hope i helped
please rate
manda

Q: should i leave my friend to go to a party with the guy i like or stay with my friend. me and my friend made the plans earlier than the party had come up....

stick with the friend, parties come and go and so do guys
hope i helped
please rate
manda

Q: i made out with my bf the other day and he has been telling everyone about it ever since, but i only hear that from my friends. he has talked about it to my friends and stuff like that. i dont really like it, should i talk to him about it? i'm not sure what to do, i mean it is true... its not like a false rumour he is passing around or anything. i like him, he's sweet, but i feel like i cant make out with him anymore or else he's guna tell every one about it... also, for the boys out there, why do you think he talked about it so much? thanks

he either enjoyed it alot or (it was his first time) lol!!
prob true
please rate thanks
manda

Q: OK so I have my period, and Im really just not in the mood. You know cramps all that fun stuff. But what I really wanna know is well... this is embarassing but I wanna shave down there and every time i try the hair gets stuck inside the blade and it really hurts. What am I doing wrong?

thanks~

get a sharper blade, urs must be dull. but be really careful!!!

Q: hey. i hope that you can help me. one of my best friends and i have been in an on-going fight for more than 2 weeks. ive been apologizing, and it doesnt seem to be changing anything. she always finds a reason to be mad at me. idk whats going on. shes been spreading rumors about me, too. and threatened to have people jump me! weve been best friends for almost 9 years. should i just forget that she ever existed, or should i keep begging for her forgiveness?
*Katie

don't beg, just shy off for a bit. if she doesn't come back don't worry, your better off then b/c now u aren't fighting. hope i helped please rate! -manda

Q: mmk sorry i didn't knoe wut ta put this under but me and my mom are planning to go on a vacation like spring break or like soon but money is a big issue when it comes to vacations with my family so has n e one been n e where that was really nice with a beach and alot of hot guys! that would have something fun for me to do then sumthing fun for my mom to do aswell thats not THAT expensive?!?

altho im not sure exactly where you live, head for florida! its got some great beaches and is low cost compared to other places like cali....destin fl is the best u can find all sorts of things to do there. hope i helped please rate -manda

Q: I am trying to delete some of my ratings but How do you know what the rating was for certain questions and answers? Thanks!

just click on the NUMBER of the rate they give u.. it links you back to it. thanks please rate

Q: O.K- My dog (Millie Light) keeps pooping on the floor and I literally clean up poop 6 times a day! Is this just plain diaria? Is this normal? Please Help!
P.S- I'm cleaning up poop as we speak!
~~~Kayla~~~

it depends on the dogs age, and no it doesn't sound good. either there some intestinal problems or the dog ate something no so good for itself. if its an older dog then definitely go to the vet (could be time to say good bye) but if not really old at all then its what i said b4. if its persists much longer take it to the vet! is the dog still eating right?
please rate thanks

Q: I am thirteen and I have lots of friends at school but my best friend is scared to spend the night at my house. In order to try to get her to, I have to either pay her money or give her my most valuable possesion. It's really gay. If she spends the night at my house, she has to have another friend come WITH her and she picks people that I hate to come so she's never been over to my house! How can I get her to spend the night at my house without having to bribe or pay her? HELP!!! ASAP!!!

wow, is she really that great of a friend? friends shouldn't use ppl like that. if she's really uncomfortable at your house, ask her if its YOU or if its your parents/ house. ask some of her other friends if she does the same things to them. see if its just an emotional problem for her or she's using ppl. please rate thanks

Q: about 3 weeks ago i asked a question on advicenators and i only got the chance to check it now.unfortunately it said it was emty and it has q's i asked this week,this month and this year.but 3 weeks ago was LAST YEAR! what do i do to se my answers?i'll rate!
thanx,
mari(aka tg)

i think its a lost cause. just resubmit it and view those answers :D rate please -manda

Q: hola. well you see i take accutane and people who took that were getting depressed (psh like 2 ppl) and the company didnt want to get sued so they put in the booklet "may cause depression" but yeah i feel so depressed and i have for a long time. emphasize the long. I dont sleep, and there are times when i dont eat. im really anxious and EVERYTHING makes me nervous. like standing in line at a store and paying.. cuz i wont b able to put my money away fast enough and i'll hold up the line or i'll get my money out to slow or something like that. its pretty ridiculous as you can see. ANYWHO i dont want to tell my mom how i feel bcuz sometimes im ok, (like sometimes at skool), i dont want her to send me to a psychiatrist, i dont want her to go crazy and be like are you thinking about killing urself?!?!? all the time... She's done that b4.. but the main reason is that i dont want her to try to link it to accutane.. bcuz my skin is lookin ok! ** is anyone else taking anti-depressants or have some of my same problem? what do you take and how does it affect you?
thanks- srry so long

i honestly would tell ur doctor about it at your next appointment or something... but the way you feel depressed doesn't sound like something from a drug it sounds like real issues, honestly. do u have any close friends you can confide in? maybe they can help you rebuild your confidence and not some commercial drug. you'll be ok.

Q: i have a tooth in my mouth that is loose and when i wiggle it and smell my finger, it stinks. kinda embarrassing. IS THIS NORMAL?

its either ur roots rotting (or tooth) or the chemicals being submitted to loosen p your tooth. its normal but ya may want to get it out fast. ;) rate please!

Q: So how can a guy end a friendship without making a girl cry. Girls are always more sensitive then guys and I found out that guys just stay away from each other then thats it. With girls its a whole different matter. In your opinion how should I approach this?

well the first thing that comes to mind is why end the friendship? and i guess the way how would depend on the kind of person

ANH!

Q: I have been having this problem for quite sometime. I am a cutter. And i can't really stop. I have been going to counseling and I had been taken off antidepressants. My mood hasnt gotten any better, it feels alittle worse. Parents are no help, my dad thinks that I am doing this for attention and he yelled and screamed at me saying that I am faking everything and its just a waste of money to keep the counseling going. So now, I am not in that anymore. I feel terrible, worse possibly. And my freind who I have known since the second grade is going through problems, she is cutting herself and trying to kill herself. I have been trying to give her advice but, how do I give advice to someone who is doing the same things as me? I need some major help and someone to talk to.

be an EXAMPLE! work on it together or she won't listen to u

Q: i have been dating this guy for 5 months. when he's not around, i miss him to death.. but when he's around, he drives me nuts. it seems like he wants me to do stuff with him .. and i do. when we're done doing whatever, he just leaves! i don't know what to say to him! will someone please help me.

sounds like he cares for u but kinda ends up using u....go to his place instead of him comin to urs or whatever and don't leave his side til ur satisfied
try donig things outside of the house too, shake things up

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I love to give adivce I'm pretty good at it!
My names Amanda, I live in Texas and I'm almost 17! I know alot about relationships, love, sports, and just about any topic you can throw at me. I'm a junior and have aspirations to be vet, and hope that someday I could be famous for modeling or dancing.