about

Hey guys!
Name*Mallory aka *~MALLY~*
From*Cali~!
Status*Taken, by the worlds BEST b/f FRANKIE (MUAH)
Hobbies*I love to shop, and i love n e thing to do with fashion! SO please if thats where you need help im definetly here for ya! I also play golf and cheered~! So im kinda well rounded!

Well i just graduated from high school (and am going to cal poly...GO MUSTANGS!), so i think i could help alot when it comes to drama and friends, because i have been there! I also have the haha Well im really excited to help everyone! SO please ask me all the ?'s ya can k!I know what its like to wanna talk to someone but ya dont know who~!Well enjoy guys! xoxo Hopefully i will be talking to ya soon!

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hey i wanna know which screen name u like better! xOMeLiSsA26Ox or MeLiSsA 1613 ??? THANKS !!!

xOMeLiSsA26Ox its super cute~! i like x's and o's! hehe xoxo! *~MALLY~*

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Whats the average weight if your 5`1 - 5`2 ish.

i think like 105-120 ish~! cuz i know at 5' its 100lbs and u either add 5 or 10 lbs an inch i forget~! But it toally depends on your body type ya know so there really isnt a normal~!xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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Is there anything I can do to loose weight around my thighs and butt? I know it sounds silly but I hate it because I'm not fat...I mean, I'm 14, I weight 110 lbs (at the most), and I'm only 5'1". I CAN'T STAND MY THIGHS!
When I wear pants obviously they aren't noticeable too much because they get squeezed into jeans or smoeting like that but I'm insecure when I'm weraing a bathign suit so I always wear a long shirt into the pool too. I'm a skinny/short girl with heavy thighs. They aren't HUGE or anything...but they really DON'T FIT WITH MY BODY!!...and I have some stretch marks on the upper part of them.
Also, everyone says they love my legs because they are like dancer legs...(and I don't dance I should add) but kids MY AGE or YOUNGER just see them as...heavy (not muscular).
They look muscley when you look at them one way, and another way you look at them you could see them as...heavy. It;s very uncomfortable sometimes and they make me feel so self-consience when I wear certain types of pants.
I want these legs when Im older...not when I'm 14.
I just always feel like I'm stomping down the hallway...I know that's not true because they really aren't that bad...but any advice?? I want these stretch marks to go away. AARRRRR! They are so annoying because I'm not even a heavy girl and I seem so lopsided or unproportioned.

How do I get my thighs to look thinner?
I also want to add that I haev stratch marks around my breasts and they aren't even big...sorry to sound strange and stuff but there are just littlel ones surrounding them...
Is this bad?
Please help...thanks.

Aw hunny, dont worry i bet u are just fine the way u are! and about stretch marks...i dunno how to get rid of the sorry~! but for ur legs I would say definetly run to tone and everything! But also do pilates or yoga! LIke buy a dvd! They are fun and u can feel it working!Good luck~! and dont stress k! xoxo
*~mally~*

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I'm going to a new school in fall. How can I make people like me there?

Be friendly, open, and outgoig! You have to be willing to meet a whole bunch a people ya know! GOod luck and ull meet a whole bunch of pepps in class and stuff no worries! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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I'm 18 and I'm 5'3'' I weigh 132ish. I'm not really overweight or anything. But My tummy is just flabby. For 8 months due to sports I did 200 crunches and ran a mile, also did leg things on the wall. None of that is toning my stomache. I don't know if I'm doin something wrong or if any1 els has had this problem before. Maybe Im just weird. If ya kno anything else I can do to tone the tummy let me kno!

well you might have muscle...but sometimes if u have a flabbier stomach you have to lose the flab before the muscles show....so maybe cut back sweets, or carbs(best way) and you will loose flab off ur tummy and then ur muscle will show through~!good luck xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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is rub on tan bad for u?

No not at all! Its the safest way to go! Be careful you dont miss a spot though! The best kind is Loreal Sublime something.....its in a gold bottle~! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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Do you think diet pills really work? If so what kind is the best to take? Thanks

NO dont take them! They are bad for you health! If ya wanna loose weight try running, yoga, pilates..and eat a lil healthier then normal! goocl uck!xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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hi my best friends diched me for the popular gang , how can I get them back , they dont even talk to me now!!!!!! PLZ help Jenipher

well in my opinion, they arent best friends....i have jsut graduated from high school and best friends is a term that is used with no meaning..one day u have a best friend and then nesxt week you hate her!it is sooo hard to find a TRUE best friend...but these friends u had werent them! I promise you there are people out there that are meant for u to be with! That would drop something to come be with you, that will drop by just to say cuz they misss ya...ya know! i know it hurts really bad being disses, but i wouldnt worry because it doesnt seem like they are worth ur time...i know ull do better!!!! Maybe u could tell them they hurt u by leaving u...but tell them thats something that they will have to live with cuz they lost a great friend ya know! good luck grl! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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My bf has this friend brit and i am almost positive she likes him and like he asked me would you be mad if i saw a girl in a swimsuit and she was biking and i was to and i went up to talk to her? and i said umm no..? and he said o cuz i saw brit. and another time he went to her house and he is like brit wants us to go over to her house 8 or 9 in the morning but he didnt go so thats good. idk she is just prettier then me and skinnier then me .. thats when we sorta got in a bad situation i told him i thought i didnt meet up to his standards and he said in otherwards you think you arent good enough for me? and i said yeah and he said well if anything your to good for me but that was awhile ago .. so what should i do or even tell him?!

maybe you should tell him ur kinda jealous of brit. Tell him yo uthink she is so pretty and skinny and you dont wanna lose him....and see how he responds~! If he reassures u that he likes u and not her then belive him..but i would let him know ur a lil uncomfortable or else he'd never know...guys dont understand that haha~! Hope it all works iout..
*~MALLY~*

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in 2 weeks i am going to visit my friend on the east coast and i haven't seen him for 9 years. i want him to think i look pretty good but i have really low self confidence and that makes me feel ugly even tho i kno im not. so is there anyway i can kinda build self esteem by the end of the month? i just want to feel confident.

