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hey everyone!im belle.
i absolutely LOVE giving advice, it has to be one of my favorite things to do. feel free to ask me anything. i will try my best, and i wont judge anyone. i know that everyone has rough times and things that they go through in their lives, as i do also. everyone is important. and i will try my best to treat you that way through my advice. if i say something that you don't agree with, then im very sorry. but remember that you are asking for advice... there isn't a right or wrong answer. it goes by opinion. and i'll try my best to make you love mine. thanks!
**BeLLe**
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how do i lose weight on my whole entire thighs quickly ( like 3-4 weeks )
i need some exercise ideas fast please help i really want to wear shorts to school this year.
ill rate high.
Here is a website that should give you some ideas. Just go here and click on the names of the exercises that are in blue and it should take you to a new page with a picture. Press play and it will show you how to do it.
http://www.lhj.com/home/Thigh-Exercises.html
Also, I know that you've already heard this, but try running. It is a really good way to get fit, healthy, and lose extra fat. Just run about a mile a day, along with a few of the leg exercises from that website, and you should be good.
**BeLLe**
Okey, I've tried working out, eating healthy and even counting every single calorie, and it STILL hasnt wokred! So please, don't give me the doctor-answer. Spare me the "healthy-talk".
If I skip dinner, and eat as much lunch as I do now, no more, no less..will I lose weight?
Just a simple yes or now, not "eating helthy, skip the sweets, try the gym" because I've foine that already. I've even tried making myself throw up, but my mother caught me.
So please answer truthfully, will it..or will it not? And please know what you are talking about.
No, it won't work. When you don't eat, it actually makes it harder to lose weight. When you aren't getting all of the nutrients you need, your body produces more fat to try to get all of the nutrients to your body. So not eating is actually worse than overeating.
**BeLLe**
ok so my dream is to be an actress. I went to a really good acting school when i was 6. I quit for a stupid reason. I really love to act. When ever i watch a t.v. show i wish i was in it. but heres the problem, my mom doesnt beleive that I really want to be an actress. She said if i wanted it i wouldnt have quit. I try to convince her that it was cause i was so young and nieve. The acting school is really expensive, and she doesnt want me to go and just quit again, but i know that i wont quit. How can I convince her to let me go back to acting school? 12/f
Well, maybe if she saw your love for acting then she would let you.
Maybe....if you tried out for a school play or talent show or something along those lines then she would believe it.
Just be patient and stop trying to beg her to let you do it...... instead just let her know how much you love it. Just tell her You love acting, or someday you want to be famous, and dont ask her....just let her catch the hint. So try that and see if it works for you!
If that doesn't work, then ask her again, but offer to pay for part of it. Tell her you made a wrong decision when you were little and it would make you really happy if you could do it again. Tell her that if you quit then you will have to ______. *think of something you could promise her if you end up quitting* Which you know that you won't, so make it something believeable.
If you've tried asking forever and ever, and nothing works, then maybe think about asking a relative or a close adult to help you out.
Hope I could help! If you have any more questions feel free to ask me!
**BeLLe**
I am 14 and all my friends are the same age. (we are not punk rock or emo people, just so you know). A lot of my friends tell me sad things or problems in their lives. (boyfriend problems, cutter problems, ect.). Whenever I hear about this stuff I usually don't care much, it's sadly just not in my character. But when I get home I'll do all the normal stuff I normally do, but I'll end up crying for no reason. I'll feel horrible inside but I won't know why.
So what my question is: How can I make my enviorment less negative other than getting new friends? I can't tell them that they can't tell me their problems. If I did then they would be keeping their problems inside them, and that would be giving my depression problem to them.
O im sorry!! Thats really hard! I used to have to go through stuff like that....I always felt like everyone hated me. But then this guy asked me out and I have more confidence. I got the confidence from him, becuase he isn't negative about anything. So what I suggest is to just find some more friends *I'm not saying ditch your other friends...i'm just saying find more* and soon you will find a really positive person that is just way fun to be around! That gets rid of a lot of the negative energy. But you could also try these things to help you cope:
~eat food...*ice cream really helps!!*
~listen to music *not sad songs*
~write in a journal
I hope one of these Ideas can help you! Good luck with your friends!
**BeLLe**
ok does anyone know what those blue rings that sometimes have a smiley face in them that are on the right side of an advicnator question are? what do they do and why do only some of them have faces? i rate. thanks so much
They represent the rating on how good the question is. If someone asks a really good question without writing STFF LK DIS. The ones without faces are ones that have not been rated yet.
Hope i Helped!
**BeLLe**
Alright guys, i'm in track, 8th grade female. I think i have shin splints and i think i like tore something in my ankle.
