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torn between two guys
im 15/f
i have a boyfriend who i really like but i never get to see him because he lives too far away so i only get to talk to him on the phone. then theres this boy at school who i think is just absolutely adorable. ive only talked to him a couple of times and i have no idea if he likes me too. should i go out on a limb and dump my boyfriend?
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NO first find out if the guy at your school likes you. If he does then call ur boyfriend and tell him that the long-distance realationship isn't workin out for you.
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what im about to say doesnt mean go chaet on your bf but i think you should give this new guy a chance talk to him in the halls n wat not maybe ask him if he wants to hang out someday just as friends eventually im sure youll fine out if he likes you or not and if he does n you like him better then your new boyfirend now then break up with him
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Hmm...this might sound like something you wouldn't want to do, but I think you need to tell your boyfriend about this. Both parts too, about not being able to see him as much and about the other kid. Why? Because if your boyfriend felt the same way about you and another girl, wouldn't you want to know? Talk to him about it first and see what he thinks. He might get mad and not talk to you? Of course, that is probably likely to happen. I'm not telling you this so that your boyfriend hates you, but because the biggest part of a relationship is communication, whether it be in person, online, phone, or anything. If he really would be willing to try whatever he could to keep things going, then chances are he won't blow up on you and just ignore you, right? You never know, he might feel the same way and you might call things off mutually. Also, he might just ask for another chance or for some more time together, in which case you should give it to him if you think he deserves it.
It really is up to you though. So first talk things through with your boyfriend, see what he says and thinks, and then base your decision on that. If you think he might be worth the while to stay with him, then do so. At least tell him what it is you think and how you feel before you decide anything. Hope that helped and good luck.
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well i wouldnt brake up because maby the other guy dosnt even like like you and if you wanna see your boyfriend more often you could go to his house after school ore the other way around! if he lives so far away you dont have to do it every day but maby once a week! dont worry to much and if you know you like that other guy and he likes you back than you could brake up but when your not even sure then dont!
i hope i helped
c ya
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No. Don't dump your boyfriend... yet. First of all, you like your boyfriend a lot. If you break up with him and nothing happens with the other guy you'll probably get sad, even though your boyfriend lives far anyway. You'll rgert it because you ended up with nothing. Also, you have to figure out if you like this guy more than your boyfriend? And if this guy (considering he liked you back) would be worth breaking up with your boyfriend? Take all facts in consideration, like the fact that you don't see your boyfriend often. Personally if I were you and this cute nice cool funny guy at school liked me and asked me out I'd break up with my boyfriend then go out with him. It may sound "mean" but don't let anybody judge you. First of all, you have to think about yourself. The facts are that you don't see your boyfriend that much, AND you're young, it's high school, nothing is ever too seriou.s So just have fun. But seriously, before you do anything make sure it's what you want. Screw convenience and looks and that stuff, because if it's not really what uou want you're going to regret it. Trust me, regrets SUCK. Also, if you are going to go for that guy make sure he likes you back first. Don't tell him you have a boyfriend though (he may get the wrong idea), he doesn't have to know. I'm not telling you to CHEAT on your boyfriend either, just... tell him you'll think about it an break up with your boyfriend then go out with the guy. Or just say you'll go out with him and then break up with your boyfriend.
sorry for writing so much. well GOOD LUCK!!
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you cant be given advice on this...
i will atempt to help you though...
follow your heart. ask yourself these questions... then do what you think is right.
1)how are your feelings for your bf?
2)does this other guy like you?
3)if you do dump him how will you feel?
also make sure this guy likes you before you dump your bf if you do dump him...if he doesnt you will feel very stupid and very bad.
well thats all i can tell you.
-liz
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