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Okay so i'm a natural blonde...but my hair is rather dark and i was hoping to lighten it up a bit...i would like to try the "peroxide" method...if there really is such a thing....i know everyone calls it that but what do they do? Like, do they just put some peroxide on their hair and sit in the sun or something like that? or can you not really lighten your hair with peroxide? If anyone can help I'll love you forever :D!!
BTW: If thats really how they do it (with peroxide) will the peroxide hurt anything you've done to your hair? Because I had a perm (not the curly one...the one where it takes out all the curl) and i dont want to mess it up...but i had it done back in November...and also, will it damage your hair? (link)
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well the way ive always done it...well theres 2 ways to do it :]
heres the 1st way:
one get a spray bottle and pour in 3/4 lemon juice and 1/4 peroxide then spray it on your hair... then lay in the sun. do it as much as you can and t should lighten.
the 2nd way...
instead of 3/4 lemon juice... go with 4/4 lemon juice. and no peroxide.
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hey i need major help on getting a new screen name and i was just wondering if you could help me..
my name is kaela but a lot of my friend call me kay
im in dance
i have a boyfriend named ed
i love the color pink
i like to shop at hollister & abercrombie
i hope this helps you! thanks a lot (link)
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hmm what about
kayxletsxdance
underpinkstars
pinkxcore
dancexcore
help any?
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hello fellow advicenators :]
i haev a lyric question. ive noticed in a lot of aim profiles and aim icons, a saying. and the saying is: "There's beauty in teh break-down"
and i realllyyy need to know what song that is from! If anyone can tell me the title & the artist ill be SO happy! will rate! (link)
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its "beauty in the breakdown" by the scene aesthetic you can find them on purevolume.com just search for "the scene aesthetic"
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What do you think is the average age to get your first kiss? (link)
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hmm id say 13-16
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my freinds and i are going to ding dong ditch these guys who always do it to us. these guys are masters at it. does anyone know anytips or hints to get them? (link)
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hmmm... try maybe
leaving a note on the door signed with another girl's name... preferably a hot girl's name... that he would like and your phone #. then put "you took to long to come to the door call me baby" and when he calls have some fun. then another night leave a note (when talking to him on the phone write down the whole conversation and try to make him say funny things or tell you his secrets) and put a copy of that convo on his door and say something smart and maybe have some fun. get creative.
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haha so yeah tomorrow i'm making out with this guy that likes me, and i like him, and i'm really excited BUT I've never made out with anyone, let alone kiss him, and i'm soo nervous and anxious and stuff. like.. what if just freeze andi don't know what to do (that happened to my friend) and... ahh! anyone help? cause i'm really nervous :( lol and how do i start it?
any help is great
thank youuuuu (link)
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just go with the flow.
it just happens.
remember the first kiss isnt normally good.
it just happens.
so go with it.
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i have a problem. i dated this guy for like ever a while back and me and his sister had been bestfriends then some rumor got started and me and her didnt hang out anymore. well then he cheated on me and i broke up with him. well now me and his sister are bestests again. and i kinda relized how much i really still like him so what do you think i should do and how do i tell his sister without her laughing in my face? im kinda worried. like he has a girlfriend but shes just a whore by what his sister has told me and what ive seen of her, so idk. i just REALLY still have feelings for him. kinda dorky i know. but please help if you can. (link)
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well i know you like him and you may not want to hear this but it seems like its best to get over him. it would just complicate things with your friend and you. and besides that he cheated on you and his new gf is a whore... so hes not looking for a girl to commit to it seems and even if he commited to this girl... its cuz shes a whore and hes getting what he wants and unless you want to give him that (which you shouldnt) its best to just get over him.
hope that helps. if you need anything drop it in my inbox.
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okay i know this might sound retarted but i dont know how to grind dance nothing im going to a big party and my crush is going to be there and i know hes gonna try to dance with me but i cant i have no rythm nothing like i suck at everything i dont have an ass to shake so i dont know what to do please help should i just not go? (link)
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go of course.
the best way to 'grind' is to put his hands on your hips (guys usually like that) and normally he will set a tempo then... and just go with the flow... start by moving your hips side to side.. then try going forward or backward a little (not alot) just enough for him to feel it... but in going forward and backward make sure your still going to the sides. try bending your knees alittle as your doing it... hope that helps.