First off my shins are bruised and they bruise when i run, and they hurt! like when i shave, i go up & down with soap on my shin, but it hurts to bad to do it anymore.
Second I twisted my ankle a month or more ago. When i hold my foot and let at a 90 degree angle, and stretch my foot out to an obtuse angle, it HURTS SO BAD! today during track, well, i almost died.
Should i go to a doctor?
any advice?
Yes, I do think that you should go see a doctor.
He would be able to tell you what is wrong, before you seriously hurt yourself.
Are you stretching properly? If you aren't, then that could be the problem. It can lead to VERY sore muscles, and you can even hurt yourself.
Have you asked your parents about it? Maybe they can help. So just go see a doctor, okay? He will be able to tell you what is wrong.
**BeLLe**
13.f
I got a really bad haircut.
I really regret it. I had beautiful long hair and I got it cut and now its way to short. This happened yesterday. And now I've been crying for an hour about how ugly it looks and now i hate myself. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO?
Well, I know how you feel, because I just recently got my hair cut. I thought it was the most hideous haircut I had ever seen in my life, so when I went to school the next day, I wore it in a ponytail, because I thought it looked retarded. But when I did that, people were like "Oh, you should have worn your hair down...I bet it would have looked cute..." even though i thought it looked horrible. But I wore it down the next day and everyone loved it, even though I thought it looked bad. And I still do think that it looked bad, just because I wasn't used to it. I finally decided that it looked okay after a few days of having my hair down.
Anyways... my point is... There's nothing you can do about it now. I mean, its not like you can just have your hair glued back onto your head! But just don't worry about it. You'll get used to it within a little while. And if people don't like you for the way your hair looks, then they are insecure about themselves. You shouldn't care what other people think.
Since you aren't used to your haircut yet though, just try using different hairstyles.... I dont know how short you got it cut....if its long enough, put it in a ponytail....put it in a clip...or pigtails are always cute on people with short hair! Try clipping some of your hair back....see if it looks any different. There's so many different things you can do!
Hope i helped! Good luck!
**BeLLe**
I am an aspiring singer.
I was wondering if yu guys new any
producers emails or adresses?
So I could send in some of my music or something?
YES!! I found the perfect website for you!! Here...this has like all of the major producers....there's like a million of them to choose from!
http://www.cftech.com/BrainBank/MARKETING/TalentAgcy.html
I hope that helps you out! Good luck with your singing career!
**BeLLe**
ok, I am a 14 girl and there is a 14 year-old guy tht i have liked for some while now and he has known I liked him for a few weeks. My friend was talking to him on AIM and she told me he said he was debating weather or not to dump his girlfriend. She asked why and he said because he likes another girl, but my friend couldn't find out who because he said the girl was one of her friends (maybe me?). This may seem a bit mean... but i totally want them to break up. My other friend sayd that if it got to him that I was starting to get over him, then he would think that he better dump his girfriend quick before I'm totally over him. but then i also heard that if I did tht then he might just stop liking me... so my question is, should I let it get back to him tht im gettin over him, or should I just leave it?
It is much better for him to just know that you like him. Don't lie to him....especially if you might end up in a relationship with him. Why take the chance of him not liking you anymore? You have a much better chance for him to like you if you don't tell him that you dont like him. Plus, you don't want to be lying to a guy that you like this much, do you? If he finds out that you don't like him anymore, its true, he probably won't like you anymore... he will probably feel like he needs to move on to someone else... or stay with his girlfriend. Just let things happen. Don't try to take control of the situation. "If you tell the truth, you don't ever have to remember anything."
**BeLLe**
what are some good job that a 16 year guy can work for? a good paying job..
p.s. in san diego california
Well there are about a million different jobs you could do. Here are a few:
~Work at Sea World!!
~Work at the San Diego Zoo
~Work at a fast food restaurant
~Movie theater
I hope one of these could be useful to you. If you like working with animals, you should definitely work at Sea World or the San Diego Zoo. If you are just looking for some way to get a little bit of money, then you should go with a fast food restaurant, movie theater, or something along those lines.
Hope i Helped!
*BeLLe*
15/f how can you tell if a guy is interested, or is flirting? i am really bad with guys, and desperatly need to know the difference between being friendly and flirting!!! help please from girls and guys!!!
Maybe you can amuse yourself here... I know I did...
http://www.links2love.com/teens_flirting.htm
It gives really good advice and tips on almost everything about if people like you and about flirting. There's so much there...i'm sure you can find what you need.