Maybe if you start to run/go to the gym/yoga/pilates will make you feel healthier and therefore better! Also just watch what ya eat! Dont diet but if you really dont need a cookie dont eat it ya know~! Maybe also cut back on watching tv....for me im obsessed with magazines like us weeklt, cosmo, glamour,vogue etc...and the more i read them the jealouser (i dunno if thats a word..) i get ya know! Also, get a calander, and for everyday write down something you like about urself, or something u did that u were proud of no matter how small it was (not eat candy...etc) Then at the end of the week if you could compliment yourself everyday, go and buy something!!! it will feel rewarding~! Just try and up your self esttem! Youll do great and have so much fun with ur friend! PLEASE tell me how it goes and if what i said helped~! xoox
*~MALLY~*

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Does anyone else have flashbacks about things they regretted doing or things other people did that unnerved you? I have never done LSD or anything like that. I know they aren't real. It doesn't keep me from doing things, but it makes me shrug sometimes in reaction to it.

Ya i do, but i think its just to remind you and make you a better person! Your heart and mind want you to learn from your mistakes so sometimes it need to remind ya~! thats how i think of it! Your totally normal though NO WORRIES~! XOXO
*~MALLY~*

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One of my very good friends is 14 and she is having sex with her boy friend. I don't think it's right, but who am I to judge. I highly doubt that they'll stay together and she say she likes it a lot... Do you think it's a little slutty of her? And should I tell her I think they should stop? Help me... please! Thanks! much

Well it is her choice, but you can bring it up to her and just ask her if she thinks what she is doing is right...if she regrets it later then thats her fault ya know! its SUPER sweet u care, but she is going to do what she wants.....maybe just bring it to her attention! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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ok i think my friend asked me a question about being anorexic and wut to do. she asked me if i knew who asked the questions and i said no and hen she stopped talking for a bit and then when she did respond she said g2g and signed off. i really want to help her and she is sooo pretty so she doesnt need to lose any weight but how should i bring up the topic?! Help ASAP cus i really would like to help her!!!!
OreoGirl

ok well u just need to blunt with her and flat out ask her! Tell her you care and that if there is something wrong with her you will stick by herside to help her! But this isnt something you can just play around with.,.if she doesnt admit maybe talk to her mom about it and see if she has been acting normal and eating ok good luck and i hope she is ok xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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hi, my friend really needs a babysitting job. we live in walpole, ma. any suggestions? i need advice asap. thx guys!
xo_always-Kerri

id say make flyers and go to like dance studios, churches ,and places liket hat where kids parents would be picking them up or dropping them off! Good luck girl~!
*~MALLY~*

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My boyfriend really really wants to do stuff with me like really bad when ever I kiss him he tries to do all this new stuff and I want to and everything but I am afraid of going to far... what should I doo? My dad is going to New York for a month and then we are suppose to move there because his new job and I don't want too!!!
Right now my Best frined has MONO! from kissing another guy and her mom is flipping out!! Help me What should i do with everything!

Either put them in the backyard and let them play whatever they want and tell them if they are good you will give them ice cream before they have to go in...or put on a movie and let them eat either jello or popcorn while they are watching it...i mean kids will be kids and they will do what they want!so good luck and maybe you can bring em coloring book or make playdough with em or something haha!xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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Everyone has a style such as Sporty Gurl Gothic Punkish.. but i dont wanna be ne of those cause no matter wut i would do.. people would just call me a poser... i would try to mixx like my gurly stuff with my punkish stuff and everyone just says stuff about it and how i should stick to just one thing but wen i do they say your such a poser.. what should i do?

HONESTLY...who cares! Tell them that your not trying to be anything...that you will dress how you want to and how you like! Obviously you are more creative because you like to mix...where as they are the followers who wear "all black cuz they ar gothic" ya know,,,,,at least you mix it up and add a little flavor! Keep doing what your doing! people will appreciate it in the long run, and if others dont you should because you are being YOU! XOXO! GOod luck and dont give into others k!!!
*~MALLY~*

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well I think I am a stylish person but I want to be me not everyone eles. I mean everyone shops at aripostle or whatever but they never used to tell I started wearing it. I mean it was cool for a while but now its like get your oun style
Signed,
wants to be herself
15/f

Well, people are always going to see somebody wearing something different and then they want it! So either ya need to find a new store with a total different style of just layer random shirts and wear lots of colors and stuff ya know! try
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/
www.shopbop.com
www.goclothing.com

those are just a few of my favorites, ask me a ? if ya want more help! id love to help ya! xoxo
*~MALLY~*
(rate me please muah!)

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i know this gurl who is really tall thin and beautiful.. she could so make it as a run-way model.. got any advice to help her get started? thnx

look up modeling angencies near ya! Such as
http://www.modelingschools.com/
Good luck! I hope she finds one!
xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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can women fall pregnant by a man who is 20years older then them

ya, the age doesnt matter what matters is if they have both gone through puberty~! xoxo
*~MALLY~*

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Hi dose anyone want to become friends with me???
my names Jenipher and Im 15 , Im feeling kinda lonely on here ????

aw, well im here! You can im me at tommiegurlie23~! Maybe i can help ya! Dont feel lonely there are so many people here willing to help ya out! Im me if ya wanna talk k!!!XOXO
*~MALLY~*

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