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ok ive been going out with this guy for a month and b4 he was like one of my best friends. ive gone out with guys befor but i never let them kiss me sumthing always stopped me like it was too soon or something and after a week of being togather he asked if he could kiss me and i let him he n e ways we started making out and i let him grab my ass and shit and we have gottin to 2nd base i love him and i dont know if i went to fast or something i dont want to ask my firends cuz its just between us we dont want people in our bussiness i noe that was kinda long but did i go to fast or is it ok ?? please help ill rate high (link)
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as long as he respects you its probably not to fast. the fact that you are guessing on it makes me think that it was to fast. also that you asked this question means that you might be going to fast. if you plan on making this relationship last it is better to move slower or you'll hit your limits and then be bored and theres no new things and surprises.
hope that helps. if you need anything drop on in my inbox.
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15/m ....i am about to go a little further with my girlfriend ....and i was wondering if most guys shave their pubic hair or not...? (link)
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as a girl... i say ask her. most girls have a preferance. shaving it gets hard... its a tougher process and im sure it can be uncomfortable if you dont do it everyday. a trim is the best bet.
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female 16
Im barely a size B and am not very happy with that.
How do I know if my boobs have stopped growing and will stay this size forever?
How do I know if they are still growing?
Any way to get implants at this age?
Any way to make them appear bigger (No stuffing please :)
Please and Thank You. (link)
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victoria's secret has great bras that without stuffing make you look bigger.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We were eachothers' firsts. We have only had sex a handful of times, and its not anything amazing. Neither of us can 'get it'. He either gets too exhausted or we just give up. We've tried different positions and places, but it doesn't seem to work. When we fool around, its great. Its better than intercourse at this point, but I want having sex to be good. We love eachother and this isnt going to break us up, but it breaks my heart knowing that we aren't enjoying something that is suppose to be so sacred and passionate. I have no idea how long to wait or what to do, neither of us do. So if you have any suggestions on what to do, I'd really appreciate it. Even some kind words to make me feel better. I just don't know what to think. Please help us. (link)
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this sounds realllly gay.
but maybe you should look around on
www.cosmopolitan.com
sounds really lame but the site is almost all about sex. so just read up!
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Okay... so recently my boyfriend hasn't been paying much attention to me. It's not like I thrive for it, but it is definately different for me to go from getting all of his attention to getting very little. I mean, some things have happened in his life and I make sure I am there for him, because he needs me to be. A lot of things have been going on for me, too. The thing that has effected him, also has effected me, three of my family members are VERY ill, two of which that may pass on tonight, and I just failed my driving test. With so much on my mind, you'd think he'd be there through all of it. All he has to say is "you'll do better next time," and that I am not very close to my family anyways. Which really hurts me. I dont' know what to do. Should I think about having a serious talk with him, because he should stick by me, am I just overeacting, or has this boy got to go? Will rate sky high! (link)
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you said he has alot on his mind. think about how long you've been together and give him some time if in a week you feel that he isnt right and he isnt what you want. talk to him about it. tell him how you feel and if he seems like hes trying give him one more week and if he changes alot keep him but if you still feel the same about it cut him loose.
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Well, I like this kid. I'm a little worried about it though, because I've only kissed one guy... and it wasnt even a REAL kiss and the kid I like makes out with people && grinds at dances and stuff. (Hey, I know he doesnt sound like prince charming, but hes really nice and funny and smart etc)
It's just if I do start going out with him, what do I do? anything is really helpful, from kissing tips to ... well anything really... i just need help
and preferably soon please (link)
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hmm kissing tips :
well kissing is easy. everyone makes it seem hard and it does seem hard at first. and its never how many guys you have kissed and remember its not about quanity its quality. dont just kiss all over his mouth. just remember to play follow the leader almost. let him do what he does...and it will come natural. and dont get to slobbery. spit doesnt taste good.
other tips:
it seems like he likes to dance. dance with him. do w/e you can with him. even if its just walk with him... ask him to go for a walk with you. walks are personal. it doesnt seem like its that big of a deal but when your walking with someone and talking they tend to open up more. so as they open up more they will tell you more than if you were just sitting. i dont know why but it works! try that.
if you ever need anything just drop one in my inbox.
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I went out to have lunch with a male friend of mine. During our meal he asked me where I was going to meet Mr. Right, and that Prince Charming wasn't going to knock on my door. He also said that if I was still single in 5 years that I wouldnt be happy. The whole time he was looking at me romantically. At the end of our meal I applied a fresh coat of lipgloss and he couldn't take his eyes of me, like he was getting turned on. When we left the restaurant it was raining and he held his umbrella over my head.
Do you think that all the questions he was asking me was him hinting around that he was interested in me? I think he was thinking long term, why else would he be talkig about 5 years from now? (link)
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to me it sounds like he likes you and wants you to see that he is willing to commit to you.
i say just try it. he seems like a great guy. it never hurts to fall in love with a guy that wont let you fall.