**BeLLe**
okay well tomorrow i want to wear this long jean skirt. its not super long but it goes a little bit past my knees. and its like body fitted.. i dont know if thats the right way to say it.. like its thight not flary. but anyways i dont know what shirt to wear with it? like i know a polo would look stupid & i dont know bout a real fancy top? what would look good with that? thanks in advice
Well, you could wear a lot of different shirts and it would look way cute....just stay away from anything baggy. Wear something tight fitting, maybe a tank top or a halter top...those are way cute. Or you could always get a fancy, ruffley shirt. Something that I really like is to get a long tank top and wear it under a shirt, so that it makes it look like the tank top is part of the shirt. Well, hope I helped!!
**BeLLe**
Okay. So, over this school year i've gained some weight. I'm still thin, i know that. Not to sound conceded but I want to lose some of the chub around my stomach before summer and i have to go into the pools with my bathing suit.
There's this kid I like and we've already made plans to swim in his pool and hang out at the skate parks over the summer. And when i wear tigher clothes i feel big because i'm tall and have cute petite friends. What do i do to lose the fat and gain the muscle? I tried eating right but junk food is a part of me.
Well, you need to eat a little less junk food... but you dont need to totally eliminate yourself from it. Running helps sooooo much!! That is what me and my friend do to get skinny. We just jog/run for about 1.5-2 miles every day...it really helps....and it only takes about a half hour at the most (if you walk some of the time) I also do 100 crunches... 50 normal, then 25 to each side. That helps a lot too. I think that those are the two best tips I can give you. *hope I helped!*
**BeLLe**
My computer is not recognizing my camrea as being plugged in. I've loaded pictures before, but lately it just isn't working. I have the correct cord, I plug it in to the correct spot but when I go to "aquire images" the screen informs me that a camrea is not detected and that I should check its connection. Does anyone know what's wrong?!
Sorry if this doesn't help...there are many different things that could be wrong with it. After you plugged the camera in, did you turn it on? My computer was doing the same type of thing when I forgot to turn the camera on. If it isn't that, is there a special setting the camera has to be on? If I were you, I would look at an instruction manual that came with it and see if it helps you out a little. Or maybe the batteries are just dying or the software isn't familiar with the camera. I hope one of these suggestions could help you!
**BeLLe**
When it says on the "Your Feedback" page, "Total feedback points" what does that mean? Like how do they get the points?
Just wondering, lol. thx if you answer this though.
When you answer people's questions, they give you a rating on your question, 1-5. The total feedback points is all of your ratings added up. So say you got a 5 from someone, a 4 from someone else, and a 2 from another person....your total feedback points would be 11. I hope that made sense!! lol
**BeLLe**
do girls like fishin because i want to ask a girl on a date and go fishing in the summer
Well if she was really girly, then she would probably think it was kind of weird....but if she is into camping and hiking or maybe even sports and stuff, then ya, she would.
**BeLLe**
Hey,
I am going to Florida for spring break, which is in two weeks.
So, I went to the mall today to go shopping for my vacation. I went to go and buy a bikini,and I knew it would be hard to find one because I have a very large chest.
Well, I went to four different stores, and could not find a single one that fit me...
Does anyone know any stores that would have stuff for girls with a big chest...?
And I would like a bikini, not a one piece...
Thank you...
Well, it is pretty hard for me to find places for you, because I don't know what sizes you wear, but I suggest you go to ask.com, google.com, or another search engine, and type in your question (include your size in your question) and they should be able to find you some stores so that you can find a bikini that is the right size. I hope i helped you out a little....
**BeLLe**
okay. im kinda shy at school and then really outgoing when im with my friends. but whenever i hang out with other people from my school..especially cute guys....im really shy and dont talk much. i wanna be more outgoing in school and when im talking to ppl that arent just my friends. how do i do this? ♥
Just smile a lot and be really friendly... i know it can be hard, but you just have to let yourself out. When around guys, be really flirtatious. The main thing is just letting yourself out....stepping out of your comfort zone....and don't care what people will think about you.... just do it.
**BeLLe**
okay i'm getting my hair done today and this is the hair i want
http://imdb.com/gallery/granitz/3274/AshleeSimp_Pimen_5265256_400.jpg?path=pgallery&path_key=Simpson,%20Ashlee&seq=7
except i want it longer, but i'm afraid my stylist wont know what i'm talking about and do it wrong! so i need like advice or a picture that could describe the hair i want
That hairstyle is way cute! Just print the picture out and take it to your hair stylist. Tell her you want it a little bit longer than that. They aren't perfect, so it could be a little different....you just never know. But she'll try her best to make it look like that.
**BeLLe**
i was wondering what buenosaires means?
ill rate 5's for your time ! :]
Buenos Aires is the capitol of Argentina.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buenos_Aires
Go to that link. It should help!
**BeLLe**