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I think I asked you before and you were very helpful so i decided id ask u again. so anyways i like this guy but i asked him if he still loved his ex. he said that he still does and that he will for awhile until he finds someone else he has that strong of feelings for then he said but i dont want that to mess this all up i do like you alot and i want to possibly make u that girl that i have that strong of feelings for later on. should i believe him or is it wrong to date someone who still loves their ex regardless of what they say? (link)
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he seems honest in this... i say trust him.
he says he wants those strong feelings for you. he seems like a genuine guy. not many guys would say that. i say trust him and see where things take you. remember "never stop falling in love until someone catches you" i always say that. because you never know who will be the one. he could be the least likely guy. and if a guy breaks your heart... think of it this way... thats one less guy that isnt the one. think of it as a search for "the one" not that their breaking your heart but that their just figureing out that your not the one. you wouldnt want to stay with a guy that isnt the one would you? so just try it. and dont be afriad to let yourself fall. he just might catch you. :) have a great day and the best of luck to you.
(anytime you need anything. just drop one in the inbox)
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14-f. Okay, well I have this problem.. I was dating this guy named Mark that lives about 15 minutes away from me.. who's 15. We were dating for a month & he broke up with me because we don't see each other that often. I've liked him for a few months & I still like him now. We still talk and he said that maybe we can start dating again once he gets his license (he's taking drivers ed)Well, the things is, I'm really worried that a year from now I won't have the same feelings for him. My other problem is, I've been best friends with this other guy named Ethan from the same town as Mark & well I've dated Ethan 2 times. I consider him my first true love. The only problem is.. he treats me differently while we're dating then when we're just friends.. like he finds these stupid reasons to fight with me all the time.. and well I think Ethan likes me again, and this whole time.. I've liked him & Mark. I've liked Mark for a few months.. and well I've liked Ethan for about 10 months. I really don't know what to do. I want to be with Ethan yet I don't want to get hurt, yet I want to be with Mark.. because I deffinetly want to be with him when he gets his license. It's really hard. Some of my friends don't like Ethan, yet some of my other friends don't like Mark either because well.. he takes dance class & likes to sing. That honestly doesn't bug me because he's the sweetest guy in the world, while Ethan just hurts me. I really don't know what to do. I'm stuck in the middle & I just need some help. Please help me & I'll rate you! I promise!! (link)
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this eathan guy sounds like a jerk as where mark sounds like an idiot for breaking up for not seeing each other.... hmm id say go with mark... he seems nicer and sweeter.
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There's a new kid at my school who I think is really cute and I think that we would have alot in common as far as music and style goes. I finally took some of my previous advice from you guys to talk to him. I went up to him and said, "Hi, I'm Johanna." And he said "Uhhh...." and fled away. Girls or guys, can you tell me what you think he means?
Some people say I was maybe too perky around him, some people say he doesn't like me, and some people say he was really nervous to talk to me.
Any ideas? (link)
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well it seems like you scared him a little.
try this next time you make an attempt to talk to him.
1] dont be so perky
2] no physical contact. dont like touch his arm or anything. if he scares easy like that.... that would really mess with him.
3] when your done talking make sure to say 'talk to you later' so that if he does like you he doesnt be like "yeah i made a fool of myself"
see hun guys are really immature. this one for real. i once had a guy do that to me....later we ended up being bf/gf. but thats a long story. i just kept talking to him and he only did the "RUN" thing once. he might have had a reason... i mean he might have been late for something or he might have just been scared to say something wrong to you. who knows! just try again and make sure that you smile.
hope i help'd yah out!
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im 15/f
i have a boyfriend who i really like but i never get to see him because he lives too far away so i only get to talk to him on the phone. then theres this boy at school who i think is just absolutely adorable. ive only talked to him a couple of times and i have no idea if he likes me too. should i go out on a limb and dump my boyfriend? (link)
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you cant be given advice on this...
i will atempt to help you though...
follow your heart. ask yourself these questions... then do what you think is right.
1)how are your feelings for your bf?
2)does this other guy like you?
3)if you do dump him how will you feel?
also make sure this guy likes you before you dump your bf if you do dump him...if he doesnt you will feel very stupid and very bad.
well thats all i can tell you.
-liz
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Ok. I just shaved 'down there', and the little stubs are hitting my legs and making them itch.. It's driving me crazy!!! Anyway to get rid of the stubs? Helppp!
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you really cant. thats the down side to shavin 'down there' as opposed to waxing. sometimes you can though. try a new razor blade. it might not be sharp enough to get the stubs